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Ava Nicole

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My BF is very curious about watching my shows but I'm not sure I'm comfortable with it, especially since I work primarily on SM so a lot of the time I'm just sitting around. I don't want him to think I'm super boring or something. :p

We started dating 4-5 months ago and I told him right away the type of work I do. He's very accepting it and thinks the fact that I own myself/am my own boss is amazing. I'm glad he's so supportive, if he wasn't, it would make my life more difficult. I got into camming when I lived with my ex and we had a lot of jealousy issues with it. He always thought I would run off with my members.
 
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AnnaTyler

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My ex used to watch my shows when I started but I asked him to stop because it made me crazy nervous!!! If I've ever dated someone, I ask them not to watch because it makes me uncomfortable and it's just not for them. My sexuality with my partner is way different from my sexuality with my viewers and I like to keep it that way. It helps me keep a little bit of sanity, personally. I've had some people be weirded out by my job in the dating world but I say screw that and drop that very quickly.
 
For the single ladies out there, have you found that it's harder to get into a serious relationship?

Not actively camming at the moment, but I'll answer. Yes, I think it's harder, but at the same time you get to see people's true colors show.

What used to bug/disappoint me was when you meet a guy you like and are attracted to, you exchange numbers and mention what you do (he thinks it's hot), and suddenly he has the idea in his head that you're an easy lay, and he goes on and on about how you should "give him a show" and you should "let me do a show with you." You two haven't even been out on a date or anything, and the only conversation this dude wants to have is about camming/sexual stuff and what you can do for him. Smh. I guess you could call that a blessing in disguise though, because that's when I knew not to even bother talking to him anymore.
 

Mira_xo

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My boyfriend helps me edit my videos and is even in some of them! He doesn't really come into my room, but I love teasing him my videos. Our conversations will go something like this: "You made a new video? I want to see!" "Yeah well pay up, 300 tokens!" I love that he thinks my videos are sexy & can give me real constructive criticism on them.
 

ShayeTaylor

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My boyfriend encouraged me to get into camming. We have a very honest relationship and promise to keep it that way. I don't care if he comes into my room, he's good for conversation flowing and tipping to encourage others to do so as well! He thinks it's a huge turn on though, knowing all those guys want me and he's the one that gets me when it's all over!
 
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my bf is a pure goofball he couldnt watch me without cracking up bc Im just as goofy lol and we are soo much more friend then lover ....so he almost doesnt even notices my sexiness ...if that makes sense instead watched me and has been like if they only knew what taco bell did too you lol he is a basterd he will pm me this and throw me off but its nice I smile even harder laugh louder and really lightens the mood he may be camming with me soon and featured in two of my vids we have known each other forever ! so if he is watching me he is usually cracking up or getting turnt on of which he then offers up good luck dick ...during a break ...great fluffer he is :)
omg. i can also relate to that. me and my hubby are super goofy, and i wonder if that is why its a little difficult for him to take me seriously with the sexiness etc.
 
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BlissfulSins

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It kinda makes me nervous! Especially when my husband sits in the same room and stares at me. When the room is good I tease around and he gets all hyper and horny but when I have a slow time (answering PMs, Boob playing, ECT) He just sits there and stares at me all bored like and it makes me feel so awkward. Also my BF has a basic account he gets on every so often to watch me stream. I find it hard to do my pussy playing with him in the room but have no problem flashing my boobs and stuff.
 
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MochaMona

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omg. i can also relate to that. me and my hubby are super goofy, and i wonder if that is why its a little difficult for him to take me seriously with the sexiness etc.
he usually comes in and watches me wrap things up and I feel like more of a I gotta really amp it up cause he gonna make me laugh he will just smile and when Istart pulllling my boobs out for those who gave me last min tips then he is touching his dick lol once im off he usually sayin I got tokens too dammit which is usually food !!!!he know the way to my heart is a tunnel thru my stomach lol
 

AmiGold

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My busbanen comes into my room and watches me and offensief gives me tips about my cam and sound if its good. He doesnt get jealous which is great. He knows when I have finished my shift Im all huis lol
 

VeridianGreene

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I like that he watches me (sometimes watches my live feed, too) and it feels special when he comments how hot some of my stuff is.

