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The flip side isn't great either. I've wandered into a few Streamate rooms to find the model is clearly on another site having a cam to cam with a customer. You can hear his voice, his fetishes, her humiliating his small penis. Everything. I'm pretty sure he was oblivious.


For me when I hear the poor guys being broadcast on another site, I just get a bit weirded out, or I dunno what to call it exactly, by the fact that it seems like all other guys seem to make so much loud noise with moans and groans.. when I am in private/cam2cam, I am never like that and that loud. I feel way too self conscious to be THAT loud and groaning/grunting haha

@ models, do you want/like when guys are like this?
(I mean the really loud and "non-stop" moaning/groaning/grunting guys,
 
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@ models, do you want/like when guys are like this?
(I mean the really loud and "non-stop" moaning/groaning/grunting guys,
Depends on so many other factors, and is really complicated for me. Generally, I'm pretty fond of grunting.
Kinda depends on the octave though. Some grunts are great, others I find, personally, less appealing.
However, I have very sensitive ears.
So sensitive I had to change streets earlier today, because a man whistling to himself behind me, was literally painful. Even though he was 50 feet away, and there was a fair ton of background noise. Certain frequencies just don't agree w me at all.
 
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That’s crazy, and I’d have been pissed too. The most basic expectation when you buy a private show is that you have the model’s attention while the meter is running. Without that, why even bother? It’s no different from a public show without that detail.

If she was worried about pissing off the whale by ignoring him, then she shouldn’t be accepting paid private show requests while there’s a chance he might see/start tipping for things, IMO.

Personally, I’d have stopped the show just from hearing tips come in from another site. If it’s free for them, great, but I’m not interested in being the sucker that pays by the minute to wait for other randos get their tip menu requests honored during a show I’m paying for. Do that shit in public.
Yeah, i have been in privates where a couple tips came in and while it is not my preference it was ok. But I was tipping too so it took me a couple minutes to figure out there were too many “dings” for what I was tipping. Then she started PMing where I got no PM, then she started verbally interacting. It was all in about 90 seconds (I had the video so I went back to try and figure out where it went sideways).

I left a snarky comment when I left, left early, and then gave her a 1-star rating with a comment of exactly why. And I won’t ever visit her room or give her a token again (I was a decent and regular tipper of hers on the SC side). I usually go well out of my way to give the model the benefit of the doubt, but in my opinion this was egregious.

She never addressed it with me or apologized. But I didn’t expect her to - anyone who would pull that stunt is all about the tokens and has no regard for users outside of seeing them as ATMs. She got paid in the moment, as am sure that is what mattered
 
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I left a snarky comment when I left, left early, and then gave her a 1-star rating with a comment of exactly why. And I won’t ever visit her room or give her a token again (I was a decent and regular tipper of hers on the SC side). I usually go well out of my way to give the model the benefit of the doubt, but in my opinion this was egregious.
If your private show was on SC, she has broken their terms of service (A model MUST close all public streams on other platforms when taking a SC user private) and you would be well within your rights to report her and get a refund of your tokens. I do not normally suggest reporting, but in my opinion such behaviour as you have described should not occur without consequences.
 
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If your private show was on SC, she has broken their terms of service (A model MUST close all public streams on other platforms when taking a SC user private) and you would be well within your rights to report her and get a refund of your tokens. I do not normally suggest reporting, but in my opinion such behaviour as you have described should not occur without consequences.
I was just ready to turn the page. At this point it was a few weeks ago so it feels late to do that. I am a good tipper, and for the right models a great one. I am also (I think) low maintenance and reasonably nice to have around. I think the model’s job has value and that she deserves respect and that is how I treat them. My feeling is if this model doesn’t want my business I will just take it elsewhere and be done with her.

I was disappointed because I felt like I had gotten to know her pretty well in the weeks leading up to the private. I never take privates without getting to know a little about the model - some conversations, watching her fulfill on goals or tip menu items, talking about expectations for the private beforehand, etc. But hard to anticipate this situation happening and certainly no red flags on that score until there were lol
 
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I was just ready to turn the page. At this point it was a few weeks ago so it feels late to do that. I am a good tipper, and for the right models a great one. I am also (I think) low maintenance and reasonably nice to have around. I think the model’s job has value and that she deserves respect. My feeling is if this model doesn’t want my business I will just take it elsewhere and be done with her.

I was disappointed because I felt like I had gotten to know her pretty well in the weeks leading up to the private. I never take privates without getting to know a little about the model - some conversations, watching her fulfill on goals or tip menu items, talking about expectations for the private beforehand, etc. But hard to anticipate this situation happening and certainly no red flags on that score until thee were
Yeah I understand. When I was cruising multiple rooms I tried to be like that (friendly, polite, easy to please, tipped regularly) , and always cut models some slack, but there is a line that shouldn't be crossed even for me :)

But everyone must do as they see fit, and as they are comfortable with.
 
