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I dunno about anyone else but I was definitely full of snark lol.
 
The fact that you feel there isn't enough info here and still haven't Googled means that you're probably not cut out for being a camgirl, and I'll tell you why.

If you think that getting on cam is the hard part, I have news for you. It's the easiest part. Literally nothing easier than putting on some makeup. cute clothes and turning on a cam. This step takes mental preparation and a willingness to be naked. It's really not that hard if you've already decided you want to cam.
NB: *if you are having doubts at this stage...DON'T TURN ON THE CAM*. Find another job.

The hard part of camming is the fact that the grind never stops. And it is a process of CONSTANT education. You have to do research DAILY. Because you will have to become proficient in, to name a few: Filming, Editing, Coding, Maybe music compositon, Photoshop...those are just the BASIC ones. And do you know how you become good at those? RESEARCH. LEARNING. You can take a class or figure it out yourself, but either way, you have to do it.

If you can't even do a Google or other forum search to find what you need and are wanting access to a place that you are not eligible for yet, "just because", how in the hell are you going to master all the other skills?
 
And the TMI thread where we complain about diarrhea and stuff. :haha:

Oops I mean GIRLS NEVER POOP.
lulz it's fucking true, we never poo but do have at-length discussions about how to deal with that sort of issue and remain the sexy magical beasts that everyone sees on cam. ;)

But for anyone really concerned or curious, the plethora of information in the MO sections is much more useful to someone who has already at least dipped their toes in the water, if not jumped in head-first. The basics are all out here and on the wiki as far as how to get started and the tools needed to get wet.

And it's been a couple years now, I think, since I asked models to stop simply posting "get verified" as a response to newcomers' questions, and I think we have done somewhat OK in that department since then.
 
But for anyone really concerned or curious, the plethora of information in the MO sections is much more useful to someone who has already at least dipped their toes in the water, if not jumped in head-first. The basics are all out here and on the wiki as far as how to get started and the tools needed to get wet.

And it's been a couple years now, I think, since I asked models to stop simply posting "get verified" as a response to newcomers' questions, and I think we have done somewhat OK in that department since then.

Heck, if someone seems reasonably dedicated, a few of us will straight up write a book for them and help them out. But if it feels like they're all take and no give, or they seem like the type to give up quick because it's too hard.... Nah.
 
Now its like beating a dead horse what is that you assume
I havent googled to death?
How did you get that from my comment I think I've broken google by typing in my question and then adding AmberCutie or StripperWeb to get the answer. You obviously didnt take the time to read my post.
A wise woman once said: k then

I totally get it cam up shut the F up and get verified up lol


The fact that you feel there isn't enough info here and still haven't Googled means that you're probably not cut out for being a camgirl, and I'll tell you why.

If you think that getting on cam is the hard part, I have news for you. It's the easiest part. Literally nothing easier than putting on some makeup. cute clothes and turning on a cam. This step takes mental preparation and a willingness to be naked. It's really not that hard if you've already decided you want to cam.
NB: *if you are having doubts at this stage...DON'T TURN ON THE CAM*. Find another job.

The hard part of camming is the fact that the grind never stops. And it is a process of CONSTANT education. You have to do research DAILY. Because you will have to become proficient in, to name a few: Filming, Editing, Coding, Maybe music compositon, Photoshop...those are just the BASIC ones. And do you know how you become good at those? RESEARCH. LEARNING. You can take a class or figure it out yourself, but either way, you have to do it.

If you can't even do a Google or other forum search to find what you need and are wanting access to a place that you are not eligible for yet, "just because", how in the hell are you going to master all the other skills?
 
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Now its like beating a dead horse what is that you assume
I havent googled to death?
What is it that you feel you are missing about camming? Pretty often, especially this time of year, there is an influx of girls who ask for advice on how to start camming. But, what they really mean to do is start camming without being treated like someone who does it. They ask what they should do or shouldn't do and eventually it comes out that they don't want the stigma attached to them. They don't want their family to find out. They don't want to stand in front of an accountant and feel shame. I know that this thread went sideways on you, and my tone is probably not distinguishable. I'm not being snarky here. If what you really want to know is how to avoid the dark stuff that comes with being one of us, all you can do is NOT turn on the camera.