I don't know. I'm comfortable with him seeing things from my side, but I don't want him on the internet side.

My husband has occasionally popped into my room - once or twice I've asked him to verify my sound or feed quality when guys in my room wouldn't answer if I asked. He's never, to my knowledge, watched me on cam for more than a few minutes when I ask him. I wouldn't mind at all if he did!

Yess this. My partner is a muscician, so I'll buy a ticket to see his show. If I'm doing a show he can get a ticket or discuss some backstage VIP deal.
But at the same time, its like, to each their own.. As long as you have both talked about it and agree on something and feel okay about it, YOU do YOUUUU. :h::h:
 
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I don't actively cam right now, but I would be super uncomfortable with him watching. I'm really not the "sexy" type private, with sexting or phone sex or cam sex with someone. I don't know why.

He isn't much of a porn guy either. He has never seen any of my videos. He is fine with it, but I don't think he would want to watch.

Today I tried to show him some camgirls and he was just "Yeah, she's cute, but I rather watch Breakers" (hockey card collector thingy).
 

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Same as most of you
I don't mind someone I seeing seriously watching me live or helping me with videos.
I do however hate seeing my ex stop by my room. Esp since she just sits there in silence no matter what I say/do.
The person I am currently seeing has never watched me live but has watched many of my vids.

Shit, I show my vids to a lot of people from my life, even when we are not dating..A lot of fetish videos are simply funny when taking out of context.
 
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SexiLiz

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Jawbs is my videographer, photographer, and editor. He has to watch it! :)

I like that he watches me (sometimes watches my live feed, too) and it feels special when he comments how hot some of my stuff is.


My hubby is the same! we also have a couples chaturbate profile that we cam on together(that was my/our first cam experience) and he is verified on my solo account and is always willing to get a bj for my customers! they love o see me covered in cum...

i feel better when he watches and mods for me! and he even helps on vids, and ELM stuff. we do it all together whenever possible. i couldnt do it without him, he always reassures me that i look great ( ihave self esteem issues) makes sure lighting and sound is good, and that everything just runs smoothly.
 

DressUpJenny

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When I'm seeing someone new I encourage them to watch a couple shows. I have NO patience for "well, I said it was okay, but it's really not" so I like to be as up-front as possible as soon as possible about my career (and about my animals!)
 
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GingerSpyce

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How do you ladies feel about your significant other watching your videos or live cam feed? I uploaded my first video yesterday. Hubbs got home before I did and watched it, I'm completely fine with him watching anything I put out but I guess I was a little nervous about him watching it.

For the single ladies out there, have you found that it's harder to get into a serious relationship? How/when do you tell them what you do?

My boyfriend literally helps with every aspect of my camming from videography to my very own tech support. It has also spiced up our sex life with him encouraging me to try new things, which I always end up loving!

Maybe your boyfriend could be a good extra motivator if he gets just as exciting about your camming as you are:) It's always nice to have that little extra motivation those days you don't feel like getting on cam or are just discouraged.
 
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SexiLiz

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My boyfriend literally helps with every aspect of my camming from videography to my very own tech support. It has also spiced up our sex life with him encouraging me to try new things, which I always end up loving!

Maybe your boyfriend could be a good extra motivator if he gets just as exciting about your camming as you are:) It's always nice to have that little extra motivation those days you don't feel like getting on cam or are just discouraged.

I agree with gingerSpyce, my hubby is always looking up new things for me to try, getting me new toys he thinks will make my cam show better, making sure my session goes as smooth as possible and i love doing a private and looking over and hes at the foot of the bed with his hard cock hanging out! it really turns me on and makes my show even better!
 

magicktrix

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Mr. Magick isn't incredibly tech savvy so he doesn't do my shoots, but he is the wall I bounce my idea's off of and he is the one who reviews all on my content. I'm constantly asking him to look through my photos and to check out my new updates on my profile.

I mean, he's obviously attracted to me, so it only makes sense to have him review my content and let me know what -really- gets him excited. It works for us.

I personally love it when he watches my shows, I think I perform better when he watches.
 