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Could be worse. It gets down to -40 where I am, without wind-chill. I remember several years ago I was in New York and they had just opened a bar called Minus 5 ice bar which apparently was the temp in it. They provided costs. I was walking past and one of the women working there tried to talk me into going in. I'm sure I looked at her like she was crazy and I said "If I want to drink at 5 below I go into my backyard for free".

I lived in New York for a few years, so I know all about the winter (and blizzards) there.
 
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@ models, do you want/like when guys are like this?
(I mean the really loud and "non-stop" moaning/groaning/grunting guys,

YES. That's why I like C2C in privates. For me, it's a turn-on to know (and see for myself) that I was the one responsible for making a guy do all of that moaning and cumming. :clap:

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Depends on so many other factors, and is really complicated for me. Generally, I'm pretty fond of grunting.
Kinda depends on the octave though. Some grunts are great, others I find, personally, less appealing.
However, I have very sensitive ears.
So sensitive I had to change streets earlier today, because a man whistling to himself behind me, was literally painful. Even though he was 50 feet away, and there was a fair ton of background noise. Certain frequencies just don't agree w me at all.

YES. That's why I like C2C in privates. For me, it's a turn-on to know (and see for myself) that I was the one responsible for making a guy do all of that moaning and cumming. :clap:

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I guess it's one of those things then, as a guy that does not like to hear another guy doing it.
It's off-putting hearing it in porn too.

I have always felt a bit nervous and weird if I am making too many, with it only being virtual and not real - not sure how to explain it too much. Although maybe it's because I grew up ina tiny house so never could do it loudly haha
 
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Maybe not strictly annoying, but I was in a room where the model had set up her goals as a series of all the same goal - for example, on hitting the goal 'suck dildo' the new goal became 'suck dildo'..... and so on.
I was happy enough to keep on tipping her for appreciation, but it did seem that there was no incentive for most guys to continue the goal countdown.
 

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The flip side isn't great either. I've wandered into a few Streamate rooms to find the model is clearly on another site having a cam to cam with a customer. You can hear his voice, his fetishes, her humiliating his small penis. Everything. I'm pretty sure he was oblivious.
I always wonder how actually profitable that practice is. I mean I split cam too but even if you don't think of it in terms of being professional and honest - a nice paying customer who is a potential regular is way more profitable in the long term than getting a few extra tips for that show.
 
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The most annoying to me is when models:

A) Gripe about not getting offline tips.
What is the problem with offline tips?

I do not do it a lot but for models I have followed for a year or more it is nice to simply do something nice without expecting anything in return.
 

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Maybe not strictly annoying, but I was in a room where the model had set up her goals as a series of all the same goal - for example, on hitting the goal 'suck dildo' the new goal became 'suck dildo'..... and so on.
I was happy enough to keep on tipping her for appreciation, but it did seem that there was no incentive for most guys to continue the goal countdown.

I repeat a mini goal of “200 tokens until naked for 5 minutes with tit bouncing and ass clapping,” since people don’t wanna clear my 400 token goal I used to have. Lol. It’s a real bitch when you have a very low camscore.
 
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For me when I hear the poor guys being broadcast on another site, I just get a bit weirded out, or I dunno what to call it exactly, by the fact that it seems like all other guys seem to make so much loud noise with moans and groans.. when I am in private/cam2cam, I am never like that and that loud. I feel way too self conscious to be THAT loud and groaning/grunting haha

@ models, do you want/like when guys are like this?
(I mean the really loud and "non-stop" moaning/groaning/grunting guys,
i LOVE hearing moaning because it means I'm doing my job but I don't allow c2c in group/private shows so I only ever experience it one on one/in exclusive
 
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This is nice to hear because I tend to be a pretty quiet guy. I wish CB C2C had audio because one of the models I do privates with is constantly asking me to give her more feedback that I like what she's doing. If mics were on she'd know, but instead I'm having to constantly type while I'm a little busy.
 

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What is the problem with offline tips?

I do not do it a lot but for models I have followed for a year or more it is nice to simply do something nice without expecting anything in return.

Bocefish didn't say he has a problem with offline tips. He was saying that he finds it annoying when models complain about not receiving offline tips. Also Bocefish's post is from 2013, and he's not active on here anymore. I thought his account was deactivated, but it says he's "In the dog house."
 

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Men who are loud and moan are the sexiest 😍


I also split cam but I never miss a tip, I use a browser that puts all my sites chats in one and keep track of it there. My Knight/mod/room helper also never fails to remind me that I'm getting close to a goal/countdown so I pay extra attention then. I allow spying on other sites ( paid, no one can communicate with me if they're watching) while I'm in a private with someone on one site, but if I go true private/exclusive I go offline elsewhere.
There's a few members who don't like having spies and I turn it off for them.
Never understood girls who keep their other streams public or even shamelessly communicate with other members while doing a pvt show, not to even mention exclusives where everyone can hear the guy etc. It's really rude and bad business in my opinion. 🤷🏼‍♀️
 
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I tried out a couple of VR cam sites when I got my headset but it's really not my thing, mainly because it's so hard to type and actually interact with the model. Anyway, a couple of times I was in different girls' free VR chat rooms while they were doing privates elsewhere (the VR site tends to be pretty slow), and was able to hear the guys' voices as they quite awkwardly tried to flirt with and guide the model. I guess the VR site is so quiet the girls forgot it was there, or didn't care. I didn't stick around because it weirded me out. I'd really hate to be the client in such a situation, but I think in both cases the guys were totally oblivious.
 
