What is the most annoying thing a model can do?

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I am curious! As a model or member, do you think the most annoying thing is that a model can do? It can be either on or off cam.

I'll start with my top two:

It really weirds me out when a model starts to blame viewers for not giving her enough money. I am all for a lady saying, "If we don't reach the goal in X minutes I'm out of here", but it is another matter entirely to see a model say, "wtf is wrong with you people? Why aren't you giving me money? This is an amazing show and it's not going to be my fault if it doesn't get started." That is probably the biggest thing that makes me not want to tip. I just feel bad and guilty and I want to leave.

My other one is when a lady uses photos from other women to promote her own stuff. Especially on Tumblr it is REALLY common for models to reblog/reuse photos from other models and sex workers, and then add her own information and links to the text. Usually all I can think of is, "if this chick can't create her own decent content, won't everyone be disappointed when they find out the promo picture is so much better than the real thing?"
 
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Explicitly begging for things. To be fair, I don't see this often but over Christmas I saw it enough for it to bug me.

A "buy me something from my wishlist and I'll send you a video wearing/using what you bought me" or a "offline tip x and I'll send you y" is completely cool.

A quick, jokey, wink-wink-nudge-nudge "oh btw I have a wishlist lol" or a "offline tips make me smile" is also fine.

But multiple "guys, buy me this", "if you love me, buy me that", "who's gonna buy me these?", "I'm going out, can you send me some offline tips, yeah?" in quick succession just comes across as begging. You're not offering anything in return so it just feels like you're taking advantage of the guys who think enough of you to buy these things for you :twocents-02cents:
 

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Begging or member shaming on twitter. We all have bad days and it sucks for the people who did tip when a goal can't be reached, but no need rant and rave on twitter and make people feel bad. Chances are the people who didn't help really don't give a crap and the ones who did are the only people reading/caring about your tweets and obviously don't deserve feeling guilty.
 
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From a premium point of view, I believe it is buying something from a model (like her videos, picture sets or any other product) and never receiving them must be a pain in the ass.

I hope that this mediafire porn witch hunt is not hurting any model/premium relationship.
 
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emptiedglass said:
Calling people "greedy" because they don't tip.
Completely ignoring the chat in her room.
Assuming that all members have unlimited finances and can buy tokens any time they want.
Leaving their cam on when they leave for a while, instead of setting it to "Away" or going offline.
I completely agree with you on all fronts except for the one in bold. It's shitty to be away from the cam too long but a girl has to use the bathroom or get a drink at times. Putting the "away" feature on can kill a room count quickly. Which is why I try to put up Spongebob or my stuffed animals (who are getting it on, hardcore, isn't that a great show? lol). Much to my surprise, putting Spongebob in charge of the show for a couple of minutes actually stimulates conversation. Many people will discuss their "staring contests" with the guy or crack jokes while I am away. I occasionally will play stock footage or old cartoons (that are open to the public domain) in an attempt to keep people entertained while I'm not present. Isn't that a tad more interesting than seeing "AWAY" in place of the feed? :twocents-02cents:
 

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AedanRayne said:
emptiedglass said:
Calling people "greedy" because they don't tip.
Completely ignoring the chat in her room.
Assuming that all members have unlimited finances and can buy tokens any time they want.
Leaving their cam on when they leave for a while, instead of setting it to "Away" or going offline.
I completely agree with you on all fronts except for the one in bold. It's shitty to be away from the cam too long but a girl has to use the bathroom or get a drink at times. Putting the "away" feature on can kill a room count quickly. Which is why I try to put up Spongebob or my stuffed animals (who are getting it on, hardcore, isn't that a great show? lol). Much to my surprise, putting Spongebob in charge of the show for a couple of minutes actually stimulates conversation. Many people will discuss their "staring contests" with the guy or crack jokes while I am away. I occasionally will play stock footage or old cartoons (that are open to the public domain) in an attempt to keep people entertained while I'm not present. Isn't that a tad more interesting than seeing "AWAY" in place of the feed? :twocents-02cents:
I'll second Aedan here. If I have to make a tinkle run or prep some toys I always leave it on with music playing. The conversation almost always continues between my pals while I'm away. I imagine music and conversation is more entertaining then that icky green font.
 
