Usually when I first meet a Model in her room camming, who I know some from post here, I am not too surprised by what I find. First impressions certainly can make a hell of an impact though. My first impression of a Model here was cemented, when she eviscerated me in reply to one of the very first post I made. I had arranged to meet two Models in person, and interview them. I had posted, asking for suggestions as to what questions might be the most interesting. At that point I had been hanging out at MFC for over a year, but did not understand how sensitive the matter of meeting up with Models was. Well, I was educated by that reply and others, there & then to that fact.
Searching ACF tags@MFC I am sure I would not have visited this Model's room, had I not temperately failed to recognize her as being the same Model who had educated me. She post mostly to the other side of the wall, and though I have liked most all her post since that reply, I have only thanked a handful. Until seeing her avatar yesterday triggered the awareness that this ACF member, was the same Model I visited just the day before, her avatar had always triggered a felling of anxiety, and I would feel relieved that she was not replying to a post of mine.
I am as glad as anyone might ever be about a cognitive lapse, as it resulted in staggering pleasure. I was left gaga and grinning, all sorta :romance-cloud9: just delightful. Her avatar had stood in my mind on an uneasy foundation. In that first impression, I had emotionally built an impression of a frightening century old haunted house, creaking and leaking in an eery weeping precipitation of the blackest dark. (Well alright, I have not been that dramatically frightened of her for a long time, but in profile of how I once felt, it is a relevant image.) In an accident of fate and failing memory, less than an hour's visit has proved a completely remodeled impression, and jack-hammered home the notion that no matter how sour a first impression may be, one risks missing something very sweet, or some other sort of fantastic, when such impression is allowed to harden to a definitive conclusion.
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Concluding a person is mean and/or does not like you personally, after a single interaction, is silly and may be less than 100% accurate. Adopting such a hardened negative opinion, and a refusal to any further interaction, opens you to the possibility, you may be, not just wrong, but stupid wrong, and that you may pass up someone who you would not choose to otherwise.