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MarieElise said:
He might not mean to be giving you this impression. Men's brains are wired differently from ours, especially in the area of communication. They really struggle a lot to communicate clearly what they are thinking. Then a lot of them are also terrified of us, and having conflicts with us, so they get nervous on top of that. Then their ability to say what they mean, clearly, (in a reasonable timeframe) is even worse! You might be correct that he is disregarding your feelings, but there also may be a lot more, and different stuff going on. Everyone likes to say they are simple, but they are not. I would try to investigate further and try to get him to open up more, so you can get a more confident and clearer picture of his motivations, fears, etc. Not easy to do, though. I don't envy you, but I have to deal with the same exact thing, on the daily! Never found one who is actually good at it (communicating thoroughly, honestly, and clearly, verbally).

ETA: Thank God for their Weinz, because there has to be some kind of motivation to inspire all that Gooddamn Herculean effort to try to have a clear convo!
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I think I can communicate clearly what I’m feeling/thinking? 🙋‍♂️ I’m also not terrified of cam models.
 
Maxi said:
I think I can communicate clearly what I’m feeling/thinking? 🙋‍♂️ I’m also not terrified of cam models.
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Where you been all my life Baby?

ETA; When I said that, though, I did mean specifically terrified of women who they are romantically and sexually involved with in a committed relationship.
 
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Gotcha - I thought it was a sweeping statement and I’m like “hey, I’m here, I can and do 🙋‍♂️”
 
Maxi said:
Gotcha - I thought it was a sweeping statement and I’m like “hey, I’m here, I can and do 🙋‍♂️”
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Oh yeah, sorry about that, I meant more in an intimate, personal, sexually romantic, and committed context. When it has to do with emotions, needs, and conflict. Like I guess a way of putting it would be relational communication (but with intimate relational communication), not all communication. My apologies 🤍

ETA; And remember my adult experience with that is primarily in the US. So technically, I've never met an American male who is good at that. Culture may or may not be a factor. In general, though, I was taught that men process verbal information differently, and therefore it's more work for them. I don't trust the education system here, and I feel I grossly overpaid for what I actually got, so I'll go ahead and research this topic further on Google Scholar anyway:party: Wouldn't surprise me in the slightest if what I was taught was complete horseshit. When I compare the years I spent growing up nin Britain, with the years I've spent here, unfortunately the education and heal;th systems here fall way, way short. And that's even in solid blue state. Idk what Britain is like now though.
 
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MarieElise said:
Oh yeah, sorry about that, I meant more in an intimate, personal, sexually romantic, and committed context. When it has to do with emotions, needs, conflict. Like I guess a way of putting it would be relational communication (but with intimate relational nn in n communication), not all communication. My apologies 🤍
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Got it. Thanks for explaining - how awesome that you consider the communication so deeply.
 
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Dude is in dozens of rooms a day pushing this "I used to be a famous cam model and this is my alt grey account. I can help you with stuff" routine. I'm utterly shocked by how many models let him be their moderator. He preys on new and low traffic rooms. God knows how many income streams he is stunting with his "advice".
 
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NotYou said:
I am sure all you ladies and gents are wishing this was you he wanted to say the name for...
(Grey user by the way)


3:33 PM
sexydan432
Send me pm with ur telegram ill send you a video of me jerking and saying your name
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😂 😂 😂


It makes me chuckle when members act like they're giving us a gift when they A) take us private (Where we still have to "perform" for them) or B) send us a pic or vid of their dick. LOL.
 
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Mr Grey Attorney is back on account number 10,000


12:16 AM
US_ATTORNEY
Good afternoon from Las Vegas. It is nice to see you again as always as I hope you are taken good care of your health

12:18 AM
US_ATTORNEY
Would you like to know how you can have free HP lap top
 
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NotYou said:
Mr Grey Attorney is back on account number 10,000


12:16 AM
US_ATTORNEY
Good afternoon from Las Vegas. It is nice to see you again as always as I hope you are taken good care of your health

12:18 AM
US_ATTORNEY
Would you like to know how you can have free HP lap top
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It's incredible that in the space of two posts, I believe neither the US part of his username nor the ATTORNEY part.
 
Grey user, obviously: :rofl: :rofl:
The 💩 these guys spout out is always hilarious.


10:32 PM
BenAmsever526
I don't know your language, but I'd like to do a private messaging with you. Message me privately; my wallet is full.
 
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