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I got told that having my toes painted was "embarrassing" for my age lmao im fucking 41... i never thought this was even a thing lmaoooooo
Yeah well gaslighting is embarrassing and totally not cool at all ages. They need to grow up and learn to chat without trying to manipulate.
 
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I was at a drag bingo a few months ago and everyone would do it when 67 was called. While it has died a little, I don't think it's going away.

I was at a Bingo With the Boys show (It's naughty bingo followed by a sexy male revue) a while ago, and the host announcing the bingo numbers was pretty entertaining. With some of the numbers she called out she'd do a lil' funny play on words (like "B4/before...I8/I ate...etc." You get the drift...). For example..."B4 you take your pants off..." :p I think if you got 069 and shouted "PENIS!" you got a free drink.
 
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Annoying shit members say...


"Hey sexy, so I guess you don't take PMs." :facepalm:

Why the fuck do you, right off the bat, enter a model's room and think it's okay to just start PMing her? No, of course you can't PM me, because you haven't earned a spot on my friends list. Therefore you haven't earned the privilege of bugging me via PM. Lmao.
How hard is it for y'all to just talk in the damn chat, or talk via tip note if you're sooooo shy.
 
Tipping me 1 token THIRTY TIMES IN A ROW (which is obnoxious in itself), and then saying "Open bb." Open what? (I was playing dumb 😂) "Legs bb."

Um...if you wanna see pussy, just tip the fuckin' amount to see pussy. You don't get to tip that amount, and think you can just "have it your way" like Burger King.

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Tipping me 1 token THIRTY TIMES IN A ROW (which is obnoxious in itself), and then saying "Open bb." Open what? (I was playing dumb 😂) "Legs bb."

Um...if you wanna see pussy, just tip the fuckin' amount to see pussy. You don't get to tip that amount, and think you can just "have it your way" like Burger King.

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There's a special place in Hell reserved for these guys.
 
Popping in and out of a model’s chatroom (especially a Black model’s room) a few times, and lurking under the screen name “KKKddd” :vomit: is crazy imo.

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Can u come to İstanbul if i pay your travel

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Ohhh mommy
I always SMH at these suggestions. Like the only issue is that the user pays the travel fares.
Why do they just assume everything is on offer??
[edit to add: of course they'd never pay up, it's all just a fantasy like they're Robert Redford in Indecent proposal, but FFS it gives other losers the same ideas)
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I'm streaming today, and a guy whose screen name I've never even seen before, never had a show with, walks into my room.
4 or 5 other guys are asking practical, relevant questions (which is a busy moment for SM & means I'm about to get snapped up for a show), and this dude opens with: "I need a workout partner."
Sir, this is a masturbation site!

Then lastnight, I get this one for the very first time ever. Again same situation, busy chat, about to get taken. Guy I've never seen before...

"So you do masturbation in the shows. Like... what kind of masturbation then?"


The kind the Goddamn pussy gets played with, Sir. What the hell do you mean what kind??? The kind where a fucking Leprechaun jumps out my ass and waves at you ???

These people kill me 😆
 
I had one hell of a bad night tonight as a model speaking. First I lose my ability to Flirt mode for seven days over a stupid rule I never knew existed and then the damn freeloaders and scammers come in and try to scam a model who has three years experience not new!! Do they think i'm stupid or what!! They tried to lore us to a different site and I told them absalutely not and do not ask again!! Than this viewer ask me to get match box cars because he has a strange fetish of me taking little grown men out of the cars and placing them in my bra and has said he wants me to show him the cars and he will take us into a private show but has wasted our time for the fourth time in a row and tried to get free so we cut him off and said no you take us private now! We are not practicing!!
 
I had one hell of a bad night tonight as a model speaking. First I lose my ability to Flirt mode for seven days over a stupid rule I never knew existed and then the damn freeloaders and scammers come in and try to scam a model who has three years experience not new!! Do they think i'm stupid or what!! They tried to lore us to a different site and I told them absalutely not and do not ask again!! Than this viewer ask me to get match box cars because he has a strange fetish of me taking little grown men out of the cars and placing them in my bra and has said he wants me to show him the cars and he will take us into a private show but has wasted our time for the fourth time in a row and tried to get free so we cut him off and said no you take us private now! We are not practicing!!


