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First I just want to say that I have a high admiration to all those girls who choose to get into the cam business. It take a lot of guts to put yourself out there and I have to come to realize that the stress and anxiety that many of you face on a daily basis would be unbearable to most people.
And for the guys out there who often fall in love with the models... let me just say that not all girls are out to scam their clients.
Here's my story...
A year and a half ago I found myself browsing through the unlimited number of girls on these cam sites. Just browsing to see what was out there because I had been stuck in a hotel alone for a good week.
As I was browsing i came across a girl who look as if she was having a horrible day. Sometimes you can just tell by the look on a girls face that she just needs a boost of confidence. So we began to chat. I enticed her request after awhile to go into a private show and she proceeded to do her routine as she does to appeal her clients.
When she was done she asked me if I liked her show and I said a few words, but I think because of the language barrier it didn't translate correctly and she started to cry. She was about to log off and I told her I would stay and talk to her if she wanted me to. We talked for a good hour and she told me all that was going on in her life. Mother was sick, no money, working for a guy who gives her and other girls shelter and food if they perform. Don't get me wrong, I had my guard up, but I felt horrible for this girl and what she had been through. If in fact it was the truth she was telling me.
For the next few days I got on the site to visit with her and we continued to talk. She seemed to be very excited to have a member come back on a regular basis and not always ask her to show them her pussy. Dont get me wrong, she's young, beautifully attractive and has a great body, but once you've seen a girls pussy, well... it's just a pussy, if you know what I mean.
Anyways we were talking and often while we were doing so she was on her phone talking with her sister and keeping an eye on the status of her mom. Then it happened... she went to place her phone on the table and I watched it slide off as she was trying to catch it and it slammed on the floor. She picked it up and I just seen the life pour out of this precious girl. Her screen had cracked and she couldn't get the phone to work. She just started crying saying no no no... I felt bad for her and said, look. Do you have PayPal? I will send you some money to go buy a new phone so you can keep an eye on your mom. She was like really. And later told me that she thought I was joking because no one had ever given her anything in her life like that before. And I so I did and a few days later she was over joyed with her new phone, shared much respect with me and gave me her personal contact information.
Now again... still being cautious about the whole cam industry. I've heard the stories, but I just wanted to bring a smile to this girls face at that time. Something just felt like I needed to give this girl a boost and let her know that not all people in this world are assholes and out for themselves.
A month passed and her mom fell very ill and she ended up passing away. I was with her the entire time while she was on her mother's bedside via whatsapp. She didnt have many friends or family. She doesn't know who her father is and only has her sister. After that moment the relationship continued to thrive. I fell in love with this girl and had plans to go meet her and then Covid hit. Fuck me!
So over the next 8 months we continued to talk and watch our feeling flourish for one another.
Then the time finally came that I could make the trip down to visit with her and as she said. It was magical. We had a great time. Fast Forward...
1 1/2 years later from when I first met her online we are now engaged and she has just moved here to America to fulfill her dreams and have a fresh new start at life.
I'm 17 years older then her, but age doesn't seem to bother her at all. The fact that someone finally gave a shit about her means more to her than anything in the world.
So I just want to say... Not every story ends up with the guy being scammed. There are many decent girls out there who are just looking for someone to love them, and if you are sincere and honest about your intentions and who you are you can find true love online.
 
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So I just want to say... Not every story ends up with the guy being scammed. There are many decent girls out there who are just looking for someone to love them, and if you are sincere and honest about your intentions and who you are you can find true love online.

With all due respect, sir: It’s possible, but that’s not what cam sites are for. Encouraging people to go there seeking love is setting very unrealistic expectations.

It’s possible to find love at the grocery store also. But if I went there every day trying to make it happen, I’d go slowly crazy and probably spend more money than necessary. Because that’s not what a grocery store is for.
 
