So confused as to this guy's tactics...

[Evvie]

So there's a guy who likes financial domination who tweets a bunch of models, right. A few weeks ago he bugged me enough so I figured I'd give him a chance.

Eventually I ignored him because he's just so... annoying.

Today he sent me a tweet ordering me to call him, take his personal information, and blackmail him... "or else".

I am highly confused as to the dichotomy of top/bottom in his fantasies.

 

[mynameisbob84]

Maybe he's not threatening you but rather, he's taking matters into his own hands and essentially blackmailing himself and trying to involve you in any way he can... just so it's not wierd, ya know?

 

[Rose]

I'd just block him. He seems like a freeloading loser from my perspective. :snooty: Besides, what the heck does his "or else" mean? Oooh, big scary tweet from random stranger. Sounds like he's a real threat.

Maybe your sanity is at risk anyways if you don't block him.

 

[mynameisbob84]

Ha. A freeloading financial domination enthusiast

"I'm into financial domination, bb"
"Okay, give me all your money, slave"
"No"
"This isn't how the game is played :?"

 

[lordmagellan]

Sounds like he wants to top from the bottom. A bit of "I want this done to me; here's a checklist."
It can be rather annoying. The wife tries this with rape play sometimes, "Don't do that, I don't like it."
"It's RAPE! You're not supposed to like it."
"Gaahhgh gaghhh ghaghhbllblbl gaahhhh!"

And yes, I no the differences between rape and rape play before anyone starts in.

 

[Shaun__]

I do not see the attraction of this kind of thing, but then I am sure a lot of people would think tipping models for some of the things I have is just as strange.

This may be off topic Evvie, but I am under the impression that you are submissive in your real relationship. Is it hard for you to dominate people in cases like this, or is just as much fun for you?

 

[JickyJuly]

Most dudes who claim they're into it are trying to get the fantasy part for free it seems. What can I buy you? What will you use against me? Blah blah blah. I usually tell them to prove it or shove off and off they go. But, I'm not a very good Dom. I just look brutal until my voice comes out. :lol:

 

[mynameisbob84]

Most dudes who claim they're into it are trying to get the fantasy part for free it seems. What can I buy you? What will you use against me? Blah blah blah. I usually tell them to prove it or shove off and off they go. But, I'm not a very good Dom. I just look brutal until my voice comes out. :lol:

I seem to remember you having a very cute voice You don't SOUND like a Dom but as long as your words are all mean and domineering, I'm sure you'd be fine :-D

 

[Neudiin]

Sounds like he wants to top from the bottom. A bit of "I want this done to me; here's a checklist."
It can be rather annoying. The wife tries this with rape play sometimes, "Don't do that, I don't like it."
"It's RAPE! You're not supposed to like it."
"Gaahhgh gaghhh ghaghhbllblbl gaahhhh!"

And yes, I no the differences between rape and rape play before anyone starts in.

umm my only thought was why the fuck is she being allowed to talk? Bare min her panties should be in her mouth...I mean rape play is fun but not if she's going to talk lol

to the OP - I can haz cornfusion as to WTF he wants?

 

[Evvie]

I do not see the attraction of this kind of thing, but then I am sure a lot of people would think tipping models for some of the things I have is just as strange.

This may be off topic Evvie, but I am under the impression that you are submissive in your real relationship. Is it hard for you to dominate people in cases like this, or is just as much fun for you?

Shaun, I am indeed a subby lady.

I understand a lot of the concepts around topping and I can do it decently. I enjoy topping some of my friends in real life, but only short scenes. Some of my lady friends really enjoy just being controlled and I'm very capable of doing that. The only time I enjoy topping is in real life, and then the only pleasure I get out of it is watching the bottom's reactions and helping them achieve the desired state. Domination online does absolutely nothing for me. I don't particularly feel one way or another about it.

 

[Rose]

Sounds like he wants to top from the bottom. A bit of "I want this done to me; here's a checklist."
It can be rather annoying. The wife tries this with rape play sometimes, "Don't do that, I don't like it."
"It's RAPE! You're not supposed to like it."
"Gaahhgh gaghhh ghaghhbllblbl gaahhhh!"

