Just read an interesting article I thought some of you might also enjoy. Here are a couple out-takes...
He [Dan Savage] writes at length about the relationship between low libido and monogamy. ''You can have strict monogamy or you can have low libido, Ladies, but you can't have both.''
Read the full articleWhen New York Times interviewer Mark Oppenheimer suggests Savage's views are tainted by the American gay male view of the sexual world, with its tolerance for pornography, fetishes and a variety of partnered arrangements, Savage responds that the male gay world simply expresses what men are really like when they don't have women reining them in. ''Women, straight women, are in relationships with men. Doesn't it help to know what we're really like? Women can go on marrying and pretending that their boyfriends and husbands are Mr Darcy or some rom-com dream man. But where's that going to get them? Besides divorce court?''