ericaexotic said:has anyone had member take to private for only 1-3 minutes. than take them to private again?
The_Brown_Fox said:I ask for a minimum of 400 tokens spent in private.
I've found that when I get buzzed for private by a guy who hasn't spoken, and who hasn't asked "Can we go private?," he's likely to be one of those "Lemme just bust real quick and then leave" guys.
With the amount of guys we have popping in and out of the room, when we see guys coming in the room and STAYING, that's really cool. So to have some random guy (who never talked or asked first about private) suddenly take us away to a 1-minute long private show is just lame. When it's ended SECONDS later, we've got $3 in our pocket, have to clean the toy, get dressed, and then return to a now nearly empty public chat. Not worth it for me.
Always ask the model first before buzzing her for private. Don't always assume she's the Energizer Bunny, ready to fuck at any given time...lol. And if you're a new member she doesn't know well, it probably wouldn't hurt to temporarily un-hide your tokens, so that she knows she's not entering a 77-token private session.
LOL I'm sorta the same... I used to ask for at least a 90 second private when I did them, but I think the sweet spot for me is around 5 to 15 minutes. After a while I do run out of things to do/say and get tired. In group shows I know I can just lay there and do the same cum position multiple times, but in private I feel completely compelled to be more "exciting".AngelicTease said:I actually prefer short shows/privates to long ones. In long ones my arm starts to ache and I run out of things to do, haha.
LilyMarie said:The_Brown_Fox said:I ask for a minimum of 400 tokens spent in private.
I've found that when I get buzzed for private by a guy who hasn't spoken, and who hasn't asked "Can we go private?," he's likely to be one of those "Lemme just bust real quick and then leave" guys.
With the amount of guys we have popping in and out of the room, when we see guys coming in the room and STAYING, that's really cool. So to have some random guy (who never talked or asked first about private) suddenly take us away to a 1-minute long private show is just lame. When it's ended SECONDS later, we've got $3 in our pocket, have to clean the toy, get dressed, and then return to a now nearly empty public chat. Not worth it for me.
Always ask the model first before buzzing her for private. Don't always assume she's the Energizer Bunny, ready to fuck at any given time...lol. And if you're a new member she doesn't know well, it probably wouldn't hurt to temporarily un-hide your tokens, so that she knows she's not entering a 77-token private session.
I don't accept privates from people who have their tokens hidden, unless they're a regular and I know they have enough tokens for a private with me. My minimum is 300 tokens, but I'm glad to say I've never had a normal private that was shorter than 1000 tokens. (By normal private I mean a private that didn't consist of me listening to a guy playing his guitar for me )
When someone wants a private, but has their tokens hidden, and hasn't talked to me first, my alarm bells go off immediately and I click 'decline' or whatever it says within 1 second.
I usually ask them politely to un-hide them first and I temporarily add them to my friendslist, so they can write me a PM and let me know what they want to see in the private.
Like The_Brown_Fox already explained, camgirls don't need to put themselves in a situation that empties their public chat and come out of it with $3.
I've had that happen with so many drive by privates where more than my 900 tok minimum was showing that I've now pretty much gone to pre scheduled, friends only with privates. I've banned the people but for me, it's not worth risking anymore. I honestly have never been the girl that get's a ton of private requests anyway.SoTxBob said:Re; the minimum limits....
What do you do when the guy has the tokens showing but bails in 2-3 minutes [or less] anyway, say after you've stripped off and he's got the pussy shot or whatever he wanted ? I know some request an "entry tip" of some amount before accepting pvt, but that's seldom. Also, many times it's the "one off guys" that pull you in, get you naked and vanish, so digging them up and banning them is hardly worth the effort in most instances.
SoTxBob said:Re; the minimum limits....
What do you do when the guy has the tokens showing but bails in 2-3 minutes [or less] anyway, say after you've stripped off and he's got the pussy shot or whatever he wanted ? I know some request an "entry tip" of some amount before accepting pvt, but that's seldom. Also, many times it's the "one off guys" that pull you in, get you naked and vanish, so digging them up and banning them is hardly worth the effort in most instances.
If I'm masturbating in private, after I finish I tell them to end it 'cause they ain't getting any more xD I've got a single-shot vagina!AmberCutie said:LOL I'm sorta the same... I used to ask for at least a 90 second private when I did them, but I think the sweet spot for me is around 5 to 15 minutes. After a while I do run out of things to do/say and get tired. In group shows I know I can just lay there and do the same cum position multiple times, but in private I feel completely compelled to be more "exciting".AngelicTease said:I actually prefer short shows/privates to long ones. In long ones my arm starts to ache and I run out of things to do, haha.
I used to have a few people who would take me for privates for long periods of time. My "truprivateguy" would have me in there for an hour and still want more, but I'd just be like "ok I'm tired I really need a break" and struggle to end it. I'd go take a break and come back and he'd be like "are you ready again".
If I was ever to do privates again, I'd likely have some write up on my profile about the desired length of time being less than 20 mins, and no true private.