First time poster new here i guess im here to vent out what happend and in my experience ive gone out with 2 girls 1st one wasnt so bad but she left me because i didnt make enough money to support her and she basically ghosted me. the 2nd girl keeps asking for more money even when im all tapped out she tells me she needs it for college and bills . she tells me her boss barely pays her and she cant work anymore. shes stressing me out i dont want to post her cam name or pics or chat logs ive had with her because she always deletes it like shes trying to hide it all. i dont know its just all bad i got fed up with her behavior and decided to end it. this is the 5th person ive dated to have a knife in my back for the 5th time. you think the feeling of betrayal is easy to get used but it doesnt ive grown tired and old . dating isnt what i thought it would be like and if anyone wants to know who im talking about you can message me and ill send you all the info i have on the person who ruined me .
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You've not gone out with either of them. Give your head a shake.
Just have a wank.
Just have a wank.
You've dated no one and you need to stop supporting love cons.
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You wont find a gf on a cam site. Try tinder.
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These screenshots only further prove that she was just teasing you for money, you were not dating.
I deleted your other posts because there was personal information in them.
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This is a love con.
You are falling for love cons.
Go meet humans in meat space. Touch grass. Stop giving money to scam artists.
You are falling for love cons.
Go meet humans in meat space. Touch grass. Stop giving money to scam artists.
Have you honestly shared any of these messages or spoken about your "girlfriend" to anyone in your immediate life? Family, friends, and mental health specialist?
Im not trying to be cheeky, but you should really tell someone you trust what you are sharing with us. You really need support, man, and you arent going to get it on a camsite.
Girlfriends arent supposed nickel and dime ya.
Im not trying to be cheeky, but you should really tell someone you trust what you are sharing with us. You really need support, man, and you arent going to get it on a camsite.
Girlfriends arent supposed nickel and dime ya.
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fully agree on this being no relationship
HOWEVER, i dont care what is between two peoplr it is not ok to share pictures of someone without their consent. this is a disgusting behavior.
HOWEVER, i dont care what is between two peoplr it is not ok to share pictures of someone without their consent. this is a disgusting behavior.
okay so how do people expose a con artist? what is acceptable and what is not. Lying? Emotional manipulation? Playing with a guys heart? where is the right and wrong of things. How do i warn people than . Just let the next guy fall victim where does it end.
Molly and David. This new version of Obla-di-obla-da is shite.
Seriously, she's robbing you at gunpoint @Hiro1995 . Block her and put down the phone. That's not love, that's a full blown theft of your income.
Seriously, she's robbing you at gunpoint @Hiro1995 . Block her and put down the phone. That's not love, that's a full blown theft of your income.
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Report it to the site support where they have access to all messaging and both sides of the full story!
It would be so easy to quote someone out of context who was requested to do a GFE, then go around posting to these forums. I'm not saying that's what you have done here, but it would be a very easy thing to do if some pissy customer wanted revenge for some tiny little thing. Without access to all communications, no one really truly knows what went on here! And it's not our job on a free forum to go through all of that in our free time and make judgment calls! Hence why I'm fucking not, and merely backing up Schnauzevolle here!
As for "saving" other men. They're not allll gullible & inexperienced. But, yes, it's an immoral scam if it truly is a scam. If you have unresolved feelings I would suggest visiting a professional mental health specialist. They have the training and are fairly compensated for their emotional energy and time, in providing you with further direction and support.
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Honestly I didn't read the screenshots purely because I already knew it was a love con and they are just doing the whole typical hustle of keeping you on the hook to get as much money as they can... but that's exactly what it is, and it's not illegal right? You just have to use your brain and realise what they are doing. When someone is just asking or expecting money constantly while being online, it's really very obvious to see. Honestly, I know it can be morally wrong and can be really bad if a guy sells his house or gets himself into debt to support his "girlfriend" this way, but I really see it as no different as a cam model teasing on her live stream to get you to tip more.
no she literally put marriage on the table even as far as getting her visa and green card she asked me to pay her bills and medicine and even her broken phone this wasnt even a GFE . i really thought she meant it and she wanted to meet we did private cam talks like off site we had conversations and everything but now she keeps asking for money when i already gave her everything i had i wasnt broke till after i met her like an idiot i helped her because i thought that what a boyfriend would do but she kept digging for more and im pretty much left penniless now i already broke it off with her its just upsetting to me . i genuinely believed for a minute she was being serious . she manipulated me emotionally into believing her and like a fool i did.
You’re not the first and you won’t be the last.
Unfortunately you’ve got to take it on the chin and learn from it.
The next time someone you meet on the internet asks you for money which isn’t a predetermined, accepted and agreed exchange for services - what are you going do…?
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meeting and dating long distance online would not involve money, until after you had met multiple times in person. I know they always have a reason - need the $$ to make the meet happen etc but it’s never real.
a good therapist will be able to help you navigate situations like this. Put your money there
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People incorrectly using (or overusing) the word "literally" is a huge pet peeve of mine. No one "literally" puts marriage on a table.....
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I wanna literally write the word marriage and place it on a table and post a pic but I’m lazy lol
You are being conned. Studios train their models in mass to try this in order to increase their earnings.
I'm sorry this happened but I think it is a good idea for you to look into scams and internet safety a lot more before visiting another cam site.
I'm sorry this happened but I think it is a good idea for you to look into scams and internet safety a lot more before visiting another cam site.
In her defence, he didn't seem too shy about asking for sex and videos. Not saying it's right in any way, but he was taking his share based on the Whatsapp messages posted. I also hope the reference to "school" was the American use of the word, and not the way the word is used elsewhere in the world.
I hope he seriously considers & accepts all the replies given. Maybe by now he has read the many identical situations that have been posted on the forum & realizes this happens & it is a scam.
@Hiro1995 Here is some context for you. I used to help financially support a model. I would send her money via Western Union for birthdays, Christmas gifts, and other special occasions etc. She never once asked me for money, let alone demanded specific amounts. Not one single time. I am not a whale, so they weren't huge gifts (a few hundred $$ each time), but she eventually asked me to slow down on the gifts as she was worried the deposits to her bank account would attract the attention of the tax people as unreported earnings. That is what an honest relationship looks like. I never thought of her as my girlfriend or that we were "dating". She was just a really sweet woman I wanted to help out. She has since finished her nursing degree and doesn't cam anymore. God I miss her.
There is a Yiddish/Russian/German word called “Freier” or “Fraiyer״ or “ ״ פראייר, in Hebrew writing. It stands for someone who can easily get exploited or scammed. The old saying says that Fraiyers never die, they just come and go. If there’s any comfort, last time I got to be the Frayier, I got myself this Cobra Kai T-shirt. A Cobra Kai, much like the Frayer, never dies.
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