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Honestly that shouldn't matter. She asked for a pic of his private parts and he said no. That should have been the end of it, tip or not.
Yep. I'm not shy, I don't lack confidence, and I have sent pics to others before, and done c2c a fair bit since my recent introduction to that (and had comments back, without asking for them) but that's not the issue. I just don't feel the need to be judged by anyone, I've got what I got and that's it.
I'm curious, was she offering this for free? or was there a charge, as I see on some models' menus? If the latter maybe that is why she was miffed.
No, free; it was put to me as "send me your dick, I'll rate it for you!". I would have declined either way.
Now, if she had asked for a pic just to see what it looks like, or for me to prove that I was aroused, I'd have likely sent it. Done that before. Just don't care to hear a score, no matter if it's an honest assessment or a "wow omg" kind of 'expected' response.
So it was not the request that I found annoying, it was the reaction to my explanation that I just did not care.
In exactly the same way, to me, assuming that a cam model is any kind of expert judge of dicks IRL could in itself be considered offensive to them.
 
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Honestly that shouldn't matter. She asked for a pic of his private parts and he said no. That should have been the end of it, tip or not.
This, if someone says no to something or declines an offer, be it member, model, anything, cam sites, irl, that boundary should be respected. Her taking offense over it is weird IMO. Although I find amusing at the same that it may have been a slice of humble pie for her lol.

Honestly though, not respecting boundaries is a big pet peeve of mine.
 
This, if someone says no to something or declines an offer, be it member, model, anything, cam sites, irl, that boundary should be respected. Her taking offense over it is weird IMO. Although I find amusing at the same that it may have been a slice of humble pie for her lol.

Honestly though, not respecting boundaries is a big pet peeve of mine.

This. We had a discussion on here a few years ago about an occurrence where a woman (cam model?) was out somewhere, trying to get some random guy to touch her boobs or something? He refused, and she was all surprised and tweeted about it...and her Twitter followers were talking all this shit about the poor guy...acting like something must be wrong with him for not wanting to touch a random woman's boobs. 🙄 Smh.
 
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This. We had a discussion on here a few years ago about an occurrence where a woman (cam model?) was out somewhere, trying to get some random guy to touch her boobs or something? He refused, and she was all surprised and tweeted about it...and her Twitter followers were talking all this shit about the poor guy...acting like something must be wrong with him for not wanting to touch a random woman's boobs. 🙄 Smh.
How shitty of her and her followers to shame someone for being respectful and not wanting cross their comfort level.

Models that do that are always fascinating to me. We as models constantly have our boundaries pushed and crossed. So you would think, she’d be more understanding and respectful. I guess arrogance and egotistical pride can be blinding. Gross.
 
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Honestly that shouldn't matter. She asked for a pic of his private parts and he said no. That should have been the end of it, tip or not.
Well of course it doesn't matter, I was not seeking to justify her behaviour, merely curious as to why she may have acted that way.

(I like to try to figure out why people do things, what motivates them)
 
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I think she was taken aback by my response. Perhaps because the vast majority of guys would probably have sent the pic, either in the hope of being told it was nicer, or bigger, than most, or perhaps out of genuine interest at where they sit. Many guys have been conditioned by the images of mainstream porn, and I doubt anyone wants to be caught really checking out another guy's gear in the locker room. So perhaps it's a normal curiosity, that is if you expect to get a genuinely honest assessment. But who is going to say "thanks for the pic; your dick is truly average in every way....... Congrats!" There's an expectation that some aspect of it is going to warrant a favourable comment, if not that it is impressive in some way.
So I don't feel that a score is meaningful or useful, as I don't have an ego to feed. But anyway, what does 8/10 look like for a dick? 80% of the longest she's seen yet? Marked down 2 points because of a scar? Kinda meaningless. Who gets 10/10 - hubby/bf?
I've never lacked self-confidence in that regard, but am a realist.
Perhaps I should have asked why my response angered her. But it felt like a discussion that would lead to nowhere useful, so I moved on.
 
