Talking about a threesome

[GingerOwnsChris]

Ladies (and gentlemen, why not?), have you ever been talked into 3-way sex by your partner or by another couple, or have you talked other people into it? How did the conversation go? My interest, of course, is purely academic :whistle:

 

[Evvie]

One day I went over to my Master's house and there was a naked woman sitting on his couch. That was how I had my first threesome.

The rest all pretty much happened the same way.

I'm going to slightly argue over syntax. When you say "talked in to", I assume you mean "educated" and not, "come on, babe, just let me fuck this one chick, you know I love you."

 

[Bocefish]

The conversation usually starts by one person asking another "How do you feel about threesomes?" It's not exactly rocket science. :mrgreen:

 

[AnaVictoriaXO]

When I first brought it up to my current man, he wasnt that interested. All I had to do was bring a friend over, start kissing her and rubbing her goodies and he was convinced

 

[Rose]

I actually just posted a video of my threesome on clips4sale. :lol: It was hilariously awful! My only suggestion for those considering a threesome is that it may be better to go on a couple trial dates first.

 

[GingerOwnsChris]

When I first brought it up to my current man, he wasnt that interested. All I had to do was bring a friend over, start kissing her and rubbing her goodies and he was convinced

But of course he acted uninterested! You could be serious, but you could also be probing his fidelity. I don't think you have to convince a man to have sex with two ladies; he only needs to be convinced that he does not have to live in the dog house after that :-D So how did you talk your female friend into this?

 

[Evvie]

When I first brought it up to my current man, he wasnt that interested. All I had to do was bring a friend over, start kissing her and rubbing her goodies and he was convinced

But of course he acted uninterested! You could be serious, but you could also be probing his fidelity. I don't think you have to convince a man to have sex with two ladies; he only needs to be convinced that he does not have to live in the dog house after that :-D So how did you talk your female friend into this?

Two drinks and a movie at home.

(Beforehand, though, make a joke about how you're going to have sex with her. Like before she comes over. Be all, "awww yeah Imma be eating popcorn off that ass tonight!". This works best if you are a woman.)

The #1 reason why I've seen 3somes fail in the relationships around me is because the third woman is afraid that she's going to screw up the original relationship (as she is probably friends with both of them). They work for me because women pass through my relationship all the time, and I really like to see Mr. Evvie have sex with other women. Like... I just really, really do.

 

[AnaVictoriaXO]

When I first brought it up to my current man, he wasnt that interested. All I had to do was bring a friend over, start kissing her and rubbing her goodies and he was convinced

But of course he acted uninterested! You could be serious, but you could also be probing his fidelity. I don't think you have to convince a man to have sex with two ladies; he only needs to be convinced that he does not have to live in the dog house after that :-D So how did you talk your female friend into this?

With all due respect, this time you are quite wrong, my dear Not every man is interested in threesomes just as not every man is interested in strip clubs. Since the beginning my man and I have frequented strip clubs, cam sites, we check out women together and even have contests as to who can get a woman's number faster :lol: He has had very few partners and is kind of bland when it comes to kinks lol. Its taken me months just to get this man to spank my ass and be rough. His best friend (a female, and fine one at that lol) has tried to get him into a threesome for years before I ever met him and he was single. Also, he knows that I have had quite a few threesomes with exes and am kind of lacking in the jealousy department. But I do agree, most men definitely act uninterested for fear of getting in trouble. Just not the case with mine

As for how I got my little lady friend to accept, she is a fellow stripper and has had her eyes on him for quite some time lol. But she s also a woman I fool around with pretty often as well so it worked out

 

[AnaVictoriaXO]

When I first brought it up to my current man, he wasnt that interested. All I had to do was bring a friend over, start kissing her and rubbing her goodies and he was convinced

But of course he acted uninterested! You could be serious, but you could also be probing his fidelity. I don't think you have to convince a man to have sex with two ladies; he only needs to be convinced that he does not have to live in the dog house after that :-D So how did you talk your female friend into this?

Two drinks and a movie at home.

(Beforehand, though, make a joke about how you're going to have sex with her. Like before she comes over. Be all, "awww yeah Imma be eating popcorn off that ass tonight!". This works best if you are a woman.)

The #1 reason why I've seen 3somes fail in the relationships around me is because the third woman is afraid that she's going to screw up the original relationship (as she is probably friends with both of them). They work for me because women pass through my relationship all the time, and I really like to see Mr. Evvie have sex with other women. Like... I just really, really do.

