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Bad unconvincing dirty talk is worse than no talk at all.

I say, the guys that ask for dirty talk and the only contribution is a cold blank stare while they jerk off furiously is worse than none at all.

If you want your girl to give amazing dirty talk, you have to give it back. It's hard to talk dirty to basically a brick wall.

Good dirty talk is a two way street.
 
I used to hate dirty talking, not because I was embarrassed but more so because I felt I wasn't good at it or felt like it wasn't coming across sexy. Then I started to film videos where role play was a huge part and then felt far more confident with it.
 
I love being given a topic and then just sort of exploring possibilities and scenarios within it. Dirty talk can be fun....I just need my guys to give me a direction to go with it.
 
I say, the guys that ask for dirty talk and the only contribution is a cold blank stare while they jerk off furiously is worse than none at all.

If you want your girl to give amazing dirty talk, you have to give it back. It's hard to talk dirty to basically a brick wall.

Good dirty talk is a two way street.
Yes, I can see where that would make things more difficult. Flying blind, as it were. Clearly, interaction is preferable from your perspective.

Still, I don't care for your tone here missy. Not one bit.

Might be fine for real relationships/intimacy. But if we are talking about webcam performers, it lends itself to the notion that an artist does not bear the sole responsibility for the works they create. Unacceptable.

If I pay for a twerk performance, must I also get on cam and grind along with you in the hopes of helping your efforts succeed? God forbid!

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GenXoxo, SaffronBurke: "Dirty talk" too vague. Need to find out what exactly they are wanting
Diana Blake: Dirty talk takes practice
AwesomeKate: Dirty talk requires mental effort, confident frame of mind, getting into character(?)
Loulou: Roleplay videos helpful


This is where I am coming from: Someone asked me about dirty talk a while back, they had no clue how to proceed. She was given feedback by whoever was asking, she just didn't know where to go with it. At one point she was flat out told a line he wanted to hear; she then latched on to that, and over the next six months, visiting her room every so often I heard that same line repeated (two or three times without anyone even asking for dirty talk that I could see). It was pathetic.

About a month or so after the first time I was asked, she asked me again. So I pointed her to this forum. Also told her she ought to go to tube sites when she wasn't working; plenty of stuff up on those to explain different terms, and plenty of examples to draw inspiration from. Too much effort for her, I guess. Why bother to prepare when you can just wait for someone to show up with money and then flounder helplessly? Fortunately, she moved on to better things.

The fact that someone may be terrible at dirty talk is a very real possibility. And that is a reality that must be faced head-on, not hidden from. I believe it should be approached with much the same mentality as other skills (such as pole-dancing), IF someone wishes to add it to their advertised repertoire.

At any rate, if someone is going to half-ass their forays into this area without adequately preparing (assuming they aren't a 'natural' at it), they shouldn't be surprised if they eventually find themselves having to fend off unwanted ass-pinches from drunks at 3 a.m. while working tables at a Denny's.

Does pretending like you are into it and adopting a IDGAF attitude cover a multitude of sins when it comes to dirty talk? Fake it til you make it? idk.

But this guy is always going to be there watching. He may/may not be right; even if he is, probably shouldn't let him define you.


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I was ready to jokingly reply with that gif of the asian kid saying 'That's racist.' But then I noticed my suggestion, Jade_Lee, online and took a look at her menu. Yeah...Canadian. :blush:
So. She looks Asian, and you just assumed she wasn't Canadian?

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Yes, I can see where that would make things more difficult. Flying blind, as it were. Clearly, interaction is preferable from your perspective.

Still, I don't care for your tone here missy. Not one bit.

Might be fine for real relationships/intimacy. But if we are talking about webcam performers, it lends itself to the notion that an artist does not bear the sole responsibility for the works they create. Unacceptable.

If I pay for a twerk performance, must I also get on cam and grind along with you in the hopes of helping your efforts succeed? God forbid!

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GenXoxo, SaffronBurke: "Dirty talk" too vague. Need to find out what exactly they are wanting
Diana Blake: Dirty talk takes practice
AwesomeKate: Dirty talk requires mental effort, confident frame of mind, getting into character(?)
Loulou: Roleplay videos helpful


This is where I am coming from: Someone asked me about dirty talk a while back, they had no clue how to proceed. She was given feedback by whoever was asking, she just didn't know where to go with it. At one point she was flat out told a line he wanted to hear; she then latched on to that, and over the next six months, visiting her room every so often I heard that same line repeated (two or three times without anyone even asking for dirty talk that I could see). It was pathetic.