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MrRodry said:
From a premium point of view, I believe it is buying something from a model (like her videos, picture sets or any other product) and never receiving them must be a pain in the ass.

I hope that this mediafire porn witch hunt is not hurting any model/premium relationship.
+100

I have bought/tipped for plenty of stuff that I never got or required several PM or mails on my part and weeks and sometimes even a couple of months before receiving. At some point I just give up. Skype shows, that never happen, videos that never get delivered, raffles I enter where there never is a drawing, raffle tickets I purchase that don't get put in the box. Tipped X hundred tokens to be part of my club, get your name on my profile, I tip profile never get updates, "I'm going to give cards/picture sets for Xmas to best regulars, Xmas has come and gone and no present..

A second pet peeve, is contests with really lame prizes. "Enter my contest and get a sexy photo set" and the sexy photo consists of 7 photos and zero nudity, that was so worth 150 tokens... :angry4:

To bad there isn't a better business bureau for cam girls.
 
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JoleneBrody said:
I'll second Aedan here. If I have to make a tinkle run or prep some toys I always leave it on with music playing. The conversation almost always continues between my pals while I'm away. I imagine music and conversation is more entertaining then that icky green font.
SophiaLocke has awesome pre-recorded messages for these occassions - the kind of thing you'd hear when on hold to a company that wants to sell you things but... dirtier - that are rather bad-ass :thumbleft:
 

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emptiedglass said:
Calling people "greedy" because they don't tip.
Completely ignoring the chat in her room.
Assuming that all members have unlimited finances and can buy tokens any time they want.
Leaving their cam on when they leave for a while, instead of setting it to "Away" or going offline.
How long constitutes "a while" to you? If more than 15 minutes, I can sorta understand. But any less than that, setting away or logging off is not beneficial to anyone. Especially since setting away still effects our camscore, yet closes off our room to newcomers and leaves our regulars with no music/sound.
 

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HiGirlsRHot said:
MrRodry said:
Tipped X hundred tokens to be part of my club, get your name on my profile, I tip profile never get updates
This just made me realize my SLF board does not say the month, which is the previous months members. I need to fix that stat. You are on this months list which will be up all next month, I'm not sure if this may have been referring to me or not but either way it helped me realize my SLF board is not clearly described on my profile, so thanks!
 
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JoleneBrody said:
HiGirlsRHot said:
MrRodry said:
Tipped X hundred tokens to be part of my club, get your name on my profile, I tip profile never get updates
This just made me realize my SLF board does not say the month, which is the previous months members. I need to fix that stat. You are on this months list which will be up all next month, I'm not sure if this may have been referring to me or not but either way it helped me realize my SLF board is not clearly described on my profile, so thanks!
LOL I no idea I'd make your list, and in my laundry list of bitches not getting my name on profile is pretty much dead last.
The bigger problem is for all the legitimate complaints about members not reading models, I swear that models sometimes forget what is on their own profile. They are so focused on the next contest, they forget that info from a contest held a couple of months is still on their profile, and often with no date attached.
 

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HiGirlsRHot said:
JoleneBrody said:
HiGirlsRHot said:
MrRodry said:
Tipped X hundred tokens to be part of my club, get your name on my profile, I tip profile never get updates
This just made me realize my SLF board does not say the month, which is the previous months members. I need to fix that stat. You are on this months list which will be up all next month, I'm not sure if this may have been referring to me or not but either way it helped me realize my SLF board is not clearly described on my profile, so thanks!
LOL I no idea I'd make your list, and in my laundry list of bitches not getting my name on profile is pretty much dead last.
The bigger problem is for all the legitimate complaints about members not reading models, I swear that models sometimes forget what is on their own profile. They are so focused on the next contest, they forget that info from a contest held a couple of months is still on their profile, and often with no date attached.
LOL your wording makes it sound like you're calling the girls bitches. :D
 
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LOL your wording makes it sound like you're calling the girls bitches. :D
Opps not my intention. Athough the Russian model, (who's name has mercifully been blocked from my memory), who's Russian download site infected every browser with my Malware, which took me two months to get rid. She was a bitch, cause I still only ended up with 2 out of the 3 videos I paid for.
 
