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Apr 9, 2019
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Mostly sub, a bit of a switch. Have to be with the right person and in the right headspace to dom. I greatly enjoy doming, but I could never force it.

Also a pampered pet. My handler puts my day collar on always before I cam. Its our little totem to one another while I'm out prowling with strays.
Jun 21, 2019
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I started off as a sub, but evolved into switch. As someone said earlier, I consider myself a "kinkster" so I just go with the flow and it depends on the vibe I get from the other person and what I feel like. And as a good libra, I am totally obsessed with balance and looking/being at both sides feels more natural to my character.

I don't think I could sub on cam though, I would feel too vulnerable. I'm very bossy in my daily life.
Jul 18, 2015
I can't decide if I'm submissive or just lazy. Never felt particularly dominant though and assuming an overtly dominant role in bed never really came naturally to me.

"I can't decide if I'm submissive or just lazy." I can't possibly be the only one to think this is comedy gold? I don't mean to be a dick to mynameisbob84, I'm not hating on him or anything, I just think the phrase is hilarious.

Edit: Since I commented here (I clearly got side tracked for a second there) I should do OP the respect of answering the question. Dominant despite being a laid back introvert, got tied up by an ex girlfriend once during sex, didn't really like it and promptly untied myself, she was irritated. That day she learned that she sucked at tying knots and I learned that I clearly have some control issues. A woman being submissive during sex is definitely a turn on but it's only hot if she's clearly enjoying my dominant behavior. And that's not a cringy, white knight, I would never hurt a woman thing, it's more like, I discovered I'm dominant because I get a thrill off of someone willfully giving me control over them. Deep down in my dark, twisted, primitive, little brain it makes me feel trusted and loved.
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Jul 15, 2019
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Sexually? I'd describe myself as a pillow princess. Not really either, but I guess a slight lean towards sub. I get an emotional/mental high off of being dominant, which usually means I feel awesome but don't actually want any sexual touching. It's like a whole different thing.


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May 13, 2017
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I don't think I've answered this but I'm SO submissive. I'm learning how to Dom and honestly I have to come at it from a submissive standpoint lol. Weirdly though, opposite to a lot of people, I find being submissive on cam a more dominant feeling? Some people say it makes them more vulnerable but I just aim to please. But being on cam means I can say no, whereas when I'm submissive IRL, as long as no hard limits are broken I'm all yours.

I also find I'm leaning more towards enjoying less hardcore domming? I more prefer a gentle hand on the mouth rather than choking these days. Idk maybe it's cuz that's what my most recent partner prefers. Idk if there's a word for that, like sensual domming or something? Not sure.
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