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dragonking123

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I know there are loads of guys that will so say full for a cam model. But lets be realistic they will never actually love you or meet up with you. Doesnt matter if you have spent thousands on them. I once got personal with a cam model wasn't nothing serious. Just friendly, swap photos. But i know it would never turn into a relationship. But once you stop tipping them or sending them money they will instantly ignore you and move on. Most of the time.

I respect certain cam models. An you can tell by there attitude and how they talk to you in general, but others well that is different.....

Okay what are peoples views on this. A girl starts a conversation or replies to a message you sent them might be a day later. All of a sudden they tell you just about to go in the shop. All of a sudden they go quiet without a word. You will not hear from them for the rest of the day. Okay i can handle that but it would of been nice if they had maybe said bye or talk to you later or whatever. Fair or......? To then get balshy later on and them exploding saying i went out with so and so why do you need to know everything? Well you didn't ask them to tell you there whole day so why are they getting funny?
 
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I know there's a story in here. I just know it. I know words can make sense, and yet....do my eyes deceive me, for I can make head nor tail of this.
 
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You could go watch a movie every night for a year. Maybe you'd help save the movie theater. But that doesn't mean you get free movies for life. Sure they might comp you a few things here or there. But that's only to get you to spend more money.

And ones the people working there are done for the day, they're going to want to go home, relax. When your home, do you want your customers calling you? Like after hours, on the weekends?
 

EliMarie717

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I know there are loads of guys that will so say full for a cam model. But lets be realistic they will never actually love you or meet up with you. Doesnt matter if you have spent thousands on them. I once got personal with a cam model wasn't nothing serious. Just friendly, swap photos. But i know it would never turn into a relationship. But once you stop tipping them or sending them money they will instantly ignore you and move on. Most of the time.

I respect certain cam models. An you can tell by there attitude and how they talk to you in general, but others well that is different.....

Okay what are peoples views on this. A girl starts a conversation or replies to a message you sent them might be a day later. All of a sudden they tell you just about to go in the shop. All of a sudden they go quiet without a word. You will not hear from them for the rest of the day. Okay i can handle that but it would of been nice if they had maybe said bye or talk to you later or whatever. Fair or......? To then get balshy later on and them exploding saying i went out with so and so why do you need to know everything? Well you didn't ask them to tell you there whole day so why are they getting funny?
Is this post also related to this ? Trying to make sense. Wondering about Mental Health, but could be 100% off base.
ETA; Either way...seems like this person is in the middle of some kind of emotional crisis, or something similar. Which would still be something that we have been seeing a lot of here recently also.
 

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Danigirl

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Soo... Do you expect to be paid for hours you work? She's off cam. You're talking about chatting during her personal time. Doesn't matter if it's explicit or not. Usually it's even harder to be friendly because people take advantage. If you haven't agreed to sexting time amounts or some sort of bonus tips etc, she owes you nothing. It doesn't make her a bad person. She just values her own time and those who value her. Working on cam is mentally and emotionally draining. I NEED my time off cam even though I love what I do (most of the time).
 

dragonking123

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Is this post also related to this ? Trying to make sense. Wondering about Mental Health, but could be 100% off base.
ETA; Either way...seems like this person is in the middle of some kind of emotional crisis, or something similar. Which would still be something that we have been seeing a lot of here recently also.
No that comment was just for the sake of it. Not an emotional crisis either I just want opinions.
 

dragonking123

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You could go watch a movie every night for a year. Maybe you'd help save the movie theater. But that doesn't mean you get free movies for life. Sure they might comp you a few things here or there. But that's only to get you to spend more money.

And ones the people working there are done for the day, they're going to want to go home, relax. When your home, do you want your customers calling you? Like after hours, on the weekends?
They why dumbly if she wants to have her down time have her WhatsApp number for sale which is the same as a normal number for people to contact her then?
 

dragonking123

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Soo... Do you expect to be paid for hours you work? She's off cam. You're talking about chatting during her personal time. Doesn't matter if it's explicit or not. Usually it's even harder to be friendly because people take advantage. If you haven't agreed to sexting time amounts or some sort of bonus tips etc, she owes you nothing. It doesn't make her a bad person. She just values her own time and those who value her. Working on cam is mentally and emotionally draining. I NEED my time off cam even though I love what I do (most of the time).
She has her WhatsApp number for sale which is the same as a normal number which so say is a 1 off payment of tokens. So how it she going to have any down time? She will be pestered with more messages after she leaves the site. An thrives on people telling her how good looking she is etc. It's like she is insecure even know supposedly happily married for 30 years or more. I don't believe it myself.
 

