C2C: What Gives Female Models the Ick?

[SimmerDown32]

So I’m getting closer to the point that I’d like to try C2C with a model I like to hang out with. It seems hot . My big hurdle is that I’m super self-conscious because the models I like seeing are younger. I’m pretty freaking average, but, yeah, there are some things I coiuld address in shorter order. I guess my question is what types of things gross you out as woman models.

 

[MarieElise]

So I’m getting closer to the point that I’d like to try C2C with a model I like to hang out with. It seems hot . My big hurdle is that I’m super self-conscious because the models I like seeing are younger. I’m pretty freaking average, but, yeah, there are some things I coiuld address in shorter order. I guess my question is what types of things gross you out as woman models.

Every woman is different. Me personally soft cocks, with heads and eyes without cock or body. It's a sex site, so unless you are my type in the face, which very few are, I'm not sure why anyone would think their face alone would do a single thing for me (specifically sexually). I like nice smiles, etc, but that will do absolutely nothing for me sexually. So I prefer it if either a hard cock is in frame the whole time, or at least a hard cock with the head.

The absolute worst ( which admittedly rarely happens) is just a head with no arm movement or even signs of jerking off going on. At that point its like; "what the fuck did you even put your camera on for? What's that supposed to add for me? Do you ever think or...?"

I'm very much about the context and it being a masturbation site. So if a guy ain't masturbating, and he puts his camera on, that's a total mood killer for me. I would appreciate people like that would expect conversation only on my side of the camera in response to that. I'm very specific about the type of faces that attract me on their own, and very few men have one.

Every woman is different, though. Any awkwardness and mood-killing shit can be avoided 100% by simply communicating honestly with the specific model in question. If she lies to you about her likes, that's on her, but at least you did your part (in that case) and everything you could to make it genuinely fun.

As far as weight or cock size, I don't care how fat or obese a guy might be, but super, super skinny is a turn-off to me personally. I rarely encounter guys that skinny though. I also give 0 shits about cock size; it's all about rigidity to me. If it ain't even a half chub, maybe keep it to yourself. It could be a tree trunk cock or a little shrimp, but if it's soft, either one is gonna kill it for me. At least 50% rigidity required, minimum, before any cameras need be turned on (with me).

I rarely get the ick. I just get mood killed but not disgusted. The one time I definitely got the ick was when a guy was sitting on a toilet jerking off, and I could see the turd he just did, floating on by beneath him. I get it some people work hard, get tired, and forget things. But Jesus Fucking Christ! And as I've mentioned before on this forum, I have a specific dislike of socks being on while undies and pants are off. Especially if they are holiday themed! Who in Hell wants Santa smiling up at them when they are trying to rub one out?????? How is anyone supposed to maintain a genuine sexy feeling looking into Santa's face? I'd, honestly, way prefer even Jesus to that!

 

[yummybrownfox]

Like Marie stated...I don't like it when I click on the cam, and it's just the guy's face staring at me. Creeeeepy. My dude...you requesting I watch you on cam gave me the impression that you wanted me to watch you stroke your dick. I do not need to see your pores up close. So if you're not gonna be jerking that dick, then give me a singing or dancing performance or something? Otherwise wtf am I supposed to be looking at??? I mean...unless you wanted to have an actual conversation with us looking at each other. Then okay, I can do that.....

And pretending to "lick your screen" isn't really sexy or necessary either. I mean, unless I'm like showing you tits or pussy, and just happen to ask you what you'd like to do to me. Then okay, I'll allow it...

I actually LOVE C2C (Really wish more MFC dudes would take me private, and we can enjoy this) when the guy is letting me watch him jerk off, and he's not repeatedly saying dumb stuff like "I want you to cum all over the place...cum for me, bb...are you about to cum...I want you to cum all over the place..." If you're jerking off, I want to see it, which means you need to lower that cam instead of keeping it on your face.....

 

[Vixxen81]

I absolutely refuse to do C2C. Watching men jerk off is like watching paint dry.

 

[rockin_rod]

NOT a model, but would've picked poor personal hygiene as a possible response. Kinda glad that doesn't seem to be the case

 

[MarieElise]

NOT a model, but would've picked poor personal hygiene as a possible response. Kinda glad that doesn't seem to be the case

A surprising number of the c2c shows I get are broadcast from the bath and/ or shower, or "somewhere else" in a bathroom. They're definitely attending to a lot of important matters in there, for the most part. A lot of them are multitasking and doing the show as they are lathered up. You have to admire the efficient use of time. Although steam and cell phones??? They seem to know what they are doing, though. Hopefully noone's using a phone that cost a grand, or anything like that.

