When is it over doing a GFE

[AudriTwo]

Ummm ??? Why wouldn't someone want to get banned this is worse than reddit and YouTube comments. Lol these demons are straight from hell. I'm just not scared of them. I hope she bans me from her uncontrolled internet shit circle!

if it's so bad.. why are you still here? lol

 

[Backfire 380]

if it's so bad.. why are you still here? lol

Lol as I said I am defensive. I doubt you would survive being ganged up on in any way tho ?? that's why I am here. True Grit!!!

 

[MiaSarah]

if it's so bad.. why are you still here? lol

Human interaction?

 

[rbeccabuck]

Pack it up, girls. Let's ignore and move on. He got his answer, now we're just giving him all the negative attention he could want. He's loving this, can't you tell? He cant stop lolling.

Amber, I would like to personally apologize for kicking the hornet's nest which has now become a dead horse.

I'm gonna go play outside now.

 

[Backfire 380]

if it's so bad.. why are you still here? lol

Lol as I said I am defensive. I doubt you would survive being ganged up on in any way tho ?? that's why I am here. True Grit

Human interaction?

Lol I don't know about human? But interaction maybe.

 

[Backfire 380]

Pack it up, girls. Let's ignore and move on. He got his answer, now we're just giving him all the negative attention he could want. He's loving this, can't you tell? He cant stop lolling.

Amber, I would like to personally apologize for kicking the hornet's nest which has now become a dead horse.

I'm gonna go play outside now.

Be safe chump.

 

[MiaSarah]

The OP insult would be better if the loser lol me knew wtf OP is???

How the FUCK are you on a message board and not know what an OP is?! Holy hell, I post on Disney message board and those women are so bubble safe and even they know what a OP is!

 

[MarieElise]

OP means "Original Poster" or person who started the thread.

 

[Marceline]

Ummm ??? Why wouldn't someone want to get banned this is worse than reddit and YouTube comments. Lol these demons are straight from hell. I'm just not scared of them. I hope she bans me from her uncontrolled internet shit circle!

Not engaging is also an option, instead of waiting to get banned and responding to everything in the meantime. Honestly, not responding or responding just to say "Yeah, I'm not feeling this so I'm gonna bow out" would have been the best and most mature course of action, imo. And then you could have spent your time on the internet watching silly videos or maybe playing video games or doing something positive and fun.

Anyway, I hope you take a look at those resources.

 

[yummybrownfox]

Not really. You are coming at someone for no reason. But that's more for carma to backfire on.

Nope, there's always a reason. You didn't get the response you were looking for to this thread, so you resorted to name-calling...and throwing a tantrum like the daycare toddlers I used to work with.....

I don't know who tf Carma is. But I do think karma is a beautiful thing...and I'm sure yours is coming soon. Then you can go cry in a corner like the other banned ACF dudes...before they try rejoining under new names. Lol.

 

[Backfire 380]

Pack it up, girls. Let's ignore and move on. He got his answer, now we're just giving him all the negative attention he could want. He's loving this, can't you tell? He cant stop lolling.

Amber, I would like to personally apologize for kicking the hornet's nest which has now become a dead horse.

I'm gonna go play outside now.

Be safe chump

Not engaging is also an option, instead of waiting to get banned and responding to everything in the meantime. Honestly, not responding or responding just to say "Yeah, I'm not feeling this so I'm gonna bow out" would have been the best and most mature course of action, imo. And then you could have spent your time on the internet watching silly videos or maybe playing video games or doing something positive and fun.

Anyway, I hope you take a look at those resources.

Yeah I'm not feeling this lame cyber bully shit so... I will actually bow tf out. Deuce's ??

 

[Mel1]

I tried to read, and then I read the same line twice, I didn't know where I was left ^^ I give up

 

[rockin_rod]

Backfire:
some of the many red flags thrown up by your own words in the original post ('creepiness' and 'vulgar' being examples) have been totally confirmed by your responses here.
If you communicated with the model that you 'fell in love with' in the same way, I hope she banned your sorry ass. Nobody should put up with that.

 

[AudriTwo]

Lol as I said I am defensive. I doubt you would survive being ganged up on in any way tho ?? that's why I am here. True Grit

ganging up on a 5'2" 110lb lady is totes true grit.

