What's a normal private?

[LilyPink]

I was in a dominant mood tonight and looking for something a little bit different in private. I don't usually get fetish requests but I fancied it.

BUT some guy was insistent that he wanted a 'normal' private which prompted me to ask him what this means and he reeled off a list of straightforward sexy things.

What does a 'normal' private mean to you? Both Models and Premiums, I'm interested in everyones opinion.

 

[sweetiebatman]

I suppose everyones normal private varies, both between all models and all premiums and probably then again depending on what mood that model or premium is feeling like

Triple anal midget shows, for example are not normal :lol:

 

[Evvie]

For us liberal hipsters, "normal" in this case would be read as "vanilla".

I suppose it would be straightforward vag play, sexy body rubbing and maybe a blowjob. Anal might not count depending on how vanilla he wants the show to be.

I've always seen vanilla defined negatively (that is, vanilla is what kink is not) but I guess it could be seen as sexual acts without any domination, control, sadomasochism, humiliation/degradation, objectification, or sexualization of anything but primary and secondary secondary organs.

 

[LilyPink]

It's a boring question but that's an interesting answer Evvie! Thanks indeed.

It bugged me that he thought his idea of a normal private was the same as mine and it bugged me more that most men probably think the same.

It was pretty much flirt-strip-pose-fuck myself-cum which is nice of course but one needs some variation sometimes. Come hither foot fetishists.

 

[RogueWarrior]

Wow. That's a loaded question. First of all, is it "normal" (big ass quotation marks implied), to be on a camsite and expect any sense of normalcy? I mean, really, what is "normal"? Normal for said member and said model may be completely different.

I could tell you what I expect a "normal" private to be, but that would only be my perception of "normal". I'm unique, as is everyone else, therefore, my normal is not normal for anyone else, nor is their normal, normal for me.

I realize this was probably not the kind of response you were looking for, but my $0.02 nonetheless.

If you really want to know what I, personally consider "normal", feel free to PM me.

 

[SoTxBob]

I have to agree with Rogue on this one.. WTH is "normal" on any camsite? :lol:

For simplification, I'd say if its even been considered some sort of fetish that it's not in the 'normal' list of what the guy wanted.
Then again, you have both ends of that spectrum as well.... boring missionary position sex may be 'normal' to some and anything else is fire n brimstone kinky. :evil:

 

[sweetiebatman]

I enjoyed the phrase "Fire and Brimstone Kinky" :lol:

 

[Evvie]

The issue of normative sex is why most people prefer the term vanilla instead. Although, of course, the definition of vanilla changes as often as the definition of kink changes (which is to say, with every person).

 

[RogueWarrior]

The issue of normative sex is why most people prefer the term vanilla instead. Although, of course, the definition of vanilla changes as often as the definition of kink changes (which is to say, with every person).

I don't know. Real vanilla from real vanilla beans is kind of decadent. Vanilla has gotten a bad rap.

 

[Evvie]

The issue of normative sex is why most people prefer the term vanilla instead. Although, of course, the definition of vanilla changes as often as the definition of kink changes (which is to say, with every person).

I don't know. Real vanilla from real vanilla beans is kind of decadent. Vanilla has gotten a bad rap.

Yeah, but who can afford it?

 

[SoTxBob]

Damnit Rogue !!
Now you made me wanna make some vanilla bean N brownie ice cream this weekend... :lol: :lol: If I get a brain freeze its all your fault... :mrgreen:

 

[RogueWarrior]

Damnit Rogue !!
Now you made me wanna make some vanilla bean N brownie ice cream this weekend... :lol: :lol: If I get a brain freeze its all your fault... :mrgreen:

I hereby recuse myself from all responsibility for your weakness for said ice cream. :-D

 

[RoxieRed]

:drool:

There is no ice cream in my house... :crybaby:

I am now making a "milkshake" out of blended frozen banana, vanilla extract, milk, and semisweet chocolate chips.

 

[RogueWarrior]

I would now like to apologize to OP (LilyPink) for the unintended threadjack. "Normal" privates to vanilla beans in 9 posts.

 

[RoxieRed]

I would now like to apologize to OP (LilyPink) for the unintended threadjack. "Normal" privates to vanilla beans in 9 posts.

Ah yes.. I think I should answer the question, then.
I would say that the majority of my privates are vaginal penetration with fingers or a dildo, and guys seem to prefer the view of me on my back or to watch doggie style. That just seems to be the most requested.

I am wondering if a "normal" private means what is most frequently done in private or their idea of "normal" sexual behavior? It seems like there could be a difference between the two.

If a guy told me he wanted a normal private and wouldn't give me anything else to go on, I would assume that he wanted to see what my "normal" is.

 

[camstory]

For us liberal hipsters, "normal" in this case would be read as "vanilla".
Anal might not count depending on how vanilla he wants the show to be.

I was under the strong impression that anal did not count as vanilla. This being my reference.

And yes thread jacked/mind jacked, off to the kitchen for a big cup of milky sweet coffee and some almond cookies dipped in dark chocolate!

 

[Rose]

If it was me, I'd assume normal meant vanilla. I LOVE vanilla sex and vanilla masturbation is usually the only way I can orgasm alone. Vanilla to me=missionary with toys or fingers and nothing extra added in. Just lay back, lube, cum. :twocents-02cents:

 

[LilyPink]

It annoyed me most that he thought fucking myself to orgasm is part of a normal private and more that he thought I should KNOW that.

I like hijacks.
Don't know why the fuck I made this thread. It bores me so.

 

[camstory]

It annoyed me most that he thought fucking myself to orgasm is part of a normal private.

I am sorry Lily, I have only once done a private, and with only 500 tokens it was pretty much understood that it was going to just be what she had been doing in public, (dancing nude). She was a friend and I wanted something recorded/vid of her and she didn't offer any herself. Sorta irrelevant, except as a disclaimer to say, I don't know anything about it, but I would have thought, "fucking myself to orgasm" would be part of a normal private. I say that, not in debate, cuz WTFDIK, but b/c i want to be educated?

Don't know why the fuck I made this thread. It bores me so.

If for no other reason than understanding a little more then i did before, I TY for it.

I am thinking I might do a strangest private ever, or find the most recent buried one (no doubt its been done), and post a story told to me by a friend who no longer cams, but had to tell someone now she could, about a member who spent 100's in true private a few times to explorer her entire body as if he was a teeny tiny little tom thumb fellow. I'm sure I have the email, and with some edit to remove any personal info, I could post it I think? It was a :lol: :lol: funny :lol: :lol: story.

 

[mynameisbob84]

It was pretty much flirt-strip-pose-fuck myself-cum which is nice of course but one needs some variation sometimes. Come hither foot fetishists.

I'm coming and hithering, bb :?

 

[adorkabelle]

Normal being the most common, then my most common request...I think would be anal. Followed closely by the strip-tease-n'self-pleasein' (I'm super attached to my Hitachi).
I like the silly privates though, the sit and chat about Star Trek/WoW...or the dance around and recite french poetry privates. Also the, "how's about you draw yourself a bath/take a shower?" FCK YEAH BB. Closet silkie? yeeeeah.

 

[BetsyBooty]

If it was me, I'd assume normal meant vanilla. I LOVE vanilla sex and vanilla masturbation is usually the only way I can orgasm alone. Vanilla to me=missionary with toys or fingers and nothing extra added in. Just lay back, lube, cum. :twocents-02cents:

I'm similar. I think I am paradoxically way sexier when doing mild-flavored things. I barely even use toys. And I've done some man-slaying long privates, if I may be so immodest as to say so.