i put 2 arrows, one showing you how to spy on a private, and one showing you how to send a request for a private
*to request a private the model has to be accepting them, if they aren't accepting them there will be no button to send a request.
*if she IS accepting them, then she will have a minimum balance. that means the member must have at LEAST xxx tokens to request a private, i have mine set to 200 but everyones is different.
*if she is accepting privates, and you have the minimum tokens and then you click the 'start private show' button then the model will get a notice saying 'so-and-so wants to start a private show yes/no' then they choose whether or not to take it. If they choose yes then the private will start!
the best way to know if a model wants to take you private is to very politely ask her for a PM so you can ask about a private. and then if you're looking for something specific nicely ask if she is willing to do it, then ask what her minimum token requirement is, or if you think you probably have enough just send the private request
this is sort of long but i wanted to give you super detailed instructions. hope it helps! :thumbleft: