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$3,500 to marry her? Deal!
Assuming it's 30,000 tokens THEN the 40,000 on top of that, otherwise $2,000 for marriage, not a bad deal lol
 

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Definitely not THE most annoying thing.......
but this sort of encouragement in the 'status' column on a model's Bio does nothing to help set or maintain boundaries.

Hey @rockin_rod
If this is a screenshot from a SC models profile, please PM me the models username ;)
 
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Hey @rockin_rod
If this is a screenshot from a SC models profile, please PM me the models username ;)
Thanks @Charlie_SC but it wasn't on your site - there's a giveaway in the 'King' line.
I know everyone here gets that it's not a serious suggestion, but there will always be those who see a green light where none exists.
And to me, the 'meet up' was more of a concern that the 'marry', especially because someone is already named as having reached that status.
 
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And to me, the 'meet up' was more of a concern that the 'marry', especially because someone is already named as having reached that status.

Me too @rockin_rod
That's why I wanted to confirm it wasn't one of our girls, despite the giveaway comment which I also picked up on, but still, I wanted to be 100% sure to be on the safe side :whew:
 
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I know everyone here gets that it's not a serious suggestion, but there will always be those who see a green light where none exists.
Yep. With the number of guys lacking social anntennas of any kind roaming the cam sites, naming someone boyfriend, husband or lover or whatever could easily backfire. But it depends, I guess. I know from experience not all models can deliver that good hearted joke in a convincing way, at which point it's more cringefest than absurd fun. Comical timing can be hard.

When I was in my late teens my 25 year older aunt's friend always jokingly asked me when my handsome self would man up and marry her. I panicked and went into full overdrive ripe tomato mode every time of course, but I now know that she just didn't judge her audience very well.

But then again, fuck them if they can't take a joke ;)
 

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Thanks @Charlie_SC but it wasn't on your site - there's a giveaway in the 'King' line.
I know everyone here gets that it's not a serious suggestion, but there will always be those who see a green light where none exists.
And to me, the 'meet up' was more of a concern that the 'marry', especially because someone is already named as having reached that status.

It's generally not a good idea to put this in the bio anyways (setting aside raising certain potentially incorrect expectations),
because it's also not allowed on CB to suggest that meeting up is an option. With how ban happy they sometimes get..
Not the smartest idea overall.
 

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$3,500 to marry her? Deal!
Assuming it's 30,000 tokens THEN the 40,000 on top of that, otherwise $2,000 for marriage, not a bad deal lol
I had a 400,000 tokens for marriage and bonus nz passport on my menu as a joke.... I thought everyone world get it.

Until a semi reg messaged me one day and starts asking serious questions about it. Specifically "could I stay with duke (my partner at the time) and we all 3 move to nz and I date him vs marry him" for the 400k. Like... he was negotiating the terms ...


It was a woah boundries moment for me lol
 
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It might just be me but clicking into a room and seeing from top to bottom and side to side a bouncing butt with a lovesense sticking out of it.
I just move on immediately. Gyno shots and anal shots are a total buzzkill for me.

Just for the record the face is the most important thing that I look for when browsing, the rest is secondary.
 
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It might just be me but clicking into a room and seeing from top to bottom and side to side a bouncing butt with a lovesense sticking out of it.
I just move on immediately. Gyno shots and anal shots are a total buzzkill for me.

Just for the record the face is the most important thing that I look for when browsing, the rest is secondary.
I would not say the face is *most* important for me, but I agree, I am not on these sites for a lesson in gynaecology (or proctology)
 
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It might just be me but clicking into a room and seeing from top to bottom and side to side a bouncing butt with a lovesense sticking out of it.
I just move on immediately. Gyno shots and anal shots are a total buzzkill for me.

Just for the record the face is the most important thing that I look for when browsing, the rest is secondary.
Definitely not for everyone, but I've been surprised by suddenly finding something appealing that I had not previously found to be.
So I think for me, a lot depends on the owner of that bouncing butt (or specific body part) in the overall picture.
I am so much more attracted to personality, good (or even quirky) humour, than outright visual.
 
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I am so much more attracted to personality, good (or even quirky) humour, than outright visual.
Same. Some rooms are almost exclusively a pair of (usually very nice, so it's not that!) tits or a butt doing various gymnastics with practically no interaction save for some moaning, and I can't help thinking it may very well be a waste of talent. There's a gazillion masturbation videos on Pornhub. Doing the same and nothing else on cam sites is imo at best redundant.
 
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Stripchat Rule:
If you're multi-streaming to other platforms and get a Private or Exclusive Private show request on our site,​
you must stop those other public streams before you start the Private.​

When a user pays for a private show, they deserve to have the model's full attention and that show should be private, therefore, the model should not be active on any other site.
If a model is not following this rule, it can be reported to Support.
Yup, if I take a reg private on strip, I throw mfc into spy mode and kill the switch for Chaturbate on my restream controls (it even using chat at that time) because it's faster than setting up an app. If it's exclusive, I kill the other sites. I don't take privates often so it's never been a big deal. I also price my privates really high so I don't have to take them often either haha. I usually make more in public chat.
 
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Adjusting the camera too much, it's one thing if it's done infrequently to remain in frame, or to accommodate a request, but when it's done obsessively for several minutes, sometimes many times in an hour, that really ruins the mood. And it doesn't help that it's sometimes noisy.
 
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Adjusting the camera too much, it's one thing if it's done infrequently to remain in frame, or to accommodate a request, but when it's done obsessively for several minutes, sometimes many times in an hour, that really ruins the mood. And it doesn't help that it's sometimes noisy.
And put that zooming remote down. Some use that way too much.
 