dragonking123

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Soo... Do you expect to be paid for hours you work? She's off cam. You're talking about chatting during her personal time. Doesn't matter if it's explicit or not. Usually it's even harder to be friendly because people take advantage. If you haven't agreed to sexting time amounts or some sort of bonus tips etc, she owes you nothing. It doesn't make her a bad person. She just values her own time and those who value her. Working on cam is mentally and emotionally draining. I NEED my time off cam even though I love what I do (most of the time).
Doesn't have to be Explicit sexting. It's how people talk in a general conversation. An I did say that she responded after a text that was maybe sent the day before fair enough. It was how she just immediately went quiet no see you later or talk later. To then blow up afterwards saying she was busy okay fair enough again and then explaining her day like that's what they were after.
 

KariLove

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Doesn't have to be Explicit sexting. It's how people talk in a general conversation. An I did say that she responded after a text that was maybe sent the day before fair enough. It was how she just immediately went quiet no see you later or talk later. To then blow up afterwards saying she was busy okay fair enough again and then explaining her day like that's what they were after.
Maybe she went ghost to get mentally back where she needed to be. I'm very open about needing my mental health days, and let my followers know beforehand that I won't be available. but some models don't give a heads up. As for the whatsapp, she can silence those texts whenever she needs as well.
 
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Actually giving out your personal number is NOT against the rules, however it is strongly advised not to, and said that if you do to be very careful.
From what I have read, I agree with all of the models. Just because you have access to any other "outside" communication (regardless what it is: snapchat, whatsapp, or anything else you paid for) it doesn't mean you get access to her 24/7 or she has to respond to you within the first 10 seconds of you sending a message.
Learn patience and you will enjoy life much better. The fact you seem to have this impression she should have contacted you back after she had been in the store, says you're a bit "much" and maybe she deliberately wants a break from you from time to time.. You're probably very exhausting to her.

I have friends and family in real life who I may message and they don't respond instantly, or for hours or even a day or two. Is it because they don't like me, hate me or are avoiding me/my message? No, most likely they know you have offered/needed anything important, so they are not responding back because it's no rush. If it was an important message/call I was having with them, then it would be a whole different story.

Have you considered that once she is NOT working (live, online) she.. you know, has OTHER priorities to deal with rather than some - more than likely - stupid messages you're bombarding her with? So it might (just MIGHT) be that she forgot about replying to you. Maybe she had to do a million other things, shopping and meet with in-life friends/family or whatever else. The point though is that it doesn't matter *what* more she had to do, as that is her life and priority.

You seem like the kind of person to message someone and then just sit there staring at the message waiting to see if you can see them read it, then start typing their reply etc.
Chill and let her reply when she can. All that will happen by you being some whiney dick, is you will get her in a sad and angry mood, yourself in one, and cause problems that should not be there, as well as yourself, blocked. And then we will have to deal with you crying about "is it fair she blocked me" thread.

TL;DR:
She has a life. Let her live and respond when she can. Chil the f*** out!



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Just to add, if WhatsApp is more personal than things like Snapchat, even if you have paid for it, then I think you're having the impression that she likes you a lot, right? Regardless of that or how much, she has then trusted you with her personal number, and so should you not show her more gratitude and respect and understanding? Especially with your belief that camsites don't allow personal numbers. You are just blowing everything ridiculously out of proportion.
 
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Sorry, I can't edit the post now but it was bugging me so I went and looked. On CB at least (not sure about other sites), this is what I am referring to about being able to share personal info but do so with caution:

Source - YOUR ACCOUNT AND GENERAL TERMS APPLICABLE TO ALL USERS (V: J)

Use of Information on the Platform. As noted in our Privacy Policy, we cannot ensure the security or privacy of information (including, without limitation, text, images, and videos) you provide or share through the Platform. We are not responsible for, and cannot control, the use of any information, by anyone, that you provide or make available to other parties through the Platform. Use caution in deciding what personal information you share with others through the Platform. We cannot assume any responsibility for the content of any message sent by any Community Member on the Platform. You release us from any and all liability in connection with the content(s) of any communication(s) you may receive from other users.

