When is it over doing a GFE

[Backfire 380]

Holy fuck, this was challenging to read. TL;DR, dude needs to step away from this model. If you ever feel like you're in love with a model it's time for a break.

Holy fuck blah blah TL DR and more blah blah ok you're great hon

 

[Backfire 380]

Oh I started reading this but then saw how long it is. If anyone manages to stay awake throughout the story, please post a TL;DR for the rest of us

I started reading blah blah then I type blah blah make my self look cool.

 

[Backfire 380]

It's just another "I fell in love with a camgirl" thread with horrible formatting and grammar.

Op please go outside and interact with actual human beings for once. While maintaining proper social distance of course.

Lol you sound like another grimlin blapagababa

 

[admjgg]

Lol you sound like another grimlin blapagababa

 

[THE MOLLIE MARIE]

She's working. Who cares? Pay her for the entertainment, or don't. No need for an in-depth character analysis.

 

[Backfire 380]

Oh I started reading this but then saw how long it is. If anyone manages to stay awake throughout the story, please post a TL;DR for the rest of us

Blah blah. At first I said oooh I'm crying like a lil bitch but I'm seeing a hole new type of cry baby in y'all on this post lol go cry to your slut momma

 

[Backfire 380]

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Nice. It's lame but good fit chump.

 

[Backfire 380]

She's working. Who cares? Pay her for the entertainment, or don't. No need for an in-depth character analysis.

Lol if you read all that blah blah shit and came up with that you then we'll you just Might now be the goof of the thread thanks for holding that down dumb ass.

 

[THE MOLLIE MARIE]

Don't know what about my reply warrants such a hissy fit from you, but I am not too worried about who looks dumb in this thread.

 

[MarieElise]

but I am not too worried about who looks dumb in this thread.

Exactly what I thought ... there's only one person who looks like a total moron in this thread ...

 

[englishmuffins]

Look I understand you’re upset at the responses to your post. But you need chill down a bit. I understand you’re trolling others right back, but take it with the grain of salt and see the value in what others have responded with that have read your post. Easier said than done. I get it.

I think both you and the model went into an emotional spiral that became quite toxic. When things become emotionally draining or aggressive, I think it’s best for members to remove themselves from the situation and understand that cam sites are there for transactional activities. No matter how a model may pull the GFE or a really make a fantasy believable, I think it’s best to try to practice bringing yourself to reality before this blowup like they are already did. Even if that means you don’t visit that model ever again.

Again easier said than done, but I urge you and others to find healthy ways to do that to avoid situations that turn into heavy emotional investments when it concerns your relationship with a cam model. Try to be realistic and keep it transactional. If member or model can’t respect each other’s boundaries then it’s best to move along.

 

[Backfire 380]

Don't know what about my reply warrants such a hissy fit from you, but I am not too worried about who looks dumb in this thread.

That's actually pretty good.

 

[Backfire 380]

Don't know what about my reply warrants such a hissy fit from you, but I am not too worried about who looks dumb in this thread.

That's actually pretty good

Exactly what I thought ... there's only one person who looks like a total moron in this thread ...

Yes you really do. Lol good job for owning up.

 

[Backfire 380]

Look I understand you’re upset at the responses to your post. But you need chill down a bit. I understand you’re trolling others right back, but take it with the grain of salt and see the value in what others have responded with that have read your post. Easier said than done. I get it.

I think both you and the model went into an emotional spiral that became quite toxic. When things become emotionally draining or aggressive, I think it’s best for members to remove themselves from the situation and understand that cam sites are there for transactional activities. No matter how a model may pull the GFE or a really make a fantasy believable, I think it’s best to try to practice bringing yourself to reality before this blowup like they are already did. Even if that means you don’t visit that model ever again.

Again easier said than done, but I urge you and others to find healthy ways to do that to avoid situations that turn into heavy emotional investments when it concerns your relationship with a cam model. Try to be realistic and keep it transactional. If member or model can’t respect each other’s boundaries then it’s best to move along.

