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Annoying thing Stripchat members do (And it's been happening a lot today, especially).....


Sending me friend requests yet they won't say a word to me in the chat (Not even a hi) or tip me. So why would I accept your friend request? So you can bother me via PM all night while I'm trying to work? I don't think so. I've declined so many friend requests today.
 
Annoying thing Stripchat members do (And it's been happening a lot today, especially).....


Sending me friend requests yet they won't say a word to me in the chat (Not even a hi) or tip me. So why would I accept your friend request? So you can bother me via PM all night while I'm trying to work? I don't think so. I've declined so many friend requests today.
I decline every one unless they've tipped more than 25tk.


To not double post, other thing I hate on stripchat (or Chaturbate) is when "models" aka dude hobby wankers PM me expecting me to be more receptive to their freeloading ways because they're also a "model". Dude, fuck off. I have several actual male model friends who actually respect the rules of the room and tip for things if they want something. That's professional. They're awesome and I visit their rooms sometimes.


Case in point tonight. This is Anthony. Anthony doesn't think he has to tip the posted 25tk for PM. Anthony thinks I want to get to know him but the only thing he's done is ignore my room rules and thinks he's special. Don't be like Anthony. Also, if you have your fucking dick as a profile pic, there is a 95% chance you are a dick in general.
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I decline every one unless they've tipped more than 25tk.


To not double post, other thing I hate on stripchat (or Chaturbate) is when "models" aka dude hobby wankers PM me expecting me to be more receptive to their freeloading ways because they're also a "model". Dude, fuck off. I have several actual male model friends who actually respect the rules of the room and tip for things if they want something. That's professional. They're awesome and I visit their rooms sometimes.


Case in point tonight. This is Anthony. Anthony doesn't think he has to tip the posted 25tk for PM. Anthony thinks I want to get to know him but the only thing he's done is ignore my room rules and thinks he's special. Don't be like Anthony. Also, if you have your fucking dick as a profile pic, there is a 95% chance you are a dick in general.
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They really need to get rid of that bullshit where ultimate members (or "premium members" or whatever the hell it's called) get to PM any model they want. I'm tired of it, and I have a feeling some of these members are actually good spenders in other models' rooms. Maybe they just save their tokens for their favorite model or something, and then when they get to my room I'm treated differently. Won't tip me a damn thing, and they're awfully quick to send friend requests, thinking they're gonna get free one-on-one attention from me. I could even be close to completing room goal #1, and they won't even tip to contribute towards it.
 
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I decline every one unless they've tipped more than 25tk.


To not double post, other thing I hate on stripchat (or Chaturbate) is when "models" aka dude hobby wankers PM me expecting me to be more receptive to their freeloading ways because they're also a "model". Dude, fuck off. I have several actual male model friends who actually respect the rules of the room and tip for things if they want something. That's professional. They're awesome and I visit their rooms sometimes.


Case in point tonight. This is Anthony. Anthony doesn't think he has to tip the posted 25tk for PM. Anthony thinks I want to get to know him but the only thing he's done is ignore my room rules and thinks he's special. Don't be like Anthony. Also, if you have your fucking dick as a profile pic, there is a 95% chance you are a dick in general.
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My avatar is a drunk Pink Panther on a bench surrounded by alcohol bottles. Only 1 model has commented on it and knew who it was. I was an idiot and didn't realise what she was in about at first.. but the point is I'm not sure why guys put dick pics as the avatar.
 
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They really need to get rid of that bullshit where ultimate members (or "premium members" or whatever the hell it's called) get to PM any model they want. I'm tired of it, and I have a feeling some of these members are actually good spenders in other models' rooms. Maybe they just save their tokens for their favorite model or something, and then when they get to my room I'm treated differently. Won't tip me a damn thing, and they're awfully quick to send friend requests, thinking they're gonna get free one-on-one attention from me. I could even be close to completing room goal #1, and they won't even tip to contribute towards it.
I wish I could super -like this :D This is so true. I usually ignore the PMs from ultimate members, but sometimes they write in public chat why I don’t answer them, because they have „paid“. I have to constantly remind them, that I don’t get anything for their ultimate membership and that they still have to tip to get a response. I hate it so much when my room is completely quiet but you get this constant “Hello” “Hi” messages from them. And yeah they totally tip other models, they are usually high in rank and I can see that they have a great fortune of tokens on their account.