That's nice to hear that your story seems to have a happy ending...so far. I just don't want your "There are decent girls out there who are just looking for someone to love them, and if you are sincere and honest about your intentions and who you are...you can find true love online" statement giving people on here the impression that using a cam site to "look for a fwb or love" is a good idea. It's not. Cam sites are not Tinder or Bumble, and cam models get tired of men trying to treat it as such...and we get tired of having to explain this to them.

Yes, even though love can happen in the most unexpected places and at unexpected moments, when you go onto a live adult webcam chat site...it should be with the intention of enjoying live chat with a cam model. So telling yourself "Damn, I ain't had no pussy in a while...maybe I'll meet a chick off here"...or "Damn, maybe I'll meet Wifey off here" is a waste of time.

Cringe at people saying "Wifey"...
 

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So I just want to say... Not every story ends up with the guy being scammed. There are many decent girls out there who are just looking for someone to love them, and if you are sincere and honest about your intentions and who you are you can find true love online.
We at ACF definitely don't want to promote this idea, because this situation is SO rare, FEW and FAR BETWEEN all of the actual studio-fabricated interactions and scam attempts that are out there.

I'd much rather the members err on the side of caution and disbelieve stories than to feel encouraged by a post like this.
 
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you can find true love online
And if that's your goal, you should use a platform that is designated for that purpose, not a cam site.
 
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Just gonna leave this here.

OP, please come back and update once she gets her green card and is able to do whatever she wants.


I am glad I am not the only one thinking this. I didn't want to be the one to post saying it since it is meant as a positive story.
But unfortunately, for me, the post still seems suspicious on her part.
 
Jul 7, 2021
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OP is such a trol, emotional manipulation is webcam CANCER.

You raise every single red flag on emotional manipulation flag with just a peek, one day all those emotional scammers will understand that they are only cutting their gains and closing the market to healthy profiles.
Models don't met,only if they are ESCORTS even then, you contact them at the agency not in a camsite.
This is pure bait,people being emotional manipulated are going to take this like a hope and continue being manipulated.
 
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Oh, and there are a lot of people who CARE about models.

And there are a lot of models who give a shit about those who CARE about models too.

If you think you are a snowflake trying to save a princess you are going to have a hard landing, but we both know mixing white knigts,mom's histories,sugar daddys and meetings in a single post only means you are a one of those cancer trainers/models interested into getting the emotional scam hook going on.

It's over, now learn to offer value on social interactions in a bussiness context,it works i love it and many others.It's main stream.
Your emotional manipulation school is dieing like web marketing internet browser ad spam died some time ago,adapt and move on.
 

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That's nice to hear that your story seems to have a happy ending...so far. I just don't want your "There are decent girls out there who are just looking for someone to love them, and if you are sincere and honest about your intentions and who you are...you can find true love online" statement giving people on here the impression that using a cam site to "look for a fwb or love" is a good idea. It's not. Cam sites are not Tinder or Bumble, and cam models get tired of men trying to treat it as such...and we get tired of having to explain this to them.

Yes, even though love can happen in the most unexpected places and at unexpected moments, when you go onto a live adult webcam chat site...it should be with the intention of enjoying live chat with a cam model. So telling yourself "Damn, I ain't had no pussy in a while...maybe I'll meet a chick off here"...or "Damn, maybe I'll meet Wifey off here" is a waste of time.

Cringe at people saying "Wifey"...

THIS.

Camming and content creation is a form of parasocial relationship between the model and their viewers/fans. That basically means it's mostly one-sided and viewers are projecting on to the model (cause let's face it guys you don't actually know us or our real lives) while at the same time there is a power imbalance in the favor of the model. Generally speaking models who deliberately allow or encourage parasocial boundaries to be crossed in cases like this are acting extremely unethically. All sex work is parasocial, and that's kinda by design. You are paying people to give you attention. Of course the dynamics will be different than an actual relationship. In my opinion it's something that's really under-discussed in our industry.

I've yet to find anyone writing about this in relation to sex work specifically, but here's a HuffPost article explaining in really simple terms what a parasocial relationship is on a macro scale, specifically how people project on to celebrities in a similar way. This is the same shit scaled down to a camshow.
 