Sorry for the double post!

I just had to add, evvie, totally agree. For me its about seeing my man pleasure a woman and drive her crazy. It makes me proud and oh so horny at the same time

 

[GingerOwnsChris]

With all due respect, this time you are quite wrong, my dear Not every man is interested in threesomes just as not every man is interested in strip clubs. Since the beginning my man and I have frequented strip clubs, cam sites, we check out women together and even have contests as to who can get a woman's number faster :lol: He has had very few partners and is kind of bland when it comes to kinks lol. Its taken me months just to get this man to spank my ass and be rough. His best friend (a female, and fine one at that lol) has tried to get him into a threesome for years before I ever met him and he was single. Also, he knows that I have had quite a few threesomes with exes and am kind of lacking in the jealousy department. But I do agree, most men definitely act uninterested for fear of getting in trouble. Just not the case with mine

As for how I got my little lady friend to accept, she is a fellow stripper and has had her eyes on him for quite some time lol. But she s also a woman I fool around with pretty often as well so it worked out

I stand corrected, perplexed, and happy that I did not promise to eat my hat on that one.

 

[MystiRose]

I would love to have a good 3some, but all my attempts have ended in failure so I'm kinda scared to try again.
My first attempt: I got drunk with my BF's female friend, we started making out and fooling around- he watched but refused to join in. A month later he dumped me for her. :icon-cry:
Different BF- we discussed the idea. I like it "in theory" because I would love to watch my man with another woman. But he took this as a go ahead to start flirting with ex-girlfriends and every hot girl who walked into his bar. Then I caught him making secret plans to meet up with someone under the guise that he was"screening" her before he introduced her to me.
Now I'm too insecure about the whole idea to try it in my relationship, but I don't think I would have a problem (now that I'm single) joining another couple if they offered.

 

[LindseyDoll]

I arranged my first threesome as a birthday present for my Master.
He liked it so much that we've had a few more.
It can be very hard to find another girl who wants to play with us though.

 

[LacieLaPlante]

I am a jealous person. I wish I wasn't, I wish I were a bigger person and could let go of it - but I don't think I could watch my man have sex with another woman. I might be able to have a threesome with two guys, but that would be selfish of me and would never happen.

It would have to be a perfect situation for a M/F/F where I was absolutely secure about the female - I've been cheated on a few too many times to trust my man with any old girl in bed. I'd need to be extremely attracted to her myself and her attracted to me so that it would be more enjoyable, and in turn I would be less jealous.

I feel like a threesome would most likely happen in a situation where I was attracted to a woman, wanted to have sex with her and invited my man in on that.. If I was asked by my man to have a threesome with some girl that he were to suggest I'd probably be suspicious.

That's just me. I know my opinion isn't the most favored, but it's another perspective.

 

[LovinLeanne]

With my husband and I it was an evolution ..... I came home from the coffee shop one day and said to him "wow the new coffee girl has these eyes that just wont let you go" He looks at me and goes.."OMG do you have a girl crush"? ME: NO!!!!!!! WELLLLL I started buying coffee 20X more than ever and then he goes " you want her!! WOW my wife wants a woman hahah awesome" He then started making me talk about it I mean I had made out with women n stuff before but I REALLY wanted her!

So apparently he got her number and started texting her (i didnt know) asking her if she liked women ect.....I get home from work one night and he tells me to go shave ..IM like...why??? He says shes coming over! ...I didn't believe him BUT shaved anyhow...I'LL be damned and there was a knock on the door!

We drank had fun then she says.."sooo ur husband says you want me...is that true?" ( funny thing she was 18 I was 24) I was like....um kinda yesss....and she was on me and before I knew it we were in the bedroom!!

SOOO she stayed over ALOT and finally one night we were all having fun and I am like..can he fuck you ...I kinda wanna watch? Shes like sure!!! ...AND honestly I can tell you I ENJOYED WATCHING!! We went on like this for 6-7 months and then one day as we were cuddling she mentioned being in to this guy and I told her if she really liked him and he didn't think girl girl ect was ok that she should prolly stop coming over and focus on him....She said naw he will be fine...BUT me being responsible slowly pushed her away SIGH I still miss her ...meh thinks I loved her too.

Since then we have swung and other things but never the full deal ....I kinda want that again