How Has MFC Affected You?

[Bocefish]

I've become desensitized to a lot of things, some of which are not good. It takes sooooo much more now for me get turned on.

I was reading an outdoors website today and had to do a double take when I thought it said a group of guys were fisting....instead of fishing.

On the brighter side....I've met a shitload of cool people and made some lasting friendships, which is always a win. :dance:

 

[AngelicTease]

Hahaha at the fishing thing, lol.
I've been camming on another site for almost 5 years, and I've only just realised about lighting and stuff, since finding this forum. Before my cam settings were just on 'auto' for everything and that was it.

And I'm seeming to get more confidence now since joining there. I've never really been on a site before where I HAVE to show my face, and where anyone can talk to me. I thought I'd get mostly bad comments about how awful I am, but I don't get many at all, which has made me realise maybe I'm not as bad as I think.

Plus I feel less lonely now, now that I can login to mfc and know there will be someone to chat to me.
I don't have any friends offline, and rarely ever talk to another human other than my husband, so it's nice to talk to other humans even if it's online.


I hope I haven't took the topic the wrong way and gone off topic again, eek. I'm good at missing the point and rambling on about something totally different. Sorrry!

 

[XxXIndiXxX]

Camming has made me feel better about my body. I thought it would do the opposite. When I first started it was really just to see if anyone would be willing to pay to see me, and I was surprised when they actually did. :lol:

I'm the same as you Angelic Tease, rarely talk to other humans. (Small town, most my friends have moved away this year but I'll be following soon) So yeah I like knowing that there is always someone online I can chat to.

I've worked on other sites before and thought it was impossible to make friends doing this kind of work but MFC has proved me wrong. I've met people I'm sure I'll be friends with if/when I ever leave MFC.

I don't think it's desensitized me, I saw alot of fucked up shit before MFC. And I always seem to miss the weird shit that goes on!!!

 

[LadyLuna]

-More paranoid

-I actually get the dirty jokes now. Usually...

-Sometimes, I actually take things the dirty way, when they weren't meant that way... used to not even notice the dirty way existed x.x

-More confidence

-Less depression

-O.O I'm more into girls than I thought O.O ( AlexLady! )

that's all I can really think of right now.

 

[Jaydenrainey]

im desensitized too... my friend came over the other day after i had finished camming and there were two vibrators sitting on my dresser and she was like uhhhh what is tht about ? i shrugged and put them away without even caring.

 

[MilaMilan]

MFC has been a 99% positive experience for me so far...we all have our aches and pains ....but overall I have a lot of fun...The things that irritate me or I get upset about are mainly there because I let them...

I met great people on MFC in the past year :guys and models ....I have had people in my room that have been there for a year > real friends..with and without tokens...I have a lot of model friends....and that is nice....I always have someone to talk too...I started camming while in a relationship and kept on going after it ended (which it already had two years ago it just took me longer to end )....
I am lucky that I make more money outside MFC than on here ...but still I prefer being on cam and make less than sit behind my computer all day doing computer design renderings.... Its a social thing..so Yes I can say MFC has been positive all over ...even with all the stupid things that come with it.....

 

[AluraCurvyBBW]

camming in general has helped me see myself in a different light. as well as helped me gain a better sense of the level of bullshit i wont take lol

mfc is awesome because unlike other sites i really do have more freedom than the other site i used to work. which is why i am hesitant to go back there. mfc has allowed me ways to contact people outside of the site to see how they are etc. I can choose if I am not ready to do a show to say no not right now.

Overall I am self conscious about how i look, i had the hot mom growing up. the stripper mom as a matter of fact. so even the guys i was INTO were like... whats up with your mom?? :evil: :shock: that and being thick and solidly built has always had me wondering if i was pretty enough etc.

I am probably more aware of my belly and the extra weight I gained after surgery on my left foot, I had always been solidly built plus sized, but i tell you 2 months of bed rest plus extremely limited mobility and severe depression as a result.. that can make you really get out of shape fast.

I get a positive response in my room for belly requests, people seem to love my 55 1/2 in ass.. yes i got bored and measured it - under the tummy not across it - mainly cuz a chick i met on adultspace claims a 66 in ass so i was like.. hm how big is mine.

