jessi_castro

[jessi_castro]

no oneis ever in my room

 

[MiaMeow]

Could we get some more info maybe? What do you do when you're on cam?

 

[MiaMeow]

Okay, I'm watching you now. I think it'd be helpful if you could move back from the camera so they could see you better, you can really only see your face & neck. Having the TV on in the background might be distracting. You could try wearing your hair down, I find more people watch me when my hair is down. The room is also a little bit messy, so tidying it up might make it seem like a nicer space to be watching.

Your cam quality & lighting are great and you're super hot, so those are the only things I can think of.

 

[mynameisbob84]

:?

 

[Jessi]

This thread....

Most things you'd do on cam are really subjective to your own preferences and the preferences of the people in your room. But theres a few things that seem to be universal (I havent been in your chat so I dont know what applies to your or not):

-Quality cam and lighting, dont just focus on a closeup or single body part
- Be interactive. Talk, using your voice. Move around, dance etc ask conversation starting questions.
- Play some music you like at a volume that doesnt clash with your mic
- Appearance: I find that the more time I spend on my hair and makeup, the better I do. I dont know if its because I look better or because I just feel more "in the zone"
- Turn off the TV, put your phone on silent etc.
- Try to look like you're happy. I know it sounds crappy, but force yourself to smile and if you're just too tired or unhappy for whatever reason, try again when you're feeling better. If you're bummed out, people pick up on that and wont want to stick around looking at a cranky looking girl.

 

[Anonymous]

no oneis ever in my room

Hi. You're a verified model on here, which is great. Now you can join us models in the Models Only section of the forum, and you can find threads that will give you advice on how to deal with your type of situation.

Also, if you put the URL to your MFC model profile in your forum signature, it will make it a lot easier for people on here to find you on MFC. And if you have a Twitter profile (if you don't, I recommend you get one to let people know when you're on cam), you should put the URL for that in your signature too.

http://profiles.myfreecams.com/your model name
http://www.twitter.com/your Twitter name

 

[jessi_castro]

Ooh you have to come to my room sometime

 

[camstory]

Okay, I'm watching you now. I think it'd be helpful if you could move back from the camera so they could see you better, you can really only see your face & neck. Having the TV on in the background might be distracting. You could try wearing your hair down, I find more people watch me when my hair is down. The room is also a little bit messy, so tidying it up might make it seem like a nicer space to be watching.

Your cam quality & lighting are great and you're super hot, so those are the only things I can think of.

I find the TV being on in the background highly distracting, so much so I will leave as soon as I enter a room if I see it on. I may be over sensitive, but I don't think anyone likes it? Having the camera trained on the TV b/c the model is sharing something with the room is a different matter and does not bug me at all. But I don't suggest that b/c its not prolly going to pull any tips unless its something awesome, so it is apt to bring your CS down if anything, and also b/c I am sure technically there are MFC/FCC rules against broadcasting a broadcast, or rebroadcasting.

 

[RedHerby]

Maybe you can do more with your porn history, I think talking to a ex-porn star will appeal to a lot of men, a own page at IMDb is something not every model can say, http://www.imdb.com/name/nm2137104/ ( are there other ACF model's here who have a page at IMDb ? )

Drop that silly Breast Augmentation ChipIn on your profile page, do not destroy that great body with silicones. YOU HEAR ME ? THIS IS AN ORDER !

 

[LadyLuna]

Chipin?

Oh honey, get paypal away from your camlife completely! If they find out, whether cause a guy decides to be a dick and mention it, or a clueless member says something in a note through paypal, then paypal will delete your account and keep all the money in your paypal account. Get rid of it!

 

[camstory]

If you're bummed out, people pick up on that and wont want to stick around looking at a cranky looking girl.

It is very hard to hide I believe and very easy to spot. I have hung out with a bummed model many times because she was a model I knew and cared about, but even so, its no fun. In my experience I have never seen it work out ether.`Hanging out on cam when you really don't want to be there, but you need to make some tips, only serves to drop your CS, IMhO.

Drop that silly Breast Augmentation ChipIn on your profile page, do not destroy that great body with silicones.

You have heard it so much you can't stand it prolly. Well live with it one more time - you are not flat chested by any stretch. Your boobs are just about perfect IMO, but huge boobs don't excite me. I think a boob job can be an advantage in the adult film industry? But I don't think it is any advantage at MFC necessarily.

And yes to having this link http://www.imdb.com/name/nm2137104/ wherever you can, I think it might serve you well

 

[LaceyRoyce]

OT but I really wish people wouldn't tell girls what to do with their own bodies, especially when this model has not asked for opinions about it.

