Eh... I had this issue when I was a young lad where I would often speak or act based on my immediate feelings or thoughts. I also had the opinion that I was smarter than a majority of my teachers. Between these two traits, I spent somewhere around 35% of my 4th, 5th, and 6th grade years in in-school suspension. I ended up going to counseling for my inability to control my anger. I believe it is in large part to these early years that I have become extremely reserved emotionally. I still lose it when my anger gets to a certain point often either getting away from the situation to let out some steam or repressing it to release later (angry music comes in handy).
My point in this explanation is that letting emotions and passions get you into trouble will bite you in the ass at any age and they certainly have fucked this girl's life up. It is a shame, however, that people make it to this age without having apparently learned this lesson. I do not feel at all bad for her because she let her emotions take the wheel and steer. I feel bad for the guy just a little bit because of just how much this misplaced trust in her professionalism while at work is going to affect the rest of his life. So he broke her heart? How many of us haven't had our hearts broken at least once? Of those who have, how many haven't gotten over it? Grow the fuck up, woman. Surely she'd been dumped before. Surely she could have simply let loose on him with a "How dare you come here to where I work just DAYS after ripping out my heart? Get the FUCK out of here!" and would still have a job. She had way too much time and too many places she could have reconsidered but she continued forward. She didn't let her anger burn uncontrollably while faced with the source of pain. She put that bitch on simmer and let it fuel her as she committed her terrible act of revenge.
It was definitely an emotional, passion-filled act of revenge but to feel sorry for her? She's a grown woman. She needs to move forward taking the responsibility and consequences for what she's done. She doesn't need sympathy. She doesn't need someone to feel she was justified. She needs to learn to temper her emotions when it could potentially ruin her life. Even in matters of the heart we need to use our brains or there will be a lot more anger and heartbreak out there.
My point in this explanation is that letting emotions and passions get you into trouble will bite you in the ass at any age and they certainly have fucked this girl's life up. It is a shame, however, that people make it to this age without having apparently learned this lesson. I do not feel at all bad for her because she let her emotions take the wheel and steer. I feel bad for the guy just a little bit because of just how much this misplaced trust in her professionalism while at work is going to affect the rest of his life. So he broke her heart? How many of us haven't had our hearts broken at least once? Of those who have, how many haven't gotten over it? Grow the fuck up, woman. Surely she'd been dumped before. Surely she could have simply let loose on him with a "How dare you come here to where I work just DAYS after ripping out my heart? Get the FUCK out of here!" and would still have a job. She had way too much time and too many places she could have reconsidered but she continued forward. She didn't let her anger burn uncontrollably while faced with the source of pain. She put that bitch on simmer and let it fuel her as she committed her terrible act of revenge.
It was definitely an emotional, passion-filled act of revenge but to feel sorry for her? She's a grown woman. She needs to move forward taking the responsibility and consequences for what she's done. She doesn't need sympathy. She doesn't need someone to feel she was justified. She needs to learn to temper her emotions when it could potentially ruin her life. Even in matters of the heart we need to use our brains or there will be a lot more anger and heartbreak out there.