We only serve to pass the time until their favorite model is online. I even had one today who told me openly that ge waits for his “princess” model XY (favorite model) to come online, I’m hot too but she’s his one and only , lol I couldn’t care less dude….but i totally wanna hear that I’m just your circus monkey until your “princess” arrives , that’s what all woman want to hear from a man🙄i didn’t ban him because he tipped a few token,but next time I will told him that he goes in his princess’ castle tower and waits there for her to wake up or I ban him if he continues with his annoying “princess talk”.

We need the option to allow PMs only for users who tipped us and/or in the Fanclub.

And yeah this wannabe models are fucking annoying too. I had some ““model““ ask me to get my Snapchat for free because he’s a model too :DDD told him that the tip menu also applies to models.
 
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I wish I could super -like this :D This is so true. I usually ignore the PMs from ultimate members, but sometimes they write in public chat why I don’t answer them, because they have „paid“. I have to constantly remind them, that I don’t get anything for their ultimate membership and that they still have to tip to get a response. I hate it so much when my room is completely quiet but you get this constant “Hello” “Hi” messages from them. And yeah they totally tip other models, they are usually high in rank and I can see that they have a great fortune of tokens on their account.

We only serve to pass the time until their favorite model is online. I even had one today who told me openly that ge waits for his “princess” model XY (favorite model) to come online, I’m hot too but she’s his one and only , lol I couldn’t care less dude….but i totally wanna hear that I’m just your circus monkey until your “princess” arrives , that’s what all woman want to hear from a man🙄i didn’t ban him because he tipped a few token,but next time I will told him that he goes in his princess’ castle tower and waits there for her to wake up or I ban him if he continues with his annoying “princess talk”.

We need the option to allow PMs only for users who tipped us and/or in the Fanclub.

And yeah this wannabe models are fucking annoying too. I had some ““model““ ask me to get my Snapchat for free because he’s a model too :DDD told him that the tip menu also applies to models.


Can models block a user from sending them PM, but still allow them to chat and tip in public?
I know that us users can ban a model from PMing us and then we can still access your room as normal but I am unsure if that also bans you from our room (viewing our profile).
 
Oh sure...... yes, must be nice to see your follower count growing;
but since when did that become a bargaining chip for users who have no intention of tipping?????
especially when the action is already on the tip menu
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Can models block a user from sending them PM, but still allow them to chat and tip in public?
I'm pretty sure no. If a model bans a member, the member can't even visit the room. Or technincally, I was (mistakenly, it turned out) banned from a room a couple of years ago and couldn't see neither the model's room nor the profile until I logged out. While logged in I only saw the "you have been banned" (paraphrased) message on a white background when trying to visit. It was a bit like when you try to visit the profile/room of a deleted model. Could be different now for all I know.

I know that us users can ban a model from PMing us and then we can still access your room as normal but I am unsure if that also bans you from our room (viewing our profile).
That's a good question, but I guess it's a corner case anyway. Models who read user profiles are few and far between, in my experience.
A long time ago I experimentally wrote "Tag me and mention the secret number xxxx in the public chat, and I will tip you 50 tokens" in my profile. Over a couple of weeks I had exactly one taker, and I removed it. Haha.
 
OK I am in a room right now trying to flirt with a really great model. This other member is not saying, but doing something that is making me say WTF?!

He is dropping 1 token tips....like about 200 so far. WTF dude! You are ruining that chatroom and making us other guys wait for 10 minutes for our 15-50 tips to even fire off. Then here come your ones again!

So annoying. Must be close to 300 now. Ugh! Enough to let me come here and post before I even see my tips fire. hahaha

ETA: Still the 1-tokens keep coming. Probably about 700 or 800 by now. This can't be pleasurable could it? Poor girl is putting on a good act, but already told me that the 1's don;t do much for her. He'll probably demand her Instagram or Lovense control now.
Some guy did this to me a while back with 2000 single token tips. Not only I had to keep up the act for an hour and a half, but it broke my damn Lush and I had to buy a whole new one AND go 2 weeks without one before the replacement arrived! Learnt to always have the minimum above 1 token from now on...
 
