Things Everybody (But You) Find Sexy

[Ann_Sulu]

Must admit I'm feeling rather anxious after reading all these turn-offs. My attraction to a woman is heightened greatly by what she's wearing. When she reveals those sexy stockings or delicate panties, I'm hooked! But now I know the truth. My lingerie obsession is probably just another creepy turn-off to my model friends. What if the models view this the same as ATM or feet?! Ouch!

However, what turns me on most is seeing a woman truly enjoy herself. So question... How do I get her to show/tell me what really turns her on?

No worries, as many are attracted to what you've described. This thread is however, supposed to be the point of view of individuals who don't find something sexy, when they feel everyone else find whatever the thing is sexy.

You may feel this thread a bit less negative sounding as it's one where everyone is just stating they have, asking about and explaining them.

As for your last question...communication is key. Generally speaking, if you talk with the other person openly they'll reciprocate even if they are shy at first.

 

[EmelieSky]

Many of my turn offs are mentioned, and many of the "I can do it, but it doesn't do anything for me" is also mentioned but one thing I haven't seen from my perspective.
The bj on dildos, am I the only one that can't stand the taste of rubber? It's awful and sticks to my throat and it doesn't go away no matter what I do. And it's not only on new ones. And whenever I se a dildo bj that taste memory kicks in.
Euck.

 

[AerynShade]

Many of my turn offs are mentioned, and many of the "I can do it, but it doesn't do anything for me" is also mentioned but one thing I haven't seen from my perspective.
The bj on dildos, am I the only one that can't stand the taste of rubber? It's awful and sticks to my throat and it doesn't go away no matter what I do. And it's not only on new ones. And whenever I se a dildo bj that taste memory kicks in.
Euck.

1, buy dildos that are made of body safe materials that don't have strong odor or taste.
2, coconut oil 'lube' (or for a private bj show I did once...coffee creamer)
I know what you mean though, it's a horrible taste.

 

[Autumn]

What are the things that the world and their mum seem to find sexy, but that you, just... don't?

I cannot seem to get interested in squirting. Like, in the least.
Most days on cam, a passerby will enter my room and ask me if I squirt. In my opinion, squirting is urinating. And ain't NOBODY got time to clean that sh!t off my bed, my computer screen and floors.
::shivers::

 

[mynameisbob84]

I cannot seem to get interested in squirting. Like, in the least.
Most days on cam, a passerby will enter my room and ask me if I squirt. In my opinion, squirting is urinating. And ain't NOBODY got time to clean that sh!t off my bed, my computer screen and floors.
::shivers::

I reckon if you looked hard enough on Craigslist, you could probably find someone, yo

 

[Sereph_Doll]

I hate ball gags. Mostly because I hate saliva and seeing someone drool all over the place makes me want to puke.

 

[AmethystLynnn]

I cannot seem to get interested in squirting. Like, in the least.
Most days on cam, a passerby will enter my room and ask me if I squirt. In my opinion, squirting is urinating. And ain't NOBODY got time to clean that sh!t off my bed, my computer screen and floors.
::shivers::

oh my goodness same! I cannot be bothered to clean that up, regardless of the tip offer.

 

[Entertainer33]

I cannot seem to get interested in squirting. Like, in the least.
Most days on cam, a passerby will enter my room and ask me if I squirt. In my opinion, squirting is urinating. And ain't NOBODY got time to clean that sh!t off my bed, my computer screen and floors.
::shivers::

I'm apathetic to squirting. I'm all "whatever," though I have been impressed by the abilities of some models.

 

[PuppyCat]

For whatever reason I absolutely hate "cowgirl" style anything (whether it's actual sex or using a dildo), and feet. Everyone seems to go crazy over feet but I just hate the sight of them.

 

[Entertainer33]

For whatever reason I absolutely hate "cowgirl" style anything (whether it's actual sex or using a dildo), and feet. Everyone seems to go crazy over feet but I just hate the sight of them.

I love getting cowgirl done, but then I spend half the time groping breasts trying to make it feel good... and then making it worse. So, I get it.

 

[PuppyCat]

And when BJs are loud. (Go to 2:40 in this video for an example)

Omg that was beautiful I clicked it thinking "it can't be that bad" but she definitely proved me wrong. And that ending. Just...beautiful. Thank you so much for sharing this

 

[shylurkerdude]

Don't much care for deepthroating or gagging on dildo. Seems pretty popular on MFC and CB.

 

[SweetAlice3]

Guys that are so muscular they have no neck.




And I REALLY don't understand this new fascination with beards. Seriously, 5 years ago, you rarely heard anyone talk about them; now, it's everywhere.

I find beards really grosss!!! ew ew ew -I don't know what are they thinking! Keep your beard, but stay away frome me!!!

 

[Rosia]

Food sex and spanking

and I love dirty talk, but if you're not doing it correctly I'm going to assume you watch too much porn, and that is NOT attractive

 

[Mira_xo]

I hate ball gags. Mostly because I hate saliva and seeing someone drool all over the place makes me want to puke.

I just hate wearing them.. I put them on when my members want to torture me, but I think anyone looks so gross with their mouth wide open, and I drool literally all over my clothes/myself and feel generally disgusting. I don't get it, dry spit smells so gross... gagging just thinking about it.

 

[DonaDiabla]

Things that I do not like but tons of people enjoy:

Spiting on breasts
Beards or body hair on men- I know that I might be in the minority here but I want a man to be as smooth as me.
Analplay- I am not a fan of anal.
Hair Pulling- I am not a fan of hair pulling
Diapers
Period play
Scat
Pissing

 

[GamingAngel]

Dirty talk.