If you're not part of the influx of girls who want dream money without the stink of social abnormality, the truth is there's not THAT much you need to know. There's not a test. It is mostly street smarts over book smarts once you're on. Plenty of camgirls are educated. That probably helps, but you don't have to be smart to be a successful camgirl. Maybe because of the stereotypes associated with girls who make bank off their tits, it's not something we yell. Maybe it's not even a popular opinion around here? I'd take a minute to point out a few insecure rich girls right now, but I'm sure we can all think of a few on our own. Some girls could probably sit in front of the camera drooling and still rake it in. As long as they have a good accountant and follow safety precautions, they're all good. Conversely, you can have all your ducks in a row, be well spoken, learn your shit and still make nothing when you show up. You never know until you try, but, unfortunately, whether the money comes or doesn't, you're labeled.
 
Now its like beating a dead horse what is that you assume
I havent googled to death?
How did you get that from my comment I think I've broken google by typing in my question and then adding AmberCutie or StripperWeb to get the answer. You obviously didnt take the time to read my post.
A wise woman once said: k then

I totally get it cam up shut the F up and get verified up lol

Unfortunately, unless you change the attitude a little bit, I honestly doubt you'll be verified at all, no matter how often you post. Model's Only is a place for active models who can be trusted with a little bit more personal information, who can be counted on to treat their fellow models with respect. It's a privilege, not a right. Which means that getting snarky with people who are trying to help isn't doing you any favors, and is only hurting your chances of actually becoming verified. Something to keep in mind.
 
So does that mean the models getting snarky with me will be demoted?

Unfortunately, unless you change the attitude a little bit, I honestly doubt you'll be verified at all, no matter how often you post. Model's Only is a place for active models who can be trusted with a little bit more personal information, who can be counted on to treat their fellow models with respect. It's a privilege, not a right. Which means that getting snarky with people who are trying to help isn't doing you any favors, and is only hurting your chances of actually becoming verified. Something to keep in mind.
 
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So does that mean the models getting snarky with me will be demoted?

Possibly. We all know on this forum that behavior is watched, and models have been kicked from MO before.

That being said...we're a wonderfully snarky bunch of hoes over here so you know...I dunno man.
 
So does that mean the models getting snarky with me will be demoted?
She said "who are trying to help you". I think girls who are nice and helpful 95% of the time, and snarky occasionally, are given more grace than newbies who immediately start criticizing and being snarky.

Tbh I did think your first comment was kinda rude but it's probably all blown out of proportion at this point. Generally speaking this is a friendly and supportive community; that's why everyone stands up for each other and rallies around to say "hey, fuck that" when someone's criticizing the space/the models. I hope if you do start camming and stick around here that you'll find it a useful and fun place, and once you've got settled into camming, you can help build up the public section to reflect what you feel is missing. I mean all of that genuinely btw, not snarky.
 
Whew thanks for this response. Ive told my whole family sans my father and kids. I dont know what it is that I think I dont know or havent read up on. I just dont know. Now Im definitely starting to feel like the other forum is not so important at this beginner stage due to all the comments. I sat my goal at $150/week camming 5 days for 6 hours a day starting at 9am

I really like MFC or maybe I like the girls who CAM on MFC. I think that may be a good place but my friends keep pushing CAMSODA on me.

Pricing tips and countdowns is where I am at a standstil. I know to look at models just above starting out to get a feel for their prices.
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Also the countdown. Is something I finally worked out today start with a goal at a time to hit my main goal.

Im stuck on what Im really going to be doing in groups or privates.

Its just small things. So now after everything Im feeling much better. I kind of get the gist of everyones pushback. When a place is your home you dont want someone coming in saying its not good enough. Which I didnt I basically said from the open forums I dont think I have grasped enough to cam up.