You are the only one here using any reasoning. Thanks for the non bias answer!

 

[Backfire 380]

Trolling is dumb here. Especially if you think that you're respectable as a individual. Hell even the model mentioned here avoided trolling are y'all stupid as me. Think beforehand about the answer cause cyber bullying is still frawned upon even pros know that!

 

[MarieElise]

Yes you really do. Lol good job for owning up.

 

[Backfire 380]

 

[rbeccabuck]

Oh ok well great everyone on ACF is a web junky about as dumb as me but I. A different not necessarily better way. Anyway hope y'all get what you need from making others feel small lol anyways. As for the post and only the post. Professional services will handle the situation now so you/I can chill the shit is on we got the name and the community it's a rap.

Ahhh, buddy... It looks like you're feeling hurt because a bunch of camgirls told you the truth. That's gotta feel pretty raw. I get it. You're doing this whole "You girls are dumb and hysterical" bit to strike back and feel bigger, but ya know what?

Humility is sexy. Communication is sexy. I love when a guy is like, "You know what, I fucked up. I'm sorry. That was creepy/weird/rude of me, and I don't like to be that way. Can we try again?"

Also, gratitude is nice. "Thanks for answering my question!"

Lots of people have egos that are so big, they get in the way of being a decent person. Don't take anything anyone says (or most of the things you say about yourself,) personally; it just creates a world of pain for yourself, and when you're hurt, you (speaking generally, not you) tend to hurt people. It's a reaction that's pretty normal.

Take a step outside of yourself and see if it's worth your time to shit on camgirls for answering your question. We're not obligated to be nice to you, and the best people here can take some shit with a smile. This response here? Not cute. You're coming off like a little kid, "Well, I don't wanna play your stupid game anyway!" - Real sour grapes shit, man. Not sexy. Not endearing. Not wanting us to have much sympathy for you. I'm not surprised that you've gotten the response you have, because this right here, and all the other catty, bratty shit you've come back with to all the responses has been... disappointing.

I am disappointed in you. That's sad. We won't miss you when you go, but maybe if you make some adjustments to your attitude and perspective, you could have your very own redemption arc!

It's up to you, no loss to us either way bb.

 

[Backfire 380]

Ahhh, buddy... It looks like you're feeling hurt because a bunch of camgirls told you the truth. That's gotta feel pretty raw. I get it. You're doing this whole "You girls are dumb and hysterical" bit to strike back and feel bigger, but ya know what?

Humility is sexy. Communication is sexy. I love when a guy is like, "You know what, I fucked up. I'm sorry. That was creepy/weird/rude of me, and I don't like to be that way. Can we try again?"

Also, gratitude is nice. "Thanks for answering my question!"

Lots of people have egos that are so big, they get in the way of being a decent person. Don't take anything anyone says (or most of the things you say about yourself,) personally; it just creates a world of pain for yourself, and when you're hurt, you (speaking generally, not you) tend to hurt people. It's a reaction that's pretty normal.

Take a step outside of yourself and see if it's worth your time to shit on camgirls for answering your question. We're not obligated to be nice to you, and the best people here can take some shit with a smile. This response here? Not cute. You're coming off like a little kid, "Well, I don't wanna play your stupid game anyway!" - Real sour grapes shit, man. Not sexy. Not endearing. Not wanting us to have much sympathy for you. I'm not surprised that you've gotten the response you have, because this right here, and all the other catty, bratty shit you've come back with to all the responses has been... disappointing.

I am disappointed in you. That's sad. We won't miss you when you go, but maybe if you make some adjustments to your attitude and perspective, you could have your very own redemption arc!

It's up to you, no loss to us either way bb.

Lol are you sure? I mean are you sure about the camgirl thing. And the truth lol reply based response says no read. But ok I'll take your word for it.