 

[Diana_Devil]

Ooooh, I LOVE it when a guy calls me "little girl" and makes vague assumptions about how the outside world is *so dangerous* for me. Real tough guy talk, gets me as wet as the fuckin' Saharan desert. Even though I've been super, duper nice! (Maybe I used so swear words, but we're all grownups here right? I don't need to talk like a Kindergarten teacher to save someone's feelings from being hurt, right? riiiiiight??) Such a big man, insulting women he knows are out of his league mentally, emotionally and physically. An absolute specimen, a real representative of your gender.

Weak sauce. We're all just bored and playing now. I can smell the neck beard from here.

he called you a little girl but i get that feeling that somewhere there you have something like this

hidden and ready to surprise his nasty ass !


And by the way : YOU ROCK , YOU ARE BEAUTIFULL AND SMART ! and he can chuck with his own shit.

 

[GraysonDrake]

I tried to read, and then I read the same line twice, I didn't know where I was left ^^ I give up

Same. I think this is what having a stroke feels like.

 

[LightOfGod]

Ok so I was talking to a cam model on HDcams aka jerkmate same site anyways. I went into a rabbit hole to hell when I dropped in a room where this supposedly new girl 24 yrs old was working. I was expecting to be kicked as I usually am for creepiness I had said to block me she insisted we just talk a bit lol I warned her I'm just browsing it's a waste. She insisted she likes talking and had a good feeling about it. I know and knew for the moment at least she was full of it but she was so charming yet careful and subtle. I said subtle for a reason. Yes I'm a idiot.!!! That's out the way she started the conversation and held it up till I started digging it and talked back. She got nicer and sweeter over 4 days I didn't pay yet but the long game was in both minds I know it?. She started teaching me like one language then another three hours later. She spoke well and just talked about literally everything with me. She never asked about me buying a show or anything but then I just started tipping after a while as of course I should and long story short I did and sometimes didn't for 3 days apart. She started using the L word because I was always round about romantic chatting so I guess good strategy for her. Sometimes she ignored others and thats where it got weird. See she was doing lessons lol, and telling stories and just chatting me up. But I was broke by this time always more than usual. Sometimes she sent for me in the box to ask where I was and why I wasn't there but only a day was between the last visit. She knew and we discussed I'm not ok "mentally" and she started to say that I don't need to give gold unless I want something special. I tipped anyway when I had but then. Lol I stopped for a bit again and we talked better she told more personal stuff not that I believe she told me real stuff I'm dumb but hey now? I wrote her poetry she said the L word again for the 2nd time. She was always super interested in me. I was broke on most days and she talked for two weeks. Then on my birthday she brought a lot of stuff and decorated her room for me, she had told me to come on that day I said I won't have anything even then and she said it was fine she had a surprise. Lol so finally after I got my bread flow she didn't want my gold by then and I started wanting some porn lol "give me a show you show others let me pay for that" she replied we aren't that way I like you and we talk and hang out don't ruin it. I lost my damn mind because there was no limit to me being there. Her own words come all the time I love you and I like you to be here with me. Then the flood came lol look she always had a full house but damn now everyone was in there talking wild to her and my dumb ass felt some way so instead of attacking them I wanted a show. She did say once if you wanted a show you should have talked like that but you came in different. So things changed she changed I changed too and members were doing stuff we didn't do and she wouldn't let me pay for with gold I was actually spending sometimes but she told me not to tip too crazy so I said fuck it and stopped and had gold on account that's when suspicion rose in me. She said I wasn't like them they are work blah blah. Well long story short it got ugly and she wanted to hear nothing of a show and I got my show but she got dark after that because she said I did something on private to humiliate her instead of exclusive. After that there was a rage in her inbox from me and yes it's dumb. Then I was very vulgar at one point before that in a argument in a message. She said it was over something I didn't understand and she shouldn't need to explain. She said we are different. I bugged out more. Lol but she didn't block. She said I was ruining everything and she didn't know what happened to me. I don't know bs about having emotions? Any who we ended up being evil after a while and I told her as I did many times before just block if you don't want my pay. I know I could just leave but I was hooked or in dumb love. Just block I am going to eventually come here and she said she wanted me to come but I ruined a friend ship. She said in truth she didn't like the idea of a show because she considered maybe knowing me and she thought of me as a friend outside of the work but it's different. Trust me I didn't believe it. I did know that I fell in love tho. I asked if I could fix it and she said yes with time though. I tried fixing it as she said I could but she said no gold no gold talk no bad subject just talk like we did before story laughing joking. She said it was too rash to block me if it could hurt later but she absolutely stopped expanding on what she said ever. As if she learned. Well I rushed it in two days as I'm very odd and dumb in this regard. But no takers from either me or her because it just got so bad and ended nasty. I finally seen her other side and in fairness she had seen mine because I recall some wickedness on my end and she accidentally or on purpose cried. However days later when she asked how I wanted to be treated and then turned Ice cold I was shattered like glass, she learned to ignore and sometimes laugh at me and the turn was permanent and she ended it with a smile. The inbox was a verbal bloodbath after. So was she just inexperienced and overdoing it with a GFE and I bugged out or did I ruin something? Cause I don't think she gave two shakes of a rats (can I curse here) from the jump or in between but just didn't know her game yet and practice turned malicious. I don't know?