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1 1/2 years later from when I first met her online we are now engaged and she has just moved here to America to fulfill her dreams and have a fresh new start at life.
I'm 17 years older then her, but age doesn't seem to bother her at all. The fact that someone finally gave a shit about her means more to her than anything in the world.
So I just want to say... Not every story ends up with the guy being scammed. There are many decent girls out there who are just looking for someone to love them, and if you are sincere and honest about your intentions and who you are you can find true love online.

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As Kekolos said, camgirls don't meet their members, only escorts do. Yes, we befriend them for real, because we spend lots of time together online, but we never meet in real life.
if the majority of models do meet are you sure you don't work on an escort site?
 
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As Kekolos said, camgirls don't meet their members, only escorts do.
Cashiers meet their clients.
Actors meet their spectators.
Camgirls meet their members.

Many cashiers, actors or camgirls won't, some will. Like anybody else, camgirls decide whom to meet, and sometimes it's a member.
 
if the majority of models do meet are you sure you don't work on an escort site?

Huh? Who says the majority of models do meet? Some of y'all are doing too much in this thread. Lol.
 

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Just gonna leave this here.

OP, please come back and update once she gets her green card and is able to do whatever she wants.
MTE.

I was suspicious about the phone, too. Does he know for sure it wasn’t cracked before it ‘fell’?
Don’t get me wrong, I hope it turns out well for OP… even if his message is a poor one.

but I feel like his story is far from over
 

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Oh, and there are a lot of people who CARE about models.

And there are a lot of models who give a shit about those who CARE about models too.

If you think you are a snowflake trying to save a princess you are going to have a hard landing, but we both know mixing white knigts,mom's histories,sugar daddys and meetings in a single post only means you are a one of those cancer trainers/models interested into getting the emotional scam hook going on.

It's over, now learn to offer value on social interactions in a bussiness context,it works i love it and many others.It's main stream.
Your emotional manipulation school is dieing like web marketing internet browser ad spam died some time ago,adapt and move on.
Uh… are you.. ok?
 
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I like to comment this thread with a few words.

First of all, like mentioned so many times here and in this forum, A cam site is not a dating place, it is a work space where money is transferred in exchange for pleasure, personal excitement or just some social interaction with persons who need it.
Secondly, if you happened to meet a person here that you really like, than give her/him just the time of her/his life and make them happy, but know that it has an ending and let the model afterwards live their life without you or if they like it you can keep contact but merely as friends. It's always nice to know people in other parts of the world ;)
And thirdly, tearing someone away from their home will make you regret it, they ALWAYS wanna go back afterwards. I've seen it so many times that I can statistically conclude that 99% of them do. Trying to persuade people to move to another country or other continent can be appealing, but be very very carefull they do not have other intentions behind it. So my advise, and i have the years to give advise, lol, leave them be, the time of war brides or whatever has long gone, the world has become a small place, no need to move to see eachother. And don't fall in love, there are a lot of people in your own environment who needs love too.
 
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I have meet lots cam girls in all this years in industry , till now noone of them was dating any customer and ill tell you why . Mostly all cam models are models, so they are looking good and good looking girls got no reason to be single ., so moslty are married or got bfs and they do camming as a job not as a dating site . Also their bfs are usually same age , but yes some of single girls on cam or in general might be loking for a sugar daddy 17.-20 y older then her to provide her all she needs . And yes usuall as u said are disperated girls ( no money, working for bad people, etc :) that got no other option in life , she was not doing great on cam to affort everything alone. so the first person that bought her phone and promised her food and bills she took the oportunity .. I feel sorry for this girls but sometimes life is like this .. you might call it love i call it no other better option . you think if she was lets say a top model making20000 . 50000$ a month was going to date and marry an 17 y older guy who could just impress her with a new phone? Nah, she was on the beach with her 6 pack waxed bf :rofl:
 
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