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Hahhaa this adjusting/zooming camera thing I have never seen as a problem before, I never noticed it.
But recently I saw and started to really enjoy a woman younger than I usually do (I usually prefer 30+ but she is 22 but there is something about her I really like)... and she seems to zoom in, out, up and down a lot while she is moving around and dancing.. I get why, but it's kind of like you're watching a TV show that is on low budget that uses a lot of zoom in/out moments lol.


I understand she is doing it to show certain parts of her body etc but I did notice it and think that it's quite excessive. but it doesn't really bother me.
 
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Hahhaa this adjusting/zooming camera thing I have never seen as a problem before, I never noticed it.
But recently I saw and started to really enjoy a woman younger than I usually do (I usually prefer 30+ but she is 22 but there is something about her I really like)... and she seems to zoom in, out, up and down a lot while she is moving around and dancing.. I get why, but it's kind of like you're watching a TV show that is on low budget that uses a lot of zoom in/out moments lol.


I understand she is doing it to show certain parts of her body etc but I did notice it and think that it's quite excessive. but it doesn't really bother me.
It's not so bad with the remote, it's worse when she is lugging the tripod around the room. With the specific girl I'm thinking of it wasn't really to stay in frame like that.
 
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but it doesn't really bother me.
Me neither, but I have been in rooms where the model appears to work on a very long list of "hold on I'm just gonna" instead of actually ... you know ... performing. Maybe there's some kind of general feedback in that; fix your stuff before you start the stream.

On the other hand it can also be a cute thing to watch.
 
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I don't really mind them doing other stuff, especially if they're not getting tips, but it's when they do something excessively, or when it's not really needed.

But another thing that can be really frustrating is if they set something up that they need to pay attention to, and they don't. One girl used the spin the wheel app, and had it set up to activate for one token, but something like 95% of the slots were just losing ones. It was not easy to get the prize when I won it. And another girl gave 7 minutes of control for the person that hit a one of her goals, I hit it, there was a notifier in chat, but in the end she almost didn't believe me, and just gave me half of the time. I get that it can be hard to pay attention to stuff like this, but if you can't do it 100% of the time, don't set it up like that.
 
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but if you can't do it 100% of the time, don't set it up like that.
Some new studio cam models don't really know what's on their generic tip menu because someone else set it up. From experience it could also contain actions that the model isn't ever going to perform. It's also not uncommon for models to have different advertised vibe levels and tip menus on e.g. Chaturbate and StripChat even if they splitstream to both places. If you add the lovense OBS overlay into the mix, it often disagrees with both sites *and* the lovense vibe level graphic in their bio.

I have no illusions about neither models nor studio owners being arsed with maintaining everything across the 5+ sites the models splitstream to. They just write "Make me happy" as a room goal, demand 10,000 tokens for the privilege and off they go.

One girl used the spin the wheel app, and had it set up to activate for one token, but something like 95% of the slots were just losing ones.
I'm not sure what your complaint is. I would spin that wheel all the effing time!
 
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They still have that?
Yup! Or at least they did as of a couple weeks ago lol. Or maybe I'm thinking it's spy mode in strip when I do mfc and throw mfc into away mode when pvt on strip...clearly I don't do pvts often haha but when I do, I throw switches to make it at least ethical.
 
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I'm not sure what your complaint is. I would spin that wheel all the effing time!
She didn't pay attention to winners, I tried to remind her politely several times, and then she acted like I was trying to get something for free, and I had to send her a screenshot. Kind of ruined the enjoyment of winning. So, I don't have a problem with the concept, but you shouldn't do it if you can't keep track of it.
 
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She didn't pay attention to winners, I tried to remind her politely several times, and then she acted like I was trying to get something for free, and I had to send her a screenshot. Kind of ruined the enjoyment of winning. So, I don't have a problem with the concept, but you shouldn't do it if you can't keep track of it.
I agree. If a model (or her studio support) can't keep track of her menus, lovense levels, roulette wheel prizes during the broadcast, she / they need up up their game.

I understand that if the room is very busy, a prize or a tip can be missed, but if (politely) reminded of the omission, it is not hard for them to track back and see what has been missed. And their default reaction should not be that the user is lying :facepalm:

Having said all of that, when coming across a model or room like that, I vote with my "feet" and never darken their doorstep again. 🤷‍♂️
 
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Yeah, I obv didn't become a regular with her. But I really liked the other girl though, with the goal, her connection was often abhorrent though, and she quit before we had the chance to do anything bigger, but that bit of control was a nice moment.
 
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Models that complain about being bored, it's too quiet, no one is talking or tipping... you try to make conversation with the model, various topics over the days/weeks/months, but the responses are basically always the same "yes", "ok", "no"... i mean.. I get that when models say they are bored, the main reason is that no one is tipping, but come on.
 
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it's very difficult to entertain a model who's going through a slump and uve reached your spending limit/cant afford much of her tip menu. Also as a social introvert i really struggle to think of stuff to talk about that isnt "how was your weekend" or depressing shite.
I try not to distract my friend with too much of my BS while she works, but when things are quiet I chat about all sorts of stuff and hope it helps. Despite my Brit origins, I don't discuss the weather (unless I send a photo of an amazing sunset or rainbow seen out of my window) and talk about music, movies, cooking, sport. I also avoid being there for every single show so that she has diversity of regulars, and because it's healthy for everyone to have different stuff to do. Then when I do go back, we've both got more sh!t to talk about :)
 
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Sorry for DP, but meant to add:
When it's really quiet, we make up stupid games and challenges (like a pub 'trivia night') and also learn more about the history and culture of each other's country.
She's so much more knowledgeable than I, and far more than it being an awkward time-filler, the chats become a learning experience for me!
 
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