This was from a purple user on CB.
Had lurked for a long time, tipped 2 tokens, and then expected the model to open his camera.
Nice to see her response, and that his self-proclaimed appeal made no difference.
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Maybe this guy thought there was a poetry competition in progress?
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Just had this happen today. Somebody came into my cam room, was silent for about a minute and then said "since you weren't sensible enough to die during the AIDS epidemic, you should just die of COVID instead. Pathetic that you're doing this at your age." I try not to laugh when a hater/s comes into my cam room. I always joke at 1st, even though I'll never do it, I always say do you like doing humiliation shows? I took a beginning acting class and can fake crying (true). No more hidden sponges in my hands to create tears, lol. Regarding this hater/issue, I just said, sarcastically, oh look we have a hater in the room, and was just about to hit the ban button, but the hater logged off. I put what the hater said in my SM notes, and reported the hater to support. Makes me wonder if this hater actually gets off by saying these words, or if saying these words just puts a smile on his/her/transgender face. This hater is most likely doing this to other models. If it's just me dealing with this hater/d-bag, glad it's me, so nobody else has to.
 
Just had this happen today. Somebody came into my cam room, was silent for about a minute and then said "since you weren't sensible enough to die during the AIDS epidemic, you should just die of COVID instead. Pathetic that you're doing this at your age." I try not to laugh when a hater/s comes into my cam room. I always joke at 1st, even though I'll never do it, I always say do you like doing humiliation shows? I took a beginning acting class and can fake crying (true). No more hidden sponges in my hands to create tears, lol. Regarding this hater/issue, I just said, sarcastically, oh look we have a hater in the room, and was just about to hit the ban button, but the hater logged off. I put what the hater said in my SM notes, and reported the hater to support. Makes me wonder if this hater actually gets off by saying these words, or if saying these words just puts a smile on his/her/transgender face. This hater is most likely doing this to other models. If it's just me dealing with this hater/d-bag, glad it's me, so nobody else has to.

What an awful, hateful person. Sorry you dealt with a scumbag like that. I hope Streamate bans them.

Telling a cam model that you hope they get raped...or you hope they die...or telling them "Go kill yourself"...THAT is the kind of shit that people should be getting banned for.
 
What an awful, hateful person. Sorry you dealt with a scumbag like that. I hope Streamate bans them.

Telling a cam model that you hope they get raped...or you hope they die...or telling them "Go kill yourself"...THAT is the kind of shit that people should be getting banned for.
Funny enough some cunt wrote into a girls I mods for chat saying he wanted to rape her and so on. Thankfully another mod silence him before she saw it. Reported that fucker!
 
Funny enough some cunt wrote into a girls I mods for chat saying he wanted to rape her and so on. Thankfully another mod silence him before she saw it. Reported that fucker!
Had a very similar experience a couple of weeks ago - newcomer to the room just launched into a tirade of hate towards the model and myself (as moderator).
I reported it immediately, then silenced them. Within the hour, that user's account had been banned.
Of course, I'm not naive, so no doubt they just created a new account.
But that was at least a good example of CB acting swiftly to deal with a genuine problem.
 
What an awful, hateful person. Sorry you dealt with a scumbag like that. I hope Streamate bans them.

Telling a cam model that you hope they get raped...or you hope they die...or telling them "Go kill yourself"...THAT is the kind of shit that people should be getting banned for.
Hope all is well. Agree with you yummybrownfox. What's so sad is how some models let these comments from people like this d-bag get to them. I tell models, never/don't take any disrespectful comments personally. It's one of the cons of being a webcam model. Haters will hate. I'm not saying it's right. It is what it is. If any model, new or experienced, unfortunately has to deal with this issue/BS, do what I do: ban people from your cam room and report these d-bags to support. When this happens to me, I just roll my eyes, sigh, and say to myself "one mo' again." SMH.
 
Not even sure if this is some kind of joke between them but it doesn't feel like it is, I can't say for sure though
Yeah, who knows, but on several occasions I've seen users show up in a room in extra super special butthurt mode with cheese over something or other. Probably a broken promise in play here, or an maybe a poorly communicated expectation 🤷‍♂️
 

Watched this movie last night, and the only words still going through my mind are well, WTF. As webcam models, we have the freedom to do sex work we want to do. We can set our own schedules, we can say no, and we can ban haters from our cam room. We still have to play by the rules, but we have the freedom to work however and whenever we want.