 

[rbeccabuck]

Lol are you sure? I mean are you sure about the camgirl thing. And the truth lol reply based response says no read. But ok I'll take your word for it.

You know why nobody read your giant wall of text?

Because it was a giant wall of text.

Ain't nobody got time for that.

You can be a big boy and go play outside, now! Unless you like the treatment you're getting here right now.

If you don't like the responses you're getting, step away from the computer. Pet a cat. Do some laundry.

Fighting and arguing (and trolling) causes dopamine release. You get a bit of a "high" from being confrontational. But, it's a crappy high.

I'm gonna go smoke a bowl and laugh and shake my head about this to myself.

 

[Backfire 380]

Niggas is fucking relentless and so am I at least this is funny. Them other forums got trolls with no confidence.

 

[Backfire 380]

You know why nobody read your giant wall of text?

Because it was a giant wall of text.

Ain't nobody got time for that.

You can be a big boy and go play outside, now! Unless you like the treatment you're getting here right now.

If you don't like the responses you're getting, step away from the computer. Pet a cat. Do some laundry.

Fighting and arguing (and trolling) causes dopamine release. You get a bit of a "high" from being confrontational. But, it's a crappy high.

I'm gonna go smoke a bowl and laugh and shake my head about this to myself.

Blah blah ain't nobody got time to read a reply from you that you ain't need to waste time writing

 

[Marceline]

GFE is transactional and something that is agreed upon beforehand by both parties with the understanding that it is a fantasy roleplay and nothing more.

If your story is true, I wouldn't consider what she did to be a girlfriend experience situation. Honestly, if everything you said was true, I don't think either party should be on a camsite, as a model or a member. The sort of behavior you both exhibited is extremely unhealthy. For her, she's a model, being on a camsite is a job. It's odd to refuse shows from someone, but still allow them into your room to take up what should be paid time for free and lose out on money from other members in the process. If she was saying she was in love, after such a short amount of time at that, and yet your only interactions took place on the camsite, that should have also been a huge red flag.

For you, you admitted in your post that you are not mentally well along with some other telltale signs which leads me to believe that you were very truthful about that part. In your posts here you jumped to being angry and lashing out at people really quick over some pretty innocuous posts. I'm saying this with the utmost sincerity, you should probably take a step back from this model, camsites and the internet in general and seek some professional help.

 

[Backfire 380]

You know why nobody read your giant wall of text?

Because it was a giant wall of text.

Ain't nobody got time for that.

You can be a big boy and go play outside, now! Unless you like the treatment you're getting here right now.

If you don't like the responses you're getting, step away from the computer. Pet a cat. Do some laundry.

Fighting and arguing (and trolling) causes dopamine release. You get a bit of a "high" from being confrontational. But, it's a crappy high.

I'm gonna go smoke a bowl and laugh and shake my head about this to myself.

Lol you so stupid you can get the same or worse treatment outside. I think the real people outside are rougher than you at least they got the same energy in person lol. You probably can't stand potential physical conflict lol. Let's not talk about outside little girl!

 

[MarieElise]

You know why nobody read your giant wall of text?

Because it was a giant wall of text.

Ain't nobody got time for that.

You can be a big boy and go play outside, now! Unless you like the treatment you're getting here right now.

If you don't like the responses you're getting, step away from the computer. Pet a cat. Do some laundry.

Fighting and arguing (and trolling) causes dopamine release. You get a bit of a "high" from being confrontational. But, it's a crappy high.

I'm gonna go smoke a bowl and laugh and shake my head about this to myself.

You are beautiful and super sexy! I'm so sorry this vulgar little piece of shite has decided to single you out. This forum is a really nice place, and you seem so cool. I feel compelled to apologize. I'll feel his shame for him, for his awful and disgusting behavior, since he obviously can't right now. If that pic is you though, honestly it would work as advertising for me, because you look great!