Whether or not fake boobs are helpful on mfc, or in the adult industry, or are your personal preference.. are all things that UNLESS SHE ASKS count for squat. And should count for squat.

 

[RogueWarrior]

This thread....

Very apropos.

 

[Jupiter551]

OT but I really wish people wouldn't tell girls what to do with their own bodies, especially when this model has not asked for opinions about it.

Whether or not fake boobs are helpful on mfc, or in the adult industry, or are your personal preference.. are all things that UNLESS SHE ASKS count for squat. And should count for squat.

Yeah I agree, though voicing an aesthetic opinion that she looks great and/or doesn't need any work done is kind of simply being a camgirl customer.

Obviously, getting $10,000 worth of plastic surgery is usually something that goes beyond being simply a career move - and customer opinion one way or another is equally insignificant, but I also think it's fundamentally no different to saying something like "Oh you're thinking of going blonde? Well, whatever makes you happy but just so you know you're one of the most smoking brunette's I've ever seen" - is that really so offensive?

Of course it's not the same as saying "you better not dye your hair!" or "I came here to watch a brunette and if you dye it I'm outta here", and of course there's the understanding that her hair is in no way the property of her viewers - but in the first case it was just an aesthetic opinion. Unasked for? Sure. Irrelevant? Not at all.

I agree with you about telling anyone what to do with their bodies, but to offer supportive praise of their current look I think often gets jumped on too.

 

[Anonymous]

OT but I really wish people wouldn't tell girls what to do with their own bodies, especially when this model has not asked for opinions about it.

Whether or not fake boobs are helpful on mfc, or in the adult industry, or are your personal preference.. are all things that UNLESS SHE ASKS count for squat. And should count for squat.

I agree. If she wants to get a boob job, it's because SHE wants to. And as long as she is happy, that's what really matters. If you've got your mind made up about doing something you've thought long and hard about, and people respond with "WTF? You're crazy! WHY would you wanna do that?," hopefully those people do realize that their opinions aren't really gonna make much of a difference. It's probably best to just remind her that we think she's beautiful the way she is, however doing what makes her happy is what's really important (and we do want that for her).

I thanked LadyLuna's post about the ChipIn, however, because it's a known fact that PayPal and cam sites don't mix. And since the OP is looking for help on how to be successful, I'm sure THAT is a piece of advice she would appreciate. I didn't even know about the PayPal risks at first either, but thankfully I learned some things from camming forums.

 

[Nordling]

And TELLING an adult not to do something with THEIR body is a sure way to get them to do it even sooner. lol

Shoot, I might even consider it if someone told me not to. lol

 

[Anonymous]

I don't even know if this comparison even makes sense, but what the hell...Someone in public chat asked about my skydive adventure (this person was HAPPY for me), and when I smiled and spoke about it, a couple of other people made the typical "I don't get why people would even do that. What's the point? You ain't gonna find any Black person jumping out of a plane" comment. :roll:


The point is that I WANTED to...duh. LOL.

 

[AllisonWilder]

jessi_castro, you might want to try posting this in the Models: Advertise Here section so that more people are likely to see your post and want to come check you out! It might also be helpful to advertise any upcoming games/raffles/whatever you do in your room so they know what's up! (You're gorgeous, by the way! If I ever catch you on, I'll be sure to come throw nickels at you. )

As far as everything else...they're her boobs. Let her do what she wants. If you don't like it, don't visit.

Also, LadyLuna already said it, but PayPal is not adult-industry friendly. There's a lot of models that would agree that they've been burned by PayPal.

 

[camstory]

OT but I really wish people wouldn't tell girls what to do with their own bodies, especially when this model has not asked for opinions about it.

Whether or not fake boobs are helpful on mfc, or in the adult industry, or are your personal preference.. are all things that UNLESS SHE ASKS count for squat. And should count for squat.

Yeah, I agree, and knew I was setting myself up for some back lash, and maybe I shouldn't have used Herb's Quote as it was clearly dictatorial, and what I wanted to express was my feeling that when I saw the chip in on Jessi's profile, and then went back and looked at her pics I couldn't see any reason why she would need to get implants. I still feel that she does not need them, but understand that what I feel see needs is not really relevant, Though, I think it is relevant if she thinks others would find her more attractive with implants, for me to give my oppinion that I would not. And no she did not ask for any one's opinion, but having a chip in on your profile I don't see as being much different than publicly saying, "hey I'm planing on getting implants". which is not asking for opinion, but I suggest it's inviting it.

 

[RedHerby]

OT but I really wish people wouldn't tell girls what to do with their own bodies, especially when this model has not asked for opinions about it.

Whether or not fake boobs are helpful on mfc, or in the adult industry, or are your personal preference.. are all things that UNLESS SHE ASKS count for squat. And should count for squat.

