Chatting in a sexual private?

[Just_Me]

I've ever only done one private and was honestly too nervous to say much of anything. However, should I decide to engage in more of these types of privates, would chatting be welcome? Honestly, I would just let her do her thing and watch intently, but I've seen some profiles says that not talking while in a private is more weird for a model. So, models, can you shed any light on this subject?

 

[LadyLuna]

A little is nice, like at least saying "hi" and "I'd like to see what makes you happy" at the beginning, and "thanks" at the end. When a guy leaves without saying thank you I always get this "did he like it? what if he didn't? I'll never know x.x" thing going on.

Also, a bit of a "mmm" every now and then lets us know that you're still watching and enjoying the show as we play. Personally, I don't expect much coherent typing during it, but a little key-mashing of pleasure is a good thing, because I have had cases where the pvt ended suddenly and the guy comes back in my room 20 minutes later saying his internet died and it never logged him out... and it turns out he saw the first 30 seconds of that 10 minute private and I didn't even know he was gone O.O

 

[IsabelleTease]

I don't mind having a private with a quiet guy as long as he atleast says hello so I know MFC isnt glitching haha and atleast a thank you at the end. Ive had many naughty privates where the guy says he's shy or just wants to watch me enjoy myself which is so not a big deal, as long as I get off and he enjoys it thats all that matters to me If Im having a sexual private the last thing I want to do is chat about the weather or the holiday season.. if im diddling myself and the guy is able to type a full sentence and hold a conversation id think i was doing something wrong

 

[Just_Me]

A little is nice, like at least saying "hi" and "I'd like to see what makes you happy" at the beginning, and "thanks" at the end. When a guy leaves without saying thank you I always get this "did he like it? what if he didn't? I'll never know x.x" thing going on.

Also, a bit of a "mmm" every now and then lets us know that you're still watching and enjoying the show as we play. Personally, I don't expect much coherent typing during it, but a little key-mashing of pleasure is a good thing, because I have had cases where the pvt ended suddenly and the guy comes back in my room 20 minutes later saying his internet died and it never logged him out... and it turns out he saw the first 30 seconds of that 10 minute private and I didn't even know he was gone O.O

I never considered the typing to let them know I'm still there aspect. I guess I just thought they wanted to like discuss the weather or something while they were being all sexy and whatnot. The two responses actually clarified quite a bit for me. As for the hi and letting them know what I was wanting during it, I think that'd happen in a pm or something of that nature before the private even began.

 

[LiciousLily]

Don't be shy babes! Private are accustomed to what YOU want. Chatting is fine, if you want to be quiet, that's fine, too! Just say "thanks" or "bye' at the end .

 

[Poker_Babe]

Don't be shy babes! Private are accustomed to what YOU want.

^ Exactly This ^

It used to bother me when I would get an offer to go prv out of the blue, without discussing what he would like to do before hand. My BF brought it to my attention that most likely the reason why guys do that is because he is probably shy. Funny because the thought that he might be shy never even crossed my mind. So now I'm a bit more understanding to that end. But when the guy doesn't say anything, it makes me wonder, "am I doing a good job?" or "is he not enjoying the show", etc...

 

[Cassidy Nicole]

I kinda expect guys to be pretty quiet in privates, because lets be honest, there are most likely attending to the task at hand.. At the beginning of them though, I like to know they are in there and a general idea of what they want.

I had a private last week on Streamate, I was doing a little bit of everything because he didn't say what he liked or didn't like, then about 5 minutes in told me how boring it was and he wanted his money back...How am I supposed to know what you like if you don't tell me?!?!?! I am not a mind reader. :icon-rolleyes:

 

[PlayboyMegan]

The longest pvts I've ever had were just pure talking. Not even nudity. It can be a fun way to really get the model and her to get to know you as well. I've heard some models say they are not into that. So just ask first. I'm not sure if that's what you meant by "chatting" or not. If you are just happy with the usual cum show, chatting is not necessary, but a "thanks, I came hard." is always nice to hear! :thumbleft:

 

[LilyMarie]

When I'm in a private and the guy doesn't say anything for 3-5 minutes, I usually start worrying. Just let me know that you like what you're seeing every now and then and we'll be fine And say bye before you leave.

 

[Jessi]

1) Make sure she knows what you expect, how long etc
2) If she asks you a question ("Do you like this?" "Should I XYZ...?") let her know
3) Say "thanks" or "that was great" at the end if you liked it

Above all be polite and she wont mind if you're quiet!

My favourite kind of privates are the ones where they tell me to just enjoy myself the way I like. Its also great when a regular takes me to private just to catch up.