About a month or so after the first time I was asked, she asked me again. So I pointed her to this forum. Also told her she ought to go to tube sites when she wasn't working; plenty of stuff up on those to explain different terms, and plenty of examples to draw inspiration from. Too much effort for her, I guess. Why bother to prepare when you can just wait for someone to show up with money and then flounder helplessly? Fortunately, she moved on to better things.

The fact that someone may be terrible at dirty talk is a very real possibility. And that is a reality that must be faced head-on, not hidden from. I believe it should be approached with much the same mentality as other skills (such as pole-dancing), IF someone wishes to add it to their advertised repertoire.

At any rate, if someone is going to half-ass their forays into this area without adequately preparing (assuming they aren't a 'natural' at it), they shouldn't be surprised if they eventually find themselves having to fend off unwanted ass-pinches from drunks at 3 a.m. while working tables at a Denny's.

Does pretending like you are into it and adopting a IDGAF attitude cover a multitude of sins when it comes to dirty talk? Fake it til you make it? idk.

But this guy is always going to be there watching. He may/may not be right; even if he is, probably shouldn't let him define you.


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So. She looks Asian, and you just assumed she wasn't Canadian?

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Honestly there was ZERO tone. You seem to take a tone from my simmple observation comment from my personal experience. But if you personally want to experience my dirty talk, by all means, pay my $9.99 rates. But if you are going to try and insult my most popular requested shows, lol. Why are you salty?

I'm also facetious as fuck.
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Honestly there was ZERO tone. You seem to take a tone from my simmple observation comment from my personal experience. But if you personally want to experience my dirty talk, by all means, pay my $9.99 rates. But if you are going to try and insult my most popular requested shows, lol. Why are you salty?
Au contraire, there was tone a-plenty. Don't you dare try and pretend there wasn't.
I say, the guys that ask for dirty talk and the only contribution is a cold blank stare while they jerk off furiously is worse than none at all.
Maybe I am in the mood for a cold blank stare furious jerk off. And if I am going to have to come in, take you by the hand, and slow walk you through the whole thing, maybe YOU should pay ME 9.99.
 
Au contraire, there was tone a-plenty. Don't you dare try and pretend there wasn't.

Maybe I am in the mood for a cold blank stare furious jerk off. And if I am going to have to come in, take you by the hand, and slow walk you through the whole thing, maybe YOU should pay ME 9.99.

DUDE I WAS TELLING A JOKE.
 
DUDE I WAS TELLING A JOKE.
HAHAHAHA

edit: anyway, I was mostly messing with you a little. I'll stop. It's clear you are a little self-conscious about your dirty talking abilities. Also, you misspelled "simple".
 
If you thought I was dead serious, I will explain my facetious joke further.Yhe guys who don't contribute anything who expect dirty talk, it's harder to read and contribute more then the guys who talk back. Cause everyone's dirty talk is different. Especially if it is the first time. Most of the shows I do are intense, so new guys I can either be too intense or not enough, cause all I have to go by is "mmmm dirty talk" and "nice"

If you want to beat off and not contribute anything that's fine. But I prefer a little contribution on your half, not a lot. Especially if you are paying for my rates, I want to accommodate you to the best I can.
 
I used to be so much more nervous about dirty talk than I am now! I think getting a bit older, having more experience in real sex situations. Knowing a bit more about what I like, maybe watching too much porn... I don't know. I just don't feel uncomfortable doing it like I used to, it actually turns me on now. Strange how our desires and fantasies change. I've always been good at dirty talk one on one, when I started camming I was originally looking for phone sex work as I've been told I'm good at it. But with camming I guess it can be a bit more "oh my god, what if I fuck up and embarrass myself?!". So originally when I used to cam I shied away from it, now I'm easy going and do a lot more though I wouldn't say it's my specialty.

There is also that the kinds of things that turn me on might not turn someone else on so I can see why it's difficult for some girls. I used to have a regular with an adult baby fetish and there was definitely a line where he liked some stuff but had no interest in other stuff so it was harder and more daunting for me to be brave about my words in hope I'd say the right thing. Especially as the fetish didn't turn me on I didn't have much to go on. While if it's a fetish about a dominant male and me being submissive I know a lot more things that turn the person on as that's what turns me on. Or if it's just about wild passionate sex that's good fun. I find dirty chat being dominant is fun and hot too as while I'm generally more submissive I can be quite dominant as a person so I kind of enjoy the position switch around. I find in a situation where I know what turns the person on and I get excited by it then it works and I am much more likely to get it right, I especially like it if the guy can dirty talk back so we're interacting off one another.