Not that I have the illusion that a statement like "DO YOU HEAR ME? THIS IS AN ORDER!" from me will have any effect on a woman. The statement itself does reflect what I think about boob jobs, written down in a way to try to be and humorous and give a compliment.

First, yes, their is only one person that goes about it, the woman her self, she is only person who decides about her body. If it is a business decision as adult worker or to feel better. It's not to other persons to judge about it and it should be respected.

Leaving those personal situations and look at a 'higher' level at it. Then I'm ashamed to be part of a society that makes women modify their bodies, a society where ad's with big boobs in it sell more products. I feel guilty that as a porn consumer (is a MFC member that?) I maybe contribute to this. Putting a knife in something such beautiful as a female body to adjust it for the pleasure of others, I find that a bad thing. I will give this opinion, asked and non asked, seriously or humorously (and that that last version often fails is my own little problem).

Ok, Fox's point that a subtle "hey, you are good as you are" is a much better approach then "YOU ARE NUTS", I'm sure you models to this better in the model only section, as a male on a sex-cam related site, this is beyond my skills

 

[JoleneBrody]

 

[LaceyRoyce]

the point, gentlemen - is that this lady did not ask for your opinion on her boob job.

that's all. End of story!


And yes, if you start telling me how to dye my hair without me asking for your opinions i'll find it just as offensive.

Leaving those personal situations and look at a 'higher' level at it. Then I'm ashamed to be part of a society that makes women modify their bodies, a society where ad's with big boobs in it sell more products. I feel guilty that as a porn consumer (is a MFC member that?) I maybe contribute to this

the guilt you feel? collectively? because the porn industry is MAKING women get boob jobs?

ha. ha. ha.


Why don't you give us some credit?? We are the adults, making these decisions. NOT YOU! If we make them then regret them, if we make them for the idea that we need them to fit in, to do better in business, for our self esteem..whatever. They're our decisions. ALLOW US the PRIVILEGE of OWNING OUR OWN DECISIONS! Please don't ever feel guilty for 'forcing' us to do shit. That's the most patronizing male statement ever!

(and just as an fyi to brownfox/ladyluna - in no way was i resenting the feedback on the chipin. I realize that was advice about paypal, not what she should do with her body)

also, jessi sorry this got so off topic. My bad.

 

[SoTxBob]

the point, gentlemen - is that this lady did not ask for your opinion on her boob job.

that's all. End of story!

And yes, if you start telling me how to dye my hair without me asking for your opinions i'll find it just as offensive.

Leaving those personal situations and look at a 'higher' level at it. Then I'm ashamed to be part of a society that makes women modify their bodies, a society where ad's with big boobs in it sell more products. I feel guilty that as a porn consumer (is a MFC member that?) I maybe contribute to this

he guilt you feel? collectively? because the porn industry is MAKING women get boob jobs?
ha. ha. ha.
Why don't you give us some credit?? We are the adults, making these decisions. NOT YOU! If we make them then regret them, if we make them for the idea that we need them to fit in, to do better in business, for our self esteem..whatever. Please don't ever feel guilty for 'forcing' us to do shit. That's the most patronizing male statement ever!
(and just as an fyi to brownfox/ladyluna - in no way was i resenting the feedback on the chipin. I realize that was advice about paypal, not what she should do with her body)

Lolli, whatever you do. do not dye your hair, get balloon boobs or wear anything black... ever...
:lol: :lol: :lol:

But seriously, ... I've seen so many girls that do THINK fake boobs will make them more... 'something' ... when in fact it is simply shallow media bs that's given them this image. Give you credit? Sure, but not all women are as self assured as you seem to be, and do indeed count popular perceptions more than their own toward life altering decisions. There are no edicts here from anyone, and opinions are never kept to ones self here.... yah, I know. what a concept huh? :thumbleft:

 

[JoleneBrody]

I better stop looking at this thread before I go full on muff diver.

 

[Jupiter551]

For some reason, implants are like the most sensitive topic ever :shhh:

 

[LaceyRoyce]

the point, gentlemen - is that this lady did not ask for your opinion on her boob job.

that's all. End of story!

And yes, if you start telling me how to dye my hair without me asking for your opinions i'll find it just as offensive.