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This is nice to hear because I tend to be a pretty quiet guy. I wish CB C2C had audio because one of the models I do privates with is constantly asking me to give her more feedback that I like what she's doing. If mics were on she'd know, but instead I'm having to constantly type while I'm a little busy.
If the model's happy to go along with it, you could put a password on your room and provide it whenever you go private.
That way you can broadcast yourself to her with audio instead of using the CB c2c feature.
 
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What is the problem with offline tips?

I do not do it a lot but for models I have followed for a year or more it is nice to simply do something nice without expecting anything in return.

"Bocefish said:
The most annoying to me is when models:

A) Gripe about not getting offline tips."

I suspect the original poster has no problem with off-line tips, they said they had an issue with models complaining about NOT getting offline tips.

ETA Oops, just noticed that @yummybrownfox said the same thing :shy:
 

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For people who are apprehensive about moaning too loud or even just moaning, don't be! Not every model will enjoy it, but many love it and think it's hot af. Let yourself be free and let your voice be heard! Might make your neighbors jealous, but hey, you're adding some spice into their life.

If the model's happy to go along with it, you could put a password on your room and provide it whenever you go private.
That way you can broadcast yourself to her with audio instead of using the CB c2c feature.

Definitely do this @inertvolcano I feel that the c2c feature is for when a model is streaming in public and someone wants to share their cam real quick for x amount of tokens and time. The feature is somewhat new and we used to have to open up the person's profile page (and insert password if protected) and view their cam that way when requested during a public stream.

Something to note about the splitcamming/privates getting broadcasted elsewhere thing: some men may actually request this. Could be a humiliation fetish, exhibition fetish, or some other kinds of fetish. Of course, you would probably know that's what's going on due to the content and nature of the private, but you may not.
 

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PSA: If I just told you I am about to cum, please don’t tell me to tip more or ask me if I like what you are doing.

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I'm assuming you mean in a private/paid session right?
 
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PSA: If I just told you I am about to cum, please don’t tell me to tip more or ask me if I like what you are doing.

Normal interaction will resume momentarily lol
To be fair, it's a problem for everyone concerned. The model needs to know what she needs to do to make you cum and you need to make yourself cum and replying kinds of breaks that immersion. Unless you are an octopus then it's a challenge. Spoiler: I'm not an Octopus.
 

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I'm not a huge fan of the "Be right back" or "Back in 5!" backgrounds that are thrown up when a model is away.

When i'm streaming if I have too use the washroom or grab a snack or whatever I just go and do it because I know i'll be back in no time. Personally I think models that use these backgrounds are at a disadvantage. They may think "oh i'll just throw up this slide while i'm away to keep my viewers". I think "be right back thumbnail, why even join their stream?" restricting themselves from potential new viewers.
 
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I'm not a huge fan of the "Be right back" or "Back in 5!" backgrounds that are thrown up when a model is away.

When i'm streaming if I have too use the washroom or grab a snack or whatever I just go and do it because I know i'll be back in no time. Personally I think models that use these backgrounds are at a disadvantage. They may think "oh i'll just throw up this slide while i'm away to keep my viewers". I think "be right back thumbnail, why even join their stream?" restricting themselves from potential new viewers.
As a viewer, I appreciate that 'BRB' announcement. I've seen so many models walk off camera without saying anything, and then leave you hanging wondering what is going on - and sometimes for much longer than 5 mins.
It at least lets viewers know they're on a break, and also an approximate timeframe for returning - which may (or may not) persuade folk to stick around for that.....
probably also reduces the number of complaints and down-thumb feedback reviews.
 

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I'm not a huge fan of the "Be right back" or "Back in 5!" backgrounds that are thrown up when a model is away.

When i'm streaming if I have too use the washroom or grab a snack or whatever I just go and do it because I know i'll be back in no time. Personally I think models that use these backgrounds are at a disadvantage. They may think "oh i'll just throw up this slide while i'm away to keep my viewers". I think "be right back thumbnail, why even join their stream?" restricting themselves from potential new viewers.

I'm surprised that someone would find this annoying. I've seen bozos come into a model's chat, and right away be like "Where is she??? Where did you go, bb?" 😂 Like really panicking because God forbid she step away from the cam for a minute to grab a cold drink or go pee. Lol.

I would just type "Bathroom. BRB!," and then hurry out the room. If a member doesn't want to read what I typed into the chat...or doesn't want to wait a quick minute for my return, oh well. He's free to move on to the next model.
 
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I don't mind the model disappearing and leaving an empty chair. What does annoy me is that Streamate has a setting where after a certain amount of time, it kicks the model offline and you are then left doing the "refresh of doom" to see if they are back. It must hurt the model as well because a lot of the users who were sitting patiently waiting might not come back.