Unless I am misunderstanding that, it doesn't say that you can NOT, just air on caution with what info you decide.
 

Marceline

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Okay, I think I pieced together OP’s story.

He paid for a model’s WhatsApp number thinking it was just like her regular, personal number and that he could randomly chat her up whenever he wanted. He messaged her and a day later she responded and then said she was going into a store. She didn’t say “bye” or “talk to you later” and OP got upset. I’m going to guess that at this point he started blowing up her WhatsApp, upset at feeling slighted or ignored, because he has some sort of romantic feelings towards her despite knowing she is married. I’m also going to guess he left this out because going off in her messages doesn’t make him look any better (not like any of this does). But it had to happen, because why else would she respond with “Why do you need to know everything?”.

So, on to the question, is this fair? No, OP, your behavior is not fair for her. WhatsApp is not like a personal number. It’s obviously work for her, otherwise you wouldn’t have had to pay for it. You can easily silence those messages or just delete the app altogether if you grow tired of it or you have an annoying member pestering you.

About the not saying “talk to you later” or “bye” or whatever, I never ever say anything like that during a text conversation. I think it’s weirder to say bye in a text rather than just leave it marinating until I have time or the desire to respond. That’s how basically every person I talk to is as well.

Considering how you started off your confusing little rant it’s obvious you’ve harbored thoughts of the two of you possibly getting together. For her sake and your own sake you should just step away. She’s married and you’re a customer buying a service from her who is allowing himself to get upset over silly, petty stuff that shouldn’t matter.
 

dragonking123

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You couldn't be more wrong Brett, no way would I ever consider getting with a model. An that person is not getting upset or emotional over anything like that. I'm stating how silly people can get in general over messaging models in the first place thinking it would go somewhere. So get your facts right first. An don't jump to conclusions.
 

AudriTwo

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Lol give the poor girl her space. A WhatsApp number doesn't give you 24/7 access to chitchatting. Just because you have someone's number doesn't mean you can expect them to respond to you. Just because I have my grandma's telephone number doesn't mean I can call or text and expect a response everytime. My grandma has shit to do. Also you are mad because she didn't respond how you expected. That's nuts too.
 

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But some for example CB and mfc are in it for the money making.
Wait you mean people become cam models just to make MONEY!?!

I for one am shocked and appalled. I remember when camsites were good wholesome places where people would spend hours shaking their titties online purely out of the goodness of their hearts.
 

dragonking123

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Lol give the poor girl her space. A WhatsApp number doesn't give you 24/7 access to chitchatting. Just because you have someone's number doesn't mean you can expect them to respond to you. Just because I have my grandma's telephone number doesn't mean I can call or text and expect a response everytime. My grandma has shit to do. Also you are mad because she didn't respond how you expected. That's nuts too.
Couldnt really care less to be honest. An you guys are going the wrong way about the question I posted completely. I for one couldn't care less what a cam model does to make money. I wouldn't bother wasting my money online on cam models to shake there ass and tits. Plenty of porn out there
 

dragonking123

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Wait you mean people become cam models just to make MONEY!?!

I for one am shocked and appalled. I remember when camsites were good wholesome places where people would spend hours shaking their titties online purely out of the goodness of their hearts.
Cam sites in my opinion have changed and gotten worse. Certain sites like mfc and CB do not care about customers problems. Is like everyone it's all about money end of. I've seen models marriages end because of there careers have taken over there life in reality. I find it sad.
 

AudriTwo

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Couldnt really care less to be honest. An you guys are going the wrong way about the question I posted completely. I for one couldn't care less what a cam model does to make money. I wouldn't bother wasting my money online on cam models to shake there ass and tits. Plenty of porn out there
you couldn't care less? you created a thread to bitch about a model not texting you "bye" for the number you paid for.
 

Miss_Lollipop

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I find it sad.
I find u sad

Seriously my man. Sounds like in this completely hypothetical situation you're having some miscommunications with a model related to expectations. Communicate and enforce your boundries. Respect hers.

Simple!
 
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