From my experience, a lot of guys take 5-minute showers though, and turn the water off while they lather up. So that's a pretty quick, steam-non-intensive experience.
I take scalding hot showers, so even 5 minutes with me in there would be a risk to electronics. But I also eat molten pizza straight out of the oven, and drink close to boiling hot water, so I think I'm a little "different" in that regard.

 

[KingMarti]

NOT a model, but would've picked poor personal hygiene as a possible response. Kinda glad that doesn't seem to be the case

 

[MeAbc]

Every woman is different. Me personally soft cocks, with heads and eyes without cock or body. It's a sex site, so unless you are my type in the face, which very few are, I'm not sure why anyone would think their face alone would do a single thing for me (specifically sexually). I like nice smiles, etc, but that will do absolutely nothing for me sexually. So I prefer it if either a hard cock is in frame the whole time, or at least a hard cock with the head.

The absolute worst ( which admittedly rarely happens) is just a head with no arm movement or even signs of jerking off going on. At that point its like; "what the fuck did you even put your camera on for? What's that supposed to add for me? Do you ever think or...?"

I'm very much about the context and it being a masturbation site. So if a guy ain't masturbating, and he puts his camera on, that's a total mood killer for me. I would appreciate people like that would expect conversation only on my side of the camera in response to that. I'm very specific about the type of faces that attract me on their own, and very few men have one.

Every woman is different, though. Any awkwardness and mood-killing shit can be avoided 100% by simply communicating honestly with the specific model in question. If she lies to you about her likes, that's on her, but at least you did your part (in that case) and everything you could to make it genuinely fun.

As far as weight or cock size, I don't care how fat or obese a guy might be, but super, super skinny is a turn-off to me personally. I rarely encounter guys that skinny though. I also give 0 shits about cock size; it's all about rigidity to me. If it ain't even a half chub, maybe keep it to yourself. It could be a tree trunk cock or a little shrimp, but if it's soft, either one is gonna kill it for me. At least 50% rigidity required, minimum, before any cameras need be turned on (with me).

I rarely get the ick. I just get mood killed but not disgusted. The one time I definitely got the ick was when a guy was sitting on a toilet jerking off, and I could see the turd he just did, floating on by beneath him. I get it some people work hard, get tired, and forget things. But Jesus Fucking Christ! And as I've mentioned before on this forum, I have a specific dislike of socks being on while undies and pants are off. Especially if they are holiday themed! Who in Hell wants Santa smiling up at them when they are trying to rub one out?????? How is anyone supposed to maintain a genuine sexy feeling looking into Santa's face? I'd, honestly, way prefer even Jesus to that!

Be very careful when a viewer takes you private but cock is soft or just showing his face because he could be up to no good like planning to pirate sessions or steal intelectual property, I always monitor viewers like that closely or end the session if they dont get hard.

 

[Vixxen81]

The sole reason I've never done a shower show is because you wouldn't be able to see anything through the wall of steam. I am not taking a warm shower. I want it hot, hot, hot.

 

[MarieElise]

. I want it hot, hot, hot.

Yeah a lot of the shower shows are models purposefully using cold water. To each their own, but there are certain things I'm just not willing to do. Cold showers is definitely one of them. No way! The muscle tension alone... No thanks. I won't even do tepid or what most people call "warm". Absolutely the fuck not.

 

[Vixxen81]

Yeah a lot of the shower shows are models purposefully using cold water. To each their own, but there are certain things I'm just not willing to do. Cold showers is definitely one of them. No way! The muscle tension alone... No thanks. I won't even do tepid or what most people call "warm". Absolutely the fuck not.

I had to stop taking showers in my favorite bathroom because I kept setting off the smoke alarm, which for some idiotic reason is right by its door.

 

[ts_cammer98]

Most c2c clients I get are pretty clean and actually pretty damn good looking men too. When I reached 15k followers, I had a free c2c day to celebrate and got a lot of ick! Why would anyone want to stroke with such dirty, greasy and grimy hands is just beyond me. Wash your hands people! eeeeew!
I'm honestly in love with humans in general so as long as the person on the other side is clean and takes care of themselves, I'll prolly find them attractive in someway. Clean hands is a must though! No toilets too!

I'll prolly never celebrate another milestone with free c2c again!

Edit: lol the whole reason I posted here in the first place(before remembering all the dirty nasty hands I've witnessed), was to say the biggest ick is not having tested webcam or having such poor internet that a c2c in a pvt is just nothing but tech issues. I don't care if they pay for public c2c, and I've even told people I'll remember them if they want to share their cam after getting it working. But if we are doing a pvt with a c2c and the whole premise is the c2c. PLEASE MAKE SURE ITS WORKING!

