Is it normal for a model to be this cruel?

[Devilbyday]

So I found this CB model that i really liked. she was kind affectionate. beautiful. She paid alot of personal attention to me. even off cam we would chat it up on telegram. i drive a truck across the usa and i would send her pics. for about 4 months. Let me reassure you that i am always polite and respectful. And my tipping power is 2nd to none. one day she just kinda starts being mean. i kinda thought we were friends. and she just quit talking to me. next thing i know im banned from the room. so after about a week of getting no response. i just gave up. then from out of nowhere she pops onto snapchat says hi. apologizes and claims that shes being blackmailed by her studio and wants to get a home studio. OK yes i really liked this girl so im a damned idiot, but when i heard she was in trouble im like can i help? she never really said nothing but invited me back to her webcam broadcast. now im not hurting for money by any means but she usually puts on a fantastic show. like what can i say in my opinon she outclassed everyone. so i start tipping thinking well she needs a new studio. and i love her show. so win win. 7000 tokens later she had not even taken her damned shirt off. im like what gives? so i quit tipping, and then she tosses a guilttrip on me. i thought you were supporting me. so i push out ther other 3000 to her
then i ask her for a pvt show since nothing is going to get done in public. and she tells me this. i can no longer have the emotions with you that i used to have.... she took off and its day 4 havent herard from her. I dont think this is a question as much as it is an is this normal behavior? im like damn near 50. this whole hands off sex thing is wierd. i was raised to be more of a hands on type of guy. idk... dammit she really kicked me in the head when she banned me, she couldnt just leave me be she has to come back take me for a bunch of money than kick me to the curb like a damned dog. can you guys tell it hurt? idk i guess i dont have a qiuesation as much as id like to hear thoughts on it.

 

[THE MOLLIE MARIE]

Don't involve your feelings with your porn consumption. It sucks that this happened. I would advise not getting emotionally involved in the future, regardless of whether or not the performer is saying that they have feelings. Is it "normal," no. But common.

 

[JustMilfnAround]

A few quick questions - did you hog her room when you were in there? By this I mean did you take all of her attention away from the rest of the room? Did you find over time that you were more and more frequently the only one tipping?

I'm asking this because I had a very sweet and generous person that became a "friend" of sorts and he did this to me. It was not intentional on his part, not at all and tbh I don't really think he was aware of what he was doing. It took some time and I started to notice people stopped interacting with me, my room count began to drop and so did my cash flow. I very politely asked him to refrain from tipping to start encouraging others to tip and I knew that if I could get him to work with me in that way, over the course of a few weeks I could probably get back to normal or at least close to it because the other guys in the room would stop camping out and waiting for him to tip. I was even firm about it a few times but he got aggravated by the lack of others tipping and would tip anyway. It got so bad I had to go to another site and a stalker popped up so I was able to block his state. He almost single handedly destroyed a 4 year career in a matter of months. A lot of my long term regs disappeared because they didn't like him. My income almost tripled after I switched sites. My regs started coming back too....

Maybe this type of situation is what she is dealing with? You may be unknowingly killing her money while helping her simultaneously and she just doesn't know how to tell you so that is how she is dealing with it? *shrugs* BTW - this is a complete MINDFUCK for a model when this happens. Just my two cents. I could be way off but I wanted to give my perspective.

 

[EvaRomania]

She sounds like she was not nice at all. Next time when U want to see a show,just tell her what U expect up front and if she agree then tip. Or go Private. She took you for granted

 

[anabeauty37]

She asked you for tks to support her busness not to put her work and make a show Anyway to be honest to you i also dont like guys that think we r kinda friends but if they tip me expecting naughty stuff or naughty private, then u not a friend u just a customer, pay and bye . If you wanna be a friend then yes, you support her without naughty stuff involded . So decide what u want from her, want shows go tell her i wanna pvt can i come in im horny.. or if u want her attention out of site and friendship stop beeing a perv

 

[Mila_]

I feel like we aren't hearing the full story here. I can spot red flags a mile away and there's at least 2 in your message. First, you have a devil avatar. I have come to notice this pattern over the past 8 years as a cam model: men with devil avatars are not good. They are often the worst type of trolls, or possessive controller types, or the ones who want the whole room to be about THEM. I don't know what is it with devil avatars, but the pattern is crystal clear. Then you brag about tipping her a lot in your introduction "And my tipping power is 2nd to none". The fact that she banned you first and then thought it over and came back asking for more support from you means she straight up has a problem with you and the way you conduct yourself in her room. She doesn't like you, considers you a problem, thought about simply banning you but then realized there was potential earnings she was missing on and decided to give you a second chance, but you failed miserably at it so she banned you again. I dont know, sounds like you arent telling us the whole story. Or perhaps you don't understand how you have made her uncomfortable so you can't even correct it. Give it a thought, there is a lesson there.

 

[MarieElise]

I feel like we aren't hearing the full story here. I can spot red flags a mile away and there's at least 2 in your message. First, you have a devil avatar. I have come to notice this pattern over the past 8 years as a cam model: men with devil avatars are not good.

That was the very first thing I noticed too. This is so true. I'm so glad someone said it because I didn't want to, but I still thought it the very first thing, and was shaking my head like crazy!

 

[Delroy]

i kinda thought we were friends.

A models job is to be friendly to you but that doesn't mean she is your friend. It is a part of the fantasy/show and not real. For both your own emotional safety and the safety of the models you need to understand where the boundaries of how you relate to an entertainer. I know it feels bad but at the end no one owes you their attention and when they wish to distance themselves from you, you need to step back morn what you lost and accept that this is the way the world is now.