It's this strangely common way people will respond sometimes when you make an aggressive/offensive comment directed at them. I didn't even invent it.
Wait, you do want to to discuss it? You sure?
The fact that you fondly remember when someone tells you you're nice makes me certain you're a very lovely person Raychel.
The way he worded stuff did come across really bad. He's also kind of setting himself up as some kind of expert who gatekeeps this industry when the likelihood is he knows nothing about it at all. His words and phrasing definitely infer a certain attitude that we see all too often. So he definitely isn't coming across very well at all. Not to mention how cringe it is that he's here talking, and not her.
But when you say that this girl is "too sweet," I guess you're just referring to things like her refusing to take your money (for her nails)...and who's super nice to everyone (including rude assholes)? Like so sweet that it almost makes you feel guilty for asking for a pussy flash? Like The Golden Girls' Rose Nylund "Okey dokey!" sweet? Lol.
Glad to meet ya!
Wasn't intending to engage with what was started here earlier, but when I saw your comment I couldn't resist, I just love it.Hi, Chris! There was a guy on here a while ago who'd made a similar comment about how a girl he knows is "too sweet to be a cam model," (or maybe he'd said "too nice?") and I remember reading it and thinking Well what the hell does that mean???
I would suggest that instead of getting into a pissing match with the models here, you should go start the thread that will help the object of your attentions stop pulling her hair out.
Genuinely was not intending to insult anyone, and there's a lot of presumptions being drawn here, although if that is universally how my joke (that was directed at my friend) was interpreted, I can't say that isn't at all on me.... (Although maybe that's just the vocal ones...)
I mean..... You could ask me what I think, if you want? You might discover I'm not quite such an asshole as you've decided I am? I mean, probably not, I'm clearly Satan, but it can't hurt to try, right?
I find that referring to someone as a simp is usually quite depreciating. Glad to hear you refer to it as misconstrued, that's a step in the right direction away from the intentional malice narrative.Mate, I don't see anything particularly self-deprecating here, but there are certainly some phrases and terms that can be *easily* misconstrued as taking a negative swipe at the female cam model community (or at least implying that negativity).
I would suggest that instead of getting into a pissing match with the models here, you should go start the thread that will help the object of your attentions stop pulling her hair out.
Oh.. and as an observation.. for a soon-to-be clinical psychologist, you seem to have too little empathy / ability to "read the crowd" and minimal or maybe underdeveloped communication skills.
Wow, that comment went from somewhat-amiable to dark in an eye-blink. wasn't expecting it to end with concerns for my childhood development. "read the crowd" Since you said it though, what makes you believe that? Just because I'm still responding despite the majority apparently being against me?
No, not that.
That is what is winning you no friends here.
Okay, you were heading to the top of the list with your screen-nic, but then you doubled down with grilled cheese! I swear if you say that you're Gryffindor I'll declare you as absolutely perfect and share my credit cards with you!
Wasn't intending to engage with what was started here earlier, but when I saw your comment I couldn't resist, I just love it.
I love the fact that your post doesn't even bother pretending you've got any interest in addressing the issue, or in expressing empathy for the person you're supposedly supporting. Why waste time with that when instead you can just go balls-deep with the ad hominem venom and personal attacks, right?
The thing I love even more though is how gleeful you are when you think you're pointing out to me the various pathetic things I said in that post, apparently oblivious to the fact that was the entire point. Self depreciation humour is great for introductions... Partly because whenever someone sees it as an opportunity to out-alpha you, it's generally a pretty good indication that they've probably got a shitty personality....
Wasn't intending to engage with what was started here earlier, but when I saw your comment I couldn't resist, I just love it.
I love the fact that your post doesn't even bother pretending you've got any interest in addressing the issue, or in expressing empathy for the person you're supposedly supporting. Why waste time with that when instead you can just go balls-deep with the ad hominem venom and personal attacks, right?
The thing I love even more though is how gleeful you are when you think you're pointing out to me the various pathetic things I said in that post, apparently oblivious to the fact that was the entire point. Self depreciation humour is great for introductions... Partly because whenever someone sees it as an opportunity to out-alpha you, it's generally a pretty good indication that they've probably got a shitty personality....
I'll have to take your word on that ArcticKitty, because I haven't seen any of those virtues yet. And I think if you could look at what she wrote through unbiased eyes for your friend (very difficult), you'd see that it was actually quite malicious. Maybe she was having a bad day, I have those sometimes.
Seems like a strange way to gain understanding to me, next time I'd suggest asking.See, that’s just it. I wasn’t being malicious. I was actually trying to understand where you’re coming from when you say that the woman is “too sweet to be a cam model.” I was asking you what exactly that means, and I thought you’d get a kick out of my Golden Girls reference. Not get your Hanes (or Fruit of the Loom or whatever tf you wear) in a twist.
Nope, I wasn’t having a bad day at all. You, sir, sound like you’re the one who needs a Snickers. I suggest you try the Snickers ice cream bars. They’re delicious.