The unfortunate women in this documentary don't/didn't. They were forced against their will to do sex work. I just wanted to give every unfortunate victim in this documentary a hug and/or a shoulder to cry on. Imagine if your pregnant wife went to a different country with a person you thought was a nice man, and then called you up and said "I just sold your wife for $1000," to a violent pimp in Turkey. WTF??? When the pimps don't want these women anymore, because they are illegal immigrants, the authorities just write them off as "prostitutes" and deport them out of the country, and the authorities just say: Oh well, you should've known what you were getting yourself into. There's nothing we can do...sucks to be you. Sad. Just sad. SMH. Imagine a pimp forcing you to abort your baby, and then 5 days later, putting a sponge inside of you, and then forcing you to go back out on the street to fuck guys for money? WTF??? How about the female recruiter Pasha, who said she has a daughter who's earning a degree in law, of all majors, but she's placing multiple women in a bad situation/s. She has a daughter. WTF???

I paid for college for about 3 years working as a stripper. I had the freedom to select my own costumes. My stripping out of a clown costume cured some people of coulrophobia, fear of clowns. Had the freedom to work whichever club I wanted to work, and if a club out of state tried to say I could only work for them, exclusive, I could increase my performance fee. Plus, most of the clubs gave me 2 free drinks, and some paid my hotel/motel fees, as long as I showed up on time, performed until closing time, and didn't start any fights. BTW, only free drinks I accepted in the clubs were 2 bottled waters, and I took those with me to my gym close to my home, and drank them while working out. If there was a club were I had problems or for whatever the reason I didn't feel comfortable there, I just stopped working there. Had one situation where a guy tried to tell me I had to give him a blowjob to work at his club on a once-a-month basis. In self-defense, I punched him in the throat, just like Sean Connery did to that bouncer in the movie Rising Sun with Wesley Snipes, click this link, it's at the 45 second mark. Club owner got something on his throat, but it wasn't my dick. Glad I watched this movie to learn that self-defense trick. Great book from Michael Crichton BTW. Anyways, not too hard, but just enough to send the message I wasn't tolerating his BS, and mentioned if I had another situation like this or worse, he would be talking to my lawyer. He got the message, and I ended up working at a strip club in that city a few blocks away that paid more money. Sex trafficked victims like the ones featured in the Sex Slaves movie don't have those options. Some are placed in buildings with metal bars on the windows and armed security guards, so they can't leave. Some of the pimps who sex traffic women work with some police officers so if a woman tries to run away, the officer will pretend to care, and send the woman back to her pimp. Not everybody knows martial arts like I do, kickboxing, jiu-jitsu, muy thai, and Tae Kwan Do, so they can't protect themselves whenever in a harmful situation.

I also do porn and I have to be tested every 30 days to prove I'm STD negative. When filing my taxes, I deduct STD testing as a business expense. If I test positive for anything, I can't work. If the test/s is/are a false positive,I have to retest to be cleared, or I can't work until I'm HIV, Gonnorhea, chlamydia, and syphilis-negative. If I don't want to have sex with the person I'm scheduled to do a video with that day, I can say no, or if too much drama occurs on the set, I can simply get up and leave. Sex-trafficked victims are physically and sexually abused, and once they test positive for one or more than one STD, are discarded as "trash." Sad, just sad.

Last but not least, some people who watch movies like this then try to say all sex workers, trafficked or not, are unhappy, being exploited, were traumatized in some way, shape, or form in the past, as a child, are mentally fucked up, and/or on drugs. Or my personal favorite: I think your too good for this webcam stuff. You're better than this. You can do better than this. I try not to yawn, but sometimes the yawn intentionally and/or unintentionally slips out. Depends on how I'm feeling that day, good, or bad. If they're haters, I tell these people to STFU and GTFO, and ban them. If they're being kind, or come across as concerned, I say thank you for your concern, but I'm good. Webcam models have freedom. People sex-trafficked don't.
 
Most of us have seen someone ask tech support questions to a cammodel, but I recently had someone one-up that: while asking me about something tech support-related on onlyfans, he said "I was also the guy who had trouble signing in."

It was the first time he'd ever dm'd me. I'm left thinking, thank god he didn't give me any sensitive info while mistaking me for support!

A part of me feels like they're probably better off not being anywhere online when their understanding is that bad.. or at least have them take lessons to avoid becoming victims to online predators.
 
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This seems an appropriate WTF topic. As a sex worker, use this to your advantage to make money. Don't disrespect the person who suffers from a MWC, but use it to your advantage to make as much money as possible. Only avoid this issue regarding personal relationships. It isn't just some married people who deal with this issue. Some men, women, and transgenders suffer from this.