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2. It might have been mentioned before in this thread. The "Daddy" tag and rooms that are designed to look childish. Like a room for a 13 Year old kid. The tag points to incest IMO. Here, moving on and leaving the room doesn't solve the problem for me, because it sticks in my head and has the potential to ruin my whole experience. I feel always very bad when I come across it. I'm quite sure I'm not the only member who feels that way. CB seems to be very adamant about avoiding child pornography, so I don't understand why this tag "daddy" even exists. maybe I don't get it and it is an old tradition or something.
streamate recently clarified what isn't allowed. daddy was included in the discussion. they said context is everything. as long as you don't use it alongside underage of incest (or implied) you are golden.

daddy is used like the nickname "baby." when you call someone baby, you aren't calling them an actual baby. this fleetwood mac songs always come to mind:
 
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streamate recently clarified what isn't allowed. daddy was included in the discussion. they said context is everything. as long as you don't use it alongside underage of incest (or implied) you are golden.

daddy is used like the nickname "baby." when you call someone baby, you aren't calling them an actual baby. this fleetwood mac songs always come to mind:

I always consider it similar to guys that call women “ma,” “mami” or “mama/mamacita”

It never comes across as if they mean it literally. It’s just a general, informal term.
 
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But I love animals and sometimes find them so fascinating that I get distracted from my intended purpose and watch them :)
One model that I used to visit regularly had 2 Husky pups and they were such fun and so playful, it really was great to watch but the tipping dried up as a result.
That's a good point, I noticed that there's usually no tipping when my cats show up on cam (although sometimes I do get a small tip with a note saying something about them, or someone telling me about their pets), but on the other hand it's a good conversation starter, most people who have pets enjoy talking about them, so I like when they come to me when it's slow and I'm trying to start the chat going.
If there’s nothing sexual happening at the moment I’m totally fine if a cat or dog wanders into the room and interacts with the model. If it happens during a sexual performance of some kind, it still doesn’t bother me, but it might distract me from getting in the proper tipping mood.

Preferably, if you’re doing something explicit, the pet is not anywhere near the deed being done. I know some pets will enter the room and interact whether you want them to or not. In those cases, maybe secure them in another room for a few minutes if possible. Because yeah, it can be a little weird at times, as a viewer. IMO.
Absolutely, I let them stay in the room out of frame if I'm doing a quick flash, but I always make them leave the room if I'm about to do something more explicit.
 
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Do you mind even when the model is fully dressed and not doing anything sexual at the moment? I let my cats hang out with me on cam if I'm just chilling and talking, but take them out the room before anything explicit happens. I probably won't change it because of your opinion, but I'm still curious about it. If anyone else wants to add to the subject I'd love to read it too!
Yes, that distinction is a good point and I think it wouldn't bother me as long as there is nothing sexual happening. I only came across this in the last few weeks, so I didn't make that distinction yet. It's just a feeling from me and shouldn't motivate anyone to change anything. But I thought I write about it because the great thing about this thread is that we can find out thought processes of the "other side", models or members. I surely helped me to understand some problems, conflicts etc. I wouldn't understand otherwise.
streamate recently clarified what isn't allowed. daddy was included in the discussion. they said context is everything. as long as you don't use it alongside underage of incest (or implied) you are golden.

daddy is used like the nickname "baby." when you call someone baby, you aren't calling them an actual baby. this fleetwood mac songs always come to mind:
But as long as there is context there is interpretation and interpretations differ. In my opinion language creates reality. Its not the only thing that does but it creates a big part of it. So a tag like "daddy" might in some cases open the gate to a horrendous option. But that might be overthinking it. Still, something bothers me about it. But I think you are right comparing that to "baby"
 
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Oh no, I was just making a point that some, not all wishlists, are ridiculous. I just do pvt shows with models and I may moving forward get a model something on the wishlist, but have never given a model something from their wishlist in the past. I'm glad this was brought up because I'm going to look into the wishlist option/s in the future. Just respectfully voicing my opinion, no disrespect in any way, shape, or form was intended. BTW, nice you were able to get a Nintendo DS in the past with the Amazon e-gift card.

