Ladies how do you deal with...

[ComicOzzie]

Im still pretty new to camming...but how do you react when a a man tells you that he wears women's lingerie and sticks toys in himself? He asked me how i felt about it, and I couldn't even respond. I didn't know what to say lol. Do you think he was just trying to see my reaction? i know there are many different fetishes, many that im sure im still not aware of...but how do i go about dealing with the more extraordinary ones?

There are a wide variety of OMG-related emotes that probably express your reaction to this news quite well.

 

[JoleneBrody]

Im still pretty new to camming...but how do you react when a a man tells you that he wears women's lingerie and sticks toys in himself? He asked me how i felt about it, and I couldn't even respond. I didn't know what to say lol. Do you think he was just trying to see my reaction? i know there are many different fetishes, many that im sure im still not aware of...but how do i go about dealing with the more extraordinary ones?

If your not into it just tell em. I usually just respond "I respect all fetishes but that one just isn't for me, sorry. But thank you for asking I hope you find the best girl for you" Or I'll direct them to a lady I know is into what they like. Such as sub guys. I'm not into being dominant so I'll usually send them to either SpankAmber or MissLolli, depending on who's online.

 

[TashaDutch]

I'd forgotten about this thread but I guess it's kind of relevant to me at the moment as I had some pretty bad news (as I related in another thread) but have been very consciously NOT bringing it up to people on MFC - a little in pm but not, I think, to the point of feeling sorry for myself and so forth - and certainly never in public chat.

And frankly...there's no point, even for the depressed person, to bring down a whole group of other people. Yesterday after I got my bad news I went and hung out with Amber and her regs, and specifically not having to think about it for a while really brightened my day.

Obviously it's not going to change the hard facts, but you wonderful ladies and your amusing and friendly regs can make life a little more positive in even the most difficult times so thankyou for that :thumbleft:

thats zactly how i feel about it.. sometimes when i have had really shitty days.. i go hang out with amber.. and i can go to bed with a better feeling...
i'm not comparing shit btw.. just saying i'm glad people are still thinking normally on the interwebs...
i never saw the point of dropping my shit on anyone.. irl or online.. and to talk about it in a chatroom with a sexy woman trying to entertain everyone.. NO WAY

 

[Oy vey]

If it's someone I'm familiar with then I may say something like "Oh that sucks, but you're here now so let's enjoy the view"

^This. A guy came into my room a few days ago saying how depressed he was because his gf broke up with him, then went on about taking a whole bottle of his medication. That's how he introduced himself. I was like, "well at least you're here, and now we can have some fun together & get your mind off of what's bothering you." That plants the notion that it's time to move on and focus on something more tangible. :violin:

My husband is a *little* less compassionate. His response: "You should've talked him into maxing out his credit cards and clearing out his bank account to send you tokens since he won't be needing his money anyway."

I really like the way your husband thinks.

I wonder if you all are being too kind. Over time, I have seen a variety of sad sacks and inappropriate sickies come into lively rooms and turn them into funerals. This behavior strikes me as so abrupt and bizarre that I often think it's sabotage, done deliberately to kill tips and distress the model. Jealousy, an individual vendetta, or hatred inspired by any of a hundred things could be motivations. Given that, I think the appropriate response to such people is "GTFO!"

 

[Shaun__]

A lot of people feel the need to bring up how broke they are and how many bills they have to pay. This kind of talk can really kill a room as people start thinking about their own bills.

jumbohumungo: im jobless homless and moneyless
jumbohumungo: wooooot woooot
BonerHolder: then how the hell r u on here?
jumbohumungo: steeling nighbors cble
popesson: jumbo has a teeny wieny
Shaun__: I am jobbed, homed, and monied and loving it myself