- Oct 30, 2015
I have an interest in many things on the Forum. I learn a lot. Makes me think. The depth & intensity of your situation just has me wondering what the final outcome will be. It sounds like you're reporting her, will be blocking her and she's sending Skype messages. I appreciate you answering my question. Thank you George.No, I haven't yet deleted/blocked every access. I wrote up something to convey to the sites and began to pull some material (screenshots, etc.) together for that purpose. Then real life intruded, so this kind of fell into the background temporarily.
The thread is confusing because there were several hijacks and diversions.
And yes, of course it's true that until everything is blocked and/or deleted, I can still receive personal Skype messages (which happened yesterday in the form of comments reminding me that Christmas in Russia is only a few days away as well as a mini-lecture on how any girlfriend in life has to be "bought." lol)
Do you have a particular interest or just generally curious about the status of the situation?
Me too.wondering what the final outcome will be
I'll admit that writing up messages to send to sites to explain the situation is not fun; it's awkward to say the least and doubt creeps in (do it or drop it).you're reporting her, will be blocking her and she's sending Skype messages.
My friend Is a Russian studio model. She has recently raised her prices and begged me not to spend too much on her. They are not all love-conning sharks.As I've mentioned I have had more than one Russian girlfriend and spent time with their friends and families. There is more of an expectation to give gifts than here but that only included small gifts periodically such as flowers. There was zero expectation of a constant stream of expensive gifts. Thinking back if I had done that they would have thought I was guilty of something. Either she's be hanging around with girlfriends of new Russians (ones with money) or she watches too much tv.
My friend Is a Russian studio model. She has recently raised her prices and begged me not to spend too much on her. They are not all love-conning sharks.
Just a thought George, but have you considered fucking that woman who is always poking her nose into your relationship? Might be the easiest solution to your problem.......Oh, also I tell you this...if feel that you fucked that woman who is always poking her nose into our relationship, then believe me, you will never see, speak, hear me again.
And for fuck's sake George, this is absolute lunacy. I mean, as much as I enjoy reading this utter madness, it's not good for your mental state. STOP. TALKING. TO. HER.Me too.
I'll admit that writing up messages to send to sites to explain the situation is not fun; it's awkward to say the least and doubt creeps in (do it or drop it).
As several people warned, as long as even one channel remains open, there's opportunity for contact. I admit that I backslid in the sense of getting into a Skype conversation with her a few days ago. I've been good at not reaching out but when she wrote I wasn't able to resist the interaction. So another lesson learned: Once you've been speaking with a person multiple times a week, sometimes for hours at a time, for a year, it is definitely hard to do the cold turkey - even if you now have a negative view. I found that it was hard to resist replying.
Several people in this thread have made what I think were really astute comments about her possible antisocial and / or narcissistic personality. I recall @MarieElise @Sashacurves @ArcticKitty maybe @inertvolcano maybe others. Anyway, in the spirit of what is hopefully the last of these exchanges, a few snippets:
Her: Since you didn't ask how was my weekend...I slept a lot, went to friends and was with my mom.Me: That's good.At this time I came from friends, then I slept all day. and when my friend asked me what my boyfriend gave me, I said that I almost had a nervous breakdown. and I wanted the promised iPhoneI never promised to buy you an iPhone. You literally made that up. Well, then...let me explain something to you now... it doesn't matter which girl you're dating, you always buy her...(gifts, trips to a restaurant, joint vacations) so have you really never bought a girl?Of course....I've bought countless dinners, stays in hotels, trips, jewelry, for women over the course of life. Why would it surprise you? That's not my question, I'm asking, why don't you keep your promise? I never ask for something immense, but only tell you about your promises and what you wanted to do for meYou invent promises I never made!No, I make suggestions of what you should get for me. What do you smell like?I've been wanting to ask for a week nowUnexpected question. ;-)what flavor?You're asking about my cologne?--------------------------------------------------Me: Look I'm not sure what we've been doing here but not sure I want to continue whatever it is...Her: Are you a fool? I've told you more than once that we have a relationship, and now you're saying that you didn't know what was going on with us? if you don't believe me even after you know more about me than my friends and relatives...what kind of relationship can we talk about? or have you forgotten about it?It's really hard to take this seriously anymore, I'm just being honest with you.You and I have long since crossed all permissible boundaries in communicating with me. And you really are the only one I have. What else do you have to know?And just a reminder, my Christmas is in a few daysI figured you would mention that again.Oh, also I tell you this...if feel that you fucked that woman who is always poking her nose into our relationship, then believe me, you will never see, speak, hear me again.If that statement