It was more of the "Models have to decide on the wishlist what will work to increase sales and what will be a reasonable tax deduction (or not)" part of your post. Again, not everything on a wishlist has to be camming-related, and something that benefits viewers. We can treat ourselves with something nice. I don't have the Nintendo DS anymore, but when I bought it the last thing I was thinking about was pleasing men. LOL. I wanted to play Mario Party DS. :)
 
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same. i use it for casting music. my phone also controls my most of my lights, check on my dog cam, check my front door cam, and not to mention i have a family member in the hospital in critical condition, if my phone goes off, im checking it.

anytime i see a member complain about me looking at my phone for a minute, i roll my eyes. heaven forbid i don't pay attention to their boner for that time.


i did get distracted last night when i was adjusting my lights. there was a cool article on chinese mummies from the bronze age that popped up in my feed. i totally read it while streaming. i also got to giddily explain it like the huge geek i am to my audience
tarmin mummies > boners
I wonder if they ever found a mummy with a mummified boner.
 
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It was more of the "Models have to decide on the wishlist what will work to increase sales and what will be a reasonable tax deduction (or not)" part of your post. Again, not everything on a wishlist has to be camming-related, and something that benefits viewers. We can treat ourselves with something nice. I don't have the Nintendo DS anymore, but when I bought it the last thing I was thinking about was pleasing men. LOL. I wanted to play Mario Party DS. :)
Understood. Just curious and I'm debating about posting this as a possible question on the forum. Since I'm looking at getting some of my favorite models a gift/s for the holidays, should I just ask the model what they want or is there something out there that, well being a beautiful lady, I can get a lady that she would love to have, whether on the wish list or not? In my case, it's more like a thank you note for lots of great private shows. Worse case scenario, I'm just going to ask the model what she or the guy, because I pay for private shows with both, what he/she would like and be reasonable. Other thoughts? Thanks for responding in the past and if you respond to this great, but if not, that's fine too. Just curious. Have a good day/night and be safe whenever you read this.
 
Understood. Just curious and I'm debating about posting this as a possible question on the forum. Since I'm looking at getting some of my favorite models a gift/s for the holidays, should I just ask the model what they want or is there something out there that, well being a beautiful lady, I can get a lady that she would love to have, whether on the wish list or not? In my case, it's more like a thank you note for lots of great private shows. Worse case scenario, I'm just going to ask the model what she or the guy, because I pay for private shows with both, what he/she would like and be reasonable. Other thoughts? Thanks for responding in the past and if you respond to this great, but if not, that's fine too. Just curious. Have a good day/night and be safe whenever you read this.

If you’d like to surprise her and she has a wishlist, you could buy something from there. Or you can send her an Amazon e-gift card to her e-mail address (If she provides an e-mail address). Or you can give her a nice big tip and specify that it’s a GIFT (Not a tip for her to do anything or send videos/pictures).

Btw, if she happens to be on OnlyFans, we get 80% on there. Also on ManyVids with the “Make it rain” tip feature, models get 80% (And I think around 73 or 75% if they’re with Boleyn Models daily pay). So those are two adult-friendly sites where you can tip a model, and truly have her receive a large percentage of what you’ve tipped. Some of these cam sites give models a really shitty low percentage to where they’d only receive like 30% or 35% of what you tip. So IF you know for a fact that the model is on other sites, you’ll want to give them the holiday tip there instead. That would suck to tip a model a Christmas gift of $100, and she only gets $35 in her pocket.

If it was me, personally, I’d prefer my Christmas gift to be a “Make it rain” tip on ManyVids. I like money and getting it fast, and not having to wait a week or longer to get it. Lol. Plus if I have a bill due, that really helps.
 
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If you’d like to surprise her and she has a wishlist, you could buy something from there. Or you can send her an Amazon e-gift card to her e-mail address (If she provides an e-mail address). Or you can give her a nice big tip and specify that it’s a GIFT (Not a tip for her to do anything or send videos/pictures).

Btw, if she happens to be on OnlyFans, we get 80% on there. Also on ManyVids with the “Make it rain” tip feature, models get 80% (And I think around 73 or 75% if they’re with Boleyn Models daily pay). So those are two adult-friendly sites where you can tip a model, and truly have her receive a large percentage of what you’ve tipped. Some of these cam sites give models a really shitty low percentage to where they’d only receive like 30% or 35% of what you tip. So IF you know for a fact that the model is on other sites, you’ll want to give them the holiday tip there instead. That would suck to tip a model a Christmas gift of $100, and she only gets $35 in her pocket.