I have always been more comfy out of clothes than in clothes
but i am becoming more aware of lighting thanks to mfc and this forum

i am also more aware that i need to be creative and myself. never really tried to be anything but who i am, but it helps keep in mind when i brain storm or need to vent that i am appreciated as i am.


i love this community i have come across on mfc as well as thru ambers forum amber

 

[LilyPink]

It's changed my working ethic. I hated 'work' before but I can't believe I've actually managed to stick to one thing for nearly two months! I strive to do well instead of just bumbling along and hoping I can pay my bills. Things are becoming more positive for me and I'm looking to the future instead of losing myself in the here and now. All deep and meaningful stuff

 

[Jason314]

As a non-cam model, I can say that MFC has affected me in other ways. For instance, I go to bed slightly later, and I have something to look forward to pretty much every weeknight. Let's see... it's also given me the chance to watch someone grow (namely Amber). I hate to admit it, but I agree with Bocefish in the desensitizing part. Oh yeah, I've also learned how to type the website without thinking much about it. I've also learned there's something called Ajax. And then there's the dreaming about MFC portion, too...

 

[AlexLady]

Haha aww Luna that's sweet




I can be summed up pretty quickly; Happier, healthier, and happier. That and I can talk now without being as frightened of speaking.

 

[AmberCutie]

The good: Better body image, higher sex drive, less stress (yes, I stress over top 20 and silly stuff, but no stress over managing other people and regular office job worries), more financial stability, flexible schedule = more time to do fun stuffs, made fun model and member friends.

The bad: I talk to family (other than my Mom) less, I have a bit of paranoia now, I'm a bit obsessed with MFC in general (It's hard to go a day without logging on and checking out stats or watching other models) which takes time away from other hobbies that are probably healthier to partake in.

 

[LuxDahl]

I'm getting more flexible, becoming a bit more personable, enjoying being myself. I don't have to hide behind a complete fake persona like I would on other sites. Yay for no more customer service! It's made me feel more in control of my life so I have a more positive outlook of my future.

 

[Bocefish]

It's changed my working ethic.

Same here! :dance: Except in my case, my work ethic has suffered. It's become terribly difficult to get things done when beautiful nekkid women are a click away to chat with, among other things.

 

[luvsyou]

i hear you bocefish. When working from home I always hear MFC tempting me to perv.

I'm kind of a counter talker. Rarely starting an in person conversation. Chatting is perfect for that personality.

 

[SweepTheLeg]

It has helped me become that much more worldly. Without MFC it'd have been taken that much longer for me to invade Canada, I know international time zones practically off the top of my head now. I've added so many more bands and songs to my play list that I would have not heard any other way.

It has also reinforced what I've been saying all along that I am good enough, smart enough, and doggone it people like me.

I don't think it has desensitized me from getting aroused but thats more of I get much more turned on by chicks with a sense of humor and smarts (no not her) so if anything I've been walking around much more often with a raging erection thinking about the elite list of girls i spend time with on this site because those type of girls are a god damn rarity in the outside world.

 

[N15PCA]

I haven't really watch any real porn since coming to MFC. You get to talk to the girls. Porn dosen't do that. If been allot of fun.

Now I just need to fine a way to become rich.

 

[RoselynnLocks]

I second the better body image. I'm a mama. I thought I was hot stuff before giving birth but not so much afterward until I became a cam girl. Now I"m hot stuff again

 

[AshaSnow]

Pros:

Better body image, better internal self image, financial security (which brings a LOT to the table of its own right). I don't really have any real life friends so it's nice to be able to get online and talk to people. Making my own hours is an amazing freedom I'm lucky to have.



Cons:

During busy months the boyfriend and dog get neglected (ie April and August), I can accidnetally not leave home for a week straight besides to walk the dog, it's hard to stick to non-mfc related convos with fellow models I hang out with, I don't really talk to my mom because it's awkward to lie to her about what I do, I'm hesitant about telling new people I meet what I do, and my apartment gets messy really quickly during some shows lol

 

[SatanJonez]

I'm gonna do the pro's & con's system. lol


Pros:

• As with other models, better self image.

• All the shit talking I learned playing video games gets put to wonderful use.

• Being able to have a MASSIVE collection of sex toys with a valid reason for having it.

• Explore different fetishes I wouldn't be able to otherwise (Iowa isn't exactly known for it's fetish clubs)

• Being able to easily support myself/my family without having a job I'd come home from every night and want to shoot myself.

• Not having to/being expected to talk to my family. My mom has practically forbidden it because of what I do.

Cons:

• Less time for anything besides MFC/MFC related things.