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I don't doubt that she couldn't fix it. It was still annoying to the point of being physically distressing.
Having the volume/gain turned up too high on the microphone will do that, having the microphone too close to the laptop/desktop fans will do it, or having it too close to something else making noise will do it.

The gain is tricky, too high and you get a hum of some sort and too low and it fails to pick up voices and the other sounds that you want it to.
 

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This. We had a discussion on here a few years ago about an occurrence where a woman (cam model?) was out somewhere, trying to get some random guy to touch her boobs or something? He refused, and she was all surprised and tweeted about it...and her Twitter followers were talking all this shit about the poor guy...acting like something must be wrong with him for not wanting to touch a random woman's boobs. 🙄 Smh.

She asked a guy to touch her breasts in a bar, when he said no, she flashed him because it turns her on. Then posted about it on twitter to shame him and boost her ego to her tens of thousands of twitter followers. She twisted as free the nipple, but that was manipulation after the fallout. She was doing it for sexual gratification for her Twitter followers and herself. She was at a fucking bar, sexually exposing herself and shaming people who didn't want to participate in her debauchery. What made things even more frustrating is she was one of the models who were vocal about Ron Jeremy's nonconsensual acts towards models at conventions which help boosted her following and became an ambassador for that cammodels "union"

It was clear she didn't give a fuck about consent. fairly certain she stepped down after that because HOW THE FUCK DO YOU EXPECT TO BE AN AMBASSADOR FOR US AND DO SHIT LIKE THIS IN PUBLIC. if she wasn't a hot chick, the bar would have called the cops on her for exposing herself and trying to get intoxicated people to touch her. Screams white female privilege.

lol Fuck her. She never really apologized only "I could not believe a man didn't want to see or touch my tits." Yeah. We are all hustlers, public content was big on manyvids at the time, and your ego got hurt because someone didn't want to touch your tits or see them.
 

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I think she was taken aback by my response. Perhaps because the vast majority of guys would probably have sent the pic, either in the hope of being told it was nicer, or bigger, than most, or perhaps out of genuine interest at where they sit. Many guys have been conditioned by the images of mainstream porn, and I doubt anyone wants to be caught really checking out another guy's gear in the locker room. So perhaps it's a normal curiosity, that is if you expect to get a genuinely honest assessment. But who is going to say "thanks for the pic; your dick is truly average in every way....... Congrats!" There's an expectation that some aspect of it is going to warrant a favourable comment, if not that it is impressive in some way.
So I don't feel that a score is meaningful or useful, as I don't have an ego to feed. But anyway, what does 8/10 look like for a dick? 80% of the longest she's seen yet? Marked down 2 points because of a scar? Kinda meaningless. Who gets 10/10 - hubby/bf?
I've never lacked self-confidence in that regard, but am a realist.
Perhaps I should have asked why my response angered her. But it felt like a discussion that would lead to nowhere useful, so I moved on.
i think you are right. if she can't respect you declining to have your penis judged without taking a hit to her ego, she probably won't be open to a discussion. no is a complete sentence with zero explanation necessary.
 

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sorry for the dps. I've been up all night with cramps :F

This is a big part of the reason I stopped watching mainstream porn. Everything is so over exaggerated and fake.
Most entertainment isn't based on reality. Camming too is over-exaggerated and rooted in fantasy. Women aren't sitting alone in their bedrooms horny and waiting for you, big man, to come to chat with them. They don't want to get you off. They want money to do so.
 
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lol Fuck her. She never really apologized only "I could not believe a man didn't want to see or touch my tits." Yeah. We are all hustlers, public content was big on manyvids at the time, and your ego got hurt because someone didn't want to touch your tits or see them.

