sex tape with ex from my cam girl girlfriend

[slimshady123]

hello to everyone,
i will tell the whole story so you all have the full image but i will try to keep it short

i'm in a long distance relationship with a cam girl for 3 months now. we have done a lot together (watching movies, videocalling all day etc.). we are having a very good time together and we are planning to meet and get married. i love her a lot and i know she loves me a lot too. so you will ask me, where is the problem then? yesterday she sent me a video and begged me to not get mad because she wanted to uploaded to a site to make some profit. long story short this video is a sex tape with her ex boyfriend from some years ago. at first i was shocked because she never told me about that and i stayed silent for a bit lost in my thoughts, i was not mad neither bothered, i just felt a bit uncomfortable seeing my girlfriend with a different man, but i think it could be better if i knew it from earlier. i took my time being very calm, but she got upset because she thought i would leave her. i tried to explain her that these are things from the past and what really matters is that we are here together now and i understand that she may want to use them as profit. after a lot of messages that i sent her she never responded, she just called me some hours later when she finished her shift but she didn't want to talk about that at all, she is thinking that she is already lost me and i don't know what to do. i try to talk about that subject to make the things clear but she gets mad and doesn't talk to me when i bring that on the conversation. she called me today bu she was acting like nothing happened but i know that inside she is feeling like me, but she doesn't want to talk. what should i do? i can't lose her because of a stupid video from the past

 

[yummybrownfox]

That's great that you're this understanding about it. The video was made years ago, but she never uploaded it until NOW?

 

[Smoothie]

A couple thoughts ...

1) Is there any chance the video was already “out there” and this was her way of proactively making sure you found out about it from her first?

2) Did she ever upload it, or did the tension cause her to change her mind? If the latter, that could explain why she doesn’t want to discuss it anymore. Like a “forget that I ever mentioned it” situation, if she perceives it as a mistake that she ever showed it to you. It’s not that uncommon for a person to avoid reigniting past arguments with their significant other.

 

[anabeauty37]

if you wanna hear our opinion you need to tell us more so we understand how you stay ... ok shes a cammodel and you guys do all this things.. are u helping her with money? pay for stuff? if yes then she dont need to upload old vids with exbf to live . Second, is that video that old? is she looking that different? or she just did a video with her real bf and upload it and had to let u know just in case u see it ... im affraid this post will end like all of them, she really loves me or is scam?

 

[anabeauty37]

That's great that you're this understanding about it. The video was made years ago, but she never uploaded it until NOW?

exactly she just watch it today and said yay looks hot ill upload it .. also really stupid to send to her *big love future husband* this video, she doesnt even know how he is in bed, or maybe exbf dick is bigger, how the hell to send the video to the future hb to show him how good ur ex fucked you ; omg

 

[slimshady123]

That's great that you're this understanding about it. The video was made years ago, but she never uploaded it until NOW?

yes she never mentioned these videos until now, she told me that she wants to use them just for having content.. is that yesterday a user asked her to do a show with a boy and she didn't do it because she is not single now so the video was an alternative option i guess

 

[slimshady123]

exactly she just watch it today and said yay looks hot ill upload it .. also really stupid to send to her *big love future husband* this video, she doesnt even know how he is in bed, or maybe exbf dick is bigger, how the hell to send the video to the future hb to show him how good ur ex fucked you ; omg

she just showed it to me to ask me if i'm bothered if she will upload it

 

[slimshady123]

if you wanna hear our opinion you need to tell us more so we understand how you stay ... ok shes a cammodel and you guys do all this things.. are u helping her with money? pay for stuff? if yes then she dont need to upload old vids with exbf to live . Second, is that video that old? is she looking that different? or she just did a video with her real bf and upload it and had to let u know just in case u see it ... im affraid this post will end like all of them, she really loves me or is scam?

i'm sure she doesn't have a bf because we are on videocall all day, even when she is sleeping she wants me to be with her on videocall.. and even when she go out she send me photos or videos.. i asked her a lot of times to help her with money and stuff like that but she doesn't want, we only get gifts to each other

 

[AmberCutie]

If he's an ex and she has no contact with him to ask and get signed release forms, you might want to warn/remind her that she doesn't have his consent to post the video.

