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legmanct said:
Part of what I like in the customs I have ordered is I like the girl to feel sexy and turned on in her fishnets and I want her to get more turned on by others looking at her sexy outfit.

I know I am strange. :D

I don't think it strange at all for you to prefer the girl to be enjoying what she's doing and how she's being viewed. In fact, that's so normal that the most common advice you'll see on this forum for girls is to have fun on camera.

^_^
 
schlmoe said:
legmanct said:
what should I do.

Even though it has been a month, and you probably got burned, I'm not a big fan of the "outing" thing. But that's just me.

If you decide to go that route, and it is totally your decision, but have you considered linking her to this thread beforehand? Just don't do it in public chat.

If she were to read this thread:

*She'd see that you haven't named names and embarrassed her.
*She "might" complete your transaction, and/or give you an apology
*She would see that there are plenty of girls who appear willing to pick up the ball she dropped
*She might change her mind and see that your business is worth retaining
*She might poke around, decide to join the forum, and become a better cam-girl

OK, so I'm an optimist. So sue me! ;)
I agree, I probably would never ratt the model out. At the point you are very sure you are intentionally being cheated, from a business point of view it seems like the correct thing to do though, maybe?. Don't we have some duty to others to try and warn/protect them. I don't know, maybe we don't.

What I do know is that I like the idea of linking this thread for her that she might as you suggestion do something less than the total burn. If mfc mails are not even getting opened that route is not available. But with some creative thinking and perhaps the help of a friend you could no doubt get it to her. And who knows. And the outing should be a last resort option if at all.
 
LadyLuna said:
legmanct said:
Part of what I like in the customs I have ordered is I like the girl to feel sexy and turned on in her fishnets and I want her to get more turned on by others looking at her sexy outfit.

I know I am strange. :D

I don't think it strange at all for you to prefer the girl to be enjoying what she's doing...

^_^

Not strange at all. The fact that your enjoyment comes at least in part from seeing the enjoyment of the model/other participant, is maybe different from a lot of men. But if I had to label that difference, wonderful, or fantastic would work a lot better than strange. And if you don't yet understand why this idea of your pleasure being linked to the pleasure you see in others, you soon will.
 
legmanct said:
About a month ago I ordered a custom video from on of the girls on MFC. I paid her 800 Tolkens for what I would consider a basic video, nothing to strange.

Anyways she said she would do it that night and I would have it by the next morning.

The next morning came around and no video. So I emailed her on MFC and she said she was sorry and didnt get to do it yet but would try to do it that day. I was cool with that.

About 5 days goes by and still no video. So I email here again (again not mean or anything) asking her the status. Now she is not replying to me at all.

A few days ago I caught her online and went into her room, she said she did the video but forgot to send it and would sent it now (then she logged off MFC) still no video.

I have seen her online a few more times and whenever I go into her room she logs off immediate, and shes not responding to my MFC emails.

Did I get scammed? Should I contact MFC about this?

I don't want her to get in trouble, I just want her to send the video I paid for.

What do I do?


Here's the thing. You're talking about a custom video. She shouldn't have promised to have it to you the next morning. I've learned that it's never a good idea to promise a guy that he'll have custom content THE NEXT DAY. As the saying goes...do you want it fast or do you want it good? :) Custom stuff should never be expected within a day...ESPECIALLY videos. Creating a video/editing it/uploading it takes time. I have to send out a custom video myself, and the guy was very detailed about what he wanted in the video. It's a toy video, so right there I had to wait 'til my 'time of the month' was over (sorry if that's tmi), and I explained that to him.

I had more to say, but I have to hurry to get my son off the bus. LOL.

Good luck with getting your custom video though! :)
 
camstory said:
And if you don't yet understand why this idea of your pleasure being linked to the pleasure you see in others, is a wonderful, or fantastic thing, you soon will.
It's amazing how the inclusion of just a few words left out here or there can really transform what is said. :woops: :)
 
Jessi said:
legmanct said:
I have one idea for a custom video, but I haven't found anyone brave enough for it yet...