He could be
  • Gay
  • Ace
  • In a committed exclusive relationship
  • Totally freaked out by a random woman thrusting her tits into his life
  • It doesn't matter because people's boundaries should only be crossed with their consent
Like if she was at some sort of kink bar, munch, etc where that kind of thing was expected then sure he went into the situation expecting to see breasts then I would have some sort of leniency. Yeah I know everyone here is already understands this but... there are things I just need to express sometimes.
 

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  • It doesn't matter because people's boundaries should only be crossed with their consent
Like if she was at some sort of kink bar, munch, etc where that kind of thing was expected then sure he went into the situation expecting to see breasts then I would have some sort of leniency. Yeah I know everyone here is already understands this but... there are things I just need to express sometimes.
you are correct. it doesn't matter. no means no.

here in the states kink bars/dungeons/munches/shindigs don't allow nudity. if your boobs are out, tape them nips, or you will be told to leave. even the local kink groups dont allow nudity because not everyone consents to see nudity. usually, if someone starts performing a scene at a kink party, the room is told. that way if you aren't interested in watching, you can leave.

from my experience bdsm folk are more likely to ask for consent before any exposing/touching/sexual where as vanilla folk dont give a fuck.
 
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He could be
  • Gay
  • Ace
  • In a committed exclusive relationship
  • Totally freaked out by a random woman thrusting her tits into his life
  • It doesn't matter because people's boundaries should only be crossed with their consent
Like if she was at some sort of kink bar, munch, etc where that kind of thing was expected then sure he went into the situation expecting to see breasts then I would have some sort of leniency. Yeah I know everyone here is already understands this but... there are things I just need to express sometimes.


For me if this happened where a woman came up to me randomly and asked me to touch her boobs, I too would not do it. I would be in disbelief and shock more than anything and I would be thinking negatively, I would be thinking it's some kind of prank or con or I dunno exactly.
 
She asked a guy to touch her breasts in a bar, when he said no, she flashed him because it turns her on. Then posted about it on twitter to shame him and boost her ego to her tens of thousands of twitter followers. She twisted as free the nipple, but that was manipulation after the fallout. She was doing it for sexual gratification for her Twitter followers and herself. She was at a fucking bar, sexually exposing herself and shaming people who didn't want to participate in her debauchery. What made things even more frustrating is she was one of the models who were vocal about Ron Jeremy's nonconsensual acts towards models at conventions which help boosted her following and became an ambassador for that cammodels "union"

It was clear she didn't give a fuck about consent. fairly certain she stepped down after that because HOW THE FUCK DO YOU EXPECT TO BE AN AMBASSADOR FOR US AND DO SHIT LIKE THIS IN PUBLIC. if she wasn't a hot chick, the bar would have called the cops on her for exposing herself and trying to get intoxicated people to touch her. Screams white female privilege.

lol Fuck her. She never really apologized only "I could not believe a man didn't want to see or touch my tits." Yeah. We are all hustlers, public content was big on manyvids at the time, and your ego got hurt because someone didn't want to touch your tits or see them.

Found it.

I know that dudes be all "Shit, I would've touched them!" But men have to be super careful with situations like that (And with social media pics/vids taking stuff out of context these), because there are some women out there who are vindictive af, and will make false accusations about a man she's mad at to try to ruin his reputation (Like she's mad because he didn't call her back or whatever 🙄 ). A former female friend of mine tried to pull some b.s. like that in 2019.
 
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here in the states kink bars/dungeons/munches/shindigs don't allow nudity. if your boobs are out, tape them nips, or you will be told to leave.

Practice is different where I live and depending on the hosts/group nudity is permitted. Though I find the idea of taping over nipples to be a bit silly. It is like the way that Japanese pornographic drawings often have a black bars over the tip and glans of a cock but nothing else.

from my experience bdsm folk are more likely to ask for consent before any exposing/touching/sexual where as vanilla folk dont give a fuck.

This has been backed up by sociological research.
 
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It doesn't bother me what other models choose to do for their tip amount minimum (on sites like MyFreeCams)...that's their business. But I imagine many members would find the following annoying...