 

[Backfire 380]

You know why nobody read your giant wall of text?

Because it was a giant wall of text.

Ain't nobody got time for that.

You can be a big boy and go play outside, now! Unless you like the treatment you're getting here right now.

If you don't like the responses you're getting, step away from the computer. Pet a cat. Do some laundry.

Fighting and arguing (and trolling) causes dopamine release. You get a bit of a "high" from being confrontational. But, it's a crappy high.

I'm gonna go smoke a bowl and laugh and shake my head about this to myself.

Look I understand you’re upset at the responses to your post. But you need chill down a bit. I understand you’re trolling others right back, but take it with the grain of salt and see the value in what others have responded with that have read your post. Easier said than done. I get it.

I think both you and the model went into an emotional spiral that became quite toxic. When things become emotionally draining or aggressive, I think it’s best for members to remove themselves from the situation and understand that cam sites are there for transactional activities. No matter how a model may pull the GFE or a really make a fantasy believable, I think it’s best to try to practice bringing yourself to reality before this blowup like they are already did. Even if that means you don’t visit that model ever again.

Again easier said than done, but I urge you and others to find healthy ways to do that to avoid situations that turn into heavy emotional investments when it concerns your relationship with a cam model. Try to be realistic and keep it transactional. If member or model can’t respect each other’s boundaries then it’s best to move along.

GFE is transactional and something that is agreed upon beforehand by both parties with the understanding that it is a fantasy roleplay and nothing more.

If your story is true, I wouldn't consider what she did to be a girlfriend experience situation. Honestly, if everything you said was true, I don't think either party should be on a camsite, as a model or a member. The sort of behavior you both exhibited is extremely unhealthy. For her, she's a model, being on a camsite is a job. It's odd to refuse shows from someone, but still allow them into your room to take up what should be paid time for free and lose out on money from other members in the process. If she was saying she was in love, after such a short amount of time at that, and yet your only interactions took place on the camsite, that should have also been a huge red flag.

For you, you admitted in your post that you are not mentally well along with some other telltale signs which leads me to believe that you were very truthful about that part. In your posts here you jumped to being angry and lashing out at people really quick over some pretty innocuous posts. I'm saying this with the utmost sincerity, you should probably take a step back from this model, camsites and the internet in general and seek some professional help.

Lol

 

[Backfire 380]

You are beautiful and super sexy! I'm so sorry this vulgar little piece of shite has decided to single you out. This forum is a really nice place, and you seem so cool. I feel compelled to apologize. I'll feel his shame for him, for his awful and disgusting behavior, since he obviously can't right now. If that pic is you though, honestly it would work as advertising for me, because you look great!

 

[rbeccabuck]

You are beautiful and super sexy! I'm so sorry this vulgar little piece of shite has decided to single you out. This forum is a really nice place, and you seem so cool. I feel compelled to apologize. I'll feel his shame for him, for his awful and disgusting behavior, since he obviously can't right now. If that pic is you though, honestly it would work as advertising for me, because you look great!

Thank you love! Do me a favor and chuck that shame out the window, nobody needs it around here. I've seen this kind of behavior from *SO MANY* guys online and IRL, it's so pathetic all I can do is laugh. Now I'm bored.

You, however, are a fabulous gem and I am so glad you like my avatar. I thought I lost it and was so happy to find it again, 'cause it's my *favorite* and I feel like it captures me pretty well. It's like I have my own little personal life coach staring at me, reminding me of how I want to be. Thank you for the compliments and encouragement, I am stronger for it

 

[MiaSarah]

So this dude is now all loco because no one here decided to read his wall of text, and he is now throwing a hissy fit on everyone? jaja. What a idiota.

 

[GraysonDrake]

Lol you so stupid you can get the same or worse treatment outside. I think the real people outside are rougher than you at least they got the same energy in person lol. You probably can't stand potential physical conflict lol. Let's not talk about outside little girl!