MY Chaturbate has been banned for false assumptions!

[Terafirmax0]

My chaturbate account was banned 2 days ago because they said they think I am using their site for escorting. Im not on eros or any of those websites and have never escorted in my life >.< This makes life extremely difficult because my lease is up in 2 months and things are cutting very close. My Chaturbate name is Terafirmax0. I need to find a place by the 10th but need to work >.< please help me or I think Im gonna be out on the street soon.

 

[NotYou]

Do you know WHY they think you're using their site to escort?
Have you offered to meet with any members whilst being on Chaturbate? Remember that Chaturbate can see your Private Messages and public chat history, as well as have your video footage, so if you have, it will be better to come clean and apologize for it, rather than to act like you didn't offer meetups etc

Always better to admit when you have fucked up and hope they can forgive you and you won't do it again.

Edit:
To add.. a lot of people don't seem to understand offering to meet up will get them banned, so if you DID offer services to any member but sincerely didn't realise it was against the TOS then hold your hands up, let them know you didn't realise, and reassure them you will never do it again.

 

[QuinnLane]

Do you know WHY they think you're using their site to escort?
Have you offered to meet with any members whilst being on Chaturbate? Remember that Chaturbate can see your Private Messages and public chat history, as well as have your video footage, so if you have, it will be better to come clean and apologize for it, rather than to act like you didn't offer meetups etc

Always better to admit when you have fucked up and hope they can forgive you and you won't do it again.

Edit:
To add.. a lot of people don't seem to understand offering to meet up will get them banned, so if you DID offer services to any member but sincerely didn't realise it was against the TOS then hold your hands up, let them know you didn't realise, and reassure them you will never do it again.

In the t&cs it doesn't say anything about meetups not allowed, it just says that if payment for the meetup or escorting in general was implied, that's a violation. But (and I've found out especially with NZ) the hobbyists use it to find other kinky hobbyists and meet them all the time.
"On- or Off-Site Interactions/Meetings. The Site does not recommend or condone any form of user interaction between users outside of the Site and, as disclosed elsewhere in this Agreement, your use of the Site and your interactions through the Site are done at your own risk. Use of the Site to arrange face-to-face meetings for the purpose of engaging in illegal activity is strictly prohibited and will subject your account to immediate termination. If you elect to legally interact with any user of the Service outside of the Site, you do so at your own risk, and you acknowledge and agree that we are not responsible for any consequences of your election to interact with anyone, whether in person or otherwise, outside of the Site. "
Which is followed by safety tips for meeting people from online.

 

[Terafirmax0]

Ive never met anyone but porn friends and the occasional guy at the bar >.< im one of the only girls on that platform that doesnt do meetups!

 

[Danigirl]

Uh there’s a ton of girls that don’t do meetups on chaturbate. Like me and probably a vast majority of others here.

 

[Natalie_Lavender]

im one of the only girls on that platform that doesnt do meetups!

Wow. That’s quite the assumption. You should really check your facts before making such a blanket statement.

 

[Diana_Devil]

Ive never met anyone but porn friends and the occasional guy at the bar >.< im one of the only girls on that platform that doesnt do meetups!

You are FULL OF SHIT BITCH !!!!!!! HOW DO YOU DARE??????????????????

Because of models like you members think we meet up because you simply try to put in a bad light the other models and talk bullshit!!!!!!

More than 90% of the girls on chaturbate or any other cam website do NO MEET UP. And many of those that do , they do it only at cam expos shows and thats not meet up , its only giving autographs and make pictures with your fans , like any other.

The surely banned you because you talked shit about another models meet up. ANDDDDDDDD for your general culture , actually is forbiden to talk about meet up , unless is a role play fantasy between you and a member, but not in a free chat area. And thats on every website rule.!!!!!!!!!!!!!



HOPE YOU WILL NEVER BE AN CHATURBATE MODEL OR MODEL ON ANY OTHER WEBSITE ANYMORE BECAUSE YOU DO NOT HAVE RESPECT FOR OTHER MODELS WORK AND DEDICATION. YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO BE A MODEL , AND MAKE PART FROM ANY MODELS COMUNITY OR ANY OTHER WEBCAM SITE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[JoleneBrody]

Whoooooa there, it was a kinda silly thing to say but not really worth setting her village ablaze

 

[Miss_Lollipop]

Not what i was expecting to see when I opened this thread.