I think I get where you're coming from. You mean to ask should a professional model draw the line at the metaphorical door of business right? The answer to that question would be yes. The model can at anytime remind you that she doesn't give a hoot and business is being conducted. But it depends on the ethics that the individual lives by. She could lose potential money if she just comes out straight up also booting you might seem excessive you said (SHE'S NEW) On the other hand you are entirely responsible for your own actions. As for your interactions in this thread try and remember humans evolved from apes and we still are apes. Anyone outside of a certain group will be mocked or pick on a outsider. It's natural behavior just run along to your circle or group. People act out everything they learn from child hood to adult hood. I don't agree with (every respones) to your thread. That being said its easy to make fun because bro this was dumb. But so is mockery. Don't get involved in issues that aren't your issue and just focus on you. Lord I shouldn't need to add this but a lot of people in that profession are in the thread so what side did you think they'd be on. Trust me there's places they can and shouldn't go because they wouldn't get sympathy there. Same applies. Have a good life and god bless

 

[Tinydickman]

Serious question. Did you type to her like you did here? Might be one of the reasons she started to give you the cold shoulder

 

[Mistress Cash]

Oh I started reading this but then saw how long it is. If anyone manages to stay awake throughout the story, please post a TL;DR for the rest of us

I think the point is, he fell for a psycho, but she was an inexperienced one, but possibly could she like him, and really want to marry him, or was she just practicing her craft as a newbie. Sorry if I missed something. Not trying to be rude to the author.

 

[Cocoblue]

Fair enough man, I am kind of going though the exact same thing except this camgirl scammed me with SOME lies in fact every trick in the book almost, played with my emotions badly.
Did you ever hear "lets fly to Agentina and go on a wonderful holiday..oh at your expense"..
Did she ever get accounts blocked and you followed her and supported her stupidly because she had no other person watching the new accounts..
Did she ever ask you for money for help because she was doing so badly through PayPal and gave up her details just so you could search her on Facebook and find out how much of a scam she is because you sent all that money..
Did you ever try to add her as a friend after she has said she is such a true and wonderful friend and also loves you and you find out she has a second job and blocks you..
Did she shit herself after you found her REAL personal account on facebook on camera, did you both not know what to say to each other afterwards because you are heartbroken and she is thinking about how much of a shit person she is and both had a stress headache and in need of sleeping pills..
Yes this has happened to me

 

[yummybrownfox]

^First of all, the original poster of this thread was banned, so he's not gonna see your creepy-ass post replying to him. Second, stop being fucking creepy and stalking camgirls who have to keep blocking you on multiple accounts. You seriously made an account on this forum just to post this shit? Cringey as fuck.

