Followers making you feel low

[Honey_Suckle]

I had this blue member come by my room the other night and contributed a lot of tokens to my ohmibod show. This blue member later followed me on twitter and decided to DM me. He began saying how much he enjoyed my show but had a lot of pity for me having only 82 people in my room .. he then asked how much I made that night and I replied 2500 tokens ... he says dont you have a goal in mind for each night your on? I said well ye I wish I could get up to 5000 a night .. this guy replied you are nowere near 5000 tokens! and began to say the prices I sell my things at are highly undervaluing myself and thats why theres litte interest in me ... he told me I should pretend on adultwork that im an escort to gain more followers to my chaturbate account .. I was like wtf!

What is this guy playing at? he comes by and tips me then completely runs me down in the nicest possible way .. dont you think?

 

[Carmita Bonita]

He's an asshole and behaving like an e-pimp. Some guys assume because they are members of a camsite therefore they would be great at acting like a manager to a girl and giving unsolicited advice/getting free attention and getting into her personal business. I would block and move on, your goals are for you. Not anything to be made public to a stranger who in return makes you feel shitty. If anyone isn't valuing you it's this jerk getting in your business to put you down. You didn't ask for him help or critique

Also follower account on chaturbate doesn't = crazy success. I was nearing 100,000 followers when I quit cb due to it being slow and end up making more on sm with less guys in my room so keep that in mind

 

[Carmita Bonita]

Also I wanted to add,
there are members who can give great advice! But I'd take way more advice/suggestions from :

1. a regular member who knows me well/knows how I like to run my room
2. a member who understands camming isn't a 'one-size-fits-all' gig
3. a member who I actually ask for suggestions (#1) from instead of one who just barks ill-advice at me unsolicited

 

[JickyJuly]

Feeling bad about camming costs you money. Ban him unless you'd pay to have him around. Don't discuss your income with members. Not their business. They wouldn't ask for any positive reasons.

 

[mynameisbob84]

I would think this would be fairly common. Member tips model generously, allowing model to think that they're on model's side. They then go about trying to make the model do anything and everything that they suggest while convincing the model that they need their tokens more than they really do. It's a fast road to ruin, innit. Ban him and move on. And maybe don't be so honest with members about things that they have no business knowing. No member needs to know how much you're earning and most wouldn't even want to. Those that do are probably not the type of member you want in your room.