Models, are there some customers who try to pleasure you in c2c or private cam?

[Batsexy1]

I want to know if any model experience this because I tried to do it for a model and it was on Jerkmate. The model there are really nice and respectful. I am respectful back to them. There is this cam model I used to visit that was so nice to and went and did some dirty stuff I requested. I was greatful and try to do stuff to make her cum because she didn't have to do it but she did anyways. So I did stuff to try and make her cum but I think I wasn't successful. Do any of you guys have stories like this?

 

[AmberCutie]

So I did stuff to try and make her cum but I think I wasn't successful.

Please tell me you weren't making tongue faces at the camera acting like you were licking pussy.

Because that's the vibe I get from your post.




There is not anything you can do to "make her cum" just by being on cam 2 cam.

 

[Vixxen81]

From a model perspective, focus on your orgasm, not mine. It's too much pressure, gets kind of weird and reveals how much you don't know about me, my body and what I like.

 

[Batsexy1]

Thank you for your prospective. The girl I tried it with seem to like it

From a model perspective, focus on your orgasm, not mine. It's too much pressure, gets kind of weird and reveals how much you don't know about me, my body and what I like.

Thank you for your prospective. The girl I tried it with seem to like it but if that the case then i'll stop doing it. I don't want to pressure them I just want to be respectful as a customer and make sure the model is fine and well when we do c2c.

 

[Batsexy1]

Please tell me you weren't making tongue faces at the camera acting like you were licking pussy.

Because that's the vibe I get from your post.




There is not anything you can do to "make her cum" just by being on cam 2 cam.

Well the cam girls seem to like it. I actually take a sexy picture they posted on the site I printed it out or show it on another monitor then tribute them. They seem to like it when I do it or they could be just doing there job but when I do it for some cam girls they seem to like and enjoy it when I do it. There was even one girl disappointed when I stopped to early but if it creepy or weird to you I don't mind it. You do you.

 

[AmberCutie]

Well the cam girls seem to like it

If we're being paid, we pretend to like many things. I promise you when we shut the cam off we laugh, it looks ridiculous.

Just an FYI

 

[ElGato]

Please tell me you weren't making tongue faces at the camera acting like you were licking pussy.

Because I SOOO needed to laugh coffee out thru my nose today!

 

[AmberCutie]

Because I SOOO needed to laugh coffee out thru my nose today!

AND HE WAS!!! I CALLED IT!!

 

[Vixxen81]

I pray he wasn't licking actual printer ink. It's incredibly.toxic stuff.

 

[yummybrownfox]

This made me chuckle. Haha. And I was just thinking to myself the other day…what IS it with the guys on Phrendly having photos (in their profile photo GIFs) of themselves sticking their tongues out, and/or scrunching up their faces to intentionally make goofy faces? Unless you’re like L.L. Cool J (who looks sexy as fuck when he licks his lips), or Danny Pino or one of the other hotties from Mayans M.C., I don’t need to see your tongue. But I do think it’s cool of you to actually care about the woman’s pleasure too.

Most men who do c2c don’t allow me to please myself the way I prefer to please myself (Panties ON, with the vibrator over top of the panties), because they want to see me completely naked. If I attempted to please myself with panties on, they would interrupt what I’m doing to say to me “Panties off, bb.” *Sigh* Fine…lol.

Like Vixxen said above…just focus on making yourself feel good, and leave it at that. It’s not sexy to have a guy in a video chat repeatedly saying “I want you to cum. Are you gonna cum, bb? I want you to cum all over the place.” It’s obnoxious, and makes me wish for the session to just end already. But I understand that everyone is different, so I guess it’s possible that you’ve met one of the few models who actually enjoy seeing you “lick her.” Lol. But unlikely. I’ve been posting on cam model forums for over a decade, so I know that A LOT of models find it annoying when guys do that on cam. It may sound hypocritical of me to say, since I do it to guys on cam. LOL. But guys love my long tongue (I don’t think they’re just saying that), and I don’t look creepy when I do it.

