I got banned from MFC now working on cb

[wonderkittyy]

So heres the thing I had a warning once...when i was drunk and had a really shitty day. People were mean to me which caused tantrums. The second time i got banned and i tried to set up a new profile, but my studio boss said they banned me for like 5 years so he couldn't get me back. Now i'm working on chaturbate but i have no luck there either.

my mistake ive fell asleep on cam and i was mean to people while being drunk..they were mean to me so i told them fuck off and called their whole family a bitch. Last i remember this other model came to my room and thought im on heroin and said don't tip her so i told her to fuck off too...(i wasnt myself) now im banned forever..now i am on chaturbate and over the last week i haven't been able to make much money so i cant pay my rent. camming is my only job and its not easy to get other jobs...i wonder if i should start fisting everything (atleast fake fisting?) I really don't want too end up on the street. On mfc i got naked only in pvts so idk if thats possible to do that on cb..and earn money and even if i wanted i cant do 5 cum shows in a row per day..i think i cant ask for 600 tokens for just being naked i have no toys, never did anal, don't have sexy lingeries much..i just cant afford it. There are times i cant even feed myself for 5 days to 8 a month ll i get paid..now i hadto take a credit to pay my bills. so i really need advice how to make regulars? again t easy to even get a mc donalds job..

there is no way i can get back on mfc right?




other question is how do i customize my profile? like add banners and big letters?

 

[MayaEden]

It seems like you could do some more research on camming. Start by getting verified here and benefiting from the knowledge in Models Only. If you can't do that yet, there is still useful information in the public section.

I'm not on MFC so I have no idea about the banning situation but if you don't want to get banned again, reconsider your recreational habits that might lead to unfortunate situations where you (as you said) aren't yourself.

 

[LilyMarie]

Stop camming. It very much sounds like camming is not for you. With your temper, you don't seem to be cut out for it, and you desperately need money right now. Find a job where you can make minimum wage consistently, don't rely on camming if you can't buy food or pay your rent.

 

[wonderkittyy]

Ive used to work in a factory for long hour shift which messed up my back and i got fired. I don't mind camming really, just can't stand that a lot of people are mean and demand me stuff.. Most of the times now I end up just sitting and banning greys because they want free stuff.

+ I hate when i have to tell these people no I don't meet for sex..more than i made tips..right now i barelly make 5-6 $ in 8 hours...there have been times i cant even make 10 tokens in 2 hours..i just sit with greys. I would love to have more traffic in my room, then it could be fun. No one enjoys sitting and staring at the screen for hours. I had a few great nights on mfc iv'e enjoyed when some people were tipping and being friendly...all these mean people just bring me down

Normally i cant get more than 15-20 people in my cb room...because im probably the ugliest person ever.

I dont know i think thats just how it is some girls are pretty and get people no matter what and some girls just have to do everything for small money..ive seen this on mfc too ...bottom rooms where some girls sit 12+ hours all alone

 

[SatanJonez]

Can I ask where in the world (country) you are from? MFC may have banned you because camming is illegal in your country. Minus a few instants in the past having to do with men or children on cam, MFC is not very ban happy.

Also, no one can make you quit camming, but if you aren't making more than $10 in a eight hours wouldn't that time be better put towards finding a 9 to 5 job? At least then you'd know the income would be more stable and guarenteed vs. wasting your time online being made to feel miserable?

 

[AmberCutie]

Stop camming. It very much sounds like camming is not for you. With your temper, you don't seem to be cut out for it, and you desperately need money right now. Find a job where you can make minimum wage consistently, don't rely on camming if you can't buy food or pay your rent.

I second this, especially after reading the followup reply.

 

[wonderkittyy]

Titty Sparkles. Ive never did anything with men and have no kids. Ive been asleep on cam several times, but Ive seen a lot of girls.asleep on cam.I don't get tantrums than often. as anxiety i try not to show it and smile as long as i can .and if i do get way too anxious or unwell i just log off and come back later.

As I said I don't mind camming, if people are nice. I don't need to make millions..as for other jobs I have a couple of health problems..weak knees, back and my kidneys are either too sluggish or over reactive, and i'm anemic.for several years..( i never really talk about these things in my room tho )so Its hard for me to do even a janitor job..i can only survive if i drink multiple cups of coffee which gives me energy.