Leaving those personal situations and look at a 'higher' level at it. Then I'm ashamed to be part of a society that makes women modify their bodies, a society where ad's with big boobs in it sell more products. I feel guilty that as a porn consumer (is a MFC member that?) I maybe contribute to this

he guilt you feel? collectively? because the porn industry is MAKING women get boob jobs?
ha. ha. ha.
Why don't you give us some credit?? We are the adults, making these decisions. NOT YOU! If we make them then regret them, if we make them for the idea that we need them to fit in, to do better in business, for our self esteem..whatever. Please don't ever feel guilty for 'forcing' us to do shit. That's the most patronizing male statement ever!
(and just as an fyi to brownfox/ladyluna - in no way was i resenting the feedback on the chipin. I realize that was advice about paypal, not what she should do with her body)

Lolli, whatever you do. do not dye your hair, get balloon boobs or wear anything black... ever...
:lol: :lol: :lol:

But seriously, ... I've seen so many girls that do THINK fake boobs will make them more... 'something' ... when in fact it is simply shallow media bs that's given them this image. Give you credit? Sure, but not all women are as self assured as you seem to be, and do indeed count popular perceptions more than their own toward life altering decisions. There are no edicts here from anyone, and opinions are never kept to ones self here.... yah, I know. what a concept huh? :thumbleft:

right. Don't think I'm immune. I look around at all the gorgeous girls at conventions and go "oh fuck my boobs are too saggy, my butt needs lypo, i have stretch marks etc"
My point is.
Even if I make the decision to get implants or any other body modification you can think of because of perceived pressure from the rest of the world, it's my decision.

And if someone else does the same, and regrets it - i think it's UNHEALTHY to encourage her to say "well, it's not my fault I decided to get balloon boobs, all my friends were doing it and my boyfriend said he'd like it, and I thought I'd make more money as a model". It is her decision and she should be encouraged to examine the reasons she felt those pressures, and to own the mistake.

See, i'm not saying society/fashion/men's unasked for opinions don't have a influence on many women when they make these decisions.
But when you say "a group (the porn industry, men, fashion etc) FORCE women to get implants/body modifications" then you take the power women have over their own bodies away from them. You take away the responsibility we have as adults to make our own decisions. There is no FORCE.

We're all human. We all feel the pressure to 'be' better. How we respond to that pressure is our decision, and our decision alone.

I hope I'm making sense, cos I feel like no one is understanding what I'm saying???

 

[LaceyRoyce]

and my last 2c! Then I need to take a walk and hold my boobies!

Would it be great not to have those pressures from our culture?? Sure. Wouldn't it also be great not to have men we don't even know telling us NOT to get implants, because they know better than we do (somehow) what looks good on us? OMG wouldn't it be amazing if everyone (men and women) didn't feel the need to tell anyone else what to do with their bodies period?

If you put pressure on a person to NOT get implants/make a change that she or he has expressed a desire to make with their body, you are just as bad as someone who puts pressure on that person TO get those implants/make that change. I repeat, you are JUST AS BAD as the person putting pressure on the woman to get implants.

 

[Jupiter551]

and my last 2c! Then I need to take a walk and hold my boobies!

Would it be great not to have those pressures from our culture?? Sure. Wouldn't it also be great not to have men we don't even know telling us NOT to get implants, because they know better than we do (somehow) what looks good on us? OMG wouldn't it be amazing if everyone (men and women) didn't feel the need to tell anyone else what to do with their bodies period?

If you put pressure on a person to NOT get implants/make a change that she or he has expressed a desire to make with their body, you are just as bad as someone who puts pressure on that person TO get those implants/make that change. I repeat, you are JUST AS BAD as the person putting pressure on the woman to get implants.

You're right, but I would think that getting such 'advice' comes with the territory of showing your nude body for a living :twocents-02cents: Not saying that makes it okay, or that guys, even customers, have the right to express their preference on such issues but clearly it's a topic that draws impassioned responses.

 

[Nordling]

and my last 2c! Then I need to take a walk and hold my boobies!

Would it be great not to have those pressures from our culture?? Sure. Wouldn't it also be great not to have men we don't even know telling us NOT to get implants, because they know better than we do (somehow) what looks good on us? OMG wouldn't it be amazing if everyone (men and women) didn't feel the need to tell anyone else what to do with their bodies period?

If you put pressure on a person to NOT get implants/make a change that she or he has expressed a desire to make with their body, you are just as bad as someone who puts pressure on that person TO get those implants/make that change. I repeat, you are JUST AS BAD as the person putting pressure on the woman to get implants.

You're right, but I would think that getting such 'advice' comes with the territory of showing your nude body for a living :twocents-02cents: Not saying that makes it okay, or that guys, even customers, have the right to express their preference on such issues but clearly it's a topic that draws impassioned responses.

I don't think it's about any "right" to make unsolicited opinions about another person's choices so much as saying what a douche it makes one to do so.

 

[Jupiter551]

I don't think it's about any "right" to make unsolicited opinions about another person's choices so much as saying what a douche it makes one to do so.

Probably, but guys aren't (for the most part) doing it to be douches, or meaning to be douches.