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This may sound kid of odd...but here goes:

The money stuff , arguing about money that sort of thing, begging for tips , well not so much...I'll just leave, and, if I get harassed about it if I come back I just remove from favorites and never go again. I mean its the money game so I try to give a little slack.

The thing that makes me feel kind if "icky"...bitching at other models. The whole " that nasty ass skank is stealing my customers" thingy.
There is a cammodel on SM that's a pretty famous porn star that has a really checkered past.
I admit I have been in some of her shows because well...you know. But I removed her from favorites and haven't gone back since she had a rant in one of her shows.
She openly called out a couple of other models who also make adult films and called them everything from skanks to the "C-Word"... I mean I heard her say some things that guys wouldn't even say, and she was talking about other cam models!

So, for whatever bizarre reason that makes me feel uncomfortable plus the other models she was talking about I knew and they are REALLY sweet women!

I am probably barking up the same old tree that people have talked endlessly before but I was wondering if there were customers who felt the same way?
 
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The thing that makes me feel kind if "icky"...bitching at other models. The whole " that nasty ass skank is stealing my customers" thingy.
There is a cammodel on SM that's a pretty famous porn star that has a really checkered past.
I admit I have been in some of her shows because well...you know. But I removed her from favorites and haven't gone back since she had a rant in one of her shows.
She openly called out a couple of other models who also make adult films and called them everything from skanks to the "C-Word"... I mean I heard her say some things that guys wouldn't even say, and she was talking about other cam models!

THANK YOU! I know EXACTLY who you're talking about, and some of her rants angered me too. The one where she says models aren't REALLY selling you their dirty panties...that models buy 2 pairs of the same panties...keeps a pair for herself and uses "fake cum" for the other pair, which is sent out to you. :roll: Even if that IS true, it doesn't mean that ALL models do it...lol. Every time I've gone into her room, she's been dogging other models, telling guys she's the best on Streamate, and telling guys "I don't know why you guys tip those girls..."
 

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EdgarAllenWhoa said:
I mean its the money game so I try to give a little slack.
It's nice to hear this from a member so early on in this thread. I'm most certainly not saying that begging and being overly pushy about getting tokens/$ is a good thing, but yes money IS a factor for majority of cam girls, so yes, a little slack now and again is great. :thumbleft: :handgestures-salute:
 

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EdgarAllenWhoa said:
The thing that makes me feel kind if "icky"...bitching at other models. The whole " that nasty ass skank is stealing my customers" thingy.
There is a cammodel on SM that's a pretty famous porn star that has a really checkered past.
I admit I have been in some of her shows because well...you know. But I removed her from favorites and haven't gone back since she had a rant in one of her shows.
She openly called out a couple of other models who also make adult films and called them everything from skanks to the "C-Word"... I mean I heard her say some things that guys wouldn't even say, and she was talking about other cam models!

THANK YOU! I know EXACTLY who you're talking about, and some of her rants angered me too. The one where she says models aren't REALLY selling you their dirty panties...that models buy 2 pairs of the same panties...keeps a pair for herself and uses "fake cum" for the other pair, which is sent out to you. :roll: Even if that IS true, it doesn't mean that ALL models do it...lol. Every time I've gone into her room, she's been dogging other models, telling guys she's the best on Streamate, and telling guys "I don't know why you guys tip those girls..."

I know who it is, too. Not my cup of tea.
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On an opposite note!
I actually bought into a show SabrinaDeep was doing, and she named her favorite models to check out and had nothing but good things to say.
I respect that a lot, and she's drool worthy, so its awesome.
 