 

[Wuggie]

Just a observation here.. it seems that the guys DEMAND you to cum? or demand for you to do something specific for you to get pleasure??

if this is correct, I do not fully understand it.. I my self have ONE girl I do privates with by now.. and I will admit, I get pleasure from pleasing others.. so for me, she can have FULL control of what she want to do if that bring her pleasure for example..

to me it seems like most guys that say they want you to have pleasure, still want to be fully in control? or am I reading this wrong?

 

[Vixxen81]

Just a observation here.. it seems that the guys DEMAND you to cum? or demand for you to do something specific for you to get pleasure??

if this is correct, I do not fully understand it.. I my self have ONE girl I do privates with by now.. and I will admit, I get pleasure from pleasing others.. so for me, she can have FULL control of what she want to do if that bring her pleasure for example..

to me it seems like most guys that say they want you to have pleasure, still want to be fully in control? or am I reading this wrong?

Just last night I had a guy come in who has done privates with me before and he was like, "how do I make you cum." It took everything I had within me to not say, "you literally can't." Because I'm not in love with you. I have to be emotionally invested in you to orgasm. Putting a camera in my face makes it so unlikely that I stick to teasing but it never fails that in private the "please cum, for me, please!" It's not a demand. A demand, in my mind, would be "CUM NOW OR I'M STOPPING AND REPORTING." Which would result in an immediate permanent ban on their part. It's just an incessantly obnoxious plea that in my opinion breaks the fourth wall. Since no one actually knows what I look like when I cum, I sometimes say they've already seen it but as usual were oblivious to the signs. That kind of feels dirty and icky to me but it lets me get out of the corner and save face.

 

[AmberCutie]

I pray he wasn't licking actual printer ink. It's incredibly.toxic stuff.

Sounds like he was licking toward the camera lens

 

[Smoothie]

 

[AmberCutie]

more like

and this HONESTLY SERIOUSLY happens from guys who are LITERALLY SERIOUS

 

[AmberCutie]

privates with me before and he was like, "how do I make you cum."

My answer would be "just let me do what I need to do for an orgasm, maybe give me an update on your status if you're aiming to cum with me with some light verbal cues, and tell me you're enjoying yourself along the way."

that's all I ever needed during a private, but it's too much to ask for most I guess

 

[AussieCosplay]

If you want her to have a mindblowing experience the way to do it is-
1. Tell her that you want her to to also enjoy herself.
2. If you finish first, stay and enjoy while she also finishes.
3. Tip her vibe during the show, it really helps when you're masturbating because it's handsfree fun.
4. NEVER do the HORRIBLE tongue thing, if in doubt, record yourself on your phone as practice and watch it back. Licking a pussy torso might be cool but the tongue thing is less sexy than the grapefruit video. Imagine if she were miming a blowjob without a dildo...not sexy right?
5. At the start, tell her how long you will be in pvt or excl for, that way she can give a better show.
6. Please remember that while it's fun, it's also her work, and we don't/can't physically do an orgasm show for every $20-$30 we make...our vaginas would fall off!

Step 2 is the BIG ONE!!!
I guarantee she will be grateful!
So often we're nearly there and boom, they disappear and we've gotta go back into public chat still horny.

 

[Deleted member 72761]

I don't know how to get a girl to cum in real life, much less online.

 

[Wuggie]

Just last night I had a guy come in who has done privates with me before and he was like, "how do I make you cum." It took everything I had within me to not say, "you literally can't." Because I'm not in love with you. I have to be emotionally invested in you to orgasm. Putting a camera in my face makes it so unlikely that I stick to teasing but it never fails that in private the "please cum, for me, please!" It's not a demand. A demand, in my mind, would be "CUM NOW OR I'M STOPPING AND REPORTING." Which would result in an immediate permanent ban on their part. It's just an incessantly obnoxious plea that in my opinion breaks the fourth wall. Since no one actually knows what I look like when I cum, I sometimes say they've already seen it but as usual were oblivious to the signs. That kind of feels dirty and icky to me but it lets me get out of the corner and save face.