Thanks to these certain health problems i am not allowed to pick heavy boxes and stuff..

all i need is around 300euros as minimum... P.S on normal janiotor cashiers job you are not allowed to ahve a coffee when you want, even if you feel weak and feel close to pass out. sadlly.

 

[AmberCutie]

Also it sorta sounds like your studio fired you vs. being banned at MFC?

 

[wonderkittyy]

my studio tried to set up a new account on mfc, but had no luck..He said i'm banned for my identity.

 

[Kickaz]

Being pretty is a very small piece of the camming puzzle. If you want to make money camming you have to:
1. Be sober on cam (I know some camgirls drink and they are fine but it doesn't sound like you can handle your liquor well)
2. Be good at controlling your emotions and know how to deal with mean people without being nasty. (If someone makes you want to scream or cry turn your cam off immediately. Do whatever you have to do offline and then come back. )
3. Treat camming like a real job
4. Not do things outside of your comfort level, despite you thinking you might make more money. It will make you even more upset at the end of the day.
5. Be responsible (deliver people what they paid for)
6. Be creative (this one especially applies if you want to try to make money on mfc)


I agree with Amber that it sounds like your studio fired you and not mfc.

Have you tried applying directly on mfc? Just go on the mfc site and there's a link to apply as a new model. If you do this yourself you will not have to give a cut to your studio anymore.

 

[PunkInDrublic]

i can only survive if i drink multiple cups of coffee which gives me energy.

I'm no doctor but this doesn't seem very healthy.

 

[Emmalie]

I feel as though all camming is: is telling people no and that they have to tip. Have you tried LiveJasmin? I worked there for awhile, and I did decent. They are more into just being naked and beautiful, rather than having a ton of toys. There are lots of sites. You could always just try making a ton of content and selling it so you don't have to deal with people. There are many options.

I tell people to fuck off all the time, but it's kind of my thing. It's funny though because people always tell me I'm nice. I don't do well on MFC, so I know that type of site just isn't for me. Streamate is good, but they will ban you for your recreational habits. LiveJasmin is really nit picky, but it may be good for you because they are so strict. It could keep you in check. They also have lot's of competitions you can win.

 

[SatanJonez]

I demand to be called Titty Sparkles from here on out. Sparkle Tits. There we go.

 

[SenaLuna]

Fix your attitude. If you can't, don't cam. You need, need need NEED to have a thick skin. This is the internet, people are essentially anonymous even with usernames and are more prone to saying things that would get them decked in real life. Banning beggers and telling people to behave is one thing, but throwing "tantrums" because people were mean to you is unacceptable. Doesn't matter if you had a "shitty day"- we all do, and if it was caused by the alcohol either drink less or stop drinking.

Lashing out at people is NOT the way to fix your low room counts and lack of tips. Calling yourself "the ugliest person ever" and blaming your lack of business on your looks just indicates you have confidence issues which is a huge part of being able to pull in and keep customers. Camming is full of all different faces, body types, and skin colours; you do not need to be an 11/10 supermodel to cam.

Do your research before camming. Camming sounds like easy money- get naked on camera for internet guys and make hundreds a day, but it isn't that simple. From what I've been reading it's a high stress job. You need to have stage presence to be able to keep people interested and paying you, you need to have some sort of appeal to get the customers in the first place, you need to be nice to people so they aren't discouraged from being your customers, but it is incredibly important to be able to keep your cool when things don't go the way you hoped. If people aren't being drawn into your room, try to find out ways to draw them in. I've heard girls suggest dancing, playing simple games like hangman, faking an interesting PM to keep conversation going, or even reading out loud.

I'm in the same position as you, I'm disabled but not disabled enough to qualify for government aid so I have to work from home. I don't have much in the way of "sexy" clothing (or... clothing in general), and while I've been prone to anger issues too I've been intentionally trying to get them under control because I know they have no place in camming. I understand your desperation, but you really need to think like a businesswoman and try to make yourself appealing to your customers. No one wants a cam girl who falls asleep on cam, no one wants a cam girl who openly thinks she's ugly, no one wants a cam girl who furiously lashes out on a regular basis.

