help!! showing vv down there :(

[rosierosie]

okay this is a really big thing i have struggled with my whole life, my lady parts. i have never seen any camgirl with a vagina as ugly as mine. i started camming a week ago and alot of people of there like me and want to see down there!! i always just say im not ready. what they dont know is that it looks horrible! i mean, it's healthy and clean, my labia is just loose looking and wrinkly. it makes me cry so much that the only way out of this is labia plasty but even then, i dont know how that could fix the wrinklyness. it's affecting me so much, i need to think if i shoul;d just stop camming or go through with it and withstand all the negative comments, i need help, has any other girl gone through something like this? i dont know how they will react..

 

[ramblin]

1) You can be a successful cam model without showing your lady bits.
2) There are folks out there that love every extreme of the human body, so if you are at an the extreme that can work to your advantage if you connect with the right audience.
3) There's a 90% chance that you're not at the 90th percentile.

You might want to take a stroll through METart. It's a softcore nude photography site that's been around for ages, it's quite successful, and it features photographers and models that embrace the full range of human labia. It's a pay site, but they have free samples and those samples will show up in a google search. While it's true that there's a trend toward the minorist of labia minora as the "in" thing, there is definitely an audience out there for larger labia.

 

[JerryBoBerry]

I'm not being pervy when I say this. If you want some honest opinions before you get on cam why don't you just take a close up photo of your vagina and post it. You're not likely to shock anyone here. Collectively the members of this forum have probably seen labia somewhere closing in on a hundred million occasions by now. And if you're too embarrassed, just remember we don't know who you are.

Seriously, we have threads devoted to hair, boobs, socks, asses, buttholes specifically, and more. A single picture of a vagina probably won't even get noticed by 90% of the people here.

 

[Picnic]

Pretty much all cam girls have something they are self conscious about. Chances are, even the thing they are self conscious about is a part that dudes want to fucking WORSHIP. But it's still completely up to you what you do on cam. You don't ever have to show off your vagina if you aren't comfortable with the idea. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. That is the beauty of sex work...you get to make your own rules and stand by the boundaries that feel best to YOU!

 

[IndicaDesires]

I have a larger labia too. At least, larger than what you generally stumble across when watching/looking at porn. It used to bother me a lot more but not a single guy Ive ever cammed for has insulted me over it. Most are extremely reassuring. If you really aren't comfortable showing it, don't.

 

[TacoBelle]

Don't worry! I'm sure that your labia aren't "ugly" to others! TRUST ME. Viewers will be ecstatic to see your vagina, regardless of how you think it looks! And so many of my female friends (myself included) worry that our vaginas look "funny" or "gross" or "weird." But that's the good thing about them; that every one is unique (like a sexy fingerprint)! Check out this article on an artist who made plaster casts of 400 different women. They are all different.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/01/08/the-great-wall-of-vagina_n_4556309.html

 

[CharlotteLace]

I'm not being pervy when I say this. If you want some honest opinions before you get on cam why don't you just take a close up photo of your vagina and post it. You're not likely to shock anyone here.

The problem is that everybody has an honest opinion, and none of them should matter. If she wanted a bunch of free opinions on whether she really had an "ugly vagina," she could just show her room. Having us confirm or deny the legitimacy of an insecurity about a body part isn't productive. In fact it's harmful, regardless of what people say about the trait.

Rosie, even the things you consider flaws can be beautiful to those who admire you. It's likely nobody will ever notice or see them in a poor light like you do. Hell, nobody has ever trolled me based on the traits I have that I dislike (and damn if I'll ever tell 'em. ). The more you embrace and highlight your "beautiful" aspects, the more others will too. Anybody who says hurtful things isn't even necessarily seeing a true flaw, they're seeing a potential insecurity they can exploit to upset you. Come to terms with the not-perfect things about you, and go out and fucking rock it on cam.

TL;DR: Show no weakness.

 

[Shaun__]

The paradox of genitalia is that if it does not look weird than it is weird, because all genitalia is weird looking. Of course that means the non-weird stuff is weird for not being weird, meaning that it is weird and not unusual in the least. Or looking at it another way, you are not used to seeing these parts of people since they stay covered most of the time. You are probably fine and dandy down there.

 

[Kotik29]

I have the same thing, I have yet to have anyone say anything negative. You'd be surprised. A lot of men like that. I used to be so self conscious about it I couldn't even get off on oral. I got over it though by conquering the fear and discovering it really wasn't what I thought it was.

 

[Kotik29]

P.S. yeah if you really aren't comfortable then that's totally your prerogative to say no. I'm just saying you might be pleasantly surprised.

 

[melanieoncam]

Large "suckable" labia is a huge fetish for a lot of guys. You can make it a selling point (works for me). Mine have always been that way from reaching puberty (I've read it has to do with estrogen levels).

 

[gothicfeline]

I say let it all hang out.. if they don't like it to bad. you got to love you in all your glory.

 

[AmieD.Savage]

To add my voice to the chorus above... What may be an insecurity to you is a fetish to someone else... That's the great thing about cam sites, it's kind of a "someone for everyone" type of vibe. People that don't like it will keep moving, block them if they troll.
But you will have many more people drooling over every part of you!

 

[Lexi Emerson]

I know you've got lots of helpful replies already but I wanted to offer some as well!

If you really want to do masturbation shows without just throwing your vagina at full view in front of the camera, you can totally experiment with positions! You go the beautiful agony route (basically the main focus is your face), you can do some doggy style with your face towards the cam and your ass up high so they still see your whole body, or any number of other positions. If it's something you really don't want to show you can get super creative! Don't let it effect ya too much! *hugs*

 

[ThePrincessLuxy]

It's a vagina. I don't think there's one vagina out there that is "good looking" if you know what I mean. You'll be fine as long as *you* are confident enough with it. And if you're not you don't have to show it.

 

[BobbyB]

just give it a try...

No matter how you feel yourself about your body there will always be some who like it and some who don't like it....

On MFC the good thing is if someone sees something he does not like he will simply move to another room and not starting a big discussion, so you will most likely end up with members who like what they see and are maybe happy to pay for it.....

In my view no harm in trying, after that at least you know what happens really instead of just making assumptions that can be way overblown...