Yeah clearly this guy is a time waster, he should just be blocked/banned from the room because he will keep doing it. If he already tried for a freebie 4 times, don't waste any more of your energy or time on him
 
Yeah clearly this guy is a time waster, he should just be blocked/banned from the room because he will keep doing it. If he already tried for a freebie 4 times, don't waste any more of your energy or time on him
Thats what I think as well that he should be banned. I am starting to get irritated by his presence. My husband thinks he should stay because he is afraid our sc score will lower and cop an attitude with us and is trying to get him to take us pvt.. I said thats bs and that damn freeloader should be blocked. Last night I rolled my eyes when he appeared on our broadcast and that is a sign i'm tired of him. We dont have to tolerate viewers who harrass us and that is axactly what he does. He was attempting to manipulate us by saying other models dont know how and need a tutorial and I need a tutorial and wanted only me but my husband is the account holder. SC no longer allows non account holders to stream by themselves. He also asked me to practice in public. I honestly feel like I have somone elses throw away. Well not anymore. He is getting banned next time he appears on my live stream.
 
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Thats what I think as well that he should be banned. I am starting to get irritated by his presence. My husband thinks he should stay because he is afraid our sc score will lower and cop an attitude with us and is trying to get him to take us pvt.. I said thats bs and that damn freeloader should be blocked. Last night I rolled my eyes when he appeared on our broadcast and that is a sign i'm tired of him. We dont have to tolerate viewers who harrass us and that is axactly what he does. He was attempting to manipulate us by saying other models dont know how and need a tutorial and I need a tutorial and wanted only me but my husband is the account holder. SC no longer allows non account holders to stream by themselves. He also asked me to practice in public. I honestly feel like I have somone elses throw away. Well not anymore. He is getting banned next time he appears on my live stream.
What was the rule you didn't know about?
 
What was the rule you didn't know about?
Being away from the camera while in Spy mode. We were in public Flirt mode and were not away from the camera. We had a temporary power outage caused by a storm. We are being wronfully accused of something we didn't do! I bet they have us mixed up with somone else and there is no way to prove it!
 
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My husband thinks he should stay because he is afraid our sc score will lower and cop an attitude with us and is trying to get him to take us pvt..
Clearly your husband has no clue. Don't let him sink the ship. Take the Wheel. This happens all the time when men from other businesses try to get into sex work management. Don't let it happen to you. You're the one bringing the guys in, not him. The least he can do is not make stupid decisions that sabotage the person actually bringing in the money. Sorry to be blunt, but...
 
Clearly your husband has no clue. Don't let him sink the ship. Take the Wheel. This happens all the time when men from other businesses try to get into sex work management. Don't let it happen to you. You're the one bringing the guys in, not him. The least he can do is not make stupid decisions that sabotage the person actually bringing in the money. Sorry to be blunt, but...
Thank you. I agree that my husband is sabataging the buisness and i'm pissed off because he doesn't seem to care.
 
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Thank you. I agree that my husband is sabataging the buisness and i'm pissed off because he doesn't seem to care.
Yeah he might not be conscious of it, or doing it fully aware and on purpose, but don't let him lead if he's making decisions like that. You are correct on this one.
 
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Yeah he might not be conscious of it, or doing it fully aware and on purpose, but don't let him lead if he's making decisions like that. You are correct on this one.
Thank you. I was pissed because I thought I wasn't permitted to block the viewer who is harrassing us but he stated I could block who I want. I am reciving mixed signals from him. He was clearly not communicating with me correctly. Its like he is disregarding how I feel about this viewer presence.
 
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Thank you. I was pissed because I thought I wasn't permitted to block the viewer who is harrassing us but he stated I could block who I want. I am reciving mixed signals from him. He was clearly not communicating with me correctly. Its like he is disregarding how I feel about this viewer presence.
Misunderstandings & disagreements with a business partner in any type of business is awkward.
When the business partner is also a spouse it's intensely awkward. (I'm phrasing that way too mildly.)
 
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I am reciving mixed signals from him. He was clearly not communicating with me correctly. Its like he is disregarding how I feel about this viewer presence.
He might not mean to be giving you this impression. Men's brains are wired differently from ours, especially in the area of communication. They really struggle a lot to communicate clearly what they are thinking. Then a lot of them are also terrified of us, and having conflicts with us, so they get nervous on top of that. Then their ability to say what they mean, clearly, (in a reasonable timeframe) is even worse! You might be correct that he is disregarding your feelings, but there also may be a lot more, and different stuff going on. Everyone likes to say they are simple, but they are not. I would try to investigate further and try to get him to open up more, so you can get a more confident and clearer picture of his motivations, fears, etc. Not easy to do, though. I don't envy you, but I have to deal with the same exact thing, on the daily! Never found one who is actually good at it (communicating thoroughly, honestly, and clearly, verbally).

ETA: Thank God for their Weinz, because there has to be some kind of motivation to inspire all that Gooddamn Herculean effort to try to have a clear convo!
 
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