I am going crazy for sure right now! It's my fault but need help..From past experience, let me just tell you this...if you ever shop at, say, Victoria's Secret, avoid getting that damn charge card. You will go crazy and charge too much shit to your card, and then struggle to pay the balance. Been there, done that. Was so relieved when I paid that shit off and closed the account.
When did it start?I am going crazy for sure right now! It's my fault but need help..
Get rid of the Amazon gift cards and dont get any new ones. Is Your Paypal card a Paypal credit card or a Paypal debit card?
From past experience, let me just tell you this...if you ever shop at, say, Victoria's Secret, avoid getting that damn charge card. You will go crazy and charge too much shit to your card, and then struggle to pay the balance. Been there, done that. Was so relieved when I paid that shit off and closed the account.
its the amazon card and paypal creditGet rid of the Amazon gift cards and dont get any new ones. Is Your Paypal card a Paypal credit card or a Paypal debit card?
The thing is I have returned stuff no amazon, they get the package and have never credit the amount to the accountCouple things.
Unsubscribe from all those "cool" emails you signed up for (I know you did!!) that send out daily deals, coupons, etc. DO IT !! Cut them off. They are the damn devil if you have a shopping problem.
Second: Return what you can right now. Look up the return policies for your stuff whether it's 30 days, 60, or 90 and start sending it back. Yes it'll take a bit to get it off the card but you know right now you do not NEED it and therefore it goes back now before you're stuck with crap that's gonna end up in a corner stacked on top of other shit you stuck in the corner or at Goodwill. That hilarious stuff isn't gonna be so funny when you can't pay your bills so suck it up and mail it back while you still can.
The thing is I have returned stuff no amazon, they get the package and have never credit the amount to the account
Amazon does refund the amount to the card used (or if bought with a giftcard, then you get a giftcard balance). Usually they will email you a print label that already has the shipping paid, so all you have to do is drop it off at USPS/FedEx/UPS and keep your tracking number. It takes 8-10 weeks for the credit to go through once they receive the item.
If you still haven't received a credit after that amount of time, and the tracking info shows that they received it, you should contact customer support. However, they're extremely diligent about returns and refunds, and your statement above makes it seem like you have never received your money back multiple times, which makes me wonder if you are looking at the wrong area on your credit card statement, or looking on the wrong credit card itself, or just making excuses to make yourself feel better about your spending habits. I'm not saying this to rile you up or put you on the defensive. I'm simply saying that it's common for people to ask for help then reject any advice because it's not what they want to hear. https://www.addiction.com/3277/death-addiction-stages-grief-addiction-recovery/
I hope that you do take Teagan's suggestions to help stop it from piling up even more. If you don't know where to look on Amazon to see if your return was processed, let me know. I can give a more accurate description.
It never came to my mind that I was looking on the wrong statement -I did contact customer support one time and never saw the refund. After that -If I dont like the item I sell it or give it away. I dont return things I like.Amazon does refund the amount to the card used (or if bought with a giftcard, then you get a giftcard balance). Usually they will email you a print label that already has the shipping paid, so all you have to do is drop it off at USPS/FedEx/UPS and keep your tracking number. It takes 8-10 weeks for the credit to go through once they receive the item.
If you still haven't received a credit after that amount of time, and the tracking info shows that they received it, you should contact customer support. However, they're extremely diligent about returns and refunds, and your statement above makes it seem like you have never received your money back multiple times, which makes me wonder if you are looking at the wrong area on your credit card statement, or looking on the wrong credit card itself, or just making excuses to make yourself feel better about your spending habits. I'm not saying this to rile you up or put you on the defensive. I'm simply saying that it's common for people to ask for help then reject any advice because it's not what they want to hear. https://www.addiction.com/3277/death-addiction-stages-grief-addiction-recovery/
I hope that you do take Teagan's suggestions to help stop it from piling up even more. If you don't know where to look on Amazon to see if your return was processed, let me know. I can give a more accurate description.