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Are models on Chaturbate forbidden to say while they are streaming that they have a boyfriend. It is against company policy they will be penalized and fined.
All models on Chaturbate are subject to the" Terms and Conditions" for which there is a link at the bottom of every Chaturbate page. If there is a rule about personal relationships it would be found there.

Some models are managed by studios which have their own rules that are generally not shared with the public.

All models are advised not to share personal information for their own protection. If a model claims "the Company doesn't allow it", I suspect none of the platforms would be too upset. Other models will just say "I don't allow it" and expect you to respect that.

Hope that helps :)
 
Are models on Chaturbate forbidden to say while they are streaming that they have a boyfriend. It is against company policy they will be penalized and fined.
You are the same guy with the "girlfriend" in Russia who was only the other day was here talking about being scammed about $1200.

I'm not sure what you are driving at here but I'm guessing that you want her to tell other users that you are her "boyfriend". Not going to happen for a couple of reasons.

  1. It's bad for business.
  2. You're not her fucking boyfriend, you're a guy who has been hanging around like a bad smell for months without tipping (if I've read your other post correctly).

Give it up and just have a wank. She's not going to tell user in her stream that she has a boyfriend because it's so fucking ridiculous that it's laughable. If she even led you to believe anything close to this it was to oil the wheels of the scam for $1200. You're just words on a screen. Give your head a shake.
 
You are the same guy with the "girlfriend" in Russia who was only the other day was here talking about being scammed about $1200.

I'm not sure what you are driving at here but I'm guessing that you want her to tell other users that you are her "boyfriend". Not going to happen for a couple of reasons.

  1. It's bad for business.
  2. You're not her fucking boyfriend, you're a guy who has been hanging around like a bad smell for months without tipping (if I've read your other post correctly).

Give it up and just have a wank. She's not going to tell user in her stream that she has a boyfriend because it's so fucking ridiculous that it's laughable. If she even led you to believe anything close to this it was to oil the wheels of the scam for $1200. You're just words on a screen. Give your head a shake.
And if she tells people she has a boyfriend (which she probably does... in Russia, like irl) it makes pulling a romance scam harder than it needs to be 🤷‍♂️
 
Also jumping in as a model to agree. I tell people I have a boyfriend. Some of them are into it tbh.
Yeah it's not necessarily bad business depending on the demographic you're going after. If you want parasocial single guys as your fan demographic, yes, it's bad for business.

If you want married guys, swingers, and older men with sexual needs only, no parasocial stuff, just the odd nicety, it's actually very good for business. I make a lot of money from horn dog men, who don't want emotional commitments and already have that taken care of. Positives; guys like that tend to make more money, they have to, for their families. They don't pester you barely ever, outside of shows, and when they do, it's usually light, funny banter, not some emo, needy af shite. The drawbacks are: it'll make you see marriage differently. They don't have endless time, so when they want you available, they expect you to kinda jump, because they barely get any time to themselves. It'll ruin the Hollywood-induced delusion of "Happily Ever After". You have to be OK with knowing lots of other women out there would hate you for what you are doing with their husbands. But at the same time, they don't realize you are one of the main reasons he can even stay. But, yeah, no one ever looks at it that way.

I'll tell you why I prefer these guys, despite the negative judgment. They are the opposite of parasocial. For the most part, they take zero emotional energy and 100% physical energy w a little mental energy sprinkled in. They tend to know how to treat women, in ways that don't dry them up like the fucking Sahara desert, and finally they tend not to get obsessed and stalkerishy. Because they don't actually want to be with you, and ruin the life and love they have built for years, they just want a quick nut.

A lot of them have a male conscience that wants to know you're OK and looked after by someone else, that lets them feel more relaxed when nutting to your body.

Sorry not trying to shit all over you Misterical, I just have the kind of mind where stuff that doesn't track (ie go with my personal experience and numbers) I have to point it out.

ETA; HEEEEEEEEY EVERYONE

I have a boyfriend. IRL! 😆

AND WE BANG AND EVERYTHING!!!!
Dance Celebrate GIF by Krones AG


(you all are welcome to see if I stop making money after posting that 😆 )
Sorry again Misterical, just wanted to emphasize that what I say is true, so other models don't get scared of silly things, they don't need to be scared of.
 
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Yeah it's not necessarily bad business depending on the demographic you're going after. If you want parasocial single guys as your fan demographic, yes, it's bad for business.