But Ive made my profiles

Already sold 2 snapchat memeberships but those people already follow me in regular life.

Im kind of hella into this. Like not the bored type to sit in front of the camera and text. Lol Im interactive. Ive been in front of the camera doing other things for 10 years maybe. I edit and do graphics and all that type of crap.

I havent pinpointed my niche even though Ebony is a niche in itself. Im not a classic bbw or a ssbbw from what most say because i dont have a stomach 26' waist 54' ass

Maybe its just nerves.

Nothing said here would ever deter me from my goal. I think Im very suitable for this industry.

Average looks good personality.

Im going to cam up on Tuesdays when all the kiddos are away. I'll probably feel much better after that. I have no problem being naked on camera.

I dont think I could do a cum show in public though
Flashes and teases yes
I dont currently own any toys
My hitachi blew out or something

Im pretty open about my life to everyone I document everything and everyone knows everything.

Hopefully that doesnt hinder success like someone coming into the room and saying my real name.

I do think because of all of my endeavors members will be able to find me thats one part that is a tad bit scary.

I want to do this long term due to agoraphobia. I already work from home so hopefully this added stream of income will help us even more financially.

When you have an illness such as agoraphobia u tend to over think everything.

Idk hopefully I clarified somethings maybe not with this rambling. But I totally appreciate your post.



What is it that you feel you are missing about camming? Pretty often, especially this time of year, there is an influx of girls who ask for advice on how to start camming. But, what they really mean to do is start camming without being treated like someone who does it. They ask what they should do or shouldn't do and eventually it comes out that they don't want the stigma attached to them. They don't want their family to find out. They don't want to stand in front of an accountant and feel shame. I know that this thread went sideways on you, and my tone is probably not distinguishable. I'm not being snarky here. If what you really want to know is how to avoid the dark stuff that comes with being one of us, all you can do is NOT turn on the camera.

If you're not part of the influx of girls who want dream money without the stink of social abnormality, the truth is there's not THAT much you need to know. There's not a test. It is mostly street smarts over book smarts once you're on. Plenty of camgirls are educated. That probably helps, but you don't have to be smart to be a successful camgirl. Maybe because of the stereotypes associated with girls who make bank off their tits, it's not something we yell. Maybe it's not even a popular opinion around here? I'd take a minute to point out a few insecure rich girls right now, but I'm sure we can all think of a few on our own. Some girls could probably sit in front of the camera drooling and still rake it in. As long as they have a good accountant and follow safety precautions, they're all good. Conversely, you can have all your ducks in a row, be well spoken, learn your shit and still make nothing when you show up. You never know until you try, but, unfortunately, whether the money comes or doesn't, you're labeled.
 
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Im a snarky heaux to so I thought my responses were fitting. Im giggling over here. Not meaning to cause any offense.

Possibly. We all know on this forum that behavior is watched, and models have been kicked from MO before.

That being said...we're a wonderfully snarky bunch of hoes over here so you know...I dunno man.
 
Imagine coming into an environment all hostile, then being surprised when it's not met by people bending over backwards to help you.
 
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You perceived me to be hostile. How can you know my intent by a text. You obviously dont but you have been incredibly hostile in this thread for no apparent reason you came off swinging when I never put my hands up. You get what you put out there. Im not suprised. I am apart of many communities in my field and its all the same whether you bake cookies do porn or play the sims people will jump all over you every chance because they get off on the net. Period.

Imagine coming into an environment all hostile, then being surprised when it's not met by people bending over backwards to help you.
 
And you my dear give as good as you get. Throw stones then hide your hands. Like please allow a bish to flourish jeez. I know its slow, but this isnt the only thread you have to keep dropping in on.

Both of our questions the op and mine were answered thoroughly.

Sorry for hijacking your thread op i really didnt mean to.





Imagine coming into an environment all hostile, then being surprised when it's not met by people bending over backwards to help you.
 
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