Guys: Would you date a girl in this industry?

[lilengine]

I would consider dating a girl if she had done camming/stripping/porn/escorting previously, but absolutely 100% no way if she was doing so leading up to the relationship.

But as for actually being in a relationship, there are standards that I go by. There are way way too many women out there in the world to settle on someone who would think it's a good idea to whore on camera for money.

A note on my definition of whoring. A man can whore. A woman can whore. Anyone showing their privates parts for cash is a whore. Point blank. The distinction must be made. It isn't simply just a "job." Being a secretary, filing papers, running reports is one thing. Masturbating with a vibrator in front of 100 strangers for 1000 tokens while they scream things like, "oh you're wild slut" is totally different.

I am a decently attractive man. I make decent money. I like to watch cams because I like the live aspect of it all. Do I want to date/marry any of the women I see on these cam sites? Hell no. I don't even like the fandom that comes along with camming... why would I want someone's soiled panties? Not really even trying to be friends with these girls, just trying to get my rocks off and be done with it.

One of the reasons I would date someone who had been a "sex worker" in the past is because a lot of these girls are in the 18-22 year old range and that is way too young to be making decisions like that. When I was 18 and in college, I was lucky if I had $15 a weekend. The allure of $$$ overshadows the possible ramifications that could occur later in life.

 

[RogueWarrior]

Would I date a camgirl? Hell yes. Would I date just any camgirl? Hell no.

Clarification: Would I date a stripper? Yes, and have. Would I date a stripper that turns tricks in the parking lot? Absolutely not.

It all depends on the individual situation. First of all, is she honest about what she does? If the answer is yes then we can proceed from there. If she lies about it and I find out, game over.

The most important thing in any relationship is honesty. If the relationship is built on false pretenses, no matter what those may be, it is doomed from the beginning.

If I met a girl, went out once or twice, looking like things may go further, she says "I've got something to tell you", I could deal. If she's hiding it? Not so much.

 

[Jupiter551]

One of the models I know on MFC was dating a guy for a while and hadn't told him her profession, and I did say to her that she should broach it sooner rather than later. It would be tough though, hell you can understand why a girl might keep it to herself at first, there's a pretty negative public reaction about 'adult industry' work even at the softcore end.

Of course the longer you go, and potentially more you like each other, the harder it gets to tell the truth and more of a big deal that you lied.

Really tough situation, not one I'd want to be in. As camgirl watchers we're a friendly audience to this kind of thing, but there's a large portion of people out there who would immediately judge someone who masturbates on the internet for a living.

 

[ComicOzzie]

Upon further consideration, the only thing that would bother me was if my girlfriend decided to do cam modeling behind my back.

 

[SirLes]

Are you guys purposefully taking names out of quotes for some reason? It's nice to be able to see who you are quoting, so please don't cut them out.

Um, cause this is the first forum I have ever "chatted " on and cause I'm fairly useless and a slow learner when it comes to computers. Now that the error of my ways has been pointed out you may have no fear that it will not happen again, well maybe once.....or twice but no more than that.

 

[Jupiter551]

Are you guys purposefully taking names out of quotes for some reason? It's nice to be able to see who you are quoting, so please don't cut them out.

Absolutely not.

 

[ScarletVixen]

I would prefer to know, not for kinky, insect reasons

eww, kinky insect reasons??
http://www.somethingawful.com/d/horrors-of-porn/bug-eater-cockroach.php

what is this I don't even

 

[Daisy]

Hell yes!

:flower:

 

[LiciousLily]

I would consider dating a girl if she had done camming/stripping/porn/escorting previously, but absolutely 100% no way if she was doing so leading up to the relationship.

But as for actually being in a relationship, there are standards that I go by. There are way way too many women out there in the world to settle on someone who would think it's a good idea to whore on camera for money.

A note on my definition of whoring. A man can whore. A woman can whore. Anyone showing their privates parts for cash is a whore. Point blank. The distinction must be made. It isn't simply just a "job." Being a secretary, filing papers, running reports is one thing. Masturbating with a vibrator in front of 100 strangers for 1000 tokens while they scream things like, "oh you're wild slut" is totally different.

I am a decently attractive man. I make decent money. I like to watch cams because I like the live aspect of it all. Do I want to date/marry any of the women I see on these cam sites? Hell no. I don't even like the fandom that comes along with camming... why would I want someone's soiled panties? Not really even trying to be friends with these girls, just trying to get my rocks off and be done with it.

One of the reasons I would date someone who had been a "sex worker" in the past is because a lot of these girls are in the 18-22 year old range and that is way too young to be making decisions like that. When I was 18 and in college, I was lucky if I had $15 a weekend. The allure of $$$ overshadows the possible ramifications that could occur later in life.

That's kind of harsh. You are entitled to your opinions. I'm just saying. I am a decently attractive woman who makes decent money, who also had a decently attractive man once who made decently attractive money. I feel like you are being closed minded there. Not all guys that go on cam sites who would date cam girls aren't attractive or make horrible money. Well, obviously, or the camgirls would not be able to charge 3.99 a minute for their shows,

 

[Neudiin]

I would consider dating a girl if she had done camming/stripping/porn/escorting previously, but absolutely 100% no way if she was doing so leading up to the relationship.