Girl at a shopping mall dressed up sexy (black short skirt, black fishnets, 5 inch pumps... under the skirt garter belt no panties) sexy top, just walking around in the mall for a few minutes as the camera catches shots of her legs and people walking by her. Then into a shoe store real quick to try on some sexy heels... finally the girl catches the camera guy gawking at her stockings and heels she asks him if he likes her fishnets... he says yes and then she takes him into a dressing room or bathroom in the mall, lifts her skirt and proceeds to make him cum all over her stockings and heels. (I dont know how she makes him cum, do they fuck? does she blow him or does she just sit down and jerk him off til he blows on her fishnets?)

As I said I haven't found anyone brave enough for that one yet... but I have a feeling it can be done. I am not asking the lady to walk around the mall with her skirt up and her stocking tops and garters showing. :D

http://www.youporn.com/watch/673308/big-tits-girl-in-fishnets-fucked/ This seems to be really focuses on humiliating/degrading the actress, so you may not like it.
http://alotporn.com/30550/redhead-outdoor-fucked/ Theres more public fishnet seckz

I have found one that is a lot like the video I want but has no girl in fishnets (but its still hot as hell!) :)

http://xhamster.com/movies/1041831/bj_i ... _room.html
 
Hehehehe, MFC has a BBB review page! It was pretty funny reading the categories of the complaints. Just thought this would be a good place to leave this bit of info. :lol:
 
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ya... I'm not a fan of paying a model for custom video's for this reason.... I'll buy the occasional video if they have it made & are known to send them out in a timely fashion.... but I learned my lesson the hard way as well and got burned for 2k tokens for a custom video by a model i thought i was tight with.... i had been hanging out in her room for about a year at the time and had purchased several of her videos prior to that... and because I thought we were friends I was confident she'd make it and gave her more than enough time to do it... after several weeks of waiting i still hadn't received it & started giving her gentle reminders about it... which was usually followed up with a reply from her about how she'd do it that night... or that weekend... or how she got busy and wasn't able to get it done

After 1 1/2 months it finally became obvious all her lame excuses about being busy were bullshit and i was never going to get my video... Which i have to admit was sort of a shocking realization because she's known for ranting & raving about scams other models pull... When we finally had a show down between us.... and the video was mentioned she had zero remorse about the money i was out and went on and on about why i didn't deserve the video because i was some massive dick.. blah blah blah... so after that... all i can really say is you can never know when someones gonna decide it's cool to burn ya and buyer beware... so just take it on the chin and move on
 
Hey no matter who it was it was a hot video. :)

I mean its a dressing room they can't come and open the door to see what your doing in there.

I have seen a few camgirls inthe past do shows from dressing rooms and I think all those shows were very hot. :)
 
I hope this thread isn't gonna end up filled with cam girls' xhamster videos (no disrespect to legman).
 
Jupiter551 said:
KarmelKiss said:
Jupiter551 said:
legmanct said:
I have found one that is a lot like the video I want but has no girl in fishnets (but its still hot as hell!) :)

http://xhamster.com/movies/1041831/bj_i ... _room.html
That chick kinda looks like NaughtySarah lol

Nothing like her! I love how naughty Sarah can be!
Hey she's blonde and possibly french-speaking. That's like NaughtySarah!

it's german not french in the vid :p
 
While reporting her to MFC would be an obvious waste of time, If you have given her a sufficient amount of time (30 days should do) and you have tried communicating with her about it and received an unsatisfactory explanation or a negative response or complete refusal to honor her commitment to the deal she made to produce said video, An outing (WARNING to other members) seems like a perfectly reasonable action. :twocents-02cents: p.s. yes you probably got burned and hopefully lesson learned.
 
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This made me miss all my fishnets :( I had one in every color their existed for years but unfortunately when I moved I think the underpants knomes stole them :crybaby:

Although my first piece for my new collection will be coming in this week :dance: not fishnets but rainbow knee highs! woohoo!

And I agree with sclmoe, I know Ive had a few things jump in the way for me to be able to get things done as timely as I would have liked and if this girl is just mentally broke cuz of w/e I'm sure she would appreciate seeing how kind you have been and also make her realize what an ass she's being. I understand time flies, however I do not understand the ignoring factor. Communication is key in any relationship, friend, lover, family, business...shit I even talk to my cat! Although I can't help it because she's so soft and fluffy... :pray:
 
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