 

[Eden Elizabeth]

found her REAL personal account on facebook on camera

Fucking yikes

 

[AudriTwo]

Fair enough man, I am kind of going though the exact same thing except this camgirl scammed me with SOME lies in fact every trick in the book almost, played with my emotions badly.
Did you ever hear "lets fly to Agentina and go on a wonderful holiday..oh at your expense"..
Did she ever get accounts blocked and you followed her and supported her stupidly because she had no other person watching the new accounts..
Did she ever ask you for money for help because she was doing so badly through PayPal and gave up her details just so you could search her on Facebook and find out how much of a scam she is because you sent all that money..
Did you ever try to add her as a friend after she has said she is such a true and wonderful friend and also loves you and you find out she has a second job and blocks you..
Did she shit herself after you found her REAL personal account on facebook on camera, did you both not know what to say to each other afterwards because you are heartbroken and she is thinking about how much of a shit person she is and both had a stress headache and in need of sleeping pills..
Yes this has happened to me

 

[Sxmxr]

I-

 

[englishmuffins]

I-

I think it’s more that he took her details and became obsessive over her and stalked her. Yeah she is at some fault but his behavior is dangerous.

Edit: saw that you changed your post. Statement still stands.

 

[Sxmxr]

I think it’s more that he took her details and became obsessive over her and stalked her. Yeah she is at some fault but his behavior is dangerous.

Edit: saw that you changed your post. Statement still stands.

Yes but her behavior is also dangerous the more she does things like that she will keep attracting those kind of people.

 

[Sxmxr]

I feel like there needs to be a thread for models on how to protect themselves from scammers and harassers. Like I’ve noticed most of the time the ones that are super chatty and open up about their personal life too much are no benefit to the job.

 

[englishmuffins]

Yes but her behavior is also dangerous the more she does things like that she will keep attracting those kind of people.

Yes, like I said, she is at some fault as well.

Any model that went into camming has to take it upon themselves and take their own responsibility for understanding the dangers of this industry. Plain and simple. It is up to our own selves to do our best to protect ourselves as best as possible. She wants to play with fire and risk the dangers, that’s on her.

Play stupid games win stupid prizes.

The love scams are nothing new to this industry and there isn’t much that we as models can do to prevent other models from engaging in love scams. The best we as models (ACF models on here) can do is to help inform and advise members to recognize the signs and offer honesty about the situation.

I am not arguing for her. Models like her give our industry a shit reputation. But when a member becomes obsessive and stalks a model that member needs to take responsibility of their actions too? No???

I feel like there needs to be a thread for models on how to protect themselves from scammers and harassers. Like I’ve noticed most of the time the ones that are super chatty and open up about their personal life too much are no benefit to the job.

1. I think that thread would be very beneficial to have in the model only section.

2. I am a very chatty model, but I am very mindful and disciplined not to expose certain personal life details and keep strict boundaries in place for my regulars and new members. It is the reason why and how I have found success as a cam model. I actually make more money clothed, talking, and cooking than I do being explicit. I found what works for me and that’s cool. Every model is different. I have also found that some very successful models are chatty as well. Sorry, but I find you statement about being chatty has no benefit to be a bit moot.

 

[yummybrownfox]

I feel like there needs to be a thread for models on how to protect themselves from scammers and harassers. Like I’ve noticed most of the time the ones that are super chatty and open up about their personal life too much are no benefit to the job.

Being a super chatty model is a good thing, and better than being a boring model who's staring at their phone, as still as a statue. It's called a chatroom for a reason, and if members feel we talk too much, perhaps they can shut us up by tipping for an ass flash or something. After all, I'm on there to make money. Not just sit in free chat talking about how much I love IBC root beer with my crabs.....

Now being super chatty to the point where you're accidentally telling all your personal business (Blurting out that you're meeting up with friends tonight at the McDonald's in Times Square at 8:00)...not good. I've said before that when I'm sipping on coffee from Dunkin'...delivered to me via Uber Eats...I have to make sure I've peeled that little sticker off the cup because it has my real name on it. A model might come really close to blurting out something like "I've gotta log off now, guys. Got a 9 AM appointment at _________ Hospital." Also not good. Just saying "Gotta get up early. Goodnight, guys!" should suffice. We have to be careful.

And a member can also do his part in being a decent human being who isn't a creep, and doesn't get the idea to stalk a model, just because she fucked up and told him a little too much about herself.