Oh yeah... LIke it's definitely hot hearing a sexy voice and I suppose sometimes at the very right moment sexy words can really add to the moment... but I just cant stay in the mood when either party in a sexual situation is sitting there like "oh yeah f**ck me yeah oooo baby yeah"...
When it's requested either during a show or in real life that I talk dirty, I usually end up rolling my eyes lol Im all about the moaning and cussing... now you want me to say "you feel so good inside of me please deeper"...
All of this I find to be weird!


[hopefully I didnt go to far in this post with my examples >.<]

 

[FluffyGalore]

Omg that was beautiful I clicked it thinking "it can't be that bad" but she definitely proved me wrong. And that ending. Just...beautiful. Thank you so much for sharing this

LMFAO if I had known I could be sucking dick AND losing weight, well fuck I would have been doing that a hell of a lot. Mmmm every man should be grapefruited hehe.

 

[Miss_Pixie]

Cut peepees

 

[LilliWilliams]

Things I'm not into at all:
-cake farts: I didn't even know what they were at first, and then a group of friends started talking about them... not my thing.
-spit, and anything that causes lots of it (gags etc)

Things I'm kind of "meh" about:
-feet/foot fetishes: maybe it's just because I find mine unappealing, but I just don't get the allure of it. Maybe in nice heels, but even still...
-anal penetration- doesn't do anything for me, I guess were I find it so painful personally.

 

[Lexi Emerson]

Tit-fucking. Every single time I am online I get at least one person who requests it because my boobs are so big and I always say no. It's just so awkward to me and does nothing for me. Every guy who has tried it on me never seems to get much enjoyment out of it either. I have three perfectly good holes and two hands, put that thing anywhere else!

 

[ThePrincessLuxy]

Corsets are on my list. I don't really find them flattering. It really just looks too painful to be attractive.

 

[AlanaTaylor]

A recent thing for me, but completely shaven lady regions. Something about just a bit of hair there....

 

[DeepTrout]

I'm not going to list them all I have a few, but ball gags, I seem to hate without any real reason, they just bother me quite a lot.

 

[facialover]

So, for a fresh take on the "What do many people seem to find appealing/sexy but you don't" that stretches the definition a little, I will say: privates. Not genitals, but private shows. Some of the sites discussed here are totally built around them, so clearly they're quite popular, and of course this is not a post about why I think people shouldn't like them. I just greatly preferred tipped public nudes, because it feels a lot more fun to have a lively vibrant room with regulars to hang out and joke with in addition to the model herself, all while enjoying nuking countdowns etc. In private, it seems like unless I've spent enough time becoming their regular first, it can be daunting to feel like I need to be half the conversation and I'm not sure how to keep up my end. Or just giving a couple indications of what kind of private show I want and then watching silently feels weirdly impersonal, borderline straight up using the other person to get off for a few bucks. Rubs me weird, I guess, even if something of that nature is present more discretely veiled in other types of shows whenever one chooses to build a Quagmire arm when watching a cam.

 

[Protocosmo]

Or just giving a couple indications of what kind of private show I want and then watching silently feels weirdly impersonal, borderline straight up using the other person to get off for a few bucks. Rubs me weird, I guess, even if something of that nature is present more discretely veiled in other types of shows whenever one chooses to build a Quagmire arm when watching a cam.

Not to try to convince you otherwise or say you're wrong but ideally, you're using each other to get off. Well, in the best privates, anyway.

 

[stratcat96]

kissing with sperm in mouth

 

[NoelleBright]

Oh yeah... LIke it's definitely hot hearing a sexy voice and I suppose sometimes at the very right moment sexy words can really add to the moment... but I just cant stay in the mood when either party in a sexual situation is sitting there like "oh yeah f**ck me yeah oooo baby yeah"...
When it's requested either during a show or in real life that I talk dirty, I usually end up rolling my eyes lol Im all about the moaning and cussing... now you want me to say "you feel so good inside of me please deeper"...
All of this I find to be weird!


[hopefully I didnt go to far in this post with my examples >.<]

I think dirty talk can be great if it happens naturally in a show/irl, BUT the most awkward and boring thing ever is being told "talk dirty" because that always ends up being a one sided dialogue. It's easily one of my top 3 annoyances with camming/texting.
Any time someone tells me to talk dirty I have to launch into the most generic/rehearsed bullshit lines and all they reply back with is "mmmmm" or "ok" so it ends up feeling like the porn version of a Campbells Soup commercial.
I LOVE dirty talk when there's back and forth and the person is talking dirty WITH me and not just wanting me to talk dirty at them.

It's the same with roleplays. They can get super awkward when all the dialogue falls on one persons shoulders. A while back someone wanted me to roleplay that I was their neighbor and wanted to fuck them badly, but I needed to convince them first. It was like 8 minutes of me talking at this person, radio silence on their end, and then all they said was "ok you have convinced me to fuck you". It took all of my willpower to not crack up laughing.

 

[KristinKervz]

Bushy beards. I like a goatee or chin strap, anything shorter. But I don't like a big beard and that seems to be the thing to have right now.

Guys who try to script everything I say while I'm performing really annoy me. And if I dare stop talking to moan or take a breath, he's bitching about it. "Talk to me, tell me to jerk my dirty little dick harder and call me a mother fucker. Yes bb, call me a dirty pervy mother fucking fucker fuck face fuck. Keep talking. Yeah, tell me to fuckin slap it. Bb, talk to me bb. Fuck your pussy really hard and fast with two dildos, put a finger in your ass and a carrot in your mouth and talk to me while you squirt in 20 seconds. BB."

 

[n_i_c_u]

I would say spanks that bruise and create welts. I am so vanilla it is stupid, so, when I see that happening I get a lot weirded out. I know everyone loves 50 shades of grey but I don't get it at all.