The other night I had a guy on there tell me that he tried to tip a model, and found out that it wouldn't let him tip her because she had her tip amount minimum set to 50 tokens. He said he thought that was kind of high, and it turned him off. Sounds like she missed out, because he was really cool (I added him to my friends list)...tipped me 5 tokens probably 30-something times, and then took me into a private show which I got 700+ tokens from. There are a lot of members who will tip in smaller increments like that, and it adds up.
 
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It doesn't bother me what other models choose to do for their tip amount minimum (on sites like MyFreeCams)...that's their business. But I imagine many members would find the following annoying...

The other night I had a guy on there tell me that he tried to tip a model, and found out that it wouldn't let him tip her because she had her tip amount minimum set to 50 tokens...

Yeah, do whatever you want but to me that's not good. Don't think that I've ever tipped anyone with a minimum like that. And I tip most everyone something.

Same with starting Lovense levels at something other than 1. Sure, 1s are piddly but they get people started.
 
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Yeah, do whatever you want but to me that's not good. Don't think that I've ever tipped anyone with a minimum like that. And I tip most everyone something.

Same with starting Lovense levels at something other than 1. Sure, 1s are piddly but they get people started.
I agree. I do usually tip bigger increments, but sometimes if the room is quiet, some singles often seem to trigger one or two to follow suit.
Setting a minimum tip amount seems counter-productive, especially if set to 50 as in yummy's example. Especially because the user is only likely to learn that minimum applies when trying to throw down a lesser amount, then they probably leave or stop trying.
 
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I'm not in a financial position to be tipping large amounts but I always tip at least 1 token (usually 10 to 25 if I'm staying for long time) everytime I spend time in a girls room.

So yeah 50 tokens minimum means I wouldnt be able to tip that girl.
 
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Those kinda annoy me, because they never say why they want them. It's a really common request, but SPH guys want to be downgraded, other guys want "honesty". It's like Jesus Fuckn Christ, just be glad you got one (a penis) and leave it at that. I don't get the big hype about them (dick ratings) and always dread being asked for one. Personally, I hope the fad dies out, and they go the way of the dinosaur. Not that anyone asked my opinion, but for fucks sakes who wants to potentially affect a stranger's self-esteem like that 🤷‍♀️ Not fucking me. I give them all a 10!

Free dick rating for anyone reading this. 10. End of Story. Be happy 🎈 🎈 .
As someone who occasionally partakes in getting his dick rated, it isn't so much about having my ego stroked or even getting the rating in itself. For me, it's about having a hot model observe and give my dick a little extra thought. That's hilariously what does it for me :rofl:
 

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As someone who occasionally partakes in getting his dick rated, it isn't so much about having my ego stroked or even getting the rating in itself. For me, it's about having a hot model observe and give my dick a little extra thought. That's hilariously what does it for me :rofl:
Ok I shall dread them less after hearing this. Thank you. It's more of a light exhibitionism or whatever for some.

On another note, interesting profile picture you have there.
It's like a mud pile mated with a boulder. Somehow I doubt you look like this. I must say I like it though.
 
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I'm not a native English speaker, so I used "porn-like" for lack of a better term. Later I switch over to use "authentic" instead.

I also didn't lecture anyone about what "authentic" should look like. I just don't want to see obvious fakes on cam sites and won't spend money on such rooms. That has nothing to do with loudness or the exact masturbation technique of the girl.

I also doubt I can get a better connection than some of my better cam experiences with an escort - finding the right escort to get honest interactions would be pretty similar to cam sites. It's certainly possible in both cases, but it takes time and some failures. But yes, I would compare the experience I want from cam sites more with escorts than regular porn.
Uff, I say that you are in trouble, first of all when you interact with a scort you interact with your body, in the cameras you only interact with the image of the body and with the psyche of the person. Although the interface does not make pornography itself, it is born, I mean its dawn from a graphical interface.
 