That is also fair enough thanks for the reply! I hoenstly think it would be fair if a girl told me this also on the sites.. that it just doesn't work like that..

and I can see the point on the demand also.. maybe I'm using the wrong wording, is requesting a better word for it maybe?

 

[AudriTwo]

If you want her to have a mindblowing experience the way to do it is-
1. Tell her that you want her to to also enjoy herself.
2. If you finish first, stay and enjoy while she also finishes.
3. Tip her vibe during the show, it really helps when you're masturbating because it's handsfree fun.
4. NEVER do the HORRIBLE tongue thing, if in doubt, record yourself on your phone as practice and watch it back. Licking a pussy torso might be cool but the tongue thing is less sexy than the grapefruit video. Imagine if she were miming a blowjob without a dildo...not sexy right?
5. At the start, tell her how long you will be in pvt or excl for, that way she can give a better show.
6. Please remember that while it's fun, it's also her work, and we don't/can't physically do an orgasm show for every $20-$30 we make...our vaginas would fall off!

Step 2 is the BIG ONE!!!
I guarantee she will be grateful!
So often we're nearly there and boom, they disappear and we've gotta go back into public chat still horny.

this is also how you become a cammodels favorite. seriously all the members who are special to me do this. showing that they care about my needs/comfort/time also helps me give them the most authentic pleasurable show my little soul can give. i think these members experience a side of me that most members who join shows don't because of the extra time they put in.

of course tip more than the bare minimum if you can. when members spend more than the less time/effort the model has to put in to make her weekly goal.

Just a observation here.. it seems that the guys DEMAND you to cum? or demand for you to do something specific for you to get pleasure??

from my experience as a cammodel and having sex with men, some think you need to cum with them. so when they cum, that means it's time for you too. i get it, most men make themselves cum in like 5 minutes, whereas most women need almost triple the time. thats not a burn, but based on statistics.

recommend that models ask members demanding or requesting orgasms if they want a fake one or a real one. if some are still are, tell them they are pressuring you to fake. im not doing this because i want to cum but to extend my privates for a few minutes.

 

[Vixxen81]

That is also fair enough thanks for the reply! I hoenstly think it would be fair if a girl told me this also on the sites.. that it just doesn't work like that..

and I can see the point on the demand also.. maybe I'm using the wrong wording, is requesting a better word for it maybe?

Sometimes I think the secret porn star in every man kicks up and that's where it comes from. They don't really know what else to say and resort to the tried and true porn tropes. Does that make sense?

 

[blayze_noir]

Like everyone's saying, there's nothing you can really do "to make her cum." No need to get acrobatic and bust out any moves or crazy "o" faces. Just have the things you need handy. Maybe some lube, coconut oil, a plug or other toy(s), and some wipes to clean up.

Having said that: you can try to make it nice. On the rare occasion a woman takes me private they're dressed mostly clean and comfy or a little sexy. When I have guys go private with me they are mostly jerking off in a gaming chair in socks and, on occasion in those kinda Y-fronts your mom would buy you as a kid. Not very sexy. I don't want to be *that guy* when I take a model private!

I don't feel comfortable when I am on camera looking like I just came in from the barn and choring. (Sorry... been binging Letterkenny.) When I visit my favorite model for a private I make sure I'm looking neat and clean and sporting a look she likes. We've known each other for a minute, so I make some effort. She likes the dressed up goth look and also the comfy rock and roll look. So, I get dressed up for her and also for me. That's really about it.