 

[innesx]

I like it when a guy leads the show. I want to know what he wants! Does he want to see me from another angle? In a private, of course!
I also like it when he talks at the end. Saying thank you, saying that he likes it, whatever. Always good to hear, so I know I've done a good job

 

[Kalb]

LOL.. I took the context of this thread in the completely wrong way. I thought OP was asking if it was okay to have a conversation with a model in private. I was gonna say, "Hell yeah.. beats performing, haha" but as the other models said.. do talk at least some, so they know you're there and enjoying it.

 

[ComicOzzie]

I kinda expect guys to be pretty quiet in privates, because lets be honest, there are most likely attending to the task at hand.. At the beginning of them though, I like to know they are in there and a general idea of what they want.

I had a private last week on Streamate, I was doing a little bit of everything because he didn't say what he liked or didn't like, then about 5 minutes in told me how boring it was and he wanted his money back...How am I supposed to know what you like if you don't tell me?!?!?! I am not a mind reader. :icon-rolleyes:

I guarantee he told you this right after he came.

 

[Anonymous]

I had a private last week on Streamate, I was doing a little bit of everything because he didn't say what he liked or didn't like, then about 5 minutes in told me how boring it was and he wanted his money back...How am I supposed to know what you like if you don't tell me?!?!?! I am not a mind reader. :icon-rolleyes:

I'm sure that you were NOT boring. He's probably one of those jerks who expects cam girls to constantly be pounding their pussy all day, and if they aren't then they're "boring."

Streamate attracts a lot of assholes...have you seen that site Motherless (SM promotes their models on Motherless)? SMH. Guys who brag about sexual activity with their pet hamsters are absolute SCUM.

 

[mynameisbob84]

I kinda expect guys to be pretty quiet in privates, because lets be honest, there are most likely attending to the task at hand.. At the beginning of them though, I like to know they are in there and a general idea of what they want.

I had a private last week on Streamate, I was doing a little bit of everything because he didn't say what he liked or didn't like, then about 5 minutes in told me how boring it was and he wanted his money back...How am I supposed to know what you like if you don't tell me?!?!?! I am not a mind reader. :icon-rolleyes:

I now can't get this song out my head (which isn't necessarily a bad thing, yo).



"How am I supposed to know that you're high, if you won't let me touch you? Woah-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh. How am I supposed to know if you're high, if you won't even dance?"

 

[Jessi]

Ugh last night I had a guy send a premium invite. I said out loud in public chat
"hey could we talk about this for a minute?"
*no answer*
*accept invite*
"Hey normally I like to talk a bit first, what are you looking for...?"
"hello"
"Um, are you there....?"
"Helloooooo? Mister?"
"Oh okay well bye then... o_o"

Its like he sent the invite and then ran away from his computer

 

[Kalb]

Ugh last night I had a guy send a premium invite. I said out loud in public chat
"hey could we talk about this for a minute?"
*no answer*
*accept invite*
"Hey normally I like to talk a bit first, what are you looking for...?"
"hello"
"Um, are you there....?"
"Helloooooo? Mister?"
"Oh okay well bye then... o_o"

Its like he sent the invite and then ran away from his computer

Was this on MFC? If you just continued to talk and try and get him to respond, would it continued to have charged him for that time? Although I guess a charge back could be possible if his computer froze (but he would have had to click enter?). And I see on MFC you gals can make a lot not in the private chats as well.

 

[Jessi]

Ugh last night I had a guy send a premium invite. I said out loud in public chat
"hey could we talk about this for a minute?"
*no answer*
*accept invite*
"Hey normally I like to talk a bit first, what are you looking for...?"
"hello"
"Um, are you there....?"
"Helloooooo? Mister?"
"Oh okay well bye then... o_o"

Its like he sent the invite and then ran away from his computer

Was this on MFC? If you just continued to talk and try and get him to respond, would it continued to have charged him for that time? Although I guess a charge back could be possible if his computer froze (but he would have had to click enter?). And I see on MFC you gals can make a lot not in the private chats as well.

It was on MFC. I think it would have only cost him about 120 tokens, and I ended it after he wouldn't answer me.

 

[Kalb]

Oh gotcha, so it isn't a per minute? I actually had something like that happen, a guy wanted me to suck my toes (glad I had just showered!). He was talking for a bit, then went quiet.. so I just kept going for about 3 minutes, thinking "Umm.. ok? I'll... uhh.. ." The little pay thing that shows what you are earning was still going up, but turned out he had frozen up. Oh well, lol.

 

[Jaydenrainey]

streamate is full of guys who go private and never say a word. the other day i had a guy go private for 30 minutes and i kept saying hi? hey? are you there? what would you like to see? silence. i just ended up getting myself off the way i normally would. saying hello and stating your preferences as well as a goodbye is the way to do it. otherwise im left wondering what to do with myself and if you came or you just didnt like it and left.