There's no reason to call anyone nasty names. Jeepers.

 

[paige_orion]

You are FULL OF SHIT BITCH !!!!!!! HOW DO YOU DARE??????????????????

Because of models like you members think we meet up because you simply try to put in a bad light the other models and talk bullshit!!!!!!

More than 90% of the girls on chaturbate or any other cam website do NO MEET UP. And many of those that do , they do it only at cam expos shows and thats not meet up , its only giving autographs and make pictures with your fans , like any other.

The surely banned you because you talked shit about another models meet up. ANDDDDDDDD for your general culture , actually is forbiden to talk about meet up , unless is a role play fantasy between you and a member, but not in a free chat area. And thats on every website rule.!!!!!!!!!!!!!



HOPE YOU WILL NEVER BE AN CHATURBATE MODEL OR MODEL ON ANY OTHER WEBSITE ANYMORE BECAUSE YOU DO NOT HAVE RESPECT FOR OTHER MODELS WORK AND DEDICATION. YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO BE A MODEL , AND MAKE PART FROM ANY MODELS COMUNITY OR ANY OTHER WEBCAM SITE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Woah woah woah. I understand being annoyed, but she didn't actually say anything bad about meeting up. I didn't see anywhere where she judged other models for choosing to meet up or escort, if they choose to do so. She just stated that she doesn't do it. But even if she had sad something judgmental... Such extreme name calling is not really how ACF operates. Disagree all you want, or state that you feel her statement wasn't fair or post an eye-roll gif, etc, etc. You have the right to express yourself and your opinions, but flame-wars and hurling insults isn't generally well tolerated here. I mean... I've seen some pretty intense arguments over the years, but even in the midst of severe emotions, mooooost people try to remain relatively civil. Because one of the quickest ways to the Dog-House is to straight up start screaming and hurling insults.

It could be read as a silly statement, but I didn't really see any judgment in it. She doesn't do escorting or meetups, but I didn't read anything that said she thought either choices were bad. Just that she doesn't do them, and there's nothing wrong with that decision either. Which means your reaction seems very extreme and a bit harsh. Disagreement is all well and good, as long as both parties remain respectful. Name-calling kinda crosses that line! And I think we're all adult enough to disagree and communicate without descending into insults!

 

[Diana_Devil]

She assume that she is the ONLY girl on the chat that she doesnt meet up !!!!!!!

The word ONLY in her post tells all !!!!!

And do not worry i will delete my account here i do not want to be part of a comunity of cam girls where someone like her brag shit about other cam models and assume that we all do MEET UP AND pose herself like the Virgin Mary , .............the only fair cam model on the earth .

 

[Natalie_Lavender]

Woah woah woah. I understand being annoyed, but she didn't actually say anything bad about meeting up. I didn't see anywhere where she judged other models for choosing to meet up or escort, if they choose to do so. She just stated that she doesn't do it. But even if she had sad something judgmental... Such extreme name calling is not really how ACF operates. Disagree all you want, or state that you feel her statement wasn't fair or post an eye-roll gif, etc, etc. You have the right to express yourself and your opinions, but flame-wars and hurling insults isn't generally well tolerated here. I mean... I've seen some pretty intense arguments over the years, but even in the midst of severe emotions, mooooost people try to remain relatively civil. Because one of the quickest ways to the Dog-House is to straight up start screaming and hurling insults.

It could be read as a silly statement, but I didn't really see any judgment in it. She doesn't do escorting or meetups, but I didn't read anything that said she thought either choices were bad. Just that she doesn't do them, and there's nothing wrong with that decision either. Which means your reaction seems very extreme and a bit harsh. Disagreement is all well and good, as long as both parties remain respectful. Name-calling kinda crosses that line! And I think we're all adult enough to disagree and communicate without descending into insults!

@Natural_Pussy was reacting to the OPs other comment that states she’s the only one on the platform that doesn’t do meetups. Which is basically accusing the rest of us of doing so.

While NPs reaction to the comment may have been heated, OP shouldn’t be making false accusations about the rest of us either. Especially if she’s upset that the same accusation is being made about her.

 

[Diana_Devil]

@Natural_Pussy was reacting to the OPs other comment that states she’s the only one on the platform that doesn’t do meetups. Which is basically accusing the rest of us of doing so.