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Perhaps more disappointing than annoying:

A model from Europe that I had been a regular with, stopped broadcasting in November 2020.
We had been in touch through WhatsApp while she was working, but nothing since then.
Last night, I got a message out of the blue:
<her> have you been missing my body?
<me> nice to hear from you after so long
<her> I'm in financial difficulty
OK I have to confess, I just did something that I should not have.......must....act....more.....grown-up......
After no further contact since I posted ^ this, I had a follow-up message, inviting me to send some money (a lot, actually) in return for nude photos.
Conversation after I declined went like this:

<model> y not?
<me> thanks, but we both moved on. I wish you well
<model> u know u want to
>me> sorry, no
<model> u are very dear to me
<me> to me u are very dear

I think she got the pun.
 
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2 things here regarding this thing that I consider highly annoying:

1) What kind of stupid app/bot developer thinks it's a good idea?
2) Why do model's use it?


"Make It Rain Pandas" - 20 people right this moment are using this bot.

When someone tips 100+ tokens this shows, and this is only a tiny portion of it. In total there are 25 lines with these Panda images, and as you can see some of the lines go on 2 lines, making it up to about 35+ lines total. This is only 4 lines (of 25) (but it goes to 5, as you can see).
I am on a 1920x1080 Resolution desktop and it does this. How terrible must it be for users on mobile or smaller screens?
The tip amount can be customized, I think, so you could make it only show for BIG tips like 500+, so then it isn't common, but even still why do people like it? I don't understand it.
(and then it's usually the same models that complain no one is talking or tipping in their room - I wonder why?)

Please say I am not the only one to think this is insanely ridiculous?

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2 things here regarding this thing that I consider highly annoying:

1) What kind of stupid app/bot developer thinks it's a good idea?
2) Why do model's use it?


"Make It Rain Pandas" - 20 people right this moment are using this bot.

When someone tips 100+ tokens this shows, and this is only a tiny portion of it. In total there are 25 lines with these Panda images, and as you can see some of the lines go on 2 lines, making it up to about 35+ lines total. This is only 4 lines (of 25) (but it goes to 5, as you can see).
I am on a 1920x1080 Resolution desktop and it does this. How terrible must it be for users on mobile or smaller screens?
The tip amount can be customized, I think, so you could make it only show for BIG tips like 500+, so then it isn't common, but even still why do people like it? I don't understand it.
(and then it's usually the same models that complain no one is talking or tipping in their room - I wonder why?)

Please say I am not the only one to think this is insanely ridiculous?

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It's the ability for this sort of graphic shitfuckery that keeps form ever seriously using CB :)
 

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2 things here regarding this thing that I consider highly annoying:

1) What kind of stupid app/bot developer thinks it's a good idea?
2) Why do model's use it?


"Make It Rain Pandas" - 20 people right this moment are using this bot.

When someone tips 100+ tokens this shows, and this is only a tiny portion of it. In total there are 25 lines with these Panda images, and as you can see some of the lines go on 2 lines, making it up to about 35+ lines total. This is only 4 lines (of 25) (but it goes to 5, as you can see).
I am on a 1920x1080 Resolution desktop and it does this. How terrible must it be for users on mobile or smaller screens?
The tip amount can be customized, I think, so you could make it only show for BIG tips like 500+, so then it isn't common, but even still why do people like it? I don't understand it.
(and then it's usually the same models that complain no one is talking or tipping in their room - I wonder why?)

Please say I am not the only one to think this is insanely ridiculous?

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Yeah it's ridiculous. Maybe someone has it as a room mascot? I've seen rooms that are all mystical themed with fan club members being different levels of mystic, same with dinos, same with random other themes. Maybe it's one someone had made special for their theme for a ginormous tip and others took it?
 
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Not saying no when the answer is no. Even worse, leaving you hanging after a non answer. A no is not the end of the world and can be liberating!