Maybe for right now you should apply for government aid to help with your living expenses, find a temp agency if they have those where you are, or find a friend to stay with. If you're really bent on doing camming, research until your eyes bleed. If you're only doing this because you think its an easy and quick way to getting lots of money, but you're not really interested in camming outside of the money, this isn't for you.

 

[Emmalie]

Not everyone is the same and we all make mistakes. Try a different site and try and start with a new attitude. Sit down and give yourself realistic goals and expectations of yourself. I firmly believe that you don't have to be a kiss-ass to do this job, but you do need to be comfortable in your own skin with what you are doing.

Maybe I'm wrong, it's not like I'm one of the top gals, but it seems that you don't need to make as much as the top gals.


Edited because I wanted to add that Streamate and LiveJasmin don't require you to do as much advertising. They bring people to you.

 

[JerryBoBerry]

i can only survive if i drink multiple cups of coffee which gives me energy.

I'm no doctor but this doesn't seem very healthy.

BLASPHEMY!!!!!!​

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[PunkInDrublic]

Pretty neat(not really) to see someone banned from mfc and going to chaturbate, bizarro world yall.

 

[Sansa]

Seconding what someone else said about making content instead of going on a live site.

I don't want to discourage you from ever going on a live site again, but right now it doesn't seem like the best place for you. Maybe in the future someday, but not now. "NO" is going to be the most used word of any successful camgirl, because no matter what you are going to get people who want things for less or for free. In retail, this even happens. In a world of free porn, it will REALLY happen because that's what a lot of people expect. But if you can be the kind of person to keep a good attitude, camming is a good place. If you get too stressed out, log out, and go back online later. Or tomorrow. Or next year.

If you're comfortable with sex and being recorded, then making videos might really be the best thing for you since you don't have to deal with people as much. You don't have to limit yourself to one branch of digital sex, camming really isn't for everyone.

And others have said this but, don't drink on cam if you can't handle it. I have heard other girls say they did 10 shots a night, and I can tell you I would be obliterated and an incoherent mess on half of that. Everyone is SO different when it comes to drinking and how their personalities are when they do. If you're the type to get angry or start crying, DON'T DRINK ON CAM!!

 

[eclipse76]

As I said I don't mind camming, if people are nice. I don't need to make millions..as for other jobs I have a couple of health problems..weak knees, back and my kidneys are either too sluggish or over reactive, and i'm anemic.for several years..( i never really talk about these things in my room tho )so Its hard for me to do even a janitor job..i can only survive if i drink multiple cups of coffee which gives me energy.

Anemia + coffee is a really bad combo if you have the iron-deficiency type. Orange juice would be better.
Shitty kidneys + coffee too.

 

[SoTxBob]

I know several Rommie gals that left their studios for various reasons. They found the best avenue for them camming from home was to have multiple sites to work each day. mfc and cb being 2 of them. when things are slow at one or get ugly, they click off that site and go to another. Seems to work alright as long as they don't work sites simultaneously. I'm told it also takes a lot of the boredom of a long day out of the job.
I have to parrot whats already said about your attitude and behavior. If you cant fix it and find a thick skin, this job isn't for you. good luck

 

[LilyMarie]

Anemia + coffee is a really bad combo if you have the iron-deficiency type.

That's the first time I'm reading that.. I'll google it, but can you elaborate on it, too? That would explain why my body often has such extreme reactions to one cup of coffee... (shaking, chattering of teeth, anxiety)

 

[GracieHart]

Anemia + coffee is a really bad combo if you have the iron-deficiency type.

That's the first time I'm reading that.. I'll google it, but can you elaborate on it, too? That would explain why my body often has such extreme reactions to one cup of coffee... (shaking, chattering of teeth, anxiety)

The basics. There are two types of iron - haem and non haem. Haem iron is found in animal products, so red meats for example, and is easily absorbed by our bodies. Non haem iron is found in plant based foods like green leafy vegetables but is not as easily absorbed by our body. Vitamin C enhances non haem iron absorption so drinking orange juice with meals can help you get more iron from your diet. Caffeine has the opposite effect. So while it may not be necessary to remove caffeine from your diet entirely it is probably wise not to consurme it while eating meals and have an OJ instead (if you have an iron deficency problem. The rest of us should be fine. I drink tea by the bucket load).