 

[Wuggie]

this is also how you become a cammodels favorite. seriously all the members who are special to me do this. showing that they care about my needs/comfort/time also helps me give them the most authentic pleasurable show my little soul can give. i think these members experience a side of me that most members who join shows don't because of the extra time they put in.

of course tip more than the bare minimum if you can. when members spend more than the less time/effort the model has to put in to make her weekly goal.


from my experience as a cammodel and having sex with men, some think you need to cum with them. so when they cum, that means it's time for you too. i get it, most men make themselves cum in like 5 minutes, whereas most women need almost triple the time. thats not a burn, but based on statistics.

recommend that models ask members demanding or requesting orgasms if they want a fake one or a real one. if some are still are, tell them they are pressuring you to fake. im not doing this because i want to cum but to extend my privates for a few minutes.

I can somewhat see this, I have just always given the girls time to get their pleasure even after I finish, I don't do privates with a lot of people (actually only one person now) but I never think I have had a explicit private, where I have not allowed them to finish, both of us to clean up after and then also talk a bit after.. rushed privates always bothered me as a model myself, so I don't like doing it as a user.. I will add though, if she does not want to continue playing with herself after I finished, of course she can also stop there's no need to fake if she isn't getting pleasure..

Sometimes I think the secret porn star in every man kicks up and that's where it comes from. They don't really know what else to say and resort to the tried and true porn tropes. Does that make sense?

Yes that makes PERFECT sense actually.. I guess I have just never hit that actually being with a partner or talking to a model before.. I have said it during shows when doing couple shows in the past, but again then we are back at the porn tropes right..

 

[MarieElise]

Anytime a man listens to me, and does what I say, it's a turn on. Even if it's a stupid action; but I Iean more Domme.

So I'm gonna differ slightly, w the crowd, on this one.
If I tell a guy to stand on one foot naked, while wearing a pelican mask, and he does it; I'm turned on.
Because, for me, it's not the action itself, it's the fact he wants to show me he's willing to listen and put effort in to please me, first and foremost.
So if I told a guy to lick the screen and then he did, yes, it would turn me on and please me.

And it has... many times.
Sorry fellow models, it's models like me who are out here encouraging this stuff hehe
Seriously though, each model/ person is different; don't assume they like what the next person does. Take the time to ask, be direct, learn, and remember. That's what is most impressive for everyone (I think). No lumping. No assuming.

 

[ElGato]

 

[rockin_rod]

You please me big bird!

 

[MarieElise]

Lololol you guys are awesome!!

 

[AussieCosplay]

Anytime a man listens to me, and does what I say, it's a turn on. Even if it's a stupid action; but I Iean more Domme.

So I'm gonna differ slightly, w the crowd, on this one.
If I tell a guy to stand on one foot naked, while wearing a pelican mask, and he does it; I'm turned on.
Because, for me, it's not the action itself, it's the fact he wants to show me he's willing to listen and put effort in to please me, first and foremost.
So if I told a guy to lick the screen and then he did, yes, it would turn me on and please me.

And it has... many times.
Sorry fellow models, it's models like me who are out here encouraging this stuff hehe
Seriously though, each model/ person is different; don't assume they like what the next person does. Take the time to ask, be direct, learn, and remember. That's what is most impressive for everyone (I think). No lumping. No assuming.

I think the real thing here is that you asked for them to do it.

I'm happy to stand corrected on my "nobody wants that" comment.

But I will absolutely stand firm with you on, "if you want to please a model, do what you're told/asked".

 

[bitesizedru]

Sometimes I think the secret porn star in every man kicks up and that's where it comes from. They don't really know what else to say and resort to the tried and true porn tropes. Does that make sense?

I definitely think this is why a lot of guys start doing wild shit. I know personally I'd be sitting there trying to figure out what to do with my face the whole time, lol.

I think the best suggestion you're gonna get is to listen to us and respect our individuality. There's no one single thing you can do that all of us will enjoy, and while I can relate to the awkwardness I'd still find it frustrating if I felt like the guy I was in a show with was preoccupied with trying to make me orgasm. I'm here for you, just relax and let go!