I don't know about Streamate but I know what others mean, I work on MFC and it doesn't seem as geared up towards dirty chat. But then MFC is much more based around regulars and friendships, it's easier to risk making a tit out of yourself when you think you'll never hear from that person again!
 
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HAHAHAHA

edit: anyway, I was mostly messing with you a little. I'll stop. It's clear you are a little self-conscious about your dirty talking abilities. Also, you misspelled "simple".

Listen if you are going to insult me, i'm going to defend myself, like and I would expect you to do the same! This is my job, and I'm proud of it. Not self conscious. We just have different opinions.


I like how you are the one who is insulting me... maybe youshould be like, hey sorry i took it the wrong way. i will forgive your REEEEE. Also I'm dyslexic as fuck.
 
I love doing it. JOI vids are one of my favorite things to make.

Gonna echo what others have said though: If someone just asked for some vague "dirty talk," I wouldn't be as willing. That's way too vague and I can't just guess what you're looking for. And I'm not really interested in disappointing a customer because I couldn't read their mind.
 
Yhe guys who don't contribute anything who expect dirty talk, it's harder to read and contribute more then the guys who talk back. ........Most of the shows I do are intense, so new guys I can either be too intense or not enough, cause all I have to go by is "mmmm dirty talk" and "nice"
I think everybody can relate to the uncertainty associated with trying to read silent members, or the ever ambiguous "mmmm".

But what do you mean when you say "too intense"? Your tags don't really indicate anything that would frighten me off. Seriously curious here, not looking for a free sample.
If you want to beat off and not contribute anything that's fine.
Sounds great.
I like how you are the one who is insulting me... maybe youshould be like, hey sorry i took it the wrong way. i will forgive your REEEEE. Also I'm dyslexic as fuck.
I apologize. Didn't mean to sound so harsh, and I wasn't aware you were dicslexy.
 
I think everybody can relate to the uncertainty associated with trying to read silent members, or the ever ambiguous "mmmm".

But what do you mean when you say "too intense"? Your tags don't really indicate anything that would frighten me off. Seriously curious here, not looking for a free sample.

Sounds great.

I apologize. Didn't mean to sound so harsh, and I wasn't aware you were dicslexy.
My most popular shows are exclusive shows are CBT. I make dudes buy mangos, put it in socks, and smash their balls. Anytime someone say "no limits." I tell them I want to choke their fucking balls until the cum comes out, and I don't care if you fucking cry. Second maybe either raceplay or toilet play talk.

People normally tag me in goldshows. Goldshows are vanilla and basic as fuck.
 
My most popular shows are CBT. I make dudes buy mangos, put it in socks, and smash their balls. Anytime someone say "no limits." I tell them I want to choke their fucking balls until the cum comes out, and I don't care if you fucking cry.
Oh yeah, totally not into that.

First time I ever saw a ball kicking video, I laughed until my sides hurt. Mostly I just try to avoid that sort of thing now.

edit: also, that term "no limits" I hate. Not because of CBT though.
 
Oh yeah, totally not into that.

First time I ever saw a ball kicking video, I laughed until my sides hurt. Mostly I just try to avoid that sort of thing now.
See how I need a little bit more into dirty talk. I could of just finished a heavy kink show before yours. I maybe still in domme mood. So if you don't give me an idea what you are looking for, I might kill your boner. Like I said, I like to be accommodating to my customers. Mean old cam whore :p
 
See how I need a little bit more into dirty talk. I could of just finished a heavy kink show before yours. I maybe still in domme mood. So if you don't give me an idea what you are looking for, I might kill your boner.
Don't worry about killing my boner, it is immortal. They won't be able to close the lid on the casket when I die.

Another serious question, if it's not too nosy. The CBT thing; is this (or any fetishes you cater to really) stuff you are actually into? Or just things you "learned to be into" for the sake of your business?

Personally, I have only had about 3 real-time interactions with webcam "dommes". One was ok (no mango shit), one was boring as hell (if it wasn't for the latex and the cigarette, wouldn't even have guessed she was a domme), and the other pretty much spent 15 or 20 minutes during private trying to sell me vids of her and her bf. The last two, felt a little like I was the only one even trying to do any dirty talk.
 
