Actually, her response was spot-on. Models who've been around for a while have seen the following multiple times:
"I retired, and announced that I was retiring, but this guy won't stop trying to get in touch with me"
- These models have a right to privacy upon retiring, even if they "chose to be on a cam site and put yourself out there." Once a person retires, they have a right to withdraw and no longer receive attention. This is one of the reasons why celebrities hate paparazzi, because they never let them have any damn privacy.
"I switched from MFC to Streammate and changed my name because I was tired of all the freeloaders and didn't want them following me. I even started a completely new Twitter to make it harder for them to find me!"
- These models don't want their old "fans" around, because real fans actually support us by contributing. When these dudes follow a model from a site with the focus on free chat to one with a focus on privates, they end up dragging the model's room and mood down and end up deterring potential paying customers.
Your response was unnecessarily rude. It's actually quite a safe bet to guess that the model in question retired or quit, because there are far more models who quit after camming for a day/week/month than there are models who cam for years.