 

[SimmerDown32]

Thanks for the feedback. So in terms of hardness… those of you turned off by soft dick, how hard are we talking as the baseline for acceptability. Like some guys, depending on age, can keep their cocks oak-tree hard. Others may ebb and flow and it could be more like a shirt situation for females, where sometimes your boner could be like a shish-kabob. Others may ebb times you may need to let it heat up. Or maybe you’re re-loading and didn’t realize you need a few more hours of cooking time. Like you can still come and get hard but it takes a little more mojo to get there.

 

[SimmerDown32]

Most c2c clients I get are pretty clean and actually pretty damn good looking men too. When I reached 15k followers, I had a free c2c day to celebrate and got a lot of ick! Why would anyone want to stroke with such dirty, greasy and grimy hands is just beyond me. Wash your hands people! eeeeew!
I'm honestly in love with humans in general so as long as the person on the other side is clean and takes care of themselves, I'll prolly find them attractive in someway. Clean hands is a must though! No toilets too!

I'll prolly never celebrate another milestone with free c2c again!

Interesting about the attractiveness of men who do c2c. Do you think it’s a self-selection thing. Like better-looking dudes have less to be self conscious about and therefore more willing to go the c2c route? I mean are men rocking chodes really gonna turn on their cam?

 

[ts_cammer98]

Interesting about the attractiveness of men who do c2c. Do you think it’s a self-selection thing. Like better-looking dudes have less to be self conscious about and therefore more willing to go the c2c route? I mean are men rocking chodes really gonna turn on their cam?

lol I had to look up chode on google.
Honestly, just make sure you are groomed and clean. If you haven't actually touched grass in the last week, try to make sure we can't tell over the cam. Every model is very different and defining "better-looking dudes" is going to be different across the board. It's a service we are getting paid for, so we see cocks of all sorts of shapes and sizes on the daily and most of us are probably not going to judge you if your "rocking a chode". Just make sure that chode doesn't look like it's been forgot about in your daily hygiene routine.

 

[MarieElise]

I had to stop taking showers in my favorite bathroom because I kept setting off the smoke alarm, which for some idiotic reason is right by its door.

That's hilarious because that exact same thing has happened to me. Classic
Well not exact - I had someone pull the fucking thing down.

(Now I gotta check I put the stove off, and didn't leave my straightener plugged in 20 times per day
Disconnecting and pulling down smoke alarms isn't really smart. )

 

[Vixxen81]

That's hilarious because that exact same thing has happened to me. Classic
Well not exact - I had someone pull the fucking thing down.

(Now I gotta check I put the stove off, and didn't leave my straightener plugged in 20 times per day
Disconnecting and pulling down smoke alarms isn't really smart. )

I've thought about moving it to the stairwell. Makes more sense there.

 

[MarieElise]

Thanks for the feedback. So in terms of hardness… those of you turned off by soft dick, how hard are we talking as the baseline for acceptability. Like some guys, depending on age, can keep their cocks oak-tree hard. Others may ebb and flow and it could be more like a shirt situation for females, where sometimes your boner could be like a shish-kabob. Others may ebb times you may need to let it heat up. Or maybe you’re re-loading and didn’t realize you need a few more hours of cooking time. Like you can still come and get hard but it takes a little more mojo to get there.

Sorry for the DP. My ideal in that situation (personally) would again be honest, upfront communication. Tell me that. Educate me. Bring me in closer to understanding you better physically.

But I like 50% chub. I have a few clients who are open with me about Viagra and prostate medication that they take, which causes some interesting and somewhat sexy phenomenon. If I see it's a man with white body hair that that is happening with I might just put it together on my own, though too. However, any kind of direct conversation and communication, especially on traditionally vulnerable topics, is going to put a viewer higher up in my respect files & the interest & appreciation quotient is gonna increase a lot.

 

[SimmerDown32]

lol I had to look up chode on google.
Honestly, just make sure you are groomed and clean. If you haven't actually touched grass in the last week, try to make sure we can't tell over the cam. Every model is very different and defining "better-looking dudes" is going to be different across the board. It's a service we are getting paid for, so we see cocks of all sorts of shapes and sizes on the daily and most of us are probably not going to judge you if your "rocking a chode". Just make sure that chode doesn't look like it's been forgot about in your daily hygiene routine.

No. No. I’m not rocking the chode. Just wanted to clarify.

 

[AmberCutie]

"rocking a chode"

 

[Vixxen81]

Same and I was like I haven't seen a dick on cam that wasn't a chode.

 

[AmberCutie]

Same and I was like I haven't seen a dick on cam that wasn't a chode.

Really? I feel like it's gotta be rare, no? (Maybe I got the wrong definition lol)

 

[Vixxen81]

Really? I feel like it's gotta be rare, no? (Maybe I got the wrong definition lol)

Every guy who comes into my room with their camera already on has a short stumpy dick. Since I refuse C2C on the regular I don't know if anyone who has asked for that has an average or larger than average dick. But the guys bouncing from room to room with their camera already on? 100% chode every time.