• Getting harassed about what I do (I.E.; "Oh you get naked and fuck yourself for a living? What site??" over & over with different variations) Part of the reason I had to quit D&D sadly enough.

• Having to keep stuff clean/organized (sex toys, slut clothes & my whore room in general) I have slacked off on some of this. >_<

• Almost guaranteed not to get along with females in real life. They think I'm out to steal their husband/boyfriend. And hanging out with other mom's is next to impossible if they know/find out what I do - they think that because of what I do for a living I must be subjecting/exposing my child to it as well. :?

 

[AshaSnow]

Off Topic, Frankie, but how the hell did you get your profile's basic questions off and replace them with your own? Tell me your secrets O.O

 

[AlexLady]

Easy. Just put a lot of HTML tables in the "Meaning of life" box.



Here's a con though;
I feel less book smart than I used to be.

 

[RufffRider]

Now i know what to say to gurls, but show tits bb never works.. and i will tip you a fucking mercedez benz does not work if they see that i don't have one

after some thought. i used to look at porn on the internet without ant interaction more than Fap, now i talk to hot girls naked or not and i don't Fap. Thats weird.

 

[CandieMoose]

It has caused me to be a shut in When i got sober i moved out in the boonies, but still communicated with the people in my old town, but now i rarely even leave the house. I have been trying to go out more lately, but without drinking, and having no friends, I am always online chatting with the only friends i have.
I am also a bit paranoid. I will walk through school and wonder how many people have seen me on camera. I have the tristate area blocked, but I know some people somehow get through.
Good things - I feel special. I feel like if i wake up and something is wrong, there are 20 guys that care. Althought some may be a little weird, its nice to know that there are many people caring and thinking about you all the time

 

[Mirra]

I am late to work often because of either staying up too late on MFC and sleeping through my alarm or dropping by MFC in the morning before work and losing track of time. I almost got fired because of it once... which is why I need to reimpliment my 11 PM (Eastern Time) sign-off time during the work week (despite the teasing I receive!) and stop visiting in the mornings I reckon.

 

[Enon]

PROS:

1. Amber (could I BE any more saccharine?)

CONS:

1. I went on a token rampage for the first half of this year, spending a shit load of money that I can't afford and actually overdrawing my bank account once (I've never done that in my life). I have completely stopped buying tokens because of this, so I always feel like a mooch when I log on, which is why I don't log on as often as I used to.

 

[selshan]

The biggest impact is the friends I've made, both with members and models. 3 of the models have become 3 of the best friends I could ever have hoped for, and I've met and hung out with 2 of them (and had a fucking blast with both of them). I've met a couple of the members as well, and also had a fuck-awesome time. I had never anticipated that when I first signed up a year ago.

 

[Cassidy Nicole]

Pros: Confidence, being able to save for my master's and PsyD., not having to depend on anyone, flexible hours, friends

Cons: I never leave my apartment, not many real life friends, constantly rubbing myself (haha), getting harassed about what I do by people I know

 

[camiliasilf]

lets see, so many things have happened lol

pros:
i have learned to be more intuned with my body,
I have met wonderful people
i have a constant support system
and, honestly, being able to tell people to fuck off, litterally, is awesome at times
its a place to vent and to learn to love myself at times

Cons:
I am always tired, and i am a mom lol... so that can be bad
i sometimes cum so much, and i am a squirter, i make my sugar drop and get dizzy and such...
when i work, my home isnt as clean
when i first started i did get arrogant off cam at times, not so much now
sometimes i feel that i give so much to my group, i lack giving out that freak side to my husband and crave boring slow sex


i am sure there is more lol... but i guess overall being more aware of myself and growing into an assertive woman is what mfc has done

 

[Sevrin]

Well, not so much MFC itself as the models I've had the privilege to get to know have given me a wake up call. There are a few models I first encountered at another site and I found them again at MFC while the old site was going through some changes. Three of them work in the same studio. I had a chance to get to know them a bit better through MFC and we are sort of friends now.

Anyhoo, a couple of them mentioned that they wanted to see me on cam. At first I didn't feel like it, but I went and got one yesterday and set it up. Now webcams rarely make anyone look better than they do IRL, but I look awful. I've let myself go over the past few years and I need to get in shape. It's not even so much to look reasonably presentable to hot, young internet babes I'll never meet, but I've had some health problems and hell, who wants to die looking like a fat fuck, anyway?

So yeah. Wish me luck.

 

[AshaSnow]

Good luck, Sevrin! Where there's a will, there's a way