If you want married guys, swingers, and older men with sexual needs only, no parasocial stuff, just the odd nicety, it's actually very good for business. I make a lot of money from horn dog men, who don't want emotional commitments and already have that taken care of. Positives; guys like that tend to make more money, they have to, for their families. They don't pester you barely ever, outside of shows, and when they do, it's usually light, funny banter, not some emo, needy af shite. The drawbacks are: it'll make you see marriage differently. They don't have endless time, so when they want you available, they expect you to kinda jump, because they barely get any time to themselves. It'll ruin the Hollywood-induced delusion of "Happily Ever After". You have to be OK with knowing lots of other women out there would hate you for what you are doing with their husbands. But at the same time, they don't realize you are one of the main reasons he can even stay. But, yeah, no one ever looks at it that way.

I'll tell you why I prefer these guys, despite the negative judgment. They are the opposite of parasocial. For the most part, they take zero emotional energy and 100% physical energy w a little mental energy sprinkled in. They tend to know how to treat women, in ways that don't dry them up like the fucking Sahara desert, and finally they tend not to get obsessed and stalkerishy. Because they don't actually want to be with you, and ruin the life and love they have built for years, they just want a quick nut.

A lot of them have a male conscience that wants to know you're OK and looked after by someone else, that lets them feel more relaxed when nutting to your body.

Sorry not trying to shit all over you Misterical, I just have the kind of mind where stuff that doesn't track (ie go with my personal experience and numbers) I have to point it out.

ETA; HEEEEEEEEY EVERYONE

I have a boyfriend. IRL! 😆

AND WE BANG AND EVERYTHING!!!!
Dance Celebrate GIF by Krones AG


(you all are welcome to see if I stop making money after posting that 😆 )
Sorry again Misterical, just wanted to emphasize that what I say is true, so other models don't get scared of silly things, they don't need to be scared of.

Hey, don't worry about correcting my incorrect assumptions. I'm all good with that. You models are the ones with the lived experience of being a model, not me.
 
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In the room I visit often, the model regularly gets asked by viewers if she's camming because she's not getting sex IRL.
From their perspective, 'I'm here to get off, so you must be too'.
So she responds that yes she does have a BF.
So often, the viewer then asks why the BF doesn't 'take care' of her needs.
When she replies this is her job, at least some still ask why the BF doesn't provide for her financial support, so she doesn't have to cam.

Guess they will never get it.
 
In the room I visit often, the model regularly gets asked by viewers if she's camming because she's not getting sex IRL.

So often, the viewer then asks why the BF doesn't 'take care' of her needs.
When she replies this is her job, at least some still ask why the BF doesn't provide for her financial support, so she doesn't have to cam.

Guess they will never get it.

Yes, some dudes are so fucking weird and cringey…it’s ridiculous. LOL.

It’s really sad that in 2025 some guys still don’t want to accept the fact that many women enjoy the freedom of being able to earn (and have) their own money.
 
Hey, don't worry about correcting my incorrect assumptions. I'm all good with that. You models are the ones with the lived experience of being a model, not me.
Yeah I realized after the post that you might have actually meant it's specifically bad for models who are setting out, intentionally, and premeditatively to do love-cons. Because in that case, your comment actually stands as 100% valid, or as close to, as any rule can be. So sorry if I assumed wrong. In that specific instance they probably do want to never mention the pre-existing boyfriend. Or two... or three...or four prexisting boyfriends on the rotation lol
 
Yeah it's not necessarily bad business depending on the demographic you're going after. If you want parasocial single guys as your fan demographic, yes, it's bad for business.

If you want married guys, swingers, and older men with sexual needs only, no parasocial stuff, just the odd nicety, it's actually very good for business. I make a lot of money from horn dog men, who don't want emotional commitments and already have that taken care of. Positives; guys like that tend to make more money, they have to, for their families. They don't pester you barely ever, outside of shows, and when they do, it's usually light, funny banter, not some emo, needy af shite. The drawbacks are: it'll make you see marriage differently. They don't have endless time, so when they want you available, they expect you to kinda jump, because they barely get any time to themselves. It'll ruin the Hollywood-induced delusion of "Happily Ever After". You have to be OK with knowing lots of other women out there would hate you for what you are doing with their husbands. But at the same time, they don't realize you are one of the main reasons he can even stay. But, yeah, no one ever looks at it that way.

I'll tell you why I prefer these guys, despite the negative judgment. They are the opposite of parasocial. For the most part, they take zero emotional energy and 100% physical energy w a little mental energy sprinkled in. They tend to know how to treat women, in ways that don't dry them up like the fucking Sahara desert, and finally they tend not to get obsessed and stalkerishy. Because they don't actually want to be with you, and ruin the life and love they have built for years, they just want a quick nut.