is true, it would mean that you do actually have real feelings. wow, did you guess it yourself or did someone suggest it?Why are you bringing that up and making a warning in the first place? Seems you feel you should do whatever you want.Within reason, I don't sleep with guys, if that's what you mean."Within reason"? lol Meaning what, I'm curious.Not allowing yourself anything extra, no touching, kissing and so on.Comes across as somewhat unrealistic and difficult to believe. you're going to have to believe it or fight with me about it all the time...I only dance with my girls.Oh, got it.This discussion offends me. I only have dinner with my girls. any questions? You're pissing me off right now.Why?I said once, what is unclear? I tell you about my behavior in clubs....if you don't believe that, then that's your problem! no need to make me angry, you know that anger is one of my strengthsLook, I'm not arguing with you about what you do when you go out. I never have!If I work on a webcam, then I have to fuck everything that moves? Is that what it looks like to you? well, find yourself a nun, a virgin who does not like attention on herself and refuses a cocktail that was bought for her simply because SHE is BEAUTIFUL!!!!! I never give my number, and if a man is very persistent, then I just pretend that I wrote down the number and as a rule I always say that I will call..but I never call...this is only done so that n will get behind meOkay, I NEVER said that, either. But I'm glad you explained all of this. Thank you.Maybe you should chew something else and put it in your mouth?Is that an insult? It's a question, there's a question mark there, don't you see?Tell me your view, so that I, too, do not waste time and emotions that I put into our relationship. make it clear to me, because this relationship has not only you and your experiences, which you obviously forget about. There are girls around you. Do you realize that you can lose me forever because of your desire or mistake?Umm...okay.When you were abducted by aliens, they brought you back, but forgot about your brain?You're actually funny. I laughed out loud. Are you a jealous type of girl? I thought I would know after so long.I am a pathological possessive. I actually have to go.We forgot to discuss my Christmas present. Apple iPhone 14 Pro Max 256 GB Smartphone, Deep Purple. in order not to have a lot of costs, it's good. You don't have to get me boots, the weather is still positive, the boots can wait.What happened to that really rich guy from your past? I talked to you about this topic, rich guys don't always treat a girl well, she is often perceived as a toy. I am not ready to be a thing in the hands of a person and for him to think that everything can be bought. I can't get over myself mentallyWell, that makes sense. I need to go.Wait, I don't like the suspended state, what about the gift? Okay, should I wait for that today?or tomorrow?It's really late here for me.
MarieElise and Sashacurves could probably be in Mensa. Just sayin
Still receiving Skype messages is bad enough but to respond at all, let alone a lengthy discussion??? I think he needed to stop a long time ago. Just like I needed to stop following this Thread a long time ago. Bye, I'll see everyone in a different Thread.And for fuck's sake George, this is absolute lunacy. I mean, as much as I enjoy reading this utter madness, it's not good for your mental state. STOP. TALKING. TO. HER.
Worryingly, some of his responses in the transcript don't seem to indicate a man who has grasped that the end should be nigh....Still receiving Skype messages is bad enough but to respond at all, let alone a lengthy discussion??? I think he needed to stop a long time ago. Just like I needed to stop following this Thread a long time ago. Bye, I'll see everyone in a different Thread.
She is going to keep telling you to spend money on her as long as you give her the opportunity. What else is there to prove?
John... please seek mental help. Your obsession with this thread is ridiculous. I will continue to ban any new accounts you make here.George, Are you a man?, break all contact with her and make sure she cannot contact you.
Just take another cam-girl for sex, what is it with her anyway? You can't have her in real life, she's just deceiving you.
So in the interest of an update: I've been busy...work and other aspects of life. In a way, this should be viewed as a good thing: I don't have time or inclination to be constantly thinking about this model anymore (or the thread). But since others have expressed interest in why I kept up communication in the last week or two, the reality is that there was only the interaction that I last posted (which is now going back a week). I finally took the next step, which was admittedly difficult, of cutting off (blocking) on personal accounts and deleting things. (I actually haven't gotten around to all the sites we had at one time or another interacted on, so in theory she could reach out further via a couple of those, but I'll seal those off soon, too).Yeah tbh George I read through the snippets, and I don’t think continuing to talk to her is gonna be very healthy for you. Or really go anywhere positive.
I don’t think you’re going to get her to admit and or see what she’s been doing. It’s just gonna end up being endless verbal sparring.
I know people who continue communicating with others who they don’t like. Unless it’s a work situation where they are forced to, it gets super weird and obsessive. I agree with the poster above who noted that continuing contact is not going to be good for your well-being. Even though you’ve distanced yourself, the communications themselves are still very toxic, and hanger onish. Replace her with someone quality.