CB pvt shows with spy disabled being broadcast on other platforms by the model

[Maxi]

I think the issue isnt so much that others were watching on another site as the model was preforming requests of the other users tipping on the other site in the show the guy was paying for, IMO he's justified to be unhappy about this since he is paying for a show that's catered to him and the experience received is the same as just staying in free chat.

But I'm still sticking with my original reply of if a model isnt delivering the experience you want just find a new model, it's not like you're ever short on options.

Right. I agree to a degree. But there is a difference between a private show and an exclusive private, no?

Exclusivity is generally the member turning their cam on but it also means direct one-on-one, if they’re willing to pay the extra.

Completely agree that that is at the model’s discretion and if OP’s unhappy, find someone else and even ask beforehand!

 

[misterical]

The other thing I think is that the world is currently utterly mental. Bombs flying about everywhere, crazy man children ruining the economy, having to consider selling a kidney just to put petrol in the car. If a model is getting a few extra tips while you are having a private wank and those tips allow her to navigate the current cost of living minefield then Jesus man, who cares?

 

[Maxi]

The other thing I think is that the world is currently utterly mental. Bombs flying about everywhere, crazy man children ruining the economy, having to consider selling a kidney just to put petrol in the car. If a model is getting a few extra tips while you are having a private wank and those tips allow her to navigate the current cost of living minefield then Jesus man, who cares?

Yeah. There have been times where I’ve spied on a private and probably tipped more during than the originator of the show.

It’s all money in the bank.

 

[KingMarti]

Right. I agree to a degree. But there is a difference between a private show and an exclusive private, no?

Exclusivity is generally the member turning their cam on but it also means direct one-on-one, if they’re willing to pay the extra.

Completely agree that that is at the model’s discretion and if OP’s unhappy, find someone else and even ask beforehand!

didnt op say he paid for exclusive pvt though?

and when you spy on a regular pvt you can watch but not interact normally (streamate is the odd one out since a pvt there is basically a group show that can be started with a single user).

I don't think it's unreasonable to expect when you do a pvt you are getting a custom show that is what you want without it being interupted by people tipping for things you don't want, otherwise why go pvt over just tipping in free chat.

remember most members on a site don't care about the models income, they aren't thinking in terms of "well the model will make more" they just want to see what they want to see, nut and leave, which is perfectly fine. So I can see why a model taking tip requests even during a normal pvt would not be the experience a member is looking for when going pvt.

 

[MarieElise]

The other thing I think is that the world is currently utterly mental. Bombs flying about everywhere, crazy man children ruining the economy, having to consider selling a kidney just to put petrol in the car. If a model is getting a few extra tips while you are having a private wank and those tips allow her to navigate the current cost of living minefield then Jesus man, who cares?

Exactly, we get in this for money. Being so self-absorbed and fragile that you can't get sexually excited unless you're lying to yourself, and trying to be delusional that the model is only yours (in order to cum), means you probably shouldn't be on cam sites. People who are so conservative sexually and romantically should leave the rest of us alone and stop projecting weird shit onto us. It's their life to be however they wish, but they should keep it in their own sphere, and stop pushing it on the rest of us. We didn't ask them to join and spoil the vibe and fun with their weird hangups and projections Cam sites aren't good places for people like that.

They makes themselves such a pain in the ass, and make the models want to end their shift early, and never come back. Sorry, blunt but true.
It gets talked about behind the scenes a lot. Some men are so much hassle, that even when they are paying, we just don't want to deal with them. And it's always awkward af.
Yet, just as many, if not more men, manage not to be that... so...
Dealing with people who have unrealistic expectations is really so draining, and it's the worst.

 

[Maxi]

didnt op say he paid for exclusive pvt though?

and when you spy on a regular pvt you can watch but not interact normally (streamate is the odd one out since a pvt there is basically a group show that can be started with a single user).

I don't think it's unreasonable to expect when you do a pvt you are getting a custom show that is what you want without it being interupted by people tipping for things you don't want, otherwise why go pvt over just tipping in free chat.

remember most members on a site don't care about the models income, they aren't thinking in terms of "well the model will make more" they just want to see what they want to see, nut and leave, which is perfectly fine. So I can see why a model taking tip requests even during a normal pvt would not be the experience a member is looking for when going pvt.

The OP was talking about spy-disabled privates on CB being broadcast on SC and SC privates being broadcast on CB? I’m sorry, I’m not on CB so I don’t know the terminology! I might have got things wrong and misunderstood so I apologise

I guess my point was around if a model receives a tip during a private that isn’t exclusive - are they not allowed to acknowledge it? Who sets those rules and expectations? Like I said, it’s down to the model right? And if the member doesn’t like it they can cancel the private and move on…

 

[smoker919]

I have a feeling her gets paid for some bots and apps he makes, then uses those tokens he receives from payment as a way to support other models? That's one thing I always assumed. But I could be very wrong

Yes, this. All the tokens I make from apps stay on CB and I use them to support the models I know best.

 

[smoker919]

The only understanding I lack is not understanding why they don't just move on.

This is my point: if you don't understand this then you're missing a big piece of viewer psychology.

 

[ts_cammer98]

This is my point: if you don't understand this then you're missing a big piece of viewer psychology.

It's a toxic viewer psychology, which is why the best advice is to find another model. I'm not missing it at all. idk how you find this behavior ok.

 

[ts_cammer98]

Yes, this. All the tokens I make from apps stay on CB and I use them to support the models I know best.

 

[MarieElise]

This is my point: if you don't understand this then you're missing a big piece of viewer psychology.

I'd also like you to elaborate on this and see if you actually share anything genuine and/or true. Because there are a lot of viewers I really don't want, and I do a lot of things to purposefully put these types off. So please do
continue...

A lot of times when guys say this kind of a thing, it's advice on how to attract low paying, demanding nuisances.
But I'm open-minded, I genuinely want to hear if you have something helpful to share.

 

[Makko]

The other thing I think is that the world is currently utterly mental. Bombs flying about everywhere, crazy man children ruining the economy, having to consider selling a kidney just to put petrol in the car. If a model is getting a few extra tips while you are having a private wank and those tips allow her to navigate the current cost of living minefield then Jesus man, who cares?

So let's say you're in a private and watching something you like and suddenly she stops and shows her feet to the screen for 5 minutes cause someone tipped for that. I bet you will be pissed off by that.
I always do True Privates and don't care much if it's shown on other sites. I don't really like it but I can live with it. But I draw the line at the model ignoring me and doing stuff I don't want to see.

 

[AmberCutie]

So let's say you're in a private and watching something you like and suddenly she stops and shows her feet to the screen for 5 minutes cause someone tipped for that. I bet you will be pissed off by that.
I always do True Privates and don't care much if it's shown on other sites. I don't really like it but I can live with it. But I draw the line at the model ignoring me and doing stuff I don't want to see.

I think these points are totally valid. And if it happens with the model you like watching, the options are to ask her not to do that next time, or to move on to another model. I think we've gone in circles through this thread just trying to make that point land. So ultimately this thread has run its course, going to lock it before another circle begins.

On that note:

I'd also like you to elaborate on this

I think it's just going to get uglier and more irritating to the majority of us if a viewer was to try to explain their thoughts on "viewer psychology" beyond what has been stated. Many of us agree that watching/wanking to cam models should be an exercise in pleasure, not psychology lessons.