A lot of them have a male conscience that wants to know you're OK and looked after by someone else, that lets them feel more relaxed when nutting to your body.

Sorry not trying to shit all over you Misterical, I just have the kind of mind where stuff that doesn't track (ie go with my personal experience and numbers) I have to point it out.

ETA; HEEEEEEEEY EVERYONE

I have a boyfriend. IRL! 😆

AND WE BANG AND EVERYTHING!!!!
Dance Celebrate GIF by Krones AG


(you all are welcome to see if I stop making money after posting that 😆 )
Sorry again Misterical, just wanted to emphasize that what I say is true, so other models don't get scared of silly things, they don't need to be scared of.

I love the way you explained that! This is why your posts on here are the ones I enjoy the most!
 
I love the way you explained that! This is why your posts on here are the ones I enjoy the most!
Have I mentioned today how much I love you 🤍 That was so kind, just made my day.

I really enjoy yours too. I know you're direct, confident, strong, and not a bullshitter.
 
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Never heard of a camsite fining a model for disclosing their relationship status. There are scummy studios that fines models for whatever reasons.

If you are interested in knowing the site rules, study up on the TOS. Here is cb's: https://chaturbate.com/terms/
 
Shouldn't they just hate their husbands?
I mean I don't think they should hate anyone tbh
But, yes, hate them before me.

I'll be real with you, I don't think love is about ownership. If my boyfriend gets super horny, but I'm not in the mood/ too tired etc I don't want him to be frustrated. I want him to go enjoy himself with a cam model or some porn. I think any person, man or woman, who forces themself to do something sexually that they aren't feeling in that moment, is doing themself a deep, deep disservice. I feel 0 threat from cam models or chicks in pornos. All I would want is for him to be nice and polite to her/ them.

I'm not insecure in that way. And I don't believe that love is about control. When you love someone, truly, you want them to be well, relaxed, and happy. And ownership isn't an issue, because you want to spend time with them, that is positive, quality time, where they feel free and relaxed to just be themself. I don't see people as acquisitions, and I can't stand people who do see others in that way.
 
This is genuinely an age old question all sex workers have asked themselves but still get harassment from angry wives lol.
Yeah, and it's not just sex workers either. I used to work as a cart girl on a super exclusive golfcourse. The kind of place you paid $23 (well $22.50 to be precise) for a 6 pack of Bud light, back in 2008.

The wives were fucking awful.
They had their own group of golfers, the wives group, who would come in and treat all the female staff like shite. From the cart girls and workers who were barely 20, all the way up to the ones who were near retirement age.
It was absolutely Dip shitted AF.
If you're genuinely threatened by another person, and you think they are going to go after your partner. Be nice to them, become their friend, treat them kindly. The other way of being is defensive and dipshitted af, and creates problems where maybe there never were any, you know. People drive me nuts.
They treated all the cart girls like shit, and we all knew exactly why. Talk about giving people a reason to actually go after your husband.

Sorry to DP. I'm gonna zip it and get back to work now, I just enjoy these chats.
 
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Just letting you know that I notice your use of "shite" instead of "shit" and smile every time I see it.
One of my kids is growing up with a Scottish accent even though they've never been to Scotland. I talk different when I'm online and in videos and stuff, because I want people to understand me. But I still have my Scottish accent around the house. It's funny.

It only comes out if I'm really pissed off. Somebody did actually manage to piss me off so much, that my real accent came out online the other day though. But that only happens like once every 5 years.
 
One of my kids is growing up with a Scottish accent even though they've never been to Scotland. I talk different when I'm online and in videos and stuff, because I want people to understand me. But I still have my Scottish accent around the house. It's funny.

It only comes out if I'm really pissed off. Somebody did actually manage to piss me off so much, that my real accent came out online the other day though. But that only happens like once every 5 years.

My Scouse comes out if I’m pissed off 😏
 
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My Scouse comes out if I’m pissed off 😏
That must be hot.
That's my favorite of all the English accents. Be glad you don't know me in everyday life, because I'd be purposefully gaslighting you, & trying to get you mad, just so I could hear it 😆

eta; There are whole songs I listen to, purely just to hear a guy with a scouse accent sing, or say something.
I have a Beatles recording I've probably listened to thousands of times now, just to hear Ringo Star wish everyone a Merry Xmas and Happy New Year at the end.
It a bit mental, but we all have to unwind somehow 🤷‍♀️ .
But now he talks all shitty like me & Gerard Butler.

 
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