I'm going to share my experiences about meeting cam models, knowing that my behavior is not in line with the general consensus of "NO MEETINGS" in this forum about meetings between models and members
In the 3 years that I'm now active on cam sites I did have 6 meetings with 4 cam models, It did give color to my grey life.
First & second meetings: A Russian model, age 22, from the nude section of LJ, half of my age, half of my weight
In LJ chats she did say she was trying go get a visa for Holland, and I joked that if that happens I did want to drink a cup of coffee with her. I did not think it was for real at that time, just small talk. However, at some point in LJ chat she did say she was now in Holland, and that she will stay fore 3 months here ! We did have a dinner with interesting talk. 2 weeks later I was her personal tourist guide for a day. Spending time with a 22 old, it does give a 45 old man lots of energy
It was cool, but sure we where different. Of course, as a man, it was my duty to give hints about possible bed time fun, that was completely ignored by her
Third meeting: A 50 year old Russian lady from the non-nude section of LJ, her son works in a German city and she was there on vacation. So I drived 2 times 5 hours for a one-night stand (ok, also a dinner in the evening before to), everything was discussed before, it was good, a very cool adventure.
Fourth meeting: A 23 year old MFC model from Romania, great person.
And a paid model/member relation
and online friends for a long time. Unique combination, I have more (online) friendships in this cam world, however those started after the paid model/member relation was ended. The vacation was 3 days as "Friends with Benefits" in Berlin. This meeting did go wrong, to much emotions, she had a different agenda then said before ... I did respond badly to this situation ( douchebag is a good description ). In the weeks after this meeting it was a mess ...
Fifth meeting: The 'correction' of the previous meeting, 4 months later, dropping the "with Benefits" part. A 10 day vacation, Paris and Amsterdam (with stops in Belgium), first time for her that she was in those countries. Giving a great person a nice vacation, we both enjoyed it ! (the last 3 days in Amsterdam was not so good IMHO, she was stoned all the time, nothing bad happened, she still says she had a great time in Amsterdam, I did see a cheerful person turned into a stoned zombie).
Sixth meeting: A MFC model of 24 years from Romania, I know her 3 years, our relation did go from paid model/member to friends, keeping each other informed about our lives with facebook chat. She did have a real life relation with an other Dutch cam member, that relation ended terrible after she did found out he had 'sissy boy' relations with other cam models, in their relation he was 'normal'. And that bastard did also make her pay for her tickets, and half of all other costs like hotels/meals. Haha, "Going Dutch" is invented by us Dutch folks
She was pretty frustrated about that money thing. She dreamed about seeing Paris, so I did give her a Paris vacation as birthday gift, blitz, from saturday-morning to monday-morning. All payed by me, that was heaven for her. Ohhh, her sister did come to, she does not trust cam members, smart girl, but saying that so clearly did cost her money, I let her pay herself for the WizzAir plane tickets, in Paris I paid for all of us 3, the gentleman I am
Her presence did also prevent anything sexual happening.
The seventh meeting is already planned ! Spring 2014, with the model from the meetings 4 & 5, I fly to Bucharest, rent a car, and we do a road-trip into the Romanian country-side and mountains, Sibiu, Brasov, etc. I'm really looking forward to that ! Most likely again only "Friends" and no "Benefits", I think I can handle that one more time.
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