And yes, I no the differences between rape and rape play before anyone starts in.

umm my only thought was why the fuck is she being allowed to talk? Bare min her panties should be in her mouth...I mean rape play is fun but not if she's going to talk lol

I was wondering the same thing. Lol.

Talking out of turn in my house gets me spanked, tied down and usually my panties shoved in my mouth and talking privileges revoked for a whole day. I'm not a fast learner though.

 

[lordmagellan]

Sounds like he wants to top from the bottom. A bit of "I want this done to me; here's a checklist."
It can be rather annoying. The wife tries this with rape play sometimes, "Don't do that, I don't like it."
"It's RAPE! You're not supposed to like it."
"Gaahhgh gaghhh ghaghhbllblbl gaahhhh!"

And yes, I no the differences between rape and rape play before anyone starts in.

umm my only thought was why the fuck is she being allowed to talk? Bare min her panties should be in her mouth...I mean rape play is fun but not if she's going to talk lol

to the OP - I can haz cornfusion as to WTF he wants?

Meh, for some reason panties stuffed in her mouth just never appealed to me.
And I kinda like to hear the protests. I think it's adorable when she thinks she has a choice.

 

[Rose]

Sounds like he wants to top from the bottom. A bit of "I want this done to me; here's a checklist."
It can be rather annoying. The wife tries this with rape play sometimes, "Don't do that, I don't like it."
"It's RAPE! You're not supposed to like it."
"Gaahhgh gaghhh ghaghhbllblbl gaahhhh!"

And yes, I no the differences between rape and rape play before anyone starts in.

umm my only thought was why the fuck is she being allowed to talk? Bare min her panties should be in her mouth...I mean rape play is fun but not if she's going to talk lol

to the OP - I can haz cornfusion as to WTF he wants?

Meh, for some reason panties stuffed in her mouth just never appealed to me.
And I kinda like to hear the protests. I think it's adorable when she thinks she has a choice.

That does sound cute. :lol:

Wait, why am I talking? I do the same thing your wife does!

 

[Evvie]

pealed to me.
And I kinda like to hear the protests. I think it's adorable when she thinks she has a choice.

Whenever I get me some forced sex I always feel so angry and frustrated and kind of violated (even if I orgasmed all over him). After he always makes me lay my head on his lap and say thank you. It tops the list of hardest things I have to do. I'm good for days afterwords.

 

[mynameisbob84]

If this thread has taught me anything it's that I couldn't be a master/male dom. Even if I know it's really what she wants deep down and even if we both know it's part of a larger fantasy/lifestyle, I'm just not wired to be able to "force" a girl into something she's saying/intimating she doesn't want. I'm a pussy

 

[Evvie]

If this thread has taught me anything it's that I couldn't be a master/male dom. Even if I know it's really what she wants deep down and even if we both know it's part of a larger fantasy/lifestyle, I'm just not wired to be able to "force" a girl into something she's saying/intimating she doesn't want. I'm a pussy

It has nothing to do with being a pussy, just personal preference. You'd be surprised at the number of men who label themselves as dominant - when they want to be submissive - just because they think it's expected of them.

 

[mynameisbob84]

If this thread has taught me anything it's that I couldn't be a master/male dom. Even if I know it's really what she wants deep down and even if we both know it's part of a larger fantasy/lifestyle, I'm just not wired to be able to "force" a girl into something she's saying/intimating she doesn't want. I'm a pussy

It has nothing to do with being a pussy, just personal preference. You'd be surprised at the number of men who label themselves as dominant - when they want to be submissive - just because they think it's expected of them.

I'm just being flippant - but yeah, I'd say I'm more submissive than I am dominant. I can also totally buy that a lot of guys would want to present themselves as being dominant simply because it's what's expected.

 

[lordmagellan]

If this thread has taught me anything it's that I couldn't be a master/male dom. Even if I know it's really what she wants deep down and even if we both know it's part of a larger fantasy/lifestyle, I'm just not wired to be able to "force" a girl into something she's saying/intimating she doesn't want. I'm a pussy

It's actually taken me a while to get there, mostly because of how men are raised against violating women. It goes against what we're taught is acceptable behavior and what we know to be respectful of women. But over time I've come to realize that truly respecting her is understanding that she has the strength to tap out if she needs to and respecting myself enough to know I'm not going to damage her.
Honestly, it's been a good learning experience.