What Audri is saying is really true here. You tell people that you don’t really have the energy to answer personal messages, because you’re getting 1 million of them. And then guess what, they do, they sent you another message asking about it. It’s insane.
The empathetic ones are really nice though, and it’s always great to feel appreciated and needed. On the other hand, when people are going through stuff or they are tired, or they got health stuff going on, or they are just burned out or all of the above, we literally have no extra time or energy at all. And as soon as we get a little, we kind of get jumped on by everyone at once, and even the most friendly, caring person can only handle so much of that.
Patience really goes a long way. Sometimes getting burned out and tired like that, can last like weeks and months. So you gotta just be patient. Other times it can just mean that there’s a weekend off needed. But if you can show your favorite model that you can give her space, and be respectful of her boundaries, in the long run, you will get better shows . And she will appreciate you more.
There are a lot of lonely people out there who are isolated. It sucks. A lot of people need a lot of energy and attention these days, in so many different ways. And they all seem to feel really comfy around sex workers online. It’s cool. But it can also be very demanding.
Everyone needs some time off once in a while, and some me time, or they’ll go insane. Especially if dealing w health issues, chronic and acute.