If you have anaemia your doctor really should go through this. It's the basic dietary intervention for iron deficiency anaema and can really help increase your iron levels. The shaking, chattering and anxiety more point towards you being sensitive to caffeine. If this is the case it would probably be wise to drink decaffinated coffee instead

 

[eclipse76]

Anemia + coffee is a really bad combo if you have the iron-deficiency type.

That's the first time I'm reading that.. I'll google it, but can you elaborate on it, too? That would explain why my body often has such extreme reactions to one cup of coffee... (shaking, chattering of teeth, anxiety)

What Gracie said. Half my family is iron-deficient.
(and this also includes tea)

*edited*

 

[GracieHart]

What she said. Half my family is iron-deficient.

(and this also includes tea)

Hi I'm Gracie :hello2:

It may be a cultural thing but I ain't no cat's mother

https://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090402163808AAlPQzV

 

[eclipse76]

Sorry I was virtually answering to Lily in my head.

 

[SpencerStorm]

Anemia + coffee is a really bad combo if you have the iron-deficiency type.

That's the first time I'm reading that.. I'll google it, but can you elaborate on it, too? That would explain why my body often has such extreme reactions to one cup of coffee... (shaking, chattering of teeth, anxiety)

IDK...if this was his point but I know when I was pregnant and had anemia coffee was a no no!! Usually caffeine is a stimulant which will push more blood through your body, because it increases your heart rate. As this happens, whatever your blood malady(infection, anemia, vit b deficiency etc) is pushed through your body faster taking more nutrients that are not there or passing an infection that is....
Keep in mind I was told this by a military doctor...and though I support my military the doctors arent always the best....but it makes sense....and it is what i have always gone by....

edit: Gracie i love learning new things and that was very detailed...and quick... I never knew that...

 

[GracieHart]

Anemia + coffee is a really bad combo if you have the iron-deficiency type.

That's the first time I'm reading that.. I'll google it, but can you elaborate on it, too? That would explain why my body often has such extreme reactions to one cup of coffee... (shaking, chattering of teeth, anxiety)

IDK...if this was his point but I know when I was pregnant and had anemia coffee was a no no!! Usually caffeine is a stimulant which will push more blood through your body, because it increases your heart rate. As this happens, whatever your blood malady(infection, anemia, vit b deficiency etc) is pushed through your body faster taking more nutrients that are not there or passing an infection that is....
Keep in mind I was told this by a military doctor...and though I support my military the doctors arent always the best....but it makes sense....and it is what i have always gone by....

edit: Gracie i love learning new things and that was very detailed...and quick... I never knew that...

I can't remember the exact biochemistry involved so not sure if this is why caffeine inhibits absorption (I have a feeling it may be slightly more complex though but could be wrong). But caffeine (or certainly large amounts) in pregnancy is not considered the wisest regardless of iron levels. But for the average non pregnant female who has iron deficency consuming it between meals should be fine. I should also say that the tanins and polyphenols in these drinks are also thought to impact iron absorption so it's probably wise not to even have de-caffeinated versions with meals IF your levels of iron are a concern.

Ok I'll stop with the thread hijacking and boring nutritional biochemistry now :shhh:

 

[AlanaTaylor]

Hi I'm Gracie :hello2:

It may be a cultural thing but I ain't no cat's mother

https://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090402163808AAlPQzV

I haven't heard this phrase since I was little! :-D

 

[LilyMarie]

Anemia + coffee is a really bad combo if you have the iron-deficiency type.

That's the first time I'm reading that.. I'll google it, but can you elaborate on it, too? That would explain why my body often has such extreme reactions to one cup of coffee... (shaking, chattering of teeth, anxiety)

The basics. There are two types of iron - haem and non haem. Haem iron is found in animal products, so red meats for example, and is easily absorbed by our bodies. Non haem iron is found in plant based foods like green leafy vegetables but is not as easily absorbed by our body. Vitamin C enhances non haem iron absorption so drinking orange juice with meals can help you get more iron from your diet. Caffeine has the opposite effect. So while it may not be necessary to remove caffeine from your diet entirely it is probably wise not to consurme it while eating meals and have an OJ instead (if you have an iron deficency problem. The rest of us should be fine. I drink tea by the bucket load).