 

[CanadianGuy1971]

Ok so I was talking to a cam model on HDcams aka jerkmate same site anyways. I went into a rabbit hole to hell when I dropped in a room where this supposedly new girl 24 yrs old was working. I was expecting to be kicked as I usually am for creepiness I had said to block me she insisted we just talk a bit lol I warned her I'm just browsing it's a waste. She insisted she likes talking and had a good feeling about it. I know and knew for the moment at least she was full of it but she was so charming yet careful and subtle. I said subtle for a reason. Yes I'm a idiot.!!! That's out the way she started the conversation and held it up till I started digging it and talked back. She got nicer and sweeter over 4 days I didn't pay yet but the long game was in both minds I know it?. She started teaching me like one language then another three hours later. She spoke well and just talked about literally everything with me. She never asked about me buying a show or anything but then I just started tipping after a while as of course I should and long story short I did and sometimes didn't for 3 days apart. She started using the L word because I was always round about romantic chatting so I guess good strategy for her. Sometimes she ignored others and thats where it got weird. See she was doing lessons lol, and telling stories and just chatting me up. But I was broke by this time always more than usual. Sometimes she sent for me in the box to ask where I was and why I wasn't there but only a day was between the last visit. She knew and we discussed I'm not ok "mentally" and she started to say that I don't need to give gold unless I want something special. I tipped anyway when I had but then. Lol I stopped for a bit again and we talked better she told more personal stuff not that I believe she told me real stuff I'm dumb but hey now? I wrote her poetry she said the L word again for the 2nd time. She was always super interested in me. I was broke on most days and she talked for two weeks. Then on my birthday she brought a lot of stuff and decorated her room for me, she had told me to come on that day I said I won't have anything even then and she said it was fine she had a surprise. Lol so finally after I got my bread flow she didn't want my gold by then and I started wanting some porn lol "give me a show you show others let me pay for that" she replied we aren't that way I like you and we talk and hang out don't ruin it. I lost my damn mind because there was no limit to me being there. Her own words come all the time I love you and I like you to be here with me. Then the flood came lol look she always had a full house but damn now everyone was in there talking wild to her and my dumb ass felt some way so instead of attacking them I wanted a show. She did say once if you wanted a show you should have talked like that but you came in different. So things changed she changed I changed too and members were doing stuff we didn't do and she wouldn't let me pay for with gold I was actually spending sometimes but she told me not to tip too crazy so I said fuck it and stopped and had gold on account that's when suspicion rose in me. She said I wasn't like them they are work blah blah. Well long story short it got ugly and she wanted to hear nothing of a show and I got my show but she got dark after that because she said I did something on private to humiliate her instead of exclusive. After that there was a rage in her inbox from me and yes it's dumb. Then I was very vulgar at one point before that in a argument in a message. She said it was over something I didn't understand and she shouldn't need to explain. She said we are different. I bugged out more. Lol but she didn't block. She said I was ruining everything and she didn't know what happened to me. I don't know bs about having emotions? Any who we ended up being evil after a while and I told her as I did many times before just block if you don't want my pay. I know I could just leave but I was hooked or in dumb love. Just block I am going to eventually come here and she said she wanted me to come but I ruined a friend ship. She said in truth she didn't like the idea of a show because she considered maybe knowing me and she thought of me as a friend outside of the work but it's different. Trust me I didn't believe it. I did know that I fell in love tho. I asked if I could fix it and she said yes with time though. I tried fixing it as she said I could but she said no gold no gold talk no bad subject just talk like we did before story laughing joking. She said it was too rash to block me if it could hurt later but she absolutely stopped expanding on what she said ever. As if she learned. Well I rushed it in two days as I'm very odd and dumb in this regard. But no takers from either me or her because it just got so bad and ended nasty. I finally seen her other side and in fairness she had seen mine because I recall some wickedness on my end and she accidentally or on purpose cried. However days later when she asked how I wanted to be treated and then turned Ice cold I was shattered like glass, she learned to ignore and sometimes laugh at me and the turn was permanent and she ended it with a smile. The inbox was a verbal bloodbath after. So was she just inexperienced and overdoing it with a GFE and I bugged out or did I ruin something? Cause I don't think she gave two shakes of a rats (can I curse here) from the jump or in between but just didn't know her game yet and practice turned malicious. I don't know?

No offense but you're giving Grandpa Simpson a run for his money on telling stories that don't go anywhere.

I highlighted sections of what was written to make sense of anything.