Yhe guys who don't contribute anything who expect dirty talk, it's harder to read and contribute more then the guys who talk back. Cause everyone's dirty talk is different. Especially if it is the first time. Most of the shows I do are intense, so new guys I can either be too intense or not enough, cause all I have to go by is "mmmm dirty talk" and "nice"
Your tags don't really indicate anything that would frighten me off.
I see now, in "My Expertise". I was just looking at "My Tags" when I asked that. Ops.
 
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Another serious question, if it's not too nosy. The CBT thing; is this (or any fetishes you cater to really) stuff you are actually into? Or just things you "learned to be into" for the sake of your business?

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I see you missed the part of me being a sadist as a turn on. Anytime I am in a domme roll, huge turn on. I don't even have to stimulate myself to be turned on.

But I don't push it on people if it's not their thing.

How I got into it... Dated a sub once and was like HEEEEEEEY! THIS IS AMAAAAAAZING!!! And the sex after I beat his ass was amazing.
 
I've been lurking here on and off for a while and thought I'd finally join since this is an interesting topic to me. So hello :)

In a way i agree that it's better to be a bit more specific than "talk dirty bb". But for me, part of the problem of finding the kind of dirty talk that i like, is that I'm not even exactly sure what that is myself. Or more accurately, i struggle to put it into words. Especially in a short description so that I'm not wasting a models time with dozens of pm, only to realize i don't want to go private after all. I've been in situations where that happened and i ended up going private after all, just because i didn't want to be that guy... needless to say, those sessions were awkward and not satisfying for either. Just to be very clear, i do not at all think this is a models fault but regardless it resulted in me not visiting (as often) anymore.

Another things is that having to make guidelines of sorts can really spoil the experience. I think part of what can be a real turn on about dirty talk is the anticipation of what's coming next. In my case, it's pretty specific what i do like to hear and what i don't, but having to spell it out obviously ruins that anticipation. Again, that is clearly not the models fault.

So i guess to bring this (much longer than intended) first post to a conclusion, even if there's tons of awesome women online who are perfectly comfortable with doing whatever it is you want to see or hear, it can still be pretty difficult to find that special one that will push all your buttons.

Also, when you do find her, don't wait til she retired to realize just how much you enjoy her company. But i digress :haha:

Anyway, perhaps I'm just way overthinking it. I tend to do that.
 
I think Kickaz is Canadian? She does kind of a visual version of dirty talk, curious if anyone has heard her talk dirty, imagine she would be awesome at it.
This topic has me thinking of her, must visit her before the month is out....last chance (hopefully not).

Yes, Canadian now living in Mexico.
 
I believe it should be approached with much the same mentality as other skills (such as pole-dancing), IF someone wishes to add it to their advertised repertoire.



So. She looks Asian, and you just assumed she wasn't Canadian?

FYI- I kick ass at some pole dancing

and only almost broke my ankles/neck a cpl hundred times my first few dzn (hundred) goes at it

one of my favorite clubs to work at had poles and a monkey bar type set all across the ultra huge stage
problem was-you don't make any money in the "trees" all the time
 
I prefer the live privates and such, because it's more personal and they react to what you say and so on. So my question to camgirls out there: What in da fuq?

I can only speak for myself. personally, I hate acting, never liked drama/theater in school. dirty talk would be nothing but a kind of unfunny improv game. camming without being horny is unfun enough without adding another layer of burden to it.

you hear a voice you don't know, of a guy you don't like, talking about things that don't turn you on, and you're supposed to yes-and it. it doesn't sound fun to me. so that's what the fuck :)
 
I'm baffled by how impossibly difficult it is to find camgirls who are open to dirty talking

One of the best. And she just returned to mfc tonight after being gone over two years.


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Hi! My first post here... I've followed camgirls for years(over 80k rewards points on MFC) but never felt the need to participate in any forums until recently.

I'm baffled by how impossibly difficult it is to find camgirls who are open to dirty talking :D They exist, but it seems like 1 in every 75 girls are willing. They have no problem swallowing dildos but most of them can't say so much as the word "boob" without going red in embarrassment haha. I offer girls with smooth voices thousands of tokens for the easiest private ever(just talking, no physical), and 99% say they're too embarrassed or they're not very good at it. Basically, running into a camgirl who isn't Russian, has a cute voice, and enough mental fortitude to talk dirty is the rarest of all rare things that are rare.

I am aware of websites like clips4sale which are rich with dirty talking content, but I prefer the live privates and such, because it's more personal and they react to what you say and so on. So my question to camgirls out there: What in da fuq?
What?! I dirty talk a ton, I just have to know what gets YOU going and in what direction you want it to go in and we are set!
 
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