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HiGirlsRHot said:
A second pet peeve, is contests with really lame prizes. "Enter my contest and get a sexy photo set" and the sexy photo consists of 7 photos and zero nudity, that was so worth 150 tokens... :angry4:
I went over this five times and there's no way you're talking about anyone but me.

Seriously, dude? Seriously?
Let's just look at the facts, shall we?

1) The pic set was not the first prize of the contest. The first prize was a pic set plus hardcore video. It's too bad you weren't on the team that won, but the point of a contest is that one team is the winner, not both. At least I gave the losing team something.
2) Entering the contest was 77 tokens, not 154, which is what you paid. You bought 2 points for your team. You only needed to buy 1 in order to get on the team and get the prize. Theoretically, you could have been on the winning team (pic set + video) for 77 tokens.
3) I clearly said the pic set would be of me wearing the lingerie. Reading always helps.

Proof (posted on 11/30, 2012)


God. :-x
 

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The most annoying to me is when models:

A) Gripe about not getting offline tips.

B) Complain they're not getting tipped enough when all they're doing is sitting there like a lump on a log, as if the world owes them something for just showing up on cam, gifting us by their mere presence.

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Bocefish said:
The most annoying to me is when models:

A) Gripe about not getting offline tips.

B) Complain they're not getting tipped enough when all they're doing is sitting there like a lump on a log, as if the world owes them something for just showing up on cam, gifting us by their mere presence.

:twocents-02cents:
I knew it was only a matter of time before you posted exactly this. :lol: As soon as I read the title of the thread, my first thought was "Boce is going to come in talking about offline tips."
 

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LilyMarie said:
HiGirlsRHot said:
A second pet peeve, is contests with really lame prizes. "Enter my contest and get a sexy photo set" and the sexy photo consists of 7 photos and zero nudity, that was so worth 150 tokens... :angry4:
I went over this five times and there's no way you're talking about anyone but me.
Nevermind that just because one person thinks a prize is lame doesn't mean the majority of the cam girl's other tippers and regulars think it's lame. I've come to realize over the last several months that my regulars appreciate an assortment of things as prizes, not just the standard stuff like videos and hardcore pictures.

Quite a silly gripe, if you ask me.
 
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LilyMarie said:
HiGirlsRHot said:
A second pet peeve, is contests with really lame prizes. "Enter my contest and get a sexy photo set" and the sexy photo consists of 7 photos and zero nudity, that was so worth 150 tokens... :angry4:
I went over this five times and there's no way you're talking about anyone but me.

Seriously, dude? Seriously?
Let's just look at the facts, shall we?

1) The pic set was not the first prize of the contest. The first prize was a pic set plus hardcore video. It's too bad you weren't on the team that won, but the point of a contest is that one team is the winner, not both. At least I gave the losing team something.
2) Entering the contest was 77 tokens, not 154, which is what you paid. You bought 2 points for your team. You only needed to buy 1 in order to get on the team and get the prize. Theoretically, you could have been on the winning team (pic set + video) for 77 tokens.
3) I clearly said the pic set would be of me wearing the lingerie. Reading always helps.

Proof (posted on 11/30, 2012)


God. :-x
Well I certainly did not name names, but yes it was annoying/disappointing.

The general expectation for a lingerie set is a girl starts of in lingerie and then gets out of it. Every other picture set I've purchased including several marked lingerie include nudity. I've purchased Playboy Lingerie magazines for less than the 150 tokens, which have a 100 pages of girls in and out of lingerie, including MFC Camgirls. So it was also number of pictures (actually only 6), my expectation of picture set is at least 20 picture, if it is inexpensive say 50 tokens than a dozen is ok and often got sets with more than 50. Part of the appeal of the contest was the consolation prize. Yes I could have only tipped 77, but I wanted to get into the spirit of the competition until I realized that I was on the losing team. Surely you aren't criticizing me for tipping more.

Since you don't offer picture sets, and your banner didn't offer any specific I had no way of knowing what was included. Obviously our expectation were different. But if you look at other girls, I think you'll agree that paid picture sets include nudity, and more than 6 pictures are the norm.
FWIW, I liked your video I won in a previous contest.