While NPs reaction to the comment may have been heated, OP shouldn’t be making false accusations about the rest of us either. Especially if she’s upset that the same accusation is being made about her.

THANK YOU .



Anyway i requested Amber to delete my account i do not want to be part of a comunity where people defend one like her, and they do not realize that she practically offended us all in one of the most disgustive way , posing herself like THE ONLY that doesnt meet up.

 

[paige_orion]

@Natural_Pussy was reacting to the OPs other comment that states she’s the only one on the platform that doesn’t do meetups. Which is basically accusing the rest of us of doing so.

While NPs reaction to the comment may have been heated, OP shouldn’t be making false accusations about the rest of us either. Especially if she’s upset that the same accusation is being made about her.

I understand that. I do think it was a silly assumption to make, and you are right - it's not fair to assume your co-workers are doing meet-ups. But while she did mention she got accused of escorting, I guess I didn't take "Everyone does meet-ups" as accusing everyone as escorting. I guess I remember the days when meet-ups were more common - when you did meet-up at conventions or won a raffle to get dinner with your favorite model. A lot more models did it, because it was allowed, but meet-ups weren't code for escort dates! A lot of them were friendly and fun and nothing sexual about it. I mean... I don't meet any of my fans IRL for any reason, but I know plenty of other models who do, and not for sex. Some for RL femdom sessions and others just to kick back and go shopping while their sub foots the bill. So if I were to state that I don't meet up, but I know plenty of other models who do, I know I personally wouldn't mean that to imply I was judging anyone else who does feel comfy meeting their fans or accusing them of doing something they weren't. Some people meet fans, some people don't, no shame in either. So I suppose I read it a lot more innocently than everyone else is reading it!

If it was intended to accuse all other camgirls of escorting... I understand people's offense to such a statement. Not that there is anything wrong with escorting. I know we do have amazing, wonderful escorts amongst our ranks here, but I know it isn't fun to have your hard-work brushed aside under the assumption that you earned your tokens by breaking the rules. That isn't fair at all, and I hope OP rethinks their words and chooses them carefully next time. Even more so, if it was a comment meant to accuse all fellow models of escorting, or disparage those who choose to escort, I hope OP will reflect on why their initial instinct is to judge their fellow coworkers in such a manner. No model is better than any other model, and you'll make more friends if you don't paint yourself that way!

Buuuuuuut I personally think there's a vast difference between trying to correct an ignorant assumption and straight up verbally attacking someone so intensely. The reaction felt very extreme to me. Like... There's plenty of people who don't get along on the boards and plenty of us make ignorant statements all of the time, and when we do, there's usually a healthy dose of sarcasm and snark, while still being civil. And that's how people learn. But screaming and calling other models a Bitch-All-Caps straight outta the gate.... That just felt like overkill to the situation. I didn't have an issue with the disagreement itself - disagreements are healthy and I thought several good points were raised. But hurling slurs at each other is where my support falters. Insulting each other over disagreements or misunderstandings... I dunno, I just think we're all better adults than that!

I mean... We get enough of that on social media, and so many of us are starting to avoid social media to avoid seeing that kind of negativity between models. Bringing that kind of behavior to the boards just feels... exhausting.

 

[JoleneBrody]

If being lumped in with Full service sex workers offends you that much then yeah, maybe you don’t belong here on a forum full of sex workers of all kind, including escorts.
That was some explosive whorephobia.

 

[Diana_Devil]

I do not have a problem if any of you escort , or meet up , its your body so do what you want.



But accusing everyone that does that , and she is the only model that doesnt , and she as the only fair legit model for not doing it get banned , drives me nuts. She simply called us unlegit and whores and not respecting the sites rules.

What you do not understand , you can not make a general statement that everybody meet up clients , when is not true!!!!

 

[QuinnLane]

actually is forbiden to talk about meet up

As my post says above, which was a direct copy from their terms and conditions, it's not actually forbidden on Chaturbate to discuss meeting others from the site. When escorting or illegal services are involved, yes that's against the rules. But the model said they were not offering escorting or anything.

I feel like your responses have definitely been an overreaction and you took something they said in general, as something personal.

 

[Diana_Devil]

@QuinnLane after your gentle answer she said this


< im one of the only girls on that platform that doesnt do meetups!