 

[AmberCutie]

Every guy who comes into my room with their camera already on has a short stumpy dick. Since I refuse C2C on the regular I don't know if anyone who has asked for that has an average or larger than average dick. But the guys bouncing from room to room with their camera already on? 100% chode every time.

Must be humiliation fetish fishing, trying to find someone who will degrade them right off the bat

 

[Vixxen81]

Must be humiliation fetish fishing, trying to find someone who will degrade them right off the bat

It makes me sad for them and I won't indulge.

 

[misterical]

Thanks for the feedback. So in terms of hardness… those of you turned off by soft dick, how hard are we talking as the baseline for acceptability. Like some guys, depending on age, can keep their cocks oak-tree hard. Others may ebb and flow and it could be more like a shirt situation for females, where sometimes your boner could be like a shish-kabob. Others may ebb times you may need to let it heat up. Or maybe you’re re-loading and didn’t realize you need a few more hours of cooking time. Like you can still come and get hard but it takes a little more mojo to get there.

Why oh why did the internet gods decide that I had to read this paragraph out of all of the paragraphs on the internet? Literally a challenging wank of a paragraph describing a dude having a challenging wank.

 

[NotYou]

A surprising number of the c2c shows I get are broadcast from the bath and/ or shower, or "somewhere else" in a bathroom. They're definitely attending to a lot of important matters in there, for the most part. A lot of them are multitasking and doing the show as they are lathered up. You have to admire the efficient use of time. Although steam and cell phones??? They seem to know what they are doing, though. Hopefully noone's using a phone that cost a grand, or anything like that.

From my experience, a lot of guys take 5-minute showers though, and turn the water off while they lather up. So that's a pretty quick, steam-non-intensive experience.
I take scalding hot showers, so even 5 minutes with me in there would be a risk to electronics. But I also eat molten pizza straight out of the oven, and drink close to boiling hot water, so I think I'm a little "different" in that regard.

Luckily I live alone so I don't have to sneak away, but i could honestly never do it in the bathroom/bath/shower. I would never be able to concentrate, i'd be too focused on my phone falling or getting to wet and breaking or me slipping over like an old man or something


But to OP: I am just a user, I have always found tip the model before hand, get to know her more through conversations/tips, and talk about whats he likes/dislikes. Like everyone above, they are al different and like/dislike different things as with anything.

I have done cam2cam with different types of models. Some only want to see your "junk" , some want to see as much as you as possible, and I have even had a few who really are tired of seeing dick after dick, and actually do like to watch just the face. One particular mode, hasn't cammed for years now unfortunately but we got on great, and she only wanted face because she genuinely loved to watch the expressions on the face of reacting to her dancing (she was a topless striptease/dancer) and that to her made it better - and for me it was amazing too.

In summary: talk to the model first and see what she enjoys, or try get a feel of it from how she is in the room already.

 

[yummybrownfox]

The sole reason I've never done a shower show is because you wouldn't be able to see anything through the wall of steam. I am not taking a warm shower. I want it hot, hot, hot.

Yeah a lot of the shower shows are models purposefully using cold water. To each their own, but there are certain things I'm just not willing to do. Cold showers is definitely one of them. No way! The muscle tension alone... No thanks. I won't even do tepid or what most people call "warm". Absolutely the fuck not.

Years ago I saw a meme on social media that said "Women love hot showers because it reminds them of Hell where they came from." I laughed and thought Damn, dude...that's harsh! Lol.
I love hot showers too. That time I'd broken out in hives for some unknown reason, a scalding hot shower felt absolutely divine. I'd told a doctor about it later, and she was like "You really shouldn't do that. It's bad for you."

A cold shower sounds absolutely miserable. I could never do that.

 

[SimmerDown32]

Why oh why did the internet gods decide that I had to read this paragraph out of all of the paragraphs on the internet? Literally a challenging wank of a paragraph describing a dude having a challenging wank.

That was mean. Next time, I’ll run all posts by my line editor. Then I’ll throw it over to my copy editor, before sharing with the community.

 

[Vixxen81]

Apologies. Next time, I’ll run all posts by my line editor. Then I’ll throw it over to my copy editor, before sharing with the community.

Don't take offense. The sites are meant to be entertaining and to get you off or not depending on your preference and we're and I do mean WE are ALL tired of the deep thought takes on why or what or how or when.

Did you have this much thought about jerking off when porn was simply in print form and VHS you had to buy or rent from a video store? And if you're not old enough to experience that then I guess I can understand the over investment into how you get off. The one thing most of you misunderstand is I'm not any more interested in taking tokens for things I don't want to do but you're way more invested in trying to get me to do it.