If it was me, personally, I’d prefer my Christmas gift to be a “Make it rain” tip on ManyVids. I like money and getting it fast, and not having to wait a week or longer to get it. Lol. Plus if I have a bill due, that really helps.
Thank you so much for the responses. Good to know for future reference. Yes, I want to make certain the model receives the gift in a safe and discreet way, and last but certainly not least, I want to make certain the model receives a majority of any money I send them, since they're the ones doing the work. BTW, nice new photo. Have a good day/night and be safe whenever you read/see this message.
 
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BTW, nice new photo.

Thanks! Got it from the thrift store. You can't really tell from the pic, but it has sequins all across the top. I get so excited when I find stuff like this (And BEDAZZLED JEANS!!!) at the thrift store. Between the thrift store and Goodwill (and other places like Walmart), I will never again spend $50 on ONE bra from Victoria's Secret.
 
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I believe (as a non-Spanish speaker) that in Colombia "Mami" and "Papi" are terms of endearment.. even between family members (parents / children)

So the literal translation into English can look and sound weird or even sick! (and not the good: "That's fully sick, bro" way)
 
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As a non-native English speaker I find the whole daddy thing rather creepy. I know intellectually what is meant, but still, yuck.


For what it's wroth, as a native English speaker, I feel the same.
 
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I believe (as a non-Spanish speaker) that in Colombia "Mami" and "Papi" are terms of endearment.. even between family members (parents / children)
By this I mean that I have read that some Colombian *parents* call their children mami and papi as endearments.
 
For what it's wroth, as a native English speaker, I feel the same.

Same. If a cam site member has 'Daddy' in his screen name, I will call him everything else in that screen name except for the 'daddy' part. And if his screen name is just 'Daddy', then I'll call him D.
 

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Thanks! Got it from the thrift store. You can't really tell from the pic, but it has sequins all across the top. I get so excited when I find stuff like this (And BEDAZZLED JEANS!!!) at the thrift store. Between the thrift store and Goodwill (and other places like Walmart), I will never again spend $50 on ONE bra from Victoria's Secret.
Hope all is well. I donate things I don't use to my local goodwill and/or thrift store to give back to my community, and I'm always amazed at all of the great stuff I see whenever I visit. Shop wherever you like to shop and pay for whatever you need, but pay the bare minimum, no more no less. As long as you're happy, it's all good.
 
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I do not like being told I am not tipping enough, when the room is full of people paying nothing.
I have to comment on this one. If you are being told you are not tipping enough, you must be asking for something. I hate when guys tip 1 token 25 times and think that'll get them an anal show. Or they say, "I'll keep tipping if you do xxx".
 
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Models who shriek with joy when they get a nice tip. Enthusiasm is nice, but please don't act like you just won the lottery. (My ears can't take it.)
I saw 2 female models (they were young) They were doing a lesbian show, quite well. But every time they got a tip, they stopped to see how much it was. Then guys stopped tipping and they stopped the show. Someone told them we are confused. We don't tip you stop, we tip you and you stop to look. It was funny, they couldn't help themselves.

I saw another one that had raging orgasms. But every time she got a high level tip she would drop to the floor off camera. We could hear her but couldn't see her. Then she would pop back up and apologize.
 
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Opps not my intention. Athough the Russian model, (who's name has mercifully been blocked from my memory), who's Russian download site infected every browser with my Malware, which took me two months to get rid. She was a bitch, cause I still only ended up with 2 out of the 3 videos I paid for.
I deleted most of my Russian friends. Partly because they have bad attitudes. But mainly because they frequently asked me to do cam 2 cam. I thought they were trying to hack into my computer, it was just odd how often they asked. I try to stay off their pages and I would never download one of their videos.
 
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Another tipping issue. A model sets a high target for a specific show. High is relative. They set a high goal for their room and the guys really respond as a group to get her to the goal. Then she starts the show and complains that nobody is tipping.

If you set a goal that causes the guys to drain their reserves, don't ask for more. If she wanted more, set a higher goal. Don't set a goal and have it not be the amount you want and then complain.

That said, you get a better show if you tip. I usually tip during privates except when it's a model that I tip a lot and we are doing one where I just want to sit back and enjoy the show.
 