So we are all iligit models that we earn our tokens unfair and by breaking the rules. And the poor her get banned by being the only fair and legit model

 

[QuinnLane]

@QuinnLane after your gentle answer she said this


< im one of the only girls on that platform that doesnt do meetups!

So we are all iligit models that we earn our tokens unfair and by breaking the rules. And the poor her get banned by being the only fair and legit model

And if you see, I was replying to someone else who thought meet ups arranged via CB was against the rules.
Her reply was her own opinion. That may be HER experience with the models she has interacted with, that they do indeed meet with members. As I said, you took a general statement she made, and felt personally attacked by it, judging by the way you are replying.
If the way you work and interact with members is working for you, that's fine. There is no need to feel attacked by what a model said on a thread that hadn't even mentioned you personally.

We can't make assumptions about this model, why she was banned or not, because official CB staff have not stepped in and said something. So far it's all jumping to conclusions.

 

[QuinnLane]

@QuinnLane after your gentle answer she said this


< im one of the only girls on that platform that doesnt do meetups!

So we are all iligit models that we earn our tokens unfair and by breaking the rules. And the poor her get banned by being the only fair and legit model

I also want to point out that I, too, see a LOT of people on Chaturbate using it to meet others. Like, a lot. Not top models, or popular ones, but ones that are more or less there because they enjoy it, not to earn $.
And again, that isn't against the rules.

 

[Diana_Devil]

I am awear of the fact that many meet up , or escort , or whatever , but..... she simply can not asume that everyone does it and she is THE ONLY one that she doesnt. I can not accept that.

And yes about the cb rules you are right, I was so furious ( and i am still ) that i did not expressed myself corectely

 

[QuinnLane]

I am awear of the fact that many meet up , or escort , or whatever , but..... she simply can not asume that everyone does it and she is THE ONLY one that she doesnt. I can not accept that.

And yes about the cb rules you are right, I was so furious ( and i am still ) that i did not expressed myself corectely

It was a simple comment that was not directed at you and

I am awear of the fact that many meet up , or escort , or whatever , but..... she simply can not asume that everyone does it and she is THE ONLY one that she doesnt. I can not accept that.

And yes about the cb rules you are right, I was so furious ( and i am still ) that i did not expressed myself corectely

It was a simple comment that was probably typed without really thinking and doesn't mean EVERY ONE. And as I said, it might possibly be that she means everyone SHE has interacted with, or at least a high majority. You don't know who she talks to or what her experience with other models is. As I said, her opinion, her statement.

 

[Danigirl]

Well this escalated rather quickly...

We are all technically sex workers. Dudes are stroking their dicks to us and we know it. I hate being touched by strangers and find it way to high risk meeting anyone I meet online. It’s dangerous to me- I mean look at the sugar baby just murdered. I just want to make my money getting off to strangers (and many online friends) tips and go about my otherwise preppy life. But I don’t knock others who do it. Just be smarter about it.

 

[punker barbie]

My chaturbate account was banned 2 days ago because they said they think I am using their site for escorting. Im not on eros or any of those websites and have never escorted in my life >.< This makes life extremely difficult because my lease is up in 2 months and things are cutting very close. My Chaturbate name is Terafirmax0. I need to find a place by the 10th but need to work >.< please help me or I think Im gonna be out on the street soon.

Thanks for your post. I've confirmed that CS has responded to you in detail. Please let me know if you would like that response posted here.

 

[AudriTwo]

 

[Miss_Lollipop]

I am awear of the fact that many meet up , or escort , or whatever , but..... she simply can not asume that everyone does it and she is THE ONLY one that she doesnt. I can not accept that.

And yes about the cb rules you are right, I was so furious ( and i am still ) that i did not expressed myself corectely

Look, you can be annoyed at her all you want here. Honestly what she said annoyed me too. We just don't shout at each other here. Post your disagreement with her civilly and we wouldn't be defending her. I understand that something about this made you really mad but you will read ppl say a lot worse.

 

[AmberCutie]

So did you all get your shit sorted out in here while I was away for a few days or...????

 

[Diana_Devil]

Yes ))

 

[AmberCutie]

Yes ))

ok, good.

But for future reference, that's not the way anyone here, especially verified models, should react or speak to others.