 

[slimshady123]

If he's an ex and she has no contact with him to ask and get signed release forms, you might want to warn/remind her that she doesn't have his consent to post the video.

i haven't thought about that, thank you, my mind is a bit blurry since yesterday.. i will warn her for sure and i will see what she will tell

 

[yummybrownfox]

yes she never mentioned these videos until now, she told me that she wants to use them just for having content.. is that yesterday a user asked her to do a show with a boy and she didn't do it because she is not single now so the video was an alternative option i guess

Ohhhh, okay. So instead of her giving yesterday's user a boy/girl show, she could just have him pay for that old video she did with her ex. Gotcha. If the guy wouldn't be happy with/consent to the video of himself being posted online, she shouldn't do it anyway. Some couples record stuff like that just for their own viewing pleasure, and don't intend on letting other people see it.

 

[slimshady123]

Ohhhh, okay. So instead of her giving yesterday's user a boy/girl show, she could just have him pay for that old video she did with her ex. Gotcha. If the guy wouldn't be happy with/consent to the video of himself being posted online, she shouldn't do it anyway. Some couples record stuff like that just for their own viewing pleasure, and don't intend on letting other people see it.

exactly and i'm very happy that she asked me before doing it but now she is upset, she thinks i will leave her because of the video..

 

[slimshady123]

i just try to find a way to make her talk about that and make things clear, but she doesn't want to talk about it..

 

[Lelo1]

If you're dating an adult entertainer, there is going to be video of them on the internet. And they'll probable involving other people. And they're probable going to be all flirty with their tippers, fap on streams, extra. That's some thing you have to figure out if you're ok with. But you can't expect her to be able to change that.

If he's an ex and she has no contact with him to ask and get signed release forms, you might want to warn/remind her that she doesn't have his consent to post the video.

Depending on where she is, posting the video without their consent, might also be a crime under revenge porn laws.

 

[slimshady123]

If you're dating an adult entertainer, there is going to be video of them on the internet. And they'll probable involving other people. And they're probable going to be all flirty with their tippers, fap on streams, extra. That's some thing you have to figure out if you're ok with. But you can't expect her to be able to change that.



Depending on where she is, posting the video without their consent, might also be a crime under revenge porn laws.

of course i'm getting used to that she needs to be flirty with everyone and i understand that, that's how this job is done. the problem is that she didn't mention these videos before.

 

[slimshady123]

! ! ! UPDATE ! ! !

i talked with her today and i told her that i don't have a problem with the videos because it's a thing from the past and she was ok with that. we are talking normally now even though i can tell she feels a bit uncomfortable from the way she talks about that, but i think she will get over it soon. also she deleted that video from the page after the users bought it.

 

[anabeauty37]

yes she never mentioned these videos until now, she told me that she wants to use them just for having content.. is that yesterday a user asked her to do a show with a boy and she didn't do it because she is not single now so the video was an alternative option i guess

that video is uploaded on the cam site? if yes then as i know she need the guy to be registered with his documents on the page also ,

! ! ! UPDATE ! ! !

i talked with her today and i told her that i don't have a problem with the videos because it's a thing from the past and she was ok with that. we are talking normally now even though i can tell she feels a bit uncomfortable from the way she talks about that, but i think she will get over it soon. also she deleted that video from the page after the users bought it.

now lets hope that users that bought it wont post it all over the porn sites like they always do ..

 

[slimshady123]

that video is uploaded on the cam site? if yes then as i know she need the guy to be registered with his documents on the page also ,

now lets hope that users that bought it wont post it all over the porn sites like they always do ..

actually that's what i'm afraid of mostly, if someone publish the video on any site. i didn't ask her if her ex know about that because she doesn't want to talk about it anymore but the only thing i know is that her ex face did not appear on the video.