I have to comment on this one. If you are being told you are not tipping enough, you must be asking for something. I hate when guys tip 1 token 25 times and think that'll get them an anal show. Or they say, "I'll keep tipping if you do xxx".

This. It's ridiculous that I now have to put in my room topic (and my whiteboard) that if you are "tipping for something," please tip the stated amount in a SINGLE tip. If you want an ass clap/flash, tip the 50 tokens in a SINGLE tip. Don't sit there doing a whole bunch of 1-token tips. Members seem to think this is cute or something, but I promise you it's annoying...and on MFC it's noisy as hell. Lol.

Now if they're tipping "just because," then okay, cool...tip whatever you want, and that will go towards my '200 tokens until naked for 10 minutes' mini goal/room topic. But this nonsense of spacing out a bunch of 1-token tips until it finally adds up to X tokens for ______...it's one of my pet peeves lately on token sites, and I'm having to explain this to members without them getting all offended or thinking I'm ungrateful. And it's wasting my time when they know I'm preparing to log off soon, and they could've gotten me naked (or that tits flash or ass flash they're waiting for) a long time ago if they'd just tip the appropriate amount right then and there. Tipping me 1 token every 5 minutes is not going to convince me to stay on longer either. Smh.
 
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By this I mean that I have read that some Colombian *parents* call their children mami and papi as endearments.
They do, but the one Colombian model I mentioned this to as part of the day to day conversation knew this wouldn't fly in all cultures. She spoke and wrote pretty good english though, so she had probably already done some quality checking of whatever came out of the translator. Spanish has a lot of words and terms that defy the mechanics of simple online translations. "Te quiero" and "te amo" springs to mind ...

On the other hand, I'm not convinced latina models use "daddy" as a lopsided translation of "papi". Usually they just call you "love", which is more politely affectionate.

Germanic and romance languages aren't always the best of friends ...
 
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I have to comment on this one. If you are being told you are not tipping enough, you must be asking for something. I hate when guys tip 1 token 25 times and think that'll get them an anal show. Or they say, "I'll keep tipping if you do xxx".
I actually agree with both of you on this. I pay for private shows myself, but I never tip a model if more than one person is in the cam room, or pops in when I'm chatting with a model before a private show. Normally I just respectfully ask the female or male model if they're ready to go private and if not I wait, not too long, before they say they're ready for a private show, and then I click the button and away we go for loads of fun. When I'm broadcasting, my rule is if one person is tipping gold, others have to tip gold as well. Otherwise, gold tipper stays, and non-gold tippers get kicked out. When nobody is tipping, either we chat or we don't. I make this rule clear to everybody before I kick them out, so they don't come back and cry like a little bitch, and ask why didn't you tell me that/say anything before you kicked me out of the cam room. Just sharing my opinion.
 
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Ah tbh I'm one of those guys who tips every 5 mins. But honestly I'm tipping for company rather than nudity and I'm not in a position to be spending 500+ tokens a week.


Yup, that's fine. I never said that tipping every 5 minutes is a bad thing. I said that tipping me 1 token (5 cents in my pocket) to try to convince me to stay on longer is silly. This especially applies to members who come in my room right as I'm about to log off, and complain "You're leaving? But I just got here." Okay, so then get here sooner next time? Lol. I've been on cam for 3-4 hours with bright lights in my face and a wig I'm ready to take off. If you want me to stay on longer past my time, then make it worthwhile for me to do so. If not, that's fine, and this is where I tell you goodnight. And you can try to make it into my chatroom a little earlier next time, so you don't miss me again.
 
I sympathize with you 100% on this. If they want to see you, they will come back. If they miss out, oh well, that's their loss. Like the saying goes: 2 tears in a bucket? Fuck it. Also, I do this as a model but if it doesn't work for you don't, let them know they can leave a message in your inbox 24/7 if you're offline. Have them send you a message to let you know when they have the time to do a private show/s. If the time works, meet them then, and make your money. If they no-show, just send a polite message that you were online at that time, and/or if you can't do a private show at that time, just politely let them know you're unavailable. I've received a lot of gold being offline combined with a message, and it's always nice to make money when you're offline right? Not every time but I do receive an occasional surprise/s. Hope this is helpful. Have a good day/night whenever you read/see this message.