But as for actually being in a relationship, there are standards that I go by. There are way way too many women out there in the world to settle on someone who would think it's a good idea to whore on camera for money.

A note on my definition of whoring. A man can whore. A woman can whore. Anyone showing their privates parts for cash is a whore. Point blank. The distinction must be made. It isn't simply just a "job." Being a secretary, filing papers, running reports is one thing. Masturbating with a vibrator in front of 100 strangers for 1000 tokens while they scream things like, "oh you're wild slut" is totally different.

I am a decently attractive man. I make decent money. I like to watch cams because I like the live aspect of it all. Do I want to date/marry any of the women I see on these cam sites? Hell no. I don't even like the fandom that comes along with camming... why would I want someone's soiled panties? Not really even trying to be friends with these girls, just trying to get my rocks off and be done with it.

One of the reasons I would date someone who had been a "sex worker" in the past is because a lot of these girls are in the 18-22 year old range and that is way too young to be making decisions like that. When I was 18 and in college, I was lucky if I had $15 a weekend. The allure of $$$ overshadows the possible ramifications that could occur later in life.

If I could be offended this would do it. Not because of your opinions but at the fact you are so close minded and you breath my air. PLEASE tell me that you have not spread your genes to another life form? The sooner close minded people of this world die off, the better this world will be...thanks and eat a bag of dicks =)

 

[Cassidy Nicole]

I would consider dating a girl if she had done camming/stripping/porn/escorting previously, but absolutely 100% no way if she was doing so leading up to the relationship.

But as for actually being in a relationship, there are standards that I go by. There are way way too many women out there in the world to settle on someone who would think it's a good idea to whore on camera for money.

A note on my definition of whoring. A man can whore. A woman can whore. Anyone showing their privates parts for cash is a whore. Point blank. The distinction must be made. It isn't simply just a "job." Being a secretary, filing papers, running reports is one thing. Masturbating with a vibrator in front of 100 strangers for 1000 tokens while they scream things like, "oh you're wild slut" is totally different.

I am a decently attractive man. I make decent money. I like to watch cams because I like the live aspect of it all. Do I want to date/marry any of the women I see on these cam sites? Hell no. I don't even like the fandom that comes along with camming... why would I want someone's soiled panties? Not really even trying to be friends with these girls, just trying to get my rocks off and be done with it.

One of the reasons I would date someone who had been a "sex worker" in the past is because a lot of these girls are in the 18-22 year old range and that is way too young to be making decisions like that. When I was 18 and in college, I was lucky if I had $15 a weekend. The allure of $$$ overshadows the possible ramifications that could occur later in life.

If I could be offended this would do it. Not because of your opinions but at the fact you are so close minded and you breath my air. PLEASE tell me that you have not spread your genes to another life form? The sooner close minded people of this world die off, the better this world will be...thanks and eat a bag of dicks =)

If this is your true feelings, OP, why even spend money on them? Damn.

 

[sxycherrypie]

Agreed if you hate us so much why bother with us.Just go on with your life.IT is way to short to be hating.

 

[RogueWarrior]

I would consider dating a girl if she had done camming/stripping/porn/escorting previously, but absolutely 100% no way if she was doing so leading up to the relationship.

But as for actually being in a relationship, there are standards that I go by. There are way way too many women out there in the world to settle on someone who would think it's a good idea to whore on camera for money.

A note on my definition of whoring. A man can whore. A woman can whore. Anyone showing their privates parts for cash is a whore. Point blank. The distinction must be made. It isn't simply just a "job." Being a secretary, filing papers, running reports is one thing. Masturbating with a vibrator in front of 100 strangers for 1000 tokens while they scream things like, "oh you're wild slut" is totally different.

I am a decently attractive man. I make decent money. I like to watch cams because I like the live aspect of it all. Do I want to date/marry any of the women I see on these cam sites? Hell no. I don't even like the fandom that comes along with camming... why would I want someone's soiled panties? Not really even trying to be friends with these girls, just trying to get my rocks off and be done with it.

One of the reasons I would date someone who had been a "sex worker" in the past is because a lot of these girls are in the 18-22 year old range and that is way too young to be making decisions like that. When I was 18 and in college, I was lucky if I had $15 a weekend. The allure of $$$ overshadows the possible ramifications that could occur later in life.

Ok, so you spend your precious time reading a forum on a site that is populated by people you obviously have no respect for. You then take the time to create a login so you can disparage the people you have no respect for nor any inclinations of getting to know. Make your one vitriolic post and leave.

Thanks for sharing.

 

[Shaun__]

Paraphrased "Bla bla bla bla."

That's kind of harsh. You are entitled to your opinions. I'm just saying. I am a decently attractive woman who makes decent money, who also had a decently attractive man once who made decently attractive money. I feel like you are being closed minded there. Not all guys that go on cam sites who would date cam girls aren't attractive or make horrible money. Well, obviously, or the camgirls would not be able to charge 3.99 a minute for their shows,

I have posted my picture on here twice and some members have seen me on cam so you know I am not unattractive and my salary is not horrible. I see camming as just another job. I do not see anything wrong with being naked. In fact I walk around naked under my clothes on a regular basis.