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My hubs and I love camming. And sometimes do it together . So I enjoy when he stays up late to watch or help me out. The whole reason I started camming is because I love other women and being kinky so once I log off for the night we usually have sex :)
 
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This is really interesting to me--I'm not sure. I would probably get self-conscious if he were watching. He is all for it--I'm the outgoing flirtatious geek, which I think helps, and he's more introverted and quiet. He's so anti-judgemental that he often doesn't even have an opinion one way or the other.

I do know that him knowing I've been sexy and flirtatious with other people turns him on knowing when I'm done he gets to have his way with me.

It's a good thing to ponder.
 

LittleNatalia

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My husband is sooooo supportive of me and camming. He says as long as I enjoy myself he wants me to do it!

I LOVE when he can catch me online. It makes me feel genuinely safe to have him in my room. He's usually at work when I'm on, though, but I love getting a text where he's like, "I'm in the bathroom watching you and your ass looks amazing!"

When I did my first show, he was in the other room watching me. :joyful: He's also going to be my photographer and video help. I just recently found that you can post videos with a man on MFC for sale, and I'm looking forward to making videos my clients would love with my hubby.

During one show I had a man leave the room because I mentioned that my husband was watching. He said it was a total buzzkill. I was a bit upset at first, because I was like HOW? But then I just realized everyone has their something and their other thing. I loved, however, that after said person left my room, I had a number of interested men who enjoyed the fact that he was watching.

I love when people ask me about him when I'm live- things like, "oh does he know?" or "how does your husband feel about you on here?" I am an open book and we love to share our story and our love. Cheesy? Maybe. But very true!
 

Poler_Bare

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My SO will join my chatroom once in awhile and I put my content on a shared drive he can access if he wants to watch. I enjoy when he pops in because he can give me feedback on what was great, what to change etc but it's a bit awkward since my members don't know it's my SO and I don't make that info public so I just kind of disregard his username in the room and talk to him over PM haha. I don't think I could ever do it with him in my physical room though, that would give me way too much stage fright.
 

Vicki

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My partner watched me in public chat once, but didn't seem too into it, it was nice to get a little moral support on a slow night though. I don't think either of us would be comfortable if he watched my private shows.
 

Princess FeeFee

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On my first day I didn't even tell my boyfriend I'm going online because I was terrified of the possibility of him watching me.... Don't get me wrong, he is super supportive and he was the one who suggested I start camming.. but don't know, I would feel so self-conscious and awkward if I knew he was watching... He has been watching my feed many times after that and I don't really mind anymore. Except when it's slow, I don't want him to see me miserable in an empty room haha
 

babeariel

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How do you ladies feel about your significant other watching your videos or live cam feed? I uploaded my first video yesterday. Hubbs got home before I did and watched it, I'm completely fine with him watching anything I put out but I guess I was a little nervous about him watching it.

For the single ladies out there, have you found that it's harder to get into a serious relationship? How/when do you tell them what you do?
My boyfriend actually asks me to send him videos that i've made sometimes so I will :p I don't really mind either but he feels a little bit weird about coming in my room and watching me.. he said that he's done it like once and it's just weird for him :p
 

ClassyCassi

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My boyfriend and i have been together for a long time before i decided to start camming. He always knew i wanted to do something of the sort and he told me stripping is an absolute no from him so i respected that and he respects that i wouldnt want him to come in my room he doesnt go on the sites ever or even know which i am on which is plus but since he wanted just SOMETHING i gave him my twitter acct and he even gives he funny and great ideas from time to time. and since iv started....just saying sex has never been better :)
 
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My boyfriend is pretty supportive of what I do.

When we first met and I told him I was planning on camming he was like "that's awesome, why didn't you tell me about it sooner" and then, as his feelings for me grew, he was not so keen on the idea anymore. He watched a little bit of my first shows to see what it was like and now he's a lot more comfortable with it. We even do some shows together.

Last night though he told me that I'm quite different on cam and it just doesn't do it for him. In real life I'm not as confident or dominant maybe and he likes the sweet side of me a lot better. Which is fine with me because I want my private life to be completely separated from cams!
 
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