What I like is when the model is being natural personality wise in private. I tend to really dislike the porn posing, strange positions, over the top performances, etc. I can find that on pornhub.
Ideal show: I prefer to talk a bit, take it easy. I want them to move naturally and do what feels good to them. There's no right or wrong, I like seeing someone feel pleasure. I don't bark orders or interrupt. I don't know what they enjoy so why would I give directions? Toy, no toy, naked, partially naked, watching a video it's all good. Since I don't like c2c I will give periodic feedback that I am enjoying it so they know I'm there.
I don't know if you have seen any of the solo vids on ifeelmyself.com but that is pretty much what I enjoy. I will set a time with the model, based on rates, what the model is comfortable with etc.. I will discuss the above things and commit to the time.
If they're not feeling up to it/into it then talking for a while is fine too. I'm pretty undemanding. The main thing is that I want the model to feel good after the show and to have enjoyed it.
I remember one British model where I bought a prepaid block on CMD. She went 10 minutes over and with a smile thanked me for the "lovely break". That made me feel good.