If you have anaemia your doctor really should go through this. It's the basic dietary intervention for iron deficiency anaema and can really help increase your iron levels. The shaking, chattering and anxiety more point towards you being sensitive to caffeine. If this is the case it would probably be wise to drink decaffinated coffee instead

I have had iron deficiency since puberty, I don't know if I also have anaemia (but I guess so?) I do have pretty much the full range of symptoms though; fatigue, lack of concentration, paleness, I can easily sleep 9-11 hours if you let me, etc.
I don't eat enough red meat and fish and not enough non haem iron, which is not smart. :| I always feel a bit better after drinking an iron supplement for a week or so, though. My doctor suggested the supplement when it turned out that I have a hard time changing my diet.
I never actually drink coffee with meals, so the absorption of iron from food shouldn't be a problem; I only drink it late at night (like 11 pm, several hours after dinner) when I have to cam, and then I really can't handle it. Decaffeinated coffee is not an option because I'm only drinking coffee for the caffeine, when I drink it it's because I need to stay awake It would just be nice if I didn't have to go through 1-2 hours of shaking before I can really do anything. :/
But yeah, apparently the coffee has nothing to do with my iron insufficiency, in my case. Thanks for explaining!

 

[Teagan]

Seconding what someone else said about making content instead of going on a live site.

I don't want to discourage you from ever going on a live site again, but right now it doesn't seem like the best place for you. Maybe in the future someday, but not now. "NO" is going to be the most used word of any successful camgirl, because no matter what you are going to get people who want things for less or for free. In retail, this even happens. In a world of free porn, it will REALLY happen because that's what a lot of people expect. But if you can be the kind of person to keep a good attitude, camming is a good place. If you get too stressed out, log out, and go back online later. Or tomorrow. Or next year.

If you're comfortable with sex and being recorded, then making videos might really be the best thing for you since you don't have to deal with people as much. You don't have to limit yourself to one branch of digital sex, camming really isn't for everyone.

And others have said this but, don't drink on cam if you can't handle it. I have heard other girls say they did 10 shots a night, and I can tell you I would be obliterated and an incoherent mess on half of that. Everyone is SO different when it comes to drinking and how their personalities are when they do. If you're the type to get angry or start crying, DON'T DRINK ON CAM!!

I wanna second that maybe content only sites would be more up your alley OP. C4S is good but only pays out once a month. So to remedy that I would check out MyGirlFund (search the site here for info on it) since you can cash out more often and some girls really do well there. And they do offer camming live if you wanna cam still. Double and triple up on sites to cover lots of bases.

I will say though it does not sound like camming is for you at all. Or maybe even content either. There are a ton of other work at home things you could do im sure so id go more into that since dealing with people in the porn world doesnt seem good for you. And as far as out of the house jobs not all require carrying around boxes of things. Receptionist jobs for instance. Cashiering. And checking out disability and help programs where you are should be looked in to as well.

Plain and simple a lot of people when camming are going to be mean to you. For no reason at all even. Theyll pop in and say crap and leave. It will happen every day. Its not gonna stop. And people are gonna demand and ask and try to guilt you into free or cheap stuff too. Every day. That wont stop either. People are gonna ask to meet for sex and how much to see you and for every other thing under the sun you dont wanna do or arent comfy with. Every day. None of it will ever stop. Every girl gets it on a daily basis. Its part of the job and learning how to handle it is part of the job. You will never get away from it. Ignoring or not letting it get to you is best but you seem to instead focus on them and let it get you down. You just cant do that. Even on a slow night.

Its not all rainbows and sunshine making the trolls easier to handle. If youre set on this being your job you have to deal with it and get the hell over it as you dont get to just say you only wanna do it if people are nice. You have no control over that and never will. So either grow some thicker skin, change things up to make money, or find another job to do.