An explanation for my absence lately.

[SirLes]

For those that I have come to know here and befriend I feel it's time to explain myself for my absence both form MFC and ACF.
In May I finally bit the bullet and got my passport and traveled to the Philippines and Thailand for a 25 day long overdue holiday. Yeah you guessed it, I meet a girl. Not a bargirl or hooker by any means. Just a simple local girl who was simply looking for someone to love her.
Well long boring story short, we are in love and I plan to retire to the Philippines in 5 yrs which means I need to budget pretty strongly and save all I can.
Sorry I haven't been appearing in your rooms, or posting here. My new partner is quiet jealous and I find it easier not to appear in each of my friends rooms and explain it all. Piss poor of me and I apologies wholeheartedly, She is coming around and is starting to understand that I have/had genuine friends here that I wish to stay in touch with.
Sorry to those I have pissed off and to any that may still want to chat or anyone that wants to know more just ask away here.
As it stands, we plan to be married in 18 months, I have just returned from another trip to see her and rented a house for us in Laguna. We plan to buy and build on the island of Mindoro.
Again, sorry to any I have offended and I will do my best to get around to any friends that post here and say g'day.
Merry Christmas to one and all, stay safe and have fun.

 

[Shaun__]

I am glad you found someone to share your life with.

 

[IsabellaSnow]

Glad you've found someone too

In her defence, I'm not a jealous person, but I wouldn't be too happy with a boyfriend of mine hanging around on camsites either. Porn is cool, but hearing that whoever I was with genuinely cares about the girls on a camsite would not be what I'd want to hear! To me it is borderline on cheating, not quite there, but almost.

If there are cam models you are very close to, then I'd recommend keeping in touch with them off mfc. If they're not willing to do that then they may not be as genuine friends as you think so there's no problem.
I am a cam model and I really do care about the members who visit me, I think more than they care about me, but essentially the relationship is an online relationship. I enjoy my regulars as people who look after me/tip me, who I have good chats with, that is our relationship, if a regular got involved in a relationship, wasn't going to continue tipping me, his girlfriend didn't like the idea of him staying in contact with me, unless I really was very very close to him, in which I would have him on skype to keep in touch, I would be upset to lose the regular, but essentially a regular who used to tip/chat to me/play with me is not the same regular as the regular who just wants to chat to me. Words on a screen.

Friendships you make in cam life are genuine for what they are, but if your girlfriend/fiance feels that way, I would leave the cam world and not pursue the matter. You have someone in your life now, don't jeopardise it for relationships that aren't entirely real.

 

[LadyLuna]

I am happy you found someone you can be happy with.

All the best to you both

 

[JoleneBrody]

So happy to here you've been MIA for a wonderful reason! Was worried you got abducted by pirates or something. :lol:
May your journey be as easy as possible and good luck!

 

[camstory]

Well, very good luck to you Sir. Had a friend who retired to the Philippines, who I have lost track of, but was doing quite well last I knew. Do me a favor, if you happen to see my heart kicking around there, give it